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Is Chandler Of Corbin Fisher Straight Or Gay?
Male22192 replied to a topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
G4P, but I suspect he's bi. He's been in str8 scenes on CF as well. -- Bad news though, he's been retired from CF for awhile now. Guess not many of the guys could handle how gifted he was down there. -
Remember back when you was a kid and told not to do something? It made you want to do it more so. Same logic. We're told not to bareback. We're told not to embrace our sexuality. So, it makes us want to do it more so once we are able to jump over that initial hurdle of ditching condoms.
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The words bareback and safe are contradictory to one another. If you want to bareback, then you have to accept that you could possibly catch a sexually transmitted disease. If you're not willing to accept that, then you need to wear a condom and he needs to wear one as well. With that said, there are ways to reduce the risk: -You can have him take an Oraquick test beforehand to screen for HIV. -Topping has less risk of catch an STD vs bottoming. -If you're cut, you're less likely to catch an STD vs if you're uncut and you're foreskin is intact. -Make sure to use lube. Some guys just like to spit or go in dry, but that's far more likely to result in bleeding of some kind. -Don't brush your teeth at least 6 hours prior to engaging in oral sex. If you want to freshen your breath, use a mint or a piece of gum instead. -If you have an anal plug at home, work on inserting that in your ass today. If you're ass is more open upped, you're less likely to bleed as a result of being anally penetrated. -Rimming helps to make a person more receptive to anal penetration vs just sticking it in there. Suggestions on how to properly bareback? -Make sure you have properly cleaned out your ass with an anal douche. -Make sure everything is properly clean. -If you're going to flip flop, each partner should be allowed to cum in the other. The whole point of bareback is either you want to put your cum in your partner or vice versa - your partner wants your cum. -Rimming and lube, makes anal less painful. -Personally, I perfer to use poppers when bottoming. It helps to relax your anal muscles. If topping, you want to hit them right before cumming.
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Plus, in straight porn, if it is a creampie scene there is none of this pulling out stuff and putting it back in. When a guy cums in a creampie video, he generally keeps it in till the last drop is out.
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Damn! That would be my ultimate fantasy. Live in Northern VA, but would be willing to move.
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I called a clinic that deals with HIV that is a few counties over from me. They only deal with people with HIV and not those that want PREP. An infectious disease specialist claims she doesn't deal with PREP and was told I should visit my primary care physician. So, that's what I did. However, she said she doesn't know what PREP is and claims she couldn't find it on her cell phone. I was told that they would try to figure out what PREP is, what steps are needed and that they would call me back later. So right now, I'm trying to find a doctor from which I can actually get a prescription for PREP.
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I've been turned on by poz guys for at least 10 years. And I used to get hit on by them all the time or they wanted to hook up, but being in my 20's and coming from a small town, I thought if I converted, I would be dead in a matter of years. So I turned down so many poz guys it isn't funny. Now that I'm comfortable with poz guys and having sex with them, it seems almost impossible to find some poz cum. How ironic.
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Same here. Initially, poz tops used to hit on me like crazy, but I brushed them off. However, the idea of taking poz cum really turned me so I started talking to poz guys. I talked to plenty of them, but then they never followed through. Had one guy who seemed serious, but I chickened out in that instance.
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They do have OraQuick don't they?!? It might suck having to pay for those tests, but you or a partner could take it in the privacy of your or your host's home and have results within twenty minutes.
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Jackson Taylor "regrets" working with T.I.M.
Male22192 replied to BBCumPigGA's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I'm not trying to defend Jackson Taylor, but the kid is only 20 after all. Of course, I knew how to have sex at the age of 20, but I didn't personally know all the vocabulary associated with gay sex or the culture or what not. Also, if I needed a job, I would be willing to sign just about anything to make sure I got the job even if I disagreed with or didn't fully understand it. I guess what I am saying is, I do think it is possible that Taylor didn't know what he was getting into and I do think it is possible that TIM took advantage of his nativity. Is it illegal? No, cause Taylor was technically an adult. But just cause he is technically an adult, doesn't mean he was an adult mentally and understood everything he was getting involved with. -
Was holding out wanting my first load to be poz, but I decided to go ahead and take the plunge and take some loads. Hooked up with an older daddy type off of Craigslist. He breed me twice. I'm happy that I finally took some cum in my ass for the first time even if it was Neg. Can't believe I waited so long. Now I am ready for some more.
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I guess I am the opposite of everyone here - I had the most success with Craigslist. Sure, I've had some lousy encounters here and there, but there was one point where I put an ad up everyday for about 4 months straight and I got laid every single day as a result.
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I'm sure they will have a thing on there about STD's, or safe sex or barebacking. You've seen those birth control pill ads and at the end they always have some kind of warning. I'm sure they will have the same thing in place.
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I am sure they will offer a number that people can call in to get counseling.
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It wasn't with me. I told you I knew of some poz tops in my area. You asked me to set you up with them. I arranged to make it happen.
You said you were visiting the Baltimore MD area over X-Mas cause you had some family there. It was supposed to happen around then.
We had stayed in contact, but then you flaked at the last minute and never responded. I could deal with someone flaking on me, but you made
me look bad to other people. It was especially rude cause I took my time and my connections to make this happen for you since you asked me to.
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...well actually I have never set up anything with anyone other then yourself. So how could I flake on someone when I didn't even arrange anything to begin with? Not that I am not open to that. It just seems none of the members of this forum are in my area.
As for you, I knew of some poz tops in my area. You asked me to set up something for you. I did. We had stayed in contact as the date drew closer, but when it came time for you to show uo, you never did and you never responded back to any e-mail inquires. After you flaked on others including me, you just disappeared. Then you resurfaced now I guess hoping that people forgot.
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The one I would be most interested in returning in front of the camera is Skylar Clarke. Only did 2 scenes, but those two scenes were pretty darn fantastic. He could have a real porn career as a young dom top.
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I got hard just reading that as well. lol.
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[Neg2Poz] So what's "Neg 2 Poz" all about?
Male22192 replied to Male22192's topic in Bareback Bloggers
If someone else wants to take over the blog, I will give it to them as I still have the option to bring back the blog for about another 30 days. I don't bareback anymore so that's why I shut it down. -
I agree and disagree all at the same time. I agree that a neg person shouldn't be barebacking if they want to stay neg. But at the same time, you have a younger generation where some of them don't even know what HIV is cause it wasn't a part of their culture growing up like it was for us. They don't necessarily know the risk going in. Or you have some guys that are bi (who mainly stay in hetro relationships) where HIV isn't a part of their thinking like it is with people in the gay community. You pointed out something -- if you smoke, there is a warning on the pack of cigarettes. That's why I think a poz person should disclose status in almost most instances cause a person has a right to know what they are getting into. (someone who has their hole pressed up against a gloryhole or is spread eagle in a sling are exceptions where I think it is irrelvent).
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Are you neg or poz & when was your last test? That's a lot of questions, huh?!? People spend a lot more time and effort trying to hook up. So a sentence and response that should take less then a minute is a lot of work?!?
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Tackling each paragraph one paragraph at a time ---- Neg, poz, whatever, I think status should be discussed every time. I think ALL gay men should know their HIV status and yes that includes regular HIV testing. I think all HIV+ partners should inform any potential sex partners of their status, even if they are NOT prompted. An omission is a lie. Whatever treatment options, or lack thereof, is the right of an HIV+ person. Personally speaking I have no qualms about a poz person having sex with a neg person (or vice versa), even bareback, but I think it should be a consensual choice for both parties cause obviously there is risk for both parties and they should know what they are getting into. That's a tough question. Even at 30 y/o I feel like I am still learning as I go along. There is so much info and misinformation out there, it is hard to truly know everything involved in all aspects of gay sexuality. I don''t think anyone owes society anything. I think that a person, poz or not, only owes it to himself and those that are directly impacted by that person's actions.
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^^^ Post an ad saying you are looking for bareback. You should get a ton of responses. Anyway, to the question at hand, the word gangbang or orgy is probably stopping it from being listed under m4m. I would try posting an ad saying something to the degree of bottom looking for loads, as many and as often as possible. Then for whoever responds tell them it is a gangbang setup.
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The stupid question; Neg, Poz, indecetable?
Male22192 replied to muscmtl's topic in General Discussion
I think their is blame, responsibility to go around on both parties, but if I had to weigh it, I would say the majority has to go onto the poz guy. You ask why is your responsibility? Simply put because you know better more so then anyone else since you are poz yourself. Now if someone has their ass backed up against a gloryhole or in a sling in the middle of a bathhouse or sex club, that's a different story. If someone asks and you dodge the question saying something else, that is a lie IMO because you are implying being neg. An omission, or twisting things around is a lie. Here's a little food for thought. Sometimes I don't like posting my pic on Craigslist, but I always let people be aware that I am an X-Large Chub in the ad itself, because I think any future sex partners have a right to know before I waste their time. I just wanted to see how many responses I would get if I omitted the chub part. It was at least 4 times more. Yeah, it sucks not being able to have as many men to choose film, but it is the adult, responsible thing to do. --- That's how I feel about HIV if that makes sense. -
This is a sore subject for me. I believe that if you're poz, you have a responsibility to disclose your status every time you are about to bareback. HIV is a lifelong commitment and anyone that a poz person is about to fuck, has a right to know what they are getting into. Yes, it does suck and maybe you want to say it is unfair or whatever, but it is the right thing to do.
