TonyRedux

problematic how? i did notice this group earlier: 999 breeders Join A bareback group for those that like ritual 999 breeding for Our Dark Lord

lol! looks like S*a*t*a*n is a banned word here...food for more paranoid thought?

i agree that some of what i've read here is horrific and *****ic in the "Doom-To-All-Life" sense, but from the details provided it is still a stretch to justify the OP's reaction.

holy shit! dude, u spazzed out a bit.

u were mistaken to think i was addressing u when i said "go fuck urself", when in fact i was addressing the men in the personal experiences i shared...regardless, what u describe above is actually u fucking urself using some top, an act of self-lust. i have no use for or interest in bossy or fidgety bottoms directing my action. my lesbian-solidarity is political and familial, not sexual at all...and rare indeed is the bossy bottom who even knows what the fuck he's doing when it comes to making Cock Feel Good. the single most important part of any gay male buttfucking is the top's dick, period. anything that diminishes that will either take a secondary role or will inevitably diminish the fuck itself. every bottom who laments their lack of access to good tops must confront this fact at some point.

when i worked my first Black Party in 2008, i started out in jeans n tee, and by the end of the night i was outfitted in a full leather get-up as guys were literally just giving me stuff to wear. i rarely bother with it tho, very cumbersome in actual sex. way too hot n sweaty...i overheat. a harness on a bottom can be useful in doggy, i find everything else gets in the way. seeing the cover of David in the backyard of my tenement was i was 9 years old was a huge turn on, n leather was a fetish into my early 20's. like many of my teenage fetishes, like doublefucking, i've come to find it more interesting to fantasize about than to live out. i've come to value Maximum Fuck, which is best facilitated by Maximum Ergonomics...this combo ends up neutralizing the appeal of most kinks for me. they get in my way.

u'd think 8+ inches would be a plus, but many guys r used to "internet inches" n view my cock with terror...it does get rock hard n my head is fat, bulbous n bone hard. add to that my fuckstyle is very rigorous n a bit sadistic, and what u get is the need to determine quickly that a bottom can ultimately take my fuck...if he can't, the sooner i know it the better. i'm pushing in slow and deep from the start, but not SUPER-slow. i know how to stretch ass vs tearing it, and the former feels better than the latter, but if a bottom doesn't trust me or can't submit, it's all for nothing. better to find that out on my terms 60 seconds in, rather than allow a bottom to control the motion and put up with 20-40 minutes of half-hearted bullshit b4 they bail out "ur too big n too hard man, i'm SOOOO sorry!!" go fuck yourself, dude.

I fucked a huge muscledaddy martial artist last night who had been on my buddy list for several years. It was my first full fuck after my surgery on 1/25, and it reminded me of how out of shape I am, especially on 10mg off oxycodone. He was a great fuck. I gave him a nice deep load, but on the 2nd fuck we both gassed out before I could cum. Both of my knees cramped-out. Stupid opiates. I think it made him happy, even if it was only my 10% fuck. I'm glad I'm finally back in the gym after a month off as I need to return to full power.

maybe, depends on how i'm feeling post-surgery-wise n how my finances look...and what hubby is up to.

i was there in December, very hot n busy. i missed the January one, tho i've spoken to the organizer Cade via email. a nice n intelligent guy, but he made a comment via email about how "you'd better take your Geritol before the next party" that's stuck with me. he admits he has never seen me fuck, only that he hates to see older tops "gas out...it ain't pretty". at some point i'm gonna haveta fuck someone in front of him...bottoms who have had both of us tell me i am a hurricane to his spring rain shower, which is typical.

Dad is a Sunni-Muslim Albanian, Mom is Orthodox Christian Montenegrin. we were raised Muslim, tho we also celebrated Easter and Xmas, particularly bcuz the latter is a week later in the Orthodox tradition than in the Western Xian one, so basically Xmas Eve/NYE-Xmas/New Years were the same for us. in terms of doctrine, Albanians tend to be much more hardcore about ethnic traditions than religious ones...were were bloodfeuding a thousand years b4 the Sicilians and have a more elaborate attachment to it, especially the mountain-clan stock my dad descends from. Montenegrins r similar, just slavic. turns out the exact region my Dad's side is from had a gay marriage tradition recognized by local imams and priests: http://books.google.com/books?id=1ha9GgWNmy0C&pg=PA315&lpg=PA315&dq=same+sex+unions+in+Albania&source=bl&ots=MKHDr8nVIq&sig=yvIj8U4_keJ4myP4SfA8sVDGqz4&hl=en&sa=X&ei=eqU0T7bhMoLi0QGX5NW4Ag&ved=0CD8Q6AEwBA#v=onepage&q=same%20sex%20unions%20in%20Albania&f=false

agreed, but i do enjoy holes across the spectrum of pink, red, brown, n sometimes black n blue

i hookup online most often, offline quite rarely. i have not had sex in exactly 2 weeks as i had surgery on 1/25, and i'm feeling like a bat gnawing thru the gates of Hell right now. back in my manhunt days, "ask me" was only useable in terms of HIV-status, and was nearly universal code for "i'm poz but i'm being coy bcuz..." out of several hundred manhunt hookups, two of the "ask mes" were HIV-negative and politically conscientious (one worked for an ASO)...all others were poz, n many wagged their finger at me for being so open about my own status. on BBRT the proliferation of "ask me" answers is a reliable sign of flakiness...but my first priority is determining if they will take my load. i myself list "ask me" when stating whether i take loads anally or not, and to be blunt, by "ask me" i really mean "the only way u get my ass is if i'm vaguely in the mood AND i deem u worthy of seeding my ass, or it's one of those annual things where if i dont get some dick up my ass i'll turn into a werewolf n kill someone". what never fails is that whenever i completely write bottoming off for good, within a week i get swarmed by alpha tops...some manage to hang around my buddy list long enuff to get a shot at my ass eventually. i can count on one hand the number of times i've gotten fucked that approach the kind of fuck i give....what i cant seem to do is predict b4hand who will actually get the job done. also, in the 3+ years since i've been with my husband i've had 2 of those 5 hyperpower-fucks...both times, the top got offended that i wasn't emotionally available for romance after those shattering sessions. woe to the top who throws any swagger my way if (like most) his fuck was/is a yawn. luckily for them, most seem to understand this instinctively. however, here in NYC, Adam4Adam is more ghetto than BBRT, and i have had cause to castrate the souls of a few fools. their meltdowns r always tasty, and their threats such comedy when a real-life encounter occurs by coincidence. one guy actually took it maturely, which i found very honorable given how far he'd overextended himself in his previous email. anyway, all of that was my way of defending my own use of "ask me" in terms of taking loads anally. i also have it for both giving n getting oral loads, as i cant stand most blowjobs and it's very rare that i'll suck a dick myself. i definitely prefer online hookups to offline...vastly less expensive, a much wider range of guys, a much wider range of adventures and misadventures, and it's been quite educational. i have dealt with such a vast array of flake-out scenarios that i find myself able to read the situation far ahead in the last 5 years especially.

i've had some guys on my buddy lists for years without hooking up, and i still hope to fuck them someday. there r other guys i have blocked on a fukn whim. this thread dilutes the meaning of "flaking", which started as "arranged to hookup n then never showed/called/etc". not everyone can hook up when u want them to. not everyone can be bothered explaining that to u every time. not everyone can afford to give a big shit about ur feelings, bcuz ur a fukn stranger to them...they can only afford u a Little Shit. for my own part, i tend to make reliable use of status indicators "now, ur place" "now, my place" "later today" "not looking" etc. most people dont bother reading, however. most people r myopic, and see only their own needs. me, you and everyone else here included. if someone gave me the OP's attitude, i might have to read back to see if i possibly led them on somehow...just my own OCD, as i'm pretty good about not doing that. if/when i see that ive done no such thing, my next question would be "ok, is this nutjob worth the hassle?"....the answer is usually not. i will tell them either way, politely. only rarely will someone try go down in flames...too bad, i like fire. to the OP: not everyone is as polite as i am, or as direct. u may have fucked up chances with some of these guys n they're just too nice to tell u.

oh im well aware of the many games guys try to play, and i will leave them no wiggle room. i tell anyone with the slightest interest in taking my dick that it will enter them without a condom, and i will cum as i please...all my encounters r layed out as a consensual rape-play scene in writing b4hand, and if any hassle presents itself i just end things. i've thrown out quite a few bottoms who already took my load without knowing it, bcuz they asked me to NOT cum in them after i'd already done so. they were very lucky to be given just enuff paper towels to keep their drip off my floor. nowadays i actually aim for a short fuck first to get the seeding out of the way. what remains pleasing to me is my self-control when some scumbag has suckered me across town really late in bad weather and THEN tried to power-play me this way. so far no one has tried to start a fistfight over it...if/when they do, i would hate to be in their shoes.

wow. glad i come from a culture of Blood Vengeance several millenia old...

heh...ironic. thanks for that perspective!

sex is too big to be just one thing...it will inevitably bring up core aspects of ourselves that go far beyond simple pleasure.

the inevitability of political groupthink has always been an amusement to me. inside the HIV+ community, there is controversy regarding the amount of responsibility HIV+ people have for preventing themselves from infecting others. OUTside the HIV+ community, there really is no trace of such controversy...only the broad consensus that transmissible diseases need to be controlled. 30 years into HIV, the trend toward criminalization is accelerating. personally i do most of my cruising online and maintain a consistent practice of broad, open disclosure in all settings...i used to serosort but learned that neg bugchasers can lie, so i universally disclose, control my own infectiousness as much as possible chemoprophylactically, and disregard anyone's claim of their own status. i am comfortable that my practices leave me somewhat less vulnerable to unscrupulous nutjobs making false claims about lack of HIV-disclosure...but i am also comfortable that i can defend myself against broader charges of spreading a deadly illness. i don't think everyone here can say the same, and i think it's a mistake to assume u'll never have to. here in New York State, we have "Typhoid Mary" laws that allow the state to preemptively incarcerate individuals who present risks to public health. they have never been applied to HIV+ persons before, but it's a mistake to think that they never would be...the NYC DOH has been announcing plans on better coordination with the NYPD n with other DOH's...specifically about "people of concern". some of the conversations here would make their radar for sure. ...not to mention the possibility of a right-wing political feeding frenzy the likes of which would make Jesse Helms look up from his deep pit in Hell, n blush...

cant stand it. turn off.

i have long said that the campaign to demonize natural sex (ak "bareback, raw") would result in fetishization of it for the specific reason it was demonized, aka HIV. for every X-number of emo kids, there's a hopefully-tiny sub-population of nutjobs reading Anton LaVey n sacrificing pets...and the subset of those who become serial-killers of people...or the fools who seek those killers out. i'm sure the existence of generally effective anti-retroviral therapy will encourage some to dispute the similarity between the bugchasing/gift-giving disposition n the example of voluntary cannibalism, but i'm curious to read how such ethical parsing would look in this case. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Armin_Meiwes

i guess the definition of "trolling" varies by setting. this thread is horrifying...and almost hackey in the way it fulfills stereotypes i thought were mostly mythological. already i see a smorgasbord of right-wing attack points on universal healthcare, gay rights, and hiv-criminalization. r u all sure ur all for real? barebottomphx almost sounds like a Rick Santorum campaign staffer on safari... intentionally giving someone a deadly illness is pure evil. intentionally giving someone a potentially deadly illness is as at least as evil as the potential for harm, along with the cost of that harm, to the individual and to society.

i should note that my favorite music is silence, only the sound of my fat hard head snapping in n out of an anus gradually turning from tight to soft...those wet squishy-smushy sounds r completely cosmic, love it. u also get to hear a bottom's breathing, n the nuances of his voice more clearly...helps me detect acting sooner. when i fuck u, u dont get to simulate ur defeat...reality only.

i've fucked to all kinds, and i DO mean all kinds of music. from Black Sabbath to Charles Aznavour to Al Jolson to Aphex Twin to Painkiller to Geto Boys to Abba. for some reason the memory that occurred to me regarding this topic is of a session in 2007 in the East Village, fucking some chunky Asian who didnt understand what he'd gotten himself into. the session was often marked by deliberate acts of mercy, and at one point his ass spasmed in a way that still haunts my erotic dreams, yet i stopped moving n allowed him to slowly pull off my dick instead of giving the hammering such a spasm primordially demanded. still managed to coax him into taking a bit more fuck, but i never got to nut...again, mercy on my part. the song that was playing for the last 10 minutes of that was this long techno remix of The Doors "Bird Of Prey"....

Huge musclebear in Washington Heights. A very nice guy, but luckily he caught me in a gentle mood. We managed to meet halfway, as my gentle fuck was more than he could take, but after a certain amount of softer play we were in missionary position and my long-dicking fuck had commenced n accelerated when he started wanting to bail out. I just said "I'm close" and he went "Oh fuck, ok" and ceased all resisting. I felt the natural urge to just extend the fuck, but the excitement of his full submission brought me to a strong pummeling orgasm, without doing too much damage to him. Very nice musk on him.