AversiveSublime

Why can't I meet hot guys like this? I seem to meet just weirdos that can't get it up and don't know how hot and ready pnp does to me.

I have been taking all loads or 20 years, no PrEP and still Neg. Don't think about it, just do it.

Damn, the link is to a site called the Temple of Cum. http://cumtemple.org/

Looking for other AZ guys into breeding a bottom. If you have a sling and would be into a small group with other tops that is a plus. I LOVE taking loads in a sling. Anyone ever use this site? I am CumHole on there if you can't get at me here. LinkToCLink

Looking for sites with Bondage scenes that are all BAREBACK! So tired of finding hot guys bound up and then finding out its condom based fucking and that annoying Asian dude walks in and ruins it. Anyone here that can name a few good titles or provide links to masculine middle aged white guys fucking with no condoms and while the bottom is bound (gagged and blindfolded is also nice) PLEASE SHARE! Thanks!

If you tilt it can get your prostate. I finally got it all in and I cum so quickly from it so I have to say it does hit the prostate when its all the way in snug. Best toy ever!

It seems as if my latest attempt tonight got pretty close to getting it in firmly. I felt a sort of "click" and it was nearly 100% inside but I came pretty quickly and it popped right out. I agree that perhaps this particular plug isn't the right size/shape for my conduit though. It seems a little too short on the end BUT it still is a rocking awesome plug with the vibrations and stuff. Maybe over time I will get that last 5% in and it will stay, though then I might experience "anal locking" around it for a while. Either way I recommend this as a fun, easy to use/take toy for anyone that is a beginner with autofornication and ass play. It feels as if it is too big to take the first few times but once you get past that "danger zone sensation" it is pretty amazing, just gotta take it slow and relax and twist it a bit as you molest yourself with it. Fucking little bugger drained my nuts right and I needed that after a long week!

Buy a butt plug, it will help cull those feeling of emptiness and keep those loads deep inside you. Fort Troff has a remote controled one that is pretty good, a little pricey but worth it. I just got mine and have yet to get it fully inside so it stays but its hot to sit on when I stroke.

You should totally let him know that you dig him less, chances are he is being nicer to you because he feels a connection but once you come clean and hurt his feelings a bit he will probably dose you good and whore you out to friends the way you probably secretly wish for. He is probably going to do that to you anyhow if he is a regular user, if he hasn't yet already, so I say go for it and enjoy the ride man!

Ok.... but.... uh, generally are butt plugs supposed to "fit and stay" in place or what? I was under the impression they were. The buzz settings of this thing are a bit weak but NUMEROUS. I have a feeling that once this plug is securely fit in my hole the buzz will be much much much more intense on some level but I don't think I am inserting it right or something.

I am new to ass play for the most part and just received my first butt plug from Fort Troff, http://www.forttroff.com/71362_gallery?pcat=PRO , BUT I cannot seem to get it to stay in. It feels like it is in but then it just slides right out. I am pretty tight and hairy holed and new to this so I know its not because I am loose per se, but was wondering if this is common. It takes great effort and discomfort to get it up there to the "balls deep" position of the plug which is great and all but I was hoping for some hands free hole buzzing while I stroke. What am I doing wrong or what can I do better to get this in there? Ideally wanted this to be firmly in place while I go about some things but it just doesn't want to stay.

The only problem I can imagine with this fantasy is that most guys at a bath house want to "get their money's worth" for the cost of admission and most of the time they want to fuck, suck and vice versa without getting off for a while. Also, some guys might see your open hole invitation as a sign you really like to be degraded and humilated, perhaps even treated like a trash bin, so don't be shocked if you end up with piss, spit, cum and other objects tossed into your open hole. I'd go with pisstopper's suggestion to have someone you trust along to ensure no one does anything you don't want to you (and take pictures if you like). There are some really messed up guys out there!

Despite the bullshit perpetrated here in the threads on how guys love a total cum whore that will refuse no dick offered its an urban legend and you probably were a desperate turn off to those guys, calloused fingers and all, pretty much they were contributing to "wrecking your hole" and the one guy that was brave enough to breed you probably had numerous STDs. Might want to rethink your life unless you want the bottom of the barrel to keep giving you what you DON'T want bud. I know its a turn on to jerk off to the idea of getting your life and body trashed but when it actually happens don't come here to bitch and moan about it. There is a very small minority of barebackers that get off on hole wrecking and infecting bottoms. Don't be a fool about that man.

If that is really you in the photo it doesn't really matter what you do now because you've just told the world that you are a barebacker (regardless of the truth) by showing your face on a site that doesn't let you (easily) remove content such as postings and photos in threads like this... Most people that put two and two together with this thread/image and any other profile you have on the other sites will likely assume you're no longer a virgin too. Sorry bro, you are sexy as heck but not too bright!

Anyone know of any (possibly private) sites that host amateur videos with some of the more fetish "not-for-xtube" content? Please send me a link in a private message if you know what I mean.

Fantasies are wonderful and all but the reality of this particular one is going to lead to you being stealth doped up, bound, blindfolded and probably gagged and find yourself in a "be careful what you wish for" scenario. Which is hot if done right. But as far as the guys being verbal to you, don't count on it because you will just be their anonymous little fucking cum dump. An object to use and then find yourself sore, dripping with the seed of men you will never know the identity of and a forever craving to have your true fantasy realized; but it will NEVER happen.

It seems as if you post your desired new name here and wait for Rawtop or one of his Alphas to make the change.

lol, it seemed less complicated when I thought of the question... I really don't like math myself, nor do I have sex even 50 times within 6 months. It was more or less a moral question I guess. Would it be worth limiting your sex life for the sake of a relationship with someone you really love. I guess in the end it was rhetorical and better suited as a plot for some kind of erotic fiction story which ends in betrayal and/or murder or something.

Let's also imagine that giving another guy a blowjob doesn't count towards the tally. So they can blow each other or others and not have a deduction, BUT if they get blown by each other or someone else that will cause a deduction from the tally. Again, If they have sex together that only deducts one fuck. If they have sex as a threesome (or moresome) together that only deducts one fuck If they have sex with separate partners at separate times then that deducts a fuck for each of them.

Say you met someone that you really liked and wanted to have an open relationship with them but they said the only way they would do it was if you agreed to a limit of 100 fucks every six months. After the 100th fuck occurs both men lock each other's dicks up with chastity belt and/or other device/gear that makes it impossible to have sex beyond the alloted 100 per six months. The 100 fucks can be either with that person or other partners but regardless of who the fucking was with (them, someone else separately or together) that would eliminate one of the hundred regardless if it was you or them fucking. To clarify; Johnny and Mark agree and each of them has sex with someone else outside of their relationship and therefore 2 fucks are deducted from the 100 for the six month period. Regardless of whether or not they fuck outside of the relationship equally or not, each hookup deducts another fuck from the tally. So let's say over a five month period it looks like this, Johnny has 15 fucks on his own and Mark has 28. Together they fuck each other 40 times and 5 times they have a threesome (or orgy, which counts the same) together. 15+28+40+5= 88 fucks total, which leaves 12 times over the last month where they can fuck each other or others or both. I personally think there would be more honesty in the earlier portion of the six months than there would be towards the end. 12 fucks over 30 days is about 6 for each of them. Could Johnny and Mark make do with the 12 fucks between the two of them? Would they resort to lying about it until the end of the month? Should Johnny feel upset because Mark has had more encounters with others than him and thus eliminated chances for them to have sex together (with or without other partners)? (Assume that Johnny and Mark really do love each other and want their relationship to work). PS: I realize this is a somewhat silly idea and I don't think I would ever demand this from a partner BUT it raises an interesting question I think.

Can you change my name to AversiveSublime. Thanks!

The biggest issues I have had from nearly the beginning was the way BigDick would force these discussions on "setting rules" for our relationship which were tedious discussions with very little direction or point and THEN him breaking those agreements by hiding his activities from me only to come clean days or weeks later. The actions didn't matter really though I admit that some of the guys he hooked up with were repulsive to me and that made me feel uneasy about what he might be bringing "home". If he showed me some not so terrible looking tricks just what did the ones he was hiding from me look like???? There was a lack of security there that I did my best to deal with and I gave him second chance after second chance with it. I never had sex with anyone outside of our relationship without him. There were times when we broke up and I did, but pretty much everytime it was a pnp situation and it ended not so great and I told him about it, most of the time within 24 hours of the incident. The jealousy outbursts from him ranged from saying kind of nasty things out of no where about my weight and looks, some features of my skin complexion that I have had since I was a teenager to stupid stuff like "I've never dated anyone poor before, I don't think it will work out" to him putting sexual pressure when I had some weird stuff going on down there from either food I ate or stress or some other anal issue I haven't been able to get diagnosed that happens pretty often. If he had been more versatile and/or didn't suck dick with his teeth, we might have been able to do something those times, and I even went through the pain of it just to be accomodating, but each time that happened I felt less and less like he really cared about me as much as he cared about having sex. I even said to him "I really don't mind if you have sex with others, it takes some of the pressure off me" (being the bottom in the relationship with no hope of anything else as mentioned below). As for the bank account thing, I was raised to be weary of giving someone you don't really trust your personal information, and based on what was happening, with the lying about hookups and other comments probably made in jest (but who really knows) I felt uneasy. Also, my iPhone went missing along with my ID and a (prepaid) credit card I had, that I am sure his flatmate at the time grabbed and gave to a friend to sell, so there was enough stuff going on to make me suspicious. It hurts to keep trying and trying and forcing back your better judgement and emotions to make something work only to find out that it doesn't mean that much to the other person. Our trip in Orlando, which was important to me because I had just finished a tough semester with school and my dad getting very ill to the point he nearly died, he actually "coded" at one point in ICU while he was septic from a pill that went down the wrong way. I wanted us to just have a good time, and that was meant to be a stress free starting over adventure together. But it was rainy and we had to find a flat in Berlin directly after the trip. Rather than just take a step away from everything and trust that it all would work out he complained constantly about the rain. It worked out that EVERY park we visited when it rained had rides on which we got more than a little wet anyways. On nicer days it was hot and a bit humid but dry as a bone and we managed to be at parks with no wet rides. But still the complaining and at one point he wanted to just piss away the rest of our vacation and park tickets to go straight to Berlin to apartment hunt but it is all by appointment and in spite of my lack of reading German I managed to browse the available listings and make appointment inquiries from Orlando. There was no need to rush to Berlin early. For me that was a bit devastating. I needed a nice time with my boyfriend and I needed him to trust me when I said "everything will work out", just relax and enjoy this time and we will take it one day at a time. I didn't cause the HORRID living situation with his flatmate in Berlin that we went to after Orlando, which pretty clearly led to that asshole stealing my phone and ID. I begged him for weeks prior to just be civil and get along and "don't bring me into a bad situation with that guy". We had to just live there until we found a place and the last thing I needed was to be in a hostile situation in a new country I had never visited before. He couldn't even keep that promise to me. The last night I was there, we were out and I was having a fun time, a lot more drunk than was probably good for us, but it was a nice time nonetheless when all of a sudden the controlling/jealousy thing kicked in. He started making a public scene, he scratched me and pulled on my clothes. I fought every instinct NOT to hit him, something that I had promised I would never do again and I kept that promise. We made our way back to the flat but every step of the way he kept bringing up my phone and the flatmate and it just kept making me more and more angry. That night ended with the flatmate calling the cops and even though I wasn't ordered to leave I had had enough. I packed my shit and took off for the airport and sat there for ten hours and then got on a flight back home to the states. He claims he showed up at the airport for me but I had already boarded. Not that it mattered in all honesty because I wasn't going back to that shithole with that flat mate thief anyways. But I was there in plain sight for nearly half a day, part of me hoping he would come but as far as I am concerned he didn't. He can say he did, but its just like every other time he said something and it wasn't true in the end. That was in July, two days before we were supposed to take the keys to our flat together. More recently, we had been talking finally, established ourselves as friends and he kept saying "we should meet and do something" and I made time finally to meet up in spite of being pretty busy with school and helping to take care of my father who is bedridden and shits himself without knowing it. I set aside about four days for three weeks in a row, and every week there was another reason he couldn't do that week. His work schedule most of the time, even though when we were together he was offer to drop his trips at the tip of a hat to see me. So there was a difference there. I told him if we met there would be no sex and he would reply "well I don't see why not if we are both up for it", and I then had to clarify that "I wasn't up for it". It just became apparent that our communication is broken. I know it is not on my end. I have suffered through a lot to make concessions and just be patient only to find out that I am chasing one bullshit carrot stick after another with him. I just wanted a friend at this point. I am so stressed out. It has been one thing after another for over a year now, with my living situation with my parents and them getting older and not being healthy as they were, with school being harder because of that stress and maybe from the few times I partied with people who got off on feeding other people's paranoia and god knows what else, and the drama of the relationship. It hurts when the one person you counted on, in spite of knowing better, that had the key to giving you a break and an escape from the stressors in your life is just out to serve their own sexual agenda(s). I know that falls on deaf ears here, and 99% of you are so emotionally broken, too, and will cut me down for sharing this, but it is the truth. BigDick is a good person at heart. We come from different countries and backgrounds and there is an age difference and he is sometimes very aloof (i guess) to things around him. I think what happens to me when I party with weirdos, where I get paranoid about their intentions is sort of what happens to him when we drank together and he had too much. One time I went to the bathroom at a bar in London and when I came back he was furious and accused me of having sex with some guy I didn't even see until he pointed him out. I didn't understand it. Until that moment I was happy and I thought we were having a really great time out together! It was heartbreaking to be accused like that especially when it wasn't true. That was a common occurance with him. We had an open relationship though, so even if I was that type, it shouldn't have mattered, but I would have told him about it because that is what we agreed to do if we had encounters with others. My philosophy in relationships has always been like the song "Save the last dance for me". What else can you do after enough times of seeing everything just fall apart in your face. I bet most people would be emotionally broken and untrusting and feel like it was impossible to go forward too. http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x6eof_michael-buble-save-the-last-dance_music

I am fairly certain that most "partiers" (and then some) in Phoenix cam or record at least their hookups. I haven't figured out where they post them just yet, but i know they share them with each other as well. If anyone knows where I might find them please contact me. Thanks.

Not surprised in the slightest...

So he can destroy their sanity with jealousy and needless drama in spite of being in an open relationship. no doubt!