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hairyone

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  1. O.M.G.! He needs to be clear with his doctor of his sexual practices or find another doctor. "STIs like chlamydia, gonorrhea, and trichomoniasis require a swab for diagnosis." [think before following links] https://www.verywellhealth.com/can-i-get-an-std-blood-test-3132740#:~:text=Some people avoid STI screening,require a swab for diagnosis. Go to a doctor and get tested!
  2. That means he doesn't tell his doctor he has sex with men or his doctor is an idiot. It MIGHT be ok if he NEVER puts a dick in his mouth (ejaculate or not) and nothing ever touches his ass (no dick or finger or mouth). Is that possible? Do you believe that?
  3. I learned the hard way that "Sometimes a fantasy should stay a fantasy!" Fantasies are so much better than the real thing. After I learned my lesson, that has been a life mantra.
  4. Some of that sounds like Chlamydia. You're overdue for another STD check anyway. Good luck!
  5. When was your last STD check?
  6. I'm so sorry, ErosWired. I hope they can find one that works for ya. What were you on and what did you switch to?
  7. I think you are right on, @hntnhole. There is also another aspect I've seen from many of the posts from chasers on this forum. They are looking for a "brotherhood". I get it. Men can get lonely and want the other company of men for sex and/or camaraderie. With some men, you can have both. With others you have one or the other. All is great. But having HIV is NOT a brotherhood! If you want a brotherhood, join a club. I joined a gay fraternal club and I found all that without having an agenda of sharing a vicious virus. And those needs mentioned as a gay man are met.
  8. There is the sharing of control and trust which can be a pleasant experience and a journey of submission for the bottom. But the real thing is the endorphins that ErosWired mentioned. Some endorphins can be 20 to 30 times more powerful than morphine. That's a good buzz!!
  9. When you said "it is no longer a death sentence" I thought you meant that when people get HIV and take the medication, they don't die from AIDS anymore. I had the same interpretation when you said, "if you get hiv you can get on meds and never have to worry. " So I apologize I misinterpreted your statement. All I wanted to clarify is that some people still die from AIDS even if they take the medication. True, it is nothing like it was before the medication (not even close). But people still die from it even if they do everything they can to stay alive. Yes, it is still best to take the medication as instructed if someone is infected and they have an excellent chance of survival. But it is not 100% and saying "never have to worry" is a negligent overstatement. There are a lot of HIV-negative people on this forum that are considering becoming infected and they need to know the truth about ALL possibilities. Yes, they should take their meds and live their lives. But, even though most of us can find ways to cover the $36,000.00 cost per year for those meds, we should still be aware it is not a full panacea. That is all my response was meant to be.
  10. Whoah! Hold on there. It's no longer a death sentence for MOST people. I wish the best of luck you are part of the MOST people. Too all of us.
  11. Even though many people have their HIV well under control, we don't know what's going to happen later. These "miracle cocktail" drugs have only been around for around 20 years or so. What are these drugs going to do to us after another 10 years, or 20, or more? We may keep HIV at bay but no one has taken these "cocktail" drugs for 30 years or longer, yet. These are strong meds and, if not monitored, can be toxic. We don't know if we are going to wind up with a cancer, or organ failure, or whatever. I hope to be around another 30 or 40 years but not if my bones start snapping, or a weird cancer, or lose my mind. I sure as fuck don't want to live like that. I already mentioned that I've noticed I've aged a lot faster than I should after almost 20 years of being poz and on meds. I'm dealing with early disk degeneration (I'm over 2 inches shorter!) and it's quite painful at times. Is it HIV related? Drug related? Was I doomed to have this regardless? We don't know. It's going to take many years of statistics after we're long gone to figure that out. My doctor tried to comfort me and told me when I converted that this disease will not kill me. It will be something else. He's probably right. But that something else may be something we can't imagine at a time not expected.
  12. Calculate your score on this sex bucket list and then improve it by the end of the year. What's YOUR current score?
  13. I've heard guys talk about ugly dicks, ugly cocks, or an ugly penis. But I'm not sure what they mean. I've seen average dicks on ugly men. There are many different shapes of cocks but I wouldn't necessarily call them ugly. I even did a search for "ugly dick" and the dicks weren't ugly; some of the men were ugly but that doesn't count. The only ugly dick I've seen was those that are diseased or recently damaged. That's a different category from my question. Ignoring if the man himself was ugly (in looks or demeanor), what is an ugly dick? Any example pics?
  14. [think before following links] https://avn.com/business/articles/gay/bryan-knight-passes-away-921476.html
  15. Apparently, it happened Sunday or Monday.
  16. I heard that porn hunk, Bryan Knight passed away in his sleep recently. RIP
  17. How would a discord server be any different from, say, this site (breeding zone)? What would be the advantage?
  18. Is this a "desire to suffer"? This isn't something I've thought about. If so, that can get quite deep. The "desire to suffer" has spiritual connotations going back to Buddha, the Christ, and perhaps St. John of the Cross? But, perhaps, the "desire to suffer" is something else. (Masochism?) May need to think on this some more.
  19. I hate being poz. I hate having to take that fucking pill every day for the rest of my life. I hate that the pill I have to take every day to save my life is $100 each! I hate I have to worry about health insurance without which I would have to pay nearly $36,000 per year for a fucking pill. I hate having to go to the doctor multiple times per year to watch my blood levels to see if any of my organs are starting to fail from the drug or the disease. I hate watching my body age faster than expected and the doctors not knowing if its the virus or the meds. I hate I had to watch my best friend die because ALL meds finally stopped working and he had to die alone from Hodgkins lymphoma in the hospital because during COVID no one could visit. I hate watching my husband battle a god-damned rare disease which affects men with "well-controlled" HIV disproportionately and wonder if his next flare up will kill him. I hate the sympathy/pity from others when discussing my health. I hate the discrimination from men who won't have sex with poz guys even though I am undetectable and can't transmit it to them. I hate not understanding why someone wants this.
  20. You might have to take a step back if you are need to this and you continue to have problems. Start with laces like mentioned above or try those elastic rings. Start small then move up to leather bag stretchers with snaps to change diameter.
  21. Good luck, @dlverschub. Sorry this happened to you. Keep us updated.
  22. "Ian Kink"? Model for RawRoadNation [think before following links] https://www.rawroadnation.com/tour/sets.php?page=4&s=d
  23. Yep! It's short strokes for me as I go through my anal orgasm. 😵
  24. I've only started experiencing anal orgasms with dildos during the covid lockdown (bored, new sex machine, and plenty of time). But I haven't had a good anal orgasm with a real cock. It appears that my ass clamps down during the anal orgasm which causes difficulty for the top. And there have been a few times that I'd push out the dildo while the sex machine fucks me. I've only had a couple of tops that are really big enough (so far) to hit that spot but as I have my orgasm, the top has difficulty continuing because I basically squeeze him out and it shortens my orgasm. So, maybe I just need more practice? Or bigger dicks? Maybe I need to concentrate on staying relaxed. But it feels so damn good when that wave starts that I forget to relax and then I clamp down which sends that wave through the top of my head. Now that I think about it, I think I have better success with the fuck machine when it's set for a short stroke. I'm going to have to try to see if that's true. And, if so, I might have to talk with my tops to fuck with shorter strokes as I have an anal orgasm. Anyone else have similar experience?
  25. I haven't tried this, yet. But, the accounts I've seen says it takes a MINIMUM of 3 hours from the first dose as long as the second dose is around 1.5 hours. Obviously, YMMV.
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