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@ScottH perhaps you can help these people out?

You are still a New Member. You will gain the ability to react to posts (as well as several other privileges) when you advance to Junior Member. See the topic above (I'm merging yours into it).

1 hour ago, hungflipbare said:

Why is there a limit of sending just two emails a day? 
 

Private messaging is one of the features that is controlled by your privilege level. The main reason for this is to prevent spammers from creating junk accounts and flooding the site with spam or other unwelcome things. Once you have participated in the forums a bit, you will advance to "Junior Member" (and more levels beyond) and your privileges will increase.

More info in the topic above, into which I'm merging this question.

I caught up with this one some time ago. Unfortunately the system is properly designed and the password is encrypted (as it should be). If the system won't send out the mail, it has to be fixed before the password can be reset. 

Awesome story - love the arc!

10 minutes ago, Hotrawbutt4u said:

 

For vpn, what locations might be suggested 

Whatever works. New York should be good for the time being. 

Ran across this today:

https://barebackbastards.com/85813/wimpy-gay-sauna-twink-with-issues-takes-a-muscle-bear-load/

If you get a prescription for as-needed Cialis (as opposed to daily at a lower dose) you can choose on a particular occasion whether you want to use poppers or Cialis. 

Or, as others have suggested, there is Trimix, which is compatible with poppers.

This is quite good! Please do us a favor: Create an account on the site and repost it as a Member. Otherwise it's effectively anonymous and unattributed. Thanks!

48 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

This may be a silly question, but .......

If a guy lives in State A, but has a vpn saying he lives in State B (where there are no "blockers"), will the "blockers" (or whatever they're called) know the difference?  

Yes. That's why everyone keeps saying "just use a VPN". What's actually happening is that the site software looks at your IP address, and if it appears to be from a location where the law requires age validation (which we don't have), it serves you the MalePrime page. If the location associated with the IP address is part of the free world, it serves you the actual BZ site.

On 3/3/2026 at 3:32 PM, Tiboer said:

When amateur porn first became big, I liked guys particularly—Cajun Coach and Alaskan Artist (or something close to that).  Unfortunately their videos seemed to have disappeared. Anyone know here to find those videos?  

HairyAlaskanArtist (whom I know personally though we've been out of touch for years) is on JFF. You can find him on X: https://x.com/HairyAKArtist

Moderator's note: This is NOT the Backroom! 

It might be this one:

In any case, straight/bi content will be in the straight/bi fiction or straight/bi HIV fetish forum.

You can search members by location if they have filled out the location field in their profile. It's only a text search, not a geospatial one.  If you look for the pull-down menu in the search box, you'll find "Members" there at the end of it. Select that and then fill in the search form appropriately.

A poll also has to have a regular topic and text in the content tab of the topic that is hosting it. Because OOB 3rd party software. 🤷‍♂️

I can spin all kinds of theories in my head... But the most likely one to my mind is that they were busy celebrating and in the high of the moment didn't notice who the hell he even was. I can't imagine they would be expecting to see him there, unless they knew already he was there. After all, it's not his bailiwick.

Anyway... It's not like I would probably recognize him on the street. I go out of my way to avoid assholes I know personally. The other kind are too numerous to bother with.

I also got one of these today, although it's the first time I've seen one. There is a reload button on that screen, and for me it worked on the first try.

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Is there forums for cities on here?

Yes, there are - the Regional Forums are for just this kind of thing. I have moved your post there.

First thing to do is try the "forgot password" button on the login page. That is supposed to send an automatic password recovery message to the email in your account profile. If you no longer have access to that email, you will have to message the staff here (or post in the Tips and Tricks section as "biobare2" did). Be aware that if you don't have access to the old email you will need to establish your bona fides to the moderation staff, because it's our job to keep the site and its members as safe as possible.

1 hour ago, PozBearWI said:

Uncles, parents have all passed...

LMAO! I was skimming the topic and when I read this, at first my brain understood it to mean "I offered sex to my  uncles and parents and all of them passed on it".  

My guess would be stress, generally. You described both physical stress (HIV, crypto, medication) and emotional stress (the drumbeat of political news). Stress can really fuck with your libido; it certainly does with mine. Rather than thinking of sexy fun time...

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...you'll just be completely blocked and hopeless and wondering why you shouldn't just go into the kitchen and have a nice glass of warm gin straight out of the cat dish.

(as a book I've been reading lately puts it). Ayup. Not the recommended treatment for stress, of course, but an understandable response. 

I have had issues, even recently, with providers unfamiliar with or reticent to prescribe Doxy-PEP.  Some with PrEP also, but not recently, and more people misunderstanding my prescription history and thinking I was HIV+ (at the time I was not).

Jason Kelce.  That Campbell's soup ad... yummmmmm!

I redacted the detail for discussion with the OP in a private message.

The short answer here is Read the Rules - which are in the topic linked below (as well as separate detailed posts about specific rules, which are linked from there). These are the same rules that the moderation staff checks when we have to make a judgment call.

If you are not sure whether a particular post complies with the rules, or for some reason you feel you need to push the boundaries to express yourself appropriately, the correct procedure is to do your best, make your post, and then report your own post - in the body of the post ask a moderator to review it. This notifies the moderation staff so they can work with you to get it sorted out appropriately.

Moderator here.

Welcome to BZ, @RogerPoz448! There aren't really any private forums here. A few of the forums (mostly the Backroom) are only visible to registered Members. You should be able to see those now. Everything else is (literally) visible to anyone on the internet. So, don't post things here that you wouldn't want your grandma to see... Though she probably wouldn't be reading this (though you never know).

Getting banned or kicked off is actually pretty difficult. You can generally avoid it by following the Rules:

TL;DR: Don't post Backroom stuff (HIV fetish and drugs) in other places; don't post straight/bi/transfem stuff except in designated areas; don't post scat, snuff, harmful things, or underage erotic stuff ANYWHERE on the site. Don't abuse other members.

...oh, and that's one delicious profile pic you have there! Woof!