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  1. Hepatitis and Syphilis can also lead to vomiting, nausea, fever and joint pain. Not sure about the testing regime you have in place but You may as well get checked for everything.
  2. “I dunno how much AIDS scares y'all, but I got a theory: the day they come out with a cure for AIDS, a guaranteed one-shot cure, on that day there's gonna be fucking in the streets, man.” Bill Hicks.
  3. Agreed. Once I looked into the statistics I was struck by the relatively low risk of transmission. Thats the the real answer to the OP. Yes its possible but it is so unlikely that you could fuck daily for well over a year before the odds start catching up to him.
  4. But not impossible. The CDC have made an assessment that I will link below but the risk to him is 0.11% The fact that you are undetectable reduces the risk as does him being circumcised. http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/estimates/riskbehaviors.html
  5. The religion is the driving force behind the bigotry but the people making the actual rules do so for different reasons. A politician will say anything that needs to be said to get votes and a preacher says stuff to get money in the plate so morality plays second string to expediency. The true believers are quite easy to spot as they don't waver from a position no matter what the evidence or voters say. For current examples look no further than the US political clusterfuck. Whilst Clinton is probably a good person she is also a political weathervain. Sanders will continue to say the right thing even if it makes him less electable in the minds of the public. Drumpf will say anything to get votes but Cruz is a true believer. The issue is that Cruz believes appears to have a massive boner for the apocalypse. From a practical point of view I care more about what they do rather than why they do it so on balance as long as its not president haircut or lizard lips I'm happy.
  6. For those not aware of british cuisine I was talking about black pudding. Not as sexy as it sounds by the way.
  7. I'm sure that Kamagra is fine and the facilities that make it are safe. I'm just not comfortable with a medication that isn't even considered valid in my country. Its even worse when you look at the kind of food that we will gladly fry up and serve for breakfast but Kamagra isn't ok.
  8. I'm probably being too cautious but here is more info. http://www.pillwatch.com/info/what-is-the-difference-between-kamagra-and-viagra.html http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-15095056
  9. I just went for a quick jaunt on Google and I found it for sale in the UK over the net as long as you fill in a consultation form and pay £25 for an online prescription. Muse is the same substance as Caverject by the way but doesn't use a needle. You either get Caverject in a vial that you inject with a syringe or as a product called Caverject Impulse which is in a single use unit. because it needs to be injected I would probably recommend medical advice before trying it. The Kamagra is probably fine. Viagra comes in 25, 50 and 100 sizes but Kamagra only comes in 50 and 100. That means that you could be taking more than you need which could lead to more side effects. Production regulations in India are nowhere near as rigid as the UK and thats why even selling it here is illegal. This did worry me when I found out so I stopped using it.
  10. I wouldn't say Viagra is more potent. It's less subtle than Cialis, which is probably why it last for less time, but it is a lot less effective when taken on a full stomach. You also have other choices to explore. Levitra works well for diabetics. A new one called Spedra is like Viagra but it starts working in 15 minutes. Muse is a pellet that you put in your urethra which sounds terrible but Caverject is injected into your penis which sounds much worse. The upshot of Caverject is that by all reports it works in 5 minutes and you have the iron hard erection of a horny teenager for an hour or more. A side issue is that a version of Sildenafil is manufactured in India under the name Kamagra. It has worked for me in the past but I stopped once I found out that it isn't made under very tight regulations and is therefore not even officially allowed to be sold in the UK. If we put as much effort into other stuff as we do getting into getting hard then cancer would have been beaten by now.
  11. Less than $100 will get you an adaptor that replaces the blade on a power saw. You would probably need to duct tape the tool in one place and rig a way to control the power but it would give you an idea of what it feels like. Look what I just found! http://www.machineyourself.com
  12. I have used one before. The other guy was having wood issues so we improvised. An interesting sensation but I still prefer a real cock. It was rather amusingly named The Robo Fuck 8000. 40 - 190 strokes per minute and had a 90 degree angle adjustment which was nice. The stroke length wasn't adjustable at only 2.5"s and it didn't feel very powerful. I got the impression that if I clenched and pushed back I could slow it down or even stop it moving. I later looked into it and they do recommend other machines for, and I quote, "More forceful anal penetration". I would have a look at http://www.extremerestraints.com as they have quite a few for sale. From my research look for adjustable stroke length and the ability to use the vac-u-lock dildo system so you can go from normal size all the way up to inhumanly massive.
  13. It may not be a hate fuck but the bottom is certainly made to take it no matter what it feels like. It's my current favourite online video. www.raunchyfuckers.com/video/30141/no-mercy
  14. Thats adorable. If anything it was your brother who needed the condom because you don't have to think about avoiding pregnancy.
  15. My understanding is that one of the mechanisms that has led to HIV spreading so far and fast in Africa is more complex. It's called Levirate Marriage. Essentially a man will take his brothers widow as his own wife sometimes in addition to his current wife. A husband travels for work, uses a lady of negotiable affection, returns to his wife and unknowingly exposes her to HIV. Inadequate healthcare leads to his passing and his brother is exposed to HIV via his new wife. Naturally the issue is worsened by the HIV/AIDS Denialists who have sometimes taken advantage of the historical distrust between Africa and the primarily western pharmaceutical companies. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Levirate_marriage
  16. I remember taunting a massively well endowed black guy about how gently he was fucking me at a sauna back in 2012. He just took what he wanted as hard as he liked three times that night and it felt fucking amazing. Intense, bordering on painful, but absolutely amazing. I've been looking for the same kind of experience ever since and I would love it if it became a semi regular experience.
  17. We are the sum of our life experiences so some negativity lurks within us all to some degree or another. Lets just hope that humanity can learn to not let it control us when the chips are down.
  18. But is that concentration a preference for one group or a prejudice against another? I've never been to a venue like that so I can't speak about the attitude of the patrons. The location of that dividing line is important. In London we do get the very occasional sauna night targeted at black guys and those that admire them but we also get the same thing with bears and CDs. That doesn't feel like a problem to me.
  19. A blanket dismissal of all black guys does seem like an aggressive way to communicate and could indicate a prejudice instead of a preference. "Could" is the operative word though. After all Freud said that "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar" so whilst saying no black guys would speed up online communication it could be done in a more subtle way.
  20. I can't speak for PG but I suspect that he is talking about being attracted to certain characteristics in a man that may occur more frequently within certain ethnicities or nationalities. Not just physically but socially. Dutch men tend to be taller for some curious reason, many asian societies have more rigid/respectful social structures, latin men may be more sexually demonstrative and some social groups could exhibit other desirable behaviours. These factors are not dependent on biology, I've probably picked up some unusual behaviours in my travels, so shouldn't really be classified as racism. Or I may be 100% wrong.
  21. The religion thing is an interesting variant on the group vs individual front. Christianity is ideologically opposed to anybody being homosexual but we need to look at the individual instead of the group. The bible has so many crazy rules, did you know that being left handed is mentioned negatively 25 times and the King James version mentions unicorns 9 times as if they are real animals, that the ones people try to enforce says a lot about the individual. Looking at a person as simply one of a group instead of an individual is the first step towards prejudice so I try to keep on top of my own perceptions. Just in case people are wondering I've traveled the globe, got lost on purpose, lived amongst numerous cultures and read more theological books than than most religious people. Thats why I'm an atheist.
  22. A good first step could be asking why you get turned on by latino men. The theory being if you understand why you say "yes please" to latino men it may explain why others say "no thanks" to black men. It could be the accent, contrast in skin tone or some general approach to having fun that works for you. I have no personal experiences beyond a few nights with one half latino man so I'm not aware of any generic physical attributes amongst latinos so
  23. I can only speak for myself but if somebody excludes a social group from his/her pool of partners then they must have a reason. Not all reasons are negative in nature though. I hooked up with this one guy a while back who was of Jamaican/Brazilian descent who avoided playing with other black guys. He was fine with all other ethnicities so I asked why and the answer made perfect sense. He lived in Jamaica until his teens before moving to London so he experienced the homophobia that is rife in Jamaica and was therefore living semi closeted by not playing with black guys. An extremely practical reason based upon the homophobia of others. http://tinyurl.com/ns8fhnv If its about a sexual fantasy, the skinhead idea of being taken by a supposedly str8 guy for instance, then as long as you are honest about your reasons for being selective with yourself and the other person then I see no issue. If the reason is arbitrary in nature like simply not liking black guys then I would argue that something else is working beneath the surface that may need to be addressed. That's my totally unqualified and essentially worthless point of view anyway. Has anybody noticed that we have gravitated towards the black/white thing without mentioning every other ethnicity on the planet?
  24. In the wider world racism is undeniably in effect but as gay men we are all a minority amongst humanity as a whole. As barebackers we could also view ourselves as a minority within a minority or even take it to another iteration if we are HIV+. I don't really percieve blatant racism on this site but sex brings a lot of factors into being. Interracial sex is definitely a fetish/fantasy for quite a few people but like all fantasies if it becomes the only thing you do it can easily become an unhealthy limitation. Cards on the table time. My favourite thing is to be fucked by an above average cock with a side order of sexual dominance and occasional light bondage. I could easily fall into the trap of objectifying black men based upon a single body part when we all know that good sex is at least as much about skill as it is dimensions. I could also find myself forcing somebody into a sexual identity that they aren't happy with. For me it has either happened spontaneously when one side makes an offhand comment mid fuck or if we both talk about and agree limits before the fun starts. The more I think about it the more this becomes a minefield of accidental offensiveness. Fascinating topic, thanks for bringing it up.
  25. Cyanosis of the lips due to lack of oxygen reaching the tissues. Decreasing positive effects during the session. Erection issues. Headache. Did you know that demolition riggers get the same headache from the nitrogen part of dynamite. They call it Banghead which seems like a good name to adopt.
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