austin_submale

I really hate it. I don't think I'm the only guy who can't just always drop everything in a hot second to play. But I get a ton of people on sites like sniffies who delete messages before I even have a chance to read them. Sometimes in a few minutes. And even on sites like a4a I sometimes get people who will say things like "looking for now not later" and then they will block you if you can't meet right away. It is just super annoying and even worse sometimes these people are very abusive about it, calling anyone who is online other than when they are going to meet right now a "flake" or worse.

You ever make it down to Austin?

Hoping to read more!

I pretty much agree with Viking on this. I try to be as supportive of other authors as possible because I know what it is like to have people $#!+ all over something you've worked on. Even if someone's story isn't my cup of tea, I try to find something worth having a positive comment about or at very least I just don't say anything at all. If I have suggestions on how to make something better, I think Viking is correct that taking a kind and helpful approach is best. And doing it in private, probably not a bad idea either. Likewise, I know I'm not a very good writer, in fact my English skills despite ostensibly being a native speaker are pretty crappy. So I welcome a certain amount of constructive criticism... as long as the 'constructive' part is there.

Fuck that is HOTTTTT!!!!

Interesting start so far! Looking forward to seeing where this goes!

Loving it!

Nice!

I like that idea!!!

WOW!!!!

HOT!!!

How many loads? Hope you got a lot!

HOTTTT!!!!

Let us know how it goes!

Super HOT!

The search functions on here can be frustrating. Sometimes you have to be very careful in order to find what you are looking for.

Wow! Nice adaptation! I love it! I hope there is more!

Hope to read more soon!

HOTTT!!! I've been waiting for this continuation! Hope to see more soon this time!

Nice 2nd chapter!

Yeah, you are probably right, that was probably it. I guess if he's fair he must down vote a LOT lot of the stories because there are a ton of stories with a lot more race/cultural content than mine. I try to not really offend people in those ways as much as I can while making the stories as interesting as I know how. But I'm not a great writer as I said before, and I even said in the story that my Spanish is poor... I live in an area where a fairly large percentage of the guys who visit the bookstores are Hispanic, probably better than 1/3 I'd guess. So I'm more than OK with playing with those guys. I refuse no dick or load. My Spanish is slowly getting better over time but I doubt I will ever get to functionally literate.

Super hot! I may have to try that. I see some hotel bathrooms mentioned on Sniffies in Austin.

I wish the guy had just blocked me if he doesn't want to see my content rather than down voting. Some of the words that some sites ban are kind of silly. You can say fuck but you can't say pervert [banned word] or child. So there I hit one of three... I just edited to say that one word, regardless of context gets nuked. I mean at a certain level I understand why sites do it, but most of these words they ban have legitimate uses and not just the negative meanings that got them banned. This site is by far not the worst when it comes to the range of banned words. Some seem to have pretty extensive lists. There are some sites which ban a whole lot of words for being drug lingo related as well. Like I've seen some that you can't put 420.

I could understand the down vote if I had said something that was potentially disagreeable, controversial or offensive. But I am pretty sure I didn't in the post that was down voted. It was a fiction story in one of the more permissive forums and really nothing that extreme or out of the ordinary about it given the general content there. I totally understand that not everyone is going to like every story. I also realize I'm not a very good writer and don't have really great English skills. But I'd never down vote someone for a story even if I didn't like it. Well, maybe almost never. Perhaps if someone wrote something really offensive, but it would have to pretty much be something that would probably be in violation of the rules of the forum anyway. In fact I've upvoted a lot of stories that weren't really my personal cup of tea because I could see the quality of the work or the effort that the writer put into it. I guess maybe others don't view things the same way I do about that. I try to encourage people to be creative and share because there are certainly other people who might think things I'm not into to be the hottest thing ever. And to me that's totally OK. Anyway, I guess I shouldn't take a down vote so personally. But I don't think I'm alone as far as story writer goes that I thrive on positive comments and feedback. And I even appreciate a certain amount of critical commentary as long as it is constructive things I can use to do a better job writing in the future. But just a down vote really doesn't give me any useful information on what I can improve on. I contemplated sending a private message to the person who down voted my story asking them what they didn't like about it, but I didn't think it would be a good idea. It might just piss them off and they might go out and just start down voting everything I've posted. I'm not really big into being confrontational so I was hoping to just be able to fly under their radar if they just have some axe to grind with me about something. Especially since I've got little to no idea what that could be.

Honestly, I rarely get fully hard or stay fully hard except when stroking myself. I've never really had an issue with tops seeming disappointed in that or for that matter really that interested. Some actually seem to prefer a bottom to just have a tiny little nub like I do.