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How to stop bareback cheating? (no judgment)
NastyRigPig replied to Rendezvousnow's topic in General Discussion
I think sex addiction is an issue in your instance. There are 12 step programs for that. I use meth, but I wouldn’t consider myself an addict, but if I’m trying to lay off the shit for a while I make certain I’m not reading stories or watching vids/chatting with other pigs in to meth. I think the same would apply in your case. If you’re trying to lay off, you probably need to remove the temptation. Delete the apps, get off the BB sites, etc. It can reduce your cravings, but it won’t eliminate them. Your absolute best plan of action is marriage counseling where you are able to bring up your wanting to open the relationship and what your needs are. -
This is true, I just hope younger guys reading this thread keep it in mind. Also, I don’t derive any pleasure thinking of anybody else receiving mental distress. We can cause each other so much needless pain. I remember one night I was out and and a friend of a friend said something cruel to a guy at the bar. I told him immediately that he was rude and he should go apologize. Of course he was indignant. I said, well, if this is acceptable behavior in this group I’m out of here and I walked over to the guy and said ‘I’m sorry that he was such an ass to you’. I no longer have room for mean people in my life.
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I know for me it was around age 33/34. I’m still told I’m handsome, but there’s expectations of me. I don’t get as much sex as I once did, but the sex I do get is very enjoyable. The trick is not to let your sexual attractiveness be what gives you your self esteem. And for those who aren’t in to older bottoms a simple ‘sorry, not interested’ is sufficient. Some of the turndowns can be quite cruel. Not me, I rarely initiate, but I’ve some some horrific put downs at bars/sex clubs from others. We all need to be nicer.
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Such a fucking hot story.
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I’d read the reviews on Amazon before you purchase. It sounds like the type of hair you have makes a big difference as to the effectiveness of the product. It sounds like guys with coarse hair (such as myself) are the ones with the least success.
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My recommendation is to scope out the cruisy area first, scope it out in the daylight, and look for the obvious signs of where cruising happens, the small packages of lube, possibly condoms (some str8 men still use them) etc. Just get a feel for the space before you have any expectation for a hookup.
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Sounds like a plan
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Oh yes, I’ve had a few day period like this.
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As gay men we base so much on looks, that if you’re fit and trim and he has an average bod (or worse) he’s going to automatically think that you’re out of his league. I remember in college I had a friend who was funny but shy and he never was successful when we went out to bars (this predates the internet). I joked that he had a choice to make, work on the shyness (the rest of his personality was great) or make a shit ton of money. Yeah, he’s loaded now.
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Meh, a good drawstring works as well.
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Dating While Poz - Outside of the Apps
NastyRigPig replied to LetsPOZBreed's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
If it’s a blind date or somebody you met in a coffeeshop type situation, I think the first time you meet I’d work it in to the conversation. If things aren’t going so hot on the date, it wouldn’t be necessary, but if you feel a spark, then yes. Just say, ‘hey, I think you need to know I’m poz, on meds and undetectable’ and let him process the information any way he needs to. -
I don’t see how this can go wrong, after all, men never lie when it comes to sex.
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Except for the screaming yellow carrying case!
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Treehugger, did you use to have a different handle?
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My experience on both sides of the equation are that the bottom riding the top is the position most likely to have the top lose his erection. YMMV.
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I just got a promotion to the status of veteran. I don’t know if I should be honored or ashamed.
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And it’s appreciated!
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That’s what I thought, I know who posted the story, not who wrote it. That knowledge may be lost.
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What, no blumpkins?
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Does anybody know who the author of this story is? It’s been around for a long time, I’m just curious if he has other stuff out there.
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Now I feel pressure to have really deep thoughts during sex.
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Back in the dark ages we used to use 35 mm film containers for this.
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Hints from Hell-O-Ease: If you’ve been somewhere where you’ve gotten several loads, consider taking your jock off and wearing it backwards so your jock will collect any of the drips.
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Are you looking for partying guys or not? ClubZ is a sketchier crowd, but you can have a hot time there. A lot will be partying. Steamworks is more of the crowd you’ll see at the bars. I haven’t been since covid, so I can’t tell you about how busy they are or their trends.
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