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I went a few years ago to Slammers Ftl, and really enjoyed it. Went on a Saturday night, and it was packed. There were all kind of men, from the young shy nerd yo the old unhibited barebacker pro. Its a really big place, It took me like 3 hours to get used to the place without getting lost. Very few posing going on, most guys are really into having sex. BUT, a few months ago, I read someone saying that it dramatically changed in order to not be closed down by health inspectors. That nowadays its mostly a big dance floor, that guys stand around and there's little action going on. What do you know about it, have you gone recently? is it any different than it used to be, is it not worth a visit or is it still a nice place to play? That's one of the best places I've been to, it'd be so sad to see it closing down.

I have read articles about average dick size; from USA, Europe, Asia, and Latin America. They all say the same thing, that average dick size is from 5 to 6 inches long. Of course, some races/cultures/areas of the world have different sizes, but on average that's it, 5"-6". Counting all the men I've fucked, the ones who have fucked me, and all of those who I've seen their dicks for any reason (all races included), we are talking of probably more than 500 (a sizable sample). I'd say around 30 were true 8 (6%) and 3 were true 9 (0.6%)). I haven't seen 10", 11", 12" ones in person. So, huge dicks of 8, 9, 10, 11 inches are really really scarce. So I always wonder where this fascination with huge dicks come from. It's some sort of obsessive pathology worth analyzing. - Haven't we all seen way too many dicks as to notice what the median is? - Aren't we big enough to understand that xxx movie directors look for hung men, not the typical Joe. - Aren't we tired of seeing pics of 6" long dicks on sex apps and guys saying it's 8" (btw, 8 is the magic number, 70% of gay men have an 8" dick). Some guys seem to live a fantasy. It's very common to read profiles where they clearly state that they won't do anything if the dick is not at least 8" long. I mean, It's not impossible to find such hung men, but, waiting for them for so long, discarding great looking ones with decent dicks just because are not 8+ doesn't seem reasonable. Also, remember that thousands of bottoms would kill for such a top, are you that gorgeous or average looking. The latter one reduces even more the odds of finding a very hung one. We humans tend to dislike exaggerations. The same way most dislike men with huge noses, ears, eyes, mouths, heads, or those who are extremely tall, many would actually dislike horse hung men, as they look like that, something in the middle between a horse and a human, I see nothing attractive in that, it's doesn't look natural. Also, such huge dicks tend to have erection problems, imagine all the blood they require to stay erect. IMO, the biggest a dick should be to feel nice is 8", but 6 and 7 are not to be rejected. Size does matter though, 4" one is way too small and barely felt. No man is born to take 8, 9, 10, 11, 12 inches dicks. If someone say that it's not a fantasy, that they need a 9" one to feel pleasure I'd recommend the following: stop mutilating your ass with toys, and you'd have a better sexual life, based on reality. Any comments on whatever you'd like to comment are welcome.

Long time ago I had sex with a man who had a micro penis. Literally, it was around 2" long. He was extremely hot, great fit body, and, a top, so I guess he must be a very traumatized man. Thing is, we were not drunk/drugged, nothing. We met in a cruising spot then headed in our cars to an abandoned factory area. I thought he was rubbing it against my ass, then he asked: you want it inside or outside... I was like "what"!? well, let me follow his game... I want it inside. Afterwards, there was a little bit of cum in my ass. I felt literally nothing. If it was not because of the cum I'd say I wasn't fucked by him.

I've noticed what you say, it's something cultural, it's not like that in many parts of the world. Sex in the USA is full of fetishes and fantasies; it usually involves some garment like a jockstrap, or some role playing like dad-son or master-slave. I really dislike the "I'm a bottom and my only purpose in life is to pleasure tops" or the "I'm a top and I only want your tongue in my dick and that warm ass". We are humans with feelings and needs, such mechanical way of thinking is not natural, it is learned. It's something I have had to get used to. I feel such life-long attitudes are not normal, maybe deep inside there's some trauma behind them. I am more passionate, sex for me is about pleasing myself and my bottom or vice versa. I like no garments, no role playing.

Guess it would feel great to put a feet in an ass.

This topic reminded me of a dildo I bought 2 years ago and used it like 10 times. It looks/feels real, it's 8" and really thick, lightly skinned, big balls. I wasted 80 dollars on it and have thought about the possibility of selling it, exchanging it for something else or even donate it to someone who would greatly appreciate it. But those are just random thoughts, as I don't want to throw it in the garbage as i am a very simplistic person, thing I don't use, thing I throw in the garbage, I keep very few things with me. If in the future I get in the mood of dildoing myself then I'd buy another one by then.

It depends on city, but basically you see everything, just don't wear street clothes, I fucking hate that, everyone does. Most common thing it a towel around the waist.

I have talked with a couple of guys who have been in prison and they all say the same thing, that nowadays, it's not like in the 70s, 80s, there are way more controls. They say it happens, but not as often, and raping is a no no no, you could get in real trouble for doing so, unless you get there because you raped a child, maybe you will be raped, and not in a good way, maybe they will make it extremely painful, with huge objects and such. So, sex is a really consented thing. Also, a discreet thing, it's not about orgies every single night with 20+ hot men in the showers while prison police watch and jerk. They say prostitutes are not very well accepted, that they prefer to engage in relationships and be monogamous. We also need to consider the following. Being in prison is one of the worst things that can happen to any human, sex in prison is a nice escape to that reality and that's it. It's like people who like to eat a bag of chocolates when depressed, they taste wonderful, feel satisfied, then what. So please stop this fantasy a little bit, it has artificially grown so much.

I get extremely horny when a man I'm fucking sucks my dick without asking to clean it, mainly because extremely few men do it, and because I see it as enjoying sex no matter what, with no limits. As a bottom, I've only sucked 2 guys' cocks, and found no pleasure in it, haven't done it again and won't do it again, unless I get fucked by an extremely hot man who asks for it. I'm in no way vanilla, problem is I'm very sensitive to smells and flavors.

Thanks for your suggestions. I'm still drinking lots of water and eating lots of fiber, that way, at least, they don't swell more, as taking a shit is easy, i don't have to push hard. I'm weird in many ways, I'd eventually go to a doctor if necessary, but I don't feel comfortable having a doctor working in my ass, even though I have no problem giving it to uneducated/complete strangers. I went to one when I was in HS, so this is my second time with hemorrhoids, that time was reallyyy nasty, huge bulged veins both externally and internally, I was extremely freaked out as I was so young, thought it was cancer. he prescribed a cream that was a miracle, got rid of them really fast. I will check for Prep H and try some other otc remedies first.

I've noticed natural anal lube has an unpleasant smell, and has nothing to do with how well cleaned you are. I have also been in situations where the top's dick got covered with it and I really hate it, it smells and is messy, period.

The odds of getting an ugly fuck bud are very high, as there are as many ugly people as beautiful ones, and we gays are very sexually driven. I've gotten plenty, I do mind about looks, but some ugly guys are hot in other ways, as great body, dick/ass, personality, etc.

Around 4 months ago, I got extremely constipated, it lasted nearly a month. I didn't want to take laxatives because I think that was what created my problem, as I was abusing them because of my frequent bottoming (which was a first in my life, as I used to bottom every blue moon). So, when I stopped using them, my system was too dependent on them, and stopped working. I used to drink tons of water, eat lots of fiber, but nothing helped. I didn't go to a doctor because I need to be dying in order to go to one, and as terrible and painful as it was, I used to take small shits, so I knew I was not going to "explode". All of that, the hard constrictions and such, led to the development of internal hemorrhoids in my lower rectum, just at the tip of the anus. It's not a whole bunch nor are too swelled up, but it's traumatic. I barely bottom, since then, I have only taken dick up my ass with condoms, as for the top to not feel it. I have tried a few things, but nothing has worked. I have just waited to see if they disappear by themselves. I know this is a problem many bottoms face. So I'd really appreciate any insight, any remedy that really works. Thanks.

I like to drive, it's a way to relief stress, anxiety, depression, etc. Whenever I can I get in my car and drive far away with no place or purpose set in my mind. It doesn't matter time of the day. I've noticed intriguing things on the road, specially late night. Where I live, hitchhikers tend to be people that look intimidating/scary. But, sometimes I see very hot men (most with a thugish look, but not menacing) in dark roads and they don't make any sign as to let drivers notice that they are asking for a ride, they are just standing or walking to nowhere, as nearest inhabited place is beyond walking distance. In such instances, my heart starts beating faster, my body gets hotter, I get excited and nervous. I slowly drive by them a couple of times, high beam on. I start wondering: what is he doing? he seems to go nowhere, he is not asking for a ride, he looks too fucking hot, he basically keeps walking or standing but doesn't make any signal or just stares at me, would it be a code I don't know about? Then I keep asking to myself: should I stop, start some chitchat? no, it's too risky. What if he is into something illegal as selling drugs, looking for someone to mug, what if he has a gun, what if he is a police officer looking for its prey, some might think it's a joke but I also think what if he is a spectrum a devilish ghost. Then comes: what if he is into asking for a ride and is willing to pay with sex, or getting paid for sex (which I'd have no problem in such an instance), what if he is straight and I'm the first man he fucks (wow). The thrill of the moment, the open, natural, rural spaces, the darkness, the solitude, the unexpected, the uncommon. All of that makes me insanely horny, way more than a predictable sauna, sex app or public park. Now some comments: - I think I will always keep this as a fantasy, as it's really dangerous to pick strangers in such circumstances, unless I know him beforehand. - I strongly discourage anyone who is reading to do so, don't do it! If you become way too horny do what I've done, head to the nearest sauna, or turn grindr on and connect with a known fb and that's it, much safer. - As a matter of fact, one time I was checking a guy like that, someone picked him up, literally, immediately, maybe 10 seconds afterwards, a police car was behind him with those bright lights on (I have NO idea where that police car came from), but seems they were advised and were waiting somewhere very well hidden, so it's risky no matter what, not worth doing it. Question: - Any of you feel the same way? Have any experiences to share, good and/or bad? Any comments?

Very good topic. Most has been said. I'd add or abound on a few ones. 1. While many are up to have public sex (in some cities/countries, as in others you can't), not everyone enjoy it. I like my privacy. So, if I'm in an open space, and you approach and I stop what I'm doing or make some gesture to let you know that I'm not interested in more people joining, then move. One night at a place with private rooms and open play spaces, I was in a semi dark corner fucking a guy, then another man approached, I stopped, he didn't move, I said in a politely way: can you please leave us alone? he replied: There are rooms if you want privacy. I replied: I know, but I didn't want to pay more, so I don't have a room and you should respect my space. Luckily a friend of his was nearby, came and grabbed him by his arm and said, excuse him, because most probably I had gotten in a fight, and what an spectacle being arrested naked or with a towel on. 2. Posers and bitchy men: they never play, they sit and watch porn on tvs, they think are better looking than everyone else and avoid eye contact. I wonder, saunas and such places are not cheap. Ain't it stupid wasting money to stand all night, avoid eye contact, and watch porn in tvs? 3. Guys who you fucked once or twice, and seem to live in such places, so every time you go, they are there, and bug you. One of the main reasons I go to such places is because there's an assortment of guys to choose from, if I'd like to stick to one, I'd look for a fuck buddy, so leave me alone, damn.

I mainly used to dislike fucking a cum filled ass because I used to think "which troll fucked this guy before me". Also, I like clean, odorless sex, so, fucking a guy who probably sweated a lot, with sticky/stinky cum in his ass, is not too appealing to me. Nowadays, sometimes I don't care, sometimes I do.

There are some instances when I'd feel embarrased. What I don't get is why would a top be so shocked and alarmed and uncomfortable finding out there's cum in your ass.. let's say, at a dark room. What you expect on a darkroom?

I'd go for white dick. I know the only reason most say black is because they fantasize about them being horse hung and sex machines. I have had sex with some black guys, and have seen everything; small dicked ones, big dicked ones, bottoms, etc., some were good at sex, others were a total mess, etc.

Extremely few bottoms can keep getting fucked once they cum. I usually need like 15 mins recovery time if I'm very horny. There's no way I can keep getting fucked. I've planned it lots of times, no matter anything I do/set in my mind I just can't. It hurts like hell, it's like a burning sensation mixed with some strange pain and zero interest in sex.

I thought I had seen absolutely everything imaginable, basically nothing weird which was new to me really impressed me, until not so long ago, on a boring sleepless night I was randomly searching for porn. I'm talking about "Mosquito Bite Fetish" on the dick. They say their dicks get hard and can cum once mosquitoes start biting their dicks (and you can see so in the videos). Maybe I'm too sensitive, but only one mosquito bite, on any part of my body, and it's enough to completely ruin a fucking session, as I'm allergic to them. Most fetishes have no logic explanation. I'd say I have a feet fetish to some extent. I don't like to sniff, massage, suck, lick, kiss them, but I do like to see/stare at them. Every time I see a man wearing flip-flops I stare at them. When fucking, I get more pleasure if the man is bare feet, etc. But, I need the feet to look good and be in good conditions to feel aroused; so, most of the time I ignore them,as very few men have good looking feet, and even fewer take good care of them. So if I get asked why I like feet as I explained, my answer would be: I have no clue, I don't know when/where this came from.

There are lots of explanations, but I think the main 2 reasons why bottoms prefer tops to cum fast are the following: 1. Cum fetish. They care more about having their asses creamed, the feeling of it, rather than the fucking. 2. Many don't get real pleasure from getting fucked, it's mostly psychological, as it hurts, they want them to cum fast. I know there are some instances/places/time when we need to do it fast; otherwise, sex should be thoroughly enjoyed, no hurries.

I'm extremely picky. I need to know how the man I'm having sex with looks like. Once I know, fucking in a dark room can be very hot, as we tend to lose inhibitions. There have been times I have been fucking this "incredible, hot man" at a dark room, then for any reason it becomes partially lit and everyone in it gets to see each other's faces. Then I realize the same, I'm fucking the one I was trying to avoid all night long, or a nasty looking one, and I get really annoyed/ashamed.