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So for all the white guys on this site: Would you date a black man? Would you feel comfortable bringing a black man home to family and friends? Do you have friends who you know have racist views? Are you even slightly uncomfortable with this topic?

I know it can be done. I am certain it has been done. Again, I would like to know if anyone in this forum has solid knowledge of how to visit an inmate and have sex with him during the visit?

In part because I have learned so much from bottoms on this site, clearly tops like myself have totally different mindsets from guys who bottom regularly. It might even be futile to try to decipher the sequencing of a top's thought patterns when his pulsating cock takes precedence over any rational thinking about "time it takes for the bottom to prepare". LOL. A horny top is being ruled by his stiff cock. Good luck trying to make sense of the inconsiderate top who is yearning for a hole for his manhood. Your time must now align with his time. Must. In a similar fashion many heterosexual men know that they will never fully understand how women think or just how women give meaning to everyday occurrences in life. Let's learn to accept each other. Try working through each other's quirks. That kind of awareness can put the fun back in the fuck session. And fun is what it's all about.

I agree. It seems difficult to score over 200 if you're more into topping than bottoming. Your scores vary inversely with how much topping you do. Guys who are versatile or who bottom a lot should have high scores, in general. And generally guys who are exclusively total tops should have lower scores. Of course there will always be exceptions.

156. Based on scores higher than my score, it seems like I have a very dull sex life. One of the most thought-provoking item on the list was: "Have/Had a House Boy". I wish I could check that off my bucket list. Just to have a house boy for at least a week is something I aim to achieve.

Thank you for highlighting the fact that racism is inherent in the gay community. Why would the gay community turn on each other other the issue of race? Haven't we learned any lessons from the oppression we faced in the past? Prejudices of all kinds are rampant among gay men, it's not just about skin color. We should never accept prejudice.

You are so right. Racism, sexism and other forms of prejudice are still alive in the gay community. Let's not gloss over or ignore failings among gay men. Bigots may be on the losing side in appealing to our hearts and minds. It's not hard to believe that racism and homophobia will always be around us and will never go away no matter how much we fight it. But we must tackle the problem head on. Never accept prejudice. As in many other areas of life, when it comes to interracial barebacking, it's good to be mindful that racism can be intentional or unintentional. Words can hurt, whether you mean them to or not.

Democrats and Republicans must face the black lives matter movement in this upcoming presidential election. It's a movement that has far reaching political implications in today's American society. The death of Nancy Reagan has reminded us of the legacy of the Reagan administration. Ronald and Nancy Reagan were completely indifferent to HIV and AIDS when it reared its head back in 1981. At that time the crisis was manageable enough but the Reagan administration turned its back on gay men, IV-drug users, and Haitians. Those were the populations vilified in the media. Historians directly attribute the decimation of the gay community in the 80's as a direct result of the marginalization by the Reagan administration. Gay men had no rights. Even gay sex was illegal back then. It wasn't until 2004 that Sodomy laws were overturned in the United States. In short, politics matter. Nevertheless weak powerless activists were able change the national dialog on HIV and AIDS. So today we need to have a national discussion about racism. The discussion begins with each of us. In your world and in my world. The politics of racism goes far beyond the achievement of a black man in the White House. In part we should recognize that GBM and GWM can have mutual respect for each other inside and outside the bedroom. It's not all about the color of my skin or the size of my cock. Let's get to know each other as human beings.

Lately we have been bombarded with conversations about racism. I wonder how that affects our sexual appetite. The media won't let go of the #OscarsSoWhite controversy. The media is all over Donald Trump's refusal to unequivocally condemn white supremacist David Duke and the KKK. Mr. Trump, of course, has used the media to his advantage to stoke anti-immigrant fears among American citizens. Are we willing to believe that's not having any effect on our interracial sexual relationships? A common thread in this discourse is the media. The power of the media cannot be underestimated. And psychological warfare in this era dominated by social media is winning the hearts and minds of many individuals. Facebook and Twitter are pushing out the messages and agendas that affect so many areas of our lives. We need to connect the dots to understand how our young people become radicalized to join terrorist organizations. We need to connect the dots to understand why our gay teens become suicidal based on institutionalized homophobia, depression, drugs, and of course bullying. Homosexuality is not color blind. Let's be clear that the next time we have a breeding session with a Mexican, more than likely we won't be thinking that he must be a criminal or a rapist for whom a wall is needed at our country's border. But if we view the gay community as a subculture and a metaphor for society itself then we can begin to understand why gay men tend to have sexual relations within their own demographic. Here's where the media is a powerful catalyst. Homophobia and racism seem like 2 peas in the same pod.

I believe you are very much 'on-topic'. Statistics tend to suggest that black men are more uninhibited sexually than white men. Statistics tend to suggest that black men are more promiscuous than white men. My personal experience, having been with both black and white men, is in agreement with those statistics. I recall a recent hookup with a black guy who prior to our meeting kept telling me his fuck hole was 'cum-hungry'. Well he performed like a porn star in the bedroom. Interestingly, in the middle of our all-night session, he invited another black guy to spice things up. This third party was a black guy he had just met for the first time walking down the street a few hours earlier. The fucking and the breeding was intense. Both guys took a least 2 loads each from me. On the other side of the race spectrum, the most recent white guy I bred was a physician I met at a church in Pennsylvania. When we met for sex, I thought he would want me to wear a condom (because of his profession and his high status in the medical community). Well I was pleasantly surprised when he demanded my raw cock and load. Who am I to argue with a doctor? More importantly, in keeping with this "#blacklivesmatter" topic, I found the sex between us was very vanilla. We only fucked raw in the missionary position. He was happy to get my load. But I prefer to do more in bed than just be a load-giver. Whether you believe there is inherent racism to say that black men are more sexually virile than white men is a matter of personal opinion. Personally I believe that African American men tend to have less inhibitions in the bedroom. The CDC's most recent statistics adds credibility to my beliefs. According to the CDC, 50% of gay and bisexual black men in the United States will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetime; 1 in 4 gay Hispanics will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetime; But only 1 in 11 gay white men will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetime. The CDC says that gay black men have the highest risk due to socioeconomic factors. Those are recently published statistics from the CDC. Here's one lesson we can learn from the CDC data: For bug-chasers, that's great news. A white man who is bug-chasing should know that he is better off pursuing a black man...especially a black man with a high viral load. Whether you believe this feeds into racism or pragmatism is really up to you. But it might underscore why you feel the way you do about this topic.

Maybe we all have racist tendencies. And we tend to mask our racist tendencies by convincing ourselves that we are attracted to certain types. Or we declare that we are entitled to our preferences. There could be a lil bit of racism in all of us.

To label someone a racist because they say in an online profile "no blacks" is a stretch. Personally I can't agree with you. In my mind a racist label is much more complex. But it never fails to amaze me how guys reading a thread like this refuse to reveal their true selves. Here's where guys hide behind their computers and mobile devices for many weird reasons. I am not here to judge anyone. You've got something to contribute: If you're a white guy and you've never dated a black guy... If you're a white guy and you've never had sex with a black guy... If you're a white guy and you have no desire whatsoever to have any kind of intimate relationship with a black guy... You know this thread is applicable to you...so why hide in the secrecy of cyberspace? Are you afraid that you might be perceived to be a racist? Be true to yourself. I say Man Up! Grow a Pair! We can still learn something from each other.

I am puzzled. Are you attracted to black guys? Or are you saying that's none of anybody's business? And why don't I get to second-guess your motives? Unfortunately I can and I will second-guess your motives. In certain circles white guys who don't wanna have sex with black guys are considered racists. On the other hand in our society, white guys who love to have sex with black guys are at risk of being labeled a nigger-lover. So respectfully I ask, where do you stand?

Racism is alive and well. If we assume that statement is true then can we also assume that we are separate but equal? Perhaps. Black Lives Matter and White Lives Matter but many people don't care about racism when it comes to interracial fucking. If you are in a dark room bent over taking multiple cocks and loads, I don't think you are concerned about the breeder's skin color. There is a poll in this forum titled "White Boys Riding Black Rods...Taboo or not Taboo" and many issues were raised in that thread but it seemed like we all danced around the issue of racism in that thread but never really confronted it head on!! In that same thread, a contributor (screen name "wood") said: " there is a lil bit of latent racism in this forum about black men...". Maybe there is some truth to the fact that racism and homophobia usually come in the same package. So 2 simple questions: 1. Do you detect latent racism in this website? (Please elaborate). 2. Do you shed your prejudices in bed but have a different reality in your public life? (Honestly).

Your post is very interesting. Sounds very casual when you said "but that's it" in referring to those other sexually transmitted diseases (STD's). PrEP, it seems to me, has given us all a license to fuck raw more than ever before. A lot more. And currently STD's like chlamydia and gonorrhea are easily cured with antibiotics. Many barebackers seem to believe that such STD's are an inevitable outcome. STD's are kinda like the collateral damage for the pleasure of barebacking. Nobody wants to get syphilis, chlamydia, gonorrhea, etc. However for me, getting gonorrhea has affected me mentally. It's almost like it hurts my self-esteem. So many people in this world has never contracted any STD yet I have contracted gonorrhea multiple times. Does anyone else here feels this way too? Moreover I would like to hear from those who rationalize that fear of these other STD's is not an issue. Fucking raw takes precedence. Everything else is secondary. Am I correct in my assessment?