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So for all the white guys on this site: Would you date a black man? Would you feel comfortable bringing a black man home to family and friends? Do you have friends who you know have racist views? Are you even slightly uncomfortable with this topic?

I know it can be done. I am certain it has been done. Again, I would like to know if anyone in this forum has solid knowledge of how to visit an inmate and have sex with him during the visit?

In part because I have learned so much from bottoms on this site, clearly tops like myself have totally different mindsets from guys who bottom regularly. It might even be futile to try to decipher the sequencing of a top's thought patterns when his pulsating cock takes precedence over any rational thinking about "time it takes for the bottom to prepare". LOL. A horny top is being ruled by his stiff cock. Good luck trying to make sense of the inconsiderate top who is yearning for a hole for his manhood. Your time must now align with his time. Must. In a similar fashion many heterosexual men know that they will never fully understand how women think or just how women give meaning to everyday occurrences in life. Let's learn to accept each other. Try working through each other's quirks. That kind of awareness can put the fun back in the fuck session. And fun is what it's all about.

I agree. It seems difficult to score over 200 if you're more into topping than bottoming. Your scores vary inversely with how much topping you do. Guys who are versatile or who bottom a lot should have high scores, in general. And generally guys who are exclusively total tops should have lower scores. Of course there will always be exceptions.

156. Based on scores higher than my score, it seems like I have a very dull sex life. One of the most thought-provoking item on the list was: "Have/Had a House Boy". I wish I could check that off my bucket list. Just to have a house boy for at least a week is something I aim to achieve.

Thank you for highlighting the fact that racism is inherent in the gay community. Why would the gay community turn on each other other the issue of race? Haven't we learned any lessons from the oppression we faced in the past? Prejudices of all kinds are rampant among gay men, it's not just about skin color. We should never accept prejudice.

You are so right. Racism, sexism and other forms of prejudice are still alive in the gay community. Let's not gloss over or ignore failings among gay men. Bigots may be on the losing side in appealing to our hearts and minds. It's not hard to believe that racism and homophobia will always be around us and will never go away no matter how much we fight it. But we must tackle the problem head on. Never accept prejudice. As in many other areas of life, when it comes to interracial barebacking, it's good to be mindful that racism can be intentional or unintentional. Words can hurt, whether you mean them to or not.

Democrats and Republicans must face the black lives matter movement in this upcoming presidential election. It's a movement that has far reaching political implications in today's American society. The death of Nancy Reagan has reminded us of the legacy of the Reagan administration. Ronald and Nancy Reagan were completely indifferent to HIV and AIDS when it reared its head back in 1981. At that time the crisis was manageable enough but the Reagan administration turned its back on gay men, IV-drug users, and Haitians. Those were the populations vilified in the media. Historians directly attribute the decimation of the gay community in the 80's as a direct result of the marginalization by the Reagan administration. Gay men had no rights. Even gay sex was illegal back then. It wasn't until 2004 that Sodomy laws were overturned in the United States. In short, politics matter. Nevertheless weak powerless activists were able change the national dialog on HIV and AIDS. So today we need to have a national discussion about racism. The discussion begins with each of us. In your world and in my world. The politics of racism goes far beyond the achievement of a black man in the White House. In part we should recognize that GBM and GWM can have mutual respect for each other inside and outside the bedroom. It's not all about the color of my skin or the size of my cock. Let's get to know each other as human beings.

Lately we have been bombarded with conversations about racism. I wonder how that affects our sexual appetite. The media won't let go of the #OscarsSoWhite controversy. The media is all over Donald Trump's refusal to unequivocally condemn white supremacist David Duke and the KKK. Mr. Trump, of course, has used the media to his advantage to stoke anti-immigrant fears among American citizens. Are we willing to believe that's not having any effect on our interracial sexual relationships? A common thread in this discourse is the media. The power of the media cannot be underestimated. And psychological warfare in this era dominated by social media is winning the hearts and minds of many individuals. Facebook and Twitter are pushing out the messages and agendas that affect so many areas of our lives. We need to connect the dots to understand how our young people become radicalized to join terrorist organizations. We need to connect the dots to understand why our gay teens become suicidal based on institutionalized homophobia, depression, drugs, and of course bullying. Homosexuality is not color blind. Let's be clear that the next time we have a breeding session with a Mexican, more than likely we won't be thinking that he must be a criminal or a rapist for whom a wall is needed at our country's border. But if we view the gay community as a subculture and a metaphor for society itself then we can begin to understand why gay men tend to have sexual relations within their own demographic. Here's where the media is a powerful catalyst. Homophobia and racism seem like 2 peas in the same pod.

I believe you are very much 'on-topic'. Statistics tend to suggest that black men are more uninhibited sexually than white men. Statistics tend to suggest that black men are more promiscuous than white men. My personal experience, having been with both black and white men, is in agreement with those statistics. I recall a recent hookup with a black guy who prior to our meeting kept telling me his fuck hole was 'cum-hungry'. Well he performed like a porn star in the bedroom. Interestingly, in the middle of our all-night session, he invited another black guy to spice things up. This third party was a black guy he had just met for the first time walking down the street a few hours earlier. The fucking and the breeding was intense. Both guys took a least 2 loads each from me. On the other side of the race spectrum, the most recent white guy I bred was a physician I met at a church in Pennsylvania. When we met for sex, I thought he would want me to wear a condom (because of his profession and his high status in the medical community). Well I was pleasantly surprised when he demanded my raw cock and load. Who am I to argue with a doctor? More importantly, in keeping with this "#blacklivesmatter" topic, I found the sex between us was very vanilla. We only fucked raw in the missionary position. He was happy to get my load. But I prefer to do more in bed than just be a load-giver. Whether you believe there is inherent racism to say that black men are more sexually virile than white men is a matter of personal opinion. Personally I believe that African American men tend to have less inhibitions in the bedroom. The CDC's most recent statistics adds credibility to my beliefs. According to the CDC, 50% of gay and bisexual black men in the United States will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetime; 1 in 4 gay Hispanics will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetime; But only 1 in 11 gay white men will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetime. The CDC says that gay black men have the highest risk due to socioeconomic factors. Those are recently published statistics from the CDC. Here's one lesson we can learn from the CDC data: For bug-chasers, that's great news. A white man who is bug-chasing should know that he is better off pursuing a black man...especially a black man with a high viral load. Whether you believe this feeds into racism or pragmatism is really up to you. But it might underscore why you feel the way you do about this topic.

Maybe we all have racist tendencies. And we tend to mask our racist tendencies by convincing ourselves that we are attracted to certain types. Or we declare that we are entitled to our preferences. There could be a lil bit of racism in all of us.

To label someone a racist because they say in an online profile "no blacks" is a stretch. Personally I can't agree with you. In my mind a racist label is much more complex. But it never fails to amaze me how guys reading a thread like this refuse to reveal their true selves. Here's where guys hide behind their computers and mobile devices for many weird reasons. I am not here to judge anyone. You've got something to contribute: If you're a white guy and you've never dated a black guy... If you're a white guy and you've never had sex with a black guy... If you're a white guy and you have no desire whatsoever to have any kind of intimate relationship with a black guy... You know this thread is applicable to you...so why hide in the secrecy of cyberspace? Are you afraid that you might be perceived to be a racist? Be true to yourself. I say Man Up! Grow a Pair! We can still learn something from each other.

I am puzzled. Are you attracted to black guys? Or are you saying that's none of anybody's business? And why don't I get to second-guess your motives? Unfortunately I can and I will second-guess your motives. In certain circles white guys who don't wanna have sex with black guys are considered racists. On the other hand in our society, white guys who love to have sex with black guys are at risk of being labeled a nigger-lover. So respectfully I ask, where do you stand?

Racism is alive and well. If we assume that statement is true then can we also assume that we are separate but equal? Perhaps. Black Lives Matter and White Lives Matter but many people don't care about racism when it comes to interracial fucking. If you are in a dark room bent over taking multiple cocks and loads, I don't think you are concerned about the breeder's skin color. There is a poll in this forum titled "White Boys Riding Black Rods...Taboo or not Taboo" and many issues were raised in that thread but it seemed like we all danced around the issue of racism in that thread but never really confronted it head on!! In that same thread, a contributor (screen name "wood") said: " there is a lil bit of latent racism in this forum about black men...". Maybe there is some truth to the fact that racism and homophobia usually come in the same package. So 2 simple questions: 1. Do you detect latent racism in this website? (Please elaborate). 2. Do you shed your prejudices in bed but have a different reality in your public life? (Honestly).

Your post is very interesting. Sounds very casual when you said "but that's it" in referring to those other sexually transmitted diseases (STD's). PrEP, it seems to me, has given us all a license to fuck raw more than ever before. A lot more. And currently STD's like chlamydia and gonorrhea are easily cured with antibiotics. Many barebackers seem to believe that such STD's are an inevitable outcome. STD's are kinda like the collateral damage for the pleasure of barebacking. Nobody wants to get syphilis, chlamydia, gonorrhea, etc. However for me, getting gonorrhea has affected me mentally. It's almost like it hurts my self-esteem. So many people in this world has never contracted any STD yet I have contracted gonorrhea multiple times. Does anyone else here feels this way too? Moreover I would like to hear from those who rationalize that fear of these other STD's is not an issue. Fucking raw takes precedence. Everything else is secondary. Am I correct in my assessment?

And in your OP you said " I'd Like to hear from prep bottoms (or vers) that have seriously put PrEP to the test and stayed neg"... Like you I'm already on PrEP. But I am curious, why did you direct this topic specifically to bottoms and vers guys? Are you not concerned with the risks that tops face too? Can we agree that tops can contract HIV from bottoms? Or are we saying that the risk from tops to bottoms far exceeds the risk from bottoms to tops?...so this becomes more of an issue for bottoms. I am just trying to understand how you framed your question by targeting bottoms and vers guys. It leads me to believe that PrEP matters more to guys who bottom as opposed to guys who top. Please help me to get a more in-depth understanding about this topic. I am still learning about PrEP and its effectiveness. Thanks.

Somewhere in my mind I think every bottom is a power bottom. Perhaps it's because I am the energizer-bunny-top who can go on and on, and on. It can take me a long time to skeet...especially if I am really enjoying the bottom's ass! So whenever a bottom wants to stop after a few minutes it tends to mess up my rhythm. I believe it's all about sexual stamina. When tops and bottoms start to understand that there's athleticism in the act of fucking, only then will power bottoms and long-lasting tops be born. Most athletic events demand: endurance, stamina, and agility. Sex is no different. Of course practice helps but your mindset is far more important than your skills-set when it comes to sex. I have encountered many skillful men in the bedroom who couldn't go the distance. Finally, be aware that not just you, but every man is a work in progress in the bedroom. That's just one of the facts of life. So let's have some fun while working on our sexual stamina. Having fun...isn't that what it's all about?

The above mentioned quote sums up how I feel. Sometimes I think bottoms can be more selective than tops. Sometimes I feel bottoms have more choices than tops. Sometimes I feel bottoms have more fun than tops. Just think, a bottom can take load after load after load from as many tops as he chooses. But there's a limit to the number of loads any top can release in a defined period of time. From my perspective as a top I just think many bottoms tend to be unnecessarily aggressive in their pursuit of cock. There are plenty of tops available to satisfy bottoms. Nature is in balance. Play your cards right and you will get your fair share. And then some.

This is one of the best post I have read on this website. Your contributions on this site has enhanced the quality of my life. Thank you.

It's a big turn on for me to top hyper masculine black guys. I have fucked hardcore drug dealers, ex-cons, and many dl black men who lead otherwise heterosexual lifestyles. Many a times I will purposefully call his hole a pussy PRIOR to actually hooking up with the guy. I find that black guys who had spent time in prison know that I really intend to dominate them and breed them mercilessly whenever I use that word (pussy). A few months ago a masculine black dude offered me his pussy as long as I treated him like a bitch in heat. Needless to say he drained my cock completely dry inside his pussy.

I am constantly learning here. I am a strict top. I am kinda surprised that other tops expressed their 'approval' and pleasure when bottoms already have loads inside. When I first read the OP, I thought bottoms would be embarrassed and tops would be turned off if they detected a load in a bottom. Oh Boy was I wrong!! Maybe I am just not there yet on my bareback journey. Honestly I do not want to fuck with any bottom if I detect a load in him. In fact I am extremely reluctant to fuck a bottom whose hole is pre-lubed prior to hooking up (like say at a bathhouse, etc). It's just that I wanna at least have the illusion that I am the first person to fuck the bottom that day. So even if the bottom was fucked an hour prior to hooking up with me, if he washes or wipes away any evidence that he was recently fucked, then he will definitely see my A-game. You bet! I kinda feel bad not agreeing with most guys in this thread.

Excellent response to this topic. We can all benefit from clear thinkers like you. Thank you.

Yes sir. Unfortunately sometimes our sex drive is in high gear so common sense goes out the window.

There's much cognitive dissonance involved in choosing a headline referring to anti-AIDS meds and then cavorting to "taking mediation to repress said hiv". I assume you meant medication, not mediation. However I don't know if you are using semantics to blur the line between HIV and AIDS. Just for the record, HIV is the virus. AIDS is the disease caused by the virus. You continued by asking us "do you want hiv or not?"...When you ask that question so facetiously on a website like this you must be trying to touch raw nerves. That you accomplished. You made your statement. Bravo! And for emphasis you mentioned repressing HIV and suppressing HIV. Based on your brief statements, you are uniquely unqualified to use the screen name "milkass". Unless your screen name is all part of your temerity to perpetuate your reckless disregard for any sense of decency or civility. Your lack of decency reached a crescendo when you mentioned reliance on health insurance and the funding of our deviant lifestyle. By definition you are the deviant spewing your venom among us. But we won't take your bait. We will rise above your pettiness and childish rant.

Great point. It's like sending mixed signals... you wanna take a raw cock but you don't want the load inside your fuck hole. It's as if some guys are trying to redefine safe sex.