Sharp-edge

Is it always the result of fisting? Or can a normal fucking do it? And how some people who get fisted have one and some others dont? How can you make your rosebud show?

First things first. I'm not a guy of tradition. Sometimes it makes me sick. But I do understand and respect the love of other's for tradition. My bf and I were invited to a "traditional Greek dance". I love these places. Old homophobic Greeks are free to remember the Greece they left behind half a century ago. Men are straight, women are virgins or married. Even if you're not straight, who knows they may get you a bride either way. You'll thank them later. So I started wondering. You can dance along with other people (men and women) or you can dance on your own or a couple (male+female). Abnormal combinations (male+male, female+female are not encouraged). I was thinking that I should have every right to dance with my bf with both of us dressed with the traditional (male) costumes. The counter-argument was that tradition is not a place for experiments and there are many other modern dances. And then it occured to me: weren't gay Greeks back in the age? Didn't anyone want to dance with a male that he had a crush (could be crash I'm not sure) on? Someone, some time decided that nobody was gay and the whole society put a rainbow colored blindfold and pretended not to see them. How many gays did not touch another man while their blood was craving for a touch? So, ultimately, getting two dancers together is not a modern thing. It's the truth that was never allowed to be seen.

[think before following links] https://www.xvideos.com/video.kpfdtim92aa/cavalgando_a_tres The top feels like an alpha male to me. He's lying there confident, you can see that he's rather taller and rather muscular. He's enjoying seeing that dude getting fucked on his dick. He lets the bottom use his dick. The bottom is also somehow a "power bottom" since he's actively jerking, he's using him as a dildo, by being him who controls the penetration. I really love it.

He's my cousin's child and I'm also his godfather (in Greece that's a big thing). Some days ago she called me really upset. She would always call me for medical "emergencies" like oh I forgot to take this vitamin today am I going to die? She's being doing this from when I started medical school when I was 20. Now she was more upset than ever. She asked me to see me at my place. I was like "what will it be this time". And she said that my nephew is gay. That was quite a shock. I haven't told her that I'm gay either (I'm a coward I know). I felt "guilty". The same guilt that I was feeling when my mother was asking me if I'm a fagot when she saw a magazine with a shirtless dude on my desk. She said that she believes her nephew not only is gay but he's also having a bf (I was like that's lovely everybody wants a bf). She said that I should examine him. I explained her that being gay is not a disease and since it's not one it can't be somehow "examined". If he's gay that can't change. What we can change is accept him and make him feel safe. She said that he should see a therapist. I told her that if he feels like it, then he should but not to turn straight. He will discuss things that worry him. If she has trouble with gays, she should have therapy. I talked with him yesterday. I told him that I love him and I will always protect him. He said that he knows. I felt very happy when I heard that. He told me that he's gay, that he has a bf and that he's very worried about how his mother will react. He cried his heart in my arms. We also have the issue that his mother doesn't want him to be an architect but his mother won't pay for drawing classes (here you need to take drawing classes for 1-2 in parallel with school because you are examined in these but never taught). I told him not to worry and that I will pay for his classes. He cried even more. I didn't tell him about me being gay. I told my bf though that there's a slight chance I adopted my nephew.

I was thinking that we're privileged (the gay guys). Most straight guys just fuck and their asshole most of the time is out of context. Taking pleasure from their asshole is largely a [banned word] because they would be considered gay. It never made sense to me how a part of your body, using a part of your body can make you gay/str8. Gay guys can chose. Some may like to bottom, some may hate to bottom but pretty much every gay can chose if he will use his asshole, his dick or both in his sexual life. Even for bottoms, as long as you jerk off you're still using your dick and your asshole. Moreover women have actually two holes. I know that they must feel different (but unless you have a pussy you can't really tell) but still they get penetrated from both. We can both get penetrated and penetrate. I just feel a bit sorry that maby straight people never got to use their asshole not because they didn't want to. Because they were shrouded with stupid theories about what they are and what they aren't.

Personally I don't care. He can identify as 100% str8, as Britney Spears or as Cher. As long as it's a fuck and we're having fun, I'd do him,

that's interesting. Maybe we should add a sexual anatomy course at med school. I did feel however like it got deeper after a point.

I've bottomed for many years for my guy and I loved it. At first it was not that good, it felt annoying. Not painful but annoying. Then I begun to like it to the point of asking to get fucked. Yesterday I got fucked by someone who had a long dick. It was a bit fat too, but its main characteristic was that it was longer than that of my bf (don't ask me how long I'm not good at measuring and in europe we have cm and not inches). So when he got inside me he pushed and I felt a pain. It was a different pain. Rather sharp I'd say. It felt as if he found a barier or something and he was pushing against it. I felt that after some painful thrusts he got deeper and there oh damn it felt so good. I've heard about the two sphincters etc but I'm not sure it's actually true. I do know for sure though that deep there something felt so so so so good.

I call them the sex zombies. They are programmed to have sex although they don't have a use for it.

This period I'm a little naughty. My bf is abroad and we have discussed that we can have sex with others for a change (we have done some threesome play but it was always the three of us). My biggest issue is that I hate apps. What I enjoy is flirting. Trying to find out who could be interested in me and how to further pursue. I've had some sex with colleagues. Not colleagues of my direct environment but colleagues with the broader sense. My last was a guy that I found to be quite hot. Or to put it more precise, he was physically what pleases my eye (and sometimes what pleases my eyes does not pleases many other people's eyes but anyway). We've had sex several times. He likes to be somewhat dominated during sex. For me to have control (not to a master/slave level, I'm not into that but he likes receiving my actions and not being a doer). Sometimes I think that the direct source of pleasure for me is not fucking, getting fucked sucking etc. It's when somebody lets me touch his body, when my fingers travel around his body. I also like biting (not too cause pain, softly) but I don't do it because I understand that they don't like it. Before, during and after sex I am kissing him. I like hugging him. We had shower together, I enjoyed washing his body and his hair. He said that it's the first time he's been given that much affection in a hook up. He liked it but the way he said it, it made me feel weird. Firstly, I don't like being called a hook up and I don't do hook ups. A hook up feels fast and without quality. I do sex only when it's worth it and always loving my partner. We also had more than 10 times sex that's almost a fuck buddy. Secondly this dude is cold. I don't believe he can give affection. I don't feel that he succumbs to me when we're having sex, I believe he's full of himself and he finds it interesting that somebody actually takes time to take care of him since he's not that guy.

I've heard that too. They say that they're top but for some weird reason they're into bottoming with you.

I've encountered many people with genetic defects where we provided genetic counseling. The interesting part for me was the identification of a particular lesion in the DNA or chromosomic level. There were some people that you could tell they would never have sex. I remember a girl with a noonan syndrome. I was sure she would never have sex because of how severe her syndrome was but she was such a sweet creature that everybody wanted to hug. On the other hand there was a man in his 20s where he was hot but his teeth where a bit malformed and he was aggressive and a bit rude. For many (maybe even for me) he would be that bad guy that you dream to fuck you hard. But all these were not his choice, it was his phenotype that made him rude/aggressive. What I like about genetic counseling and the management of genetic diseases is that we're trying to find solutions not problems. I sometimes think that these people may be sad for several challenges that they face and I hope that when they leave our office they can jump over these challenges. At least most of them.

Quite recently I've met several people with genetic disorders. Any kind. From ones that affect one's mind resulting in a reduced IQ (I think it is called mental retardation although I think that retardation is an offensive word but a native speaker could enlighten me), to autism spectrum disorders. There were others that affect only one's looks as in the case of albinism but there also more severe syndromes like Marfan syndrome that results in a very tall person with cardiac defects. My whole point is that all these people deviate considerable from what we may call average yet there among us and live their lives. I was just wondering, if these people have sex. I prefer thinking of all these not as diseases, but as alternative versions of genes that do not work well in the world as we have constructed it over the ages. Some of these people I think they cannot have sex. Their mind is in a very altered state and they should be protected. Have you ever encountered during your app cruising anybody that fits this description? Was it a turn on/turn off? Would you be interested in meeting someone like that? I'm not making it any more specific since all these conditions vary. So I'm mostly referring to people that may not be very smart (decreased IQ, more than the usual non smart guy but in a condition that is considered adequate to consent) or with phenotypes (the way that somebody looks) that are quite different from what we define as "normal".

I was the typical guy who as a teen and later as a young (naive) adult I was really into policemen and to a lesser extend I was into military men. I never got to have sex with any of those two categories back then. I was closeted and in the gay apps they were hard to find. Even if somebody told you that he was a policeman (but you couldn't really know that he was indeed) he would be the guy that would not send a photo. Thus no meeting had ever proceeded (thankfully things are better in this in Greece). As I got a bit older and I came to know more about police and the military (incidents on the news and some people that I met in the university etc) I started to loathing them. It would seem that their whole existence was based on when to get a day off and being lazy. At times of need they would seem inadequate to perform their duties and many of them not physically fit for that. The worst combination of all was (and still is) the military doctor thing. Those greedy people who think that are superior to citizen doctors and that the state has given them crazy privileges. So despite that the adolescent me would picture a policeman as a fit, hung, horny or any other attractive scheme, that image broke into thousands of tiny fragments. Then again, my profession is almost considered a turn on for someone (doctor here). But for me not as a common as I thought it would be besides the classic "check my prostate" or "are an urologist" thing. I've been approached by people who are into poppers believing I could coach them hard or into guys that are into breathplay. I assured them that while I would not take part in such activities I will be the doctor they will need in the ER when these games go wrong. Ironically, my expired policemen fantasy was fulfilled though. It almost resembled the revenge is served cold thing. There was a policeman that I'd meet quite often in the ER and we became to come a bit closer over time. One day he asked me out. He was a sexy guy but I had never really observed me. My mind was always clouded with "dude on the left is bleeding, elderly to the right is septic" and "policeman guy at the front" to even decipher his face. At that moment I felt one of the most pleasing and interesting sentiments. I felt how it feels to be desired. We dated for quite some time before somebody found the courage to make a move. We fucked many times (he was clumpsy it was more than obvious he was not very comfortable with guys and he was with women -don't ask me why-). So my fantasy was fulfilled multiple times with him and he did all that we wanted to. Eventually he got married to a woman. What's your desire profession, if any?

My english teacher (Greece here) happened quite unexpectedly to be a Scottish guy. We had great chemistry together. I was having private lessons with him for 5-6 years. (In Greece everybody takes english lessons, typically outside of school either in the form of a class or of private lessons and usually we reach the B2 or C2 level) Everything was great. He was very passionate about teaching. The only downside for my parents was that I had a Scottish accent. I was seriously in love with him. He had a cute blond to almost white beard (he was somewhere around 30), his eyebrows where almost white and his hair where brown-blond something. All that were too exotic for a virgin study like I was. I never dared do anything because I'd be sure he would be either straight (my guess is that he was) or he wouldn't be interested (I always had a thing for older guys and I thought that all of the students were too boring). Through all these years we had many nice moments. He was complaining to me that all his other students were discussing with him their issues but I was the guy who did not say a word ever. We were exchanging gifts for Christmas etc. He would always get me a book and a chocolate bar that he would bring from his journeys back to Scotland. He paid me a visit after I received my english certificate and then it took some years to see him again. It was on the street where he was shocked to see that I had a beard. He told me oh look at you you've become a man and tried to lift me while hugging me. That was a joke. Even as a kid I had nearly his height. Some years later my father told me he saw him in the street and they discussed for quite some time. He had been treated for a brain tumor. My father said that the Scottish did not tell him all these for him but to reach my ears. I tried to contact him but he had no social and I did not have his number. I was feeling sad. All this time (and before that incident) I had him on my mind. I always loved him but never approached him. Some time ago (not long) I learned that he died (he must have been in his ealry 40s). I felt so heartbroken. I also feel guilty for not contacting him at all all these years. Even after our lessons when I had his number etc. It's just that I'm the guy who has difficulties with all these but it doesn't mean I don't care for others. I'm just sad.

I think our professions get in the way because he's in the most bitchy/diva specialty ever and the fact that he bottomed for two dicks for his first time was a little too much. He was dominated. I have some news though. We started talking again. He cries several times a day without a clear reason. He keeps on saying that he doesn't feel himself, he feels embarrassed. I told him that he must not be embarrassed and that we both love him and he knows that and nobody is going to know about all this. We will still love him even if he does not want sex again and that we're there for him. Currently he stays in my arms comfortably (and someitmes to my bf's). My bf is a bit grumpy because he feels that he tried so much to give him a nice experience and he acts like he was traumatized and he is annoyed. Plus he demands my attention more than before and I feel like I have two supernatural babies that want me to look after them. I'm telling you guys, surgeons are attention-whores.

You are right. I worry about him because I know that he reacts weird in these circumstances. Plus I'm gonna see him either way because I'm the anaesthesiologist in several of his cases (hidden behind our lovely drape though).

I agree about that but I also think this moment was being built for months if not years. That's a lovely idea. I'm only missing the decent restaurant. All "chic" restaurants have fish-based foods in Athens for some reason and we all hate them. My bf is also a surgeon (different kind) and maybe that contributed too. I think that he likes to submit but at the same time he doesn't like that he likes it (I hope that makes sense too). In a kinky mood my bf said that we should lock his dick and he will come begging to get fucked and way more tamed. I messaged him that I'm very sad about it and he replied that I'm the most wonderful guy in the world and I shouldn't be sad. He didn't wanted to talk more than that though which doesn't really make sense. If the most wonderful guy out there messaged me I would like to talk to him.

I'm having a partner/boyfriend for 10 years. We're very happy together. We have a friend, who was actually my friend but later he became a common friend. We know him from work. His basic three characteristics is a) he's a constantly working surgeon b) he's cute c) he looks cold and narcissistic to the outside but he's very fragile inside. Cutting a long story short we ended up having sex with him. He was supposed to be straight but he hadn't had sex from university based on what he said. He was believing to be asexual and he had no real interest in family/wife/kids because he believed he would get cheated (because he works all the time). He comes to our place very often he even sleeps at our place (and eats). I believe that he could have a wife/girlfriend if he wanted to because I know lots of people who would fall for a sexy doctor with a good income. We had sex the previous week the three of us. We really enjoyed it. It was one of the best experiences of my life. Apart from the physical contact that fucking feels good, I enjoyed watching him how he reacted. I got pleasure from his pleasure (does this make sense?). I saw something in him that I had not seen before. I felt something protective towards him and so did my bf. We took a shower together after that. I had in mind that this could be a shock for him. Despite that everything felt nice and he enjoyed it, now he's at a weird state. He says that he doesn't know who he is anymore. He looks sad. I worry because of how he reacted to that. My bf says that he knows that we love him but he just needs time and that he will return for more. He also says that getting fucked may got interfered with his narcissism and his taste for power and he can't swallow that easily. I just wanted somebody's thoughts on that too. Could it be that he just needs time? I blame myself for that.

When I have a usual encounter with my bf, my asshole feels okay. It doesn't hurt or something or if I try to contract the muscle it feels normal. However if he is rough I can feel it for some time the same day. Things are different with fisting. I feel stretched for several days after and I like that. It's a weird type of pleasure because it is not during fisting but hours and almost days after that. Do you feel that way too? I think it's somewhat erotic/arousing to feel stretched. Maybe trying dildos would be similar but I've never tried one.

that is not true (unless you were here before 1982 or the person who told you so was not very up to date

Sounds like when I'm losing a pen everytime asks for one. I get your frustration.

[think before following links] https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/15/greece-becomes-first-orthodox-christian-country-to-legalise-same-sex-marriage That's a victory that means a lot for the rights of all gay (and the rest of the LBGTQ+) people in Greece and I'm really happy about it. It needed the support of 3 different parties (because not everyone from these parties voted for it). The church said terrible things these days for the politicans who would vote for it and threatened them with banish from the church. Maybe we're leaving mediaeval times. Maybe it's time for a renaissance.

The royal family of UK is often in the news these days due to the health issues of some of their members. I keep on hearing about the royal couples so that's why it crossed my mind. I suppose it must be very difficult to be gay and royalty especially if you are the prince of the crown. Not a common problem of course I understand. So I am curious would those in charge of the royal image (who would most possibly know) try to find you a wife? Would they help you find a lover in secret while you would have the image of a straight guy? I am intrigued by the idea of having some hunk bodyguards to protect me. Maybe you could have an affair like Whitney Huston with her bodyuguard in the well known movie.

Some guys feel just uninterested. Their hunger is satisfied for seconds while scrolling. They may jerk and they get back to work/their lives. This is a vicious cycle that some people have fallen in. I'm not sure if those who call themselves bators actually want it or they are inside a hard-to-realise loop. Cinder-fella huh? Never heard of that term before. For me it's not about perfection. I do need to like the guy. Mostly his face and an average body. What I need is to have someone be an inspiration for me. This can tie the whole thing and make it last when the lust fades.