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I really thank u for ur comments they do give food for thought About gossiping in the hospital, I believe these environments have a particular proclivity for gossiping. I do believe however that gossiping about gay guys (at least in my country) is turning a little boring. Some years ago if someone said that someone else was gay you would hear "oh no I can't believe this he looks like a man" and now most people would say "yeah so what?". So I think it's more intriguing gossiping about hidden affairs or married guys. I think i tend to believe they dont have sex but they love each other. Love is a confusing word. Don't we love our friends? But then again, do we hug them, kiss them or sleep together? But with whoever we sleep do we love him? Everybody says that they love their friends but it's just a word. Maybe love requires a bit of touching and feeling but without desiring sexual intercourse? And a second thought of mine. These guy are good looking and young. And they have sex with women (rumor has it). So maybe having sex between them just waits for a sparkle?

I'm sooo confused with this term. I'm a little stubborn maybe. I believe that u can either be gay or str8, I don't believe in bi, str8 curious etc. However there are cases that trouble me. It's about two people that I know. They're both males and they work in the same hospital as I. I don't really know them just their names and a few things more than that. Oddly, as I was eating my lunch (at work) I overheard two colleagues "arguing" whether these two guys are gay or not (which was also rude because they didnt know me well I could be a friend of them, whatever). But from what I heard the "bromance thing" showed up in my mind and I would just like your opinion about that. These guys are 30 plus, one is neurosurgeon and the other is a family doctor. These guys live together. They had gf from time to time but they live together for almost a decade and no plans of getting married. I know for a fact that he's also cooking for him because I've heard him saying to someone that the other guy doest like that so he is not cooking. Everyone is considering them as "one" they would invite both of them somewhere. It may sound weird but on the one hand they don't care if people talks (so someone could say that they're ot of thecloset) but on the other hand I don't believe they're gay. I feel a bit confused. It's none of my business, I'm mostly curious whether such a relationship can be a bromance and if it happens between str8 men.

I would like the idea of being a shape shifter. Imagine the endless possibilities of a gay man being able to transfigure into a woman and have all that straight guys available. Maybe the would get a decent deep suck and they would fuck asshole and pussy fairly easily. Maybe they would be tempted to have their asshole played as well.

γεια σου πατριωτη 🙂 well we are financially independent and with no strings attached to many people (few family members/friends only) so we could leave greece fairly easily. Maybe chosing the country could be the hardest part, Dublin has the advantage that my guy is from there so that will make everything easier I suppose. PS I've spent at least a decade hiding..

About Dublin I don't know. I'm not currently a resident so I suppose people are more updated than me. I've visited several times though, I had the impression that it's not that LGBT friendly (compared to other EU countries). @bluedragonnope that's not him, but we hang out with that guy too. @newbieLNDI had the same impression for Ireland as u. If he's happy, I'm happy (and hopefully this works vice versa). So I could give it a try. I did a tiny coming out to a friend. She was very cool with that (but actually I kinda knew she would be that's why I told her + I'm pretty sure she already knew because i tend to talk about my bf).

For me the smaller the dick gets, the larger the asshole grows. I love prolapse

you are right about the translation difficulties 1. Maybe "just" was a wrong word, I meant "simply". He was working for an Irish company that wanted someone in Greece so they just/simply sent him there quite easily. I met him in Greece not in Ireland. 2. I'm finishing medical school so things will get better. I can even start a specialty in Dublin if we move. 3. Well about Ireland..They're quite religious. We are orthodox they are catholics but still both countries are religious. About abortion things are complicated there too. I'm not saying it's bad, I'm saying it won't make much of a difference. 5. You are right about that. I don't feel threatened. But it would be weird. I think that my friends can't understand the concept of being gay. For them a gay guy, is someone who is girly and deep inside wants to be a woman. Whether they believe that he has AIDS or he practices paid sex (does that sound like proper english?) is a bonus. Depends on how homophobic the other person is he can add several stereotypes. A friend of mine, the one that I consider the closest to me of all (and yes even him does not know) always asks me why I don't have a gf. He can't think I'm gay. If I was (from his point of view) I would be walking in a weird way, my voice would be weird, I would be dressed in pink or something or whatever. I look "too normal" and being normal excludes u from being gay. I believe these are his thoughts. He would be like "why are u a couple and u dont find two wives?"

I have a bf whom I'm in love with him. We are together for 8 years. Unfortunately we have lived separately for most of the time. Not in a different city, in different houses. We live in Greece but he's Irish. Things for him are kinda harsh. He works here because he works in a company that just sent him there and he liked the idea of a sunny country like mine. He doesn't speek Greek that great but he's trying. We mostly communicate in english. The problem is we are closeted. He is less closeted than me, some of his friends know. At times I feel I make him sad because of this. We should somehow live our common life and we have spent several years. That's not as much as it sounds provided that I am in medical school and time just flies with study. He was so patient and still is. But I don't know what to do. I went to a friend's wedding the day before yesterday. Everybody brough his gf (nobody way but me). I was the single guy as always. So sad. I have him and I'm "hiding" him. I'm fed up. He asked me if I wanna us to go to Dublin and live there. I don't believe that gay guy are better there. Butmaybe we should do that in Greece? And tell some people because I have to explain them and if they dont like they can get out of my life dunno. What do u think?

I'm with my bf for almost a decade. We love each other, we're having great sex and hugging him feels so nice. The problem is we are both closeted. I know that everything is supposed to be cool in 2022 and some would say c'me on it's 2022 nobody cares if u're gay. But for my place (Athens, Greece) I don't feel that's true. I mean definitely there are people who are uncloseted (is this the term?) and bullying someone for being gay is way less tolerated that it was before but still.. My friends don't know about me. By hiding this I distanced myself from them. But actually, I remained silent because I felt they wouldn't approve. Thus someone would say that you don't need someone who doesn't like u for who you are. Only two people know about me and this is such a relief. The past weekened I went to my "best friend's" wedding (how can you bestie not know?). I felt sad because everybody had his gf (for reasons that I failed to comprehend he only invited his male friends and they brought their gf). I felt kinda sad and weak. Sad because I was like hey I have a bf too I'm not the eternally single guy you took me for. And weak because I was alone. Most guys there would either not talk to me or making fun of me. the worst part we stayed in a hotel bcz the wedding was outside of Athens. To my surprise the room he had booked for me was shared with another guy (he is a friend of his and I know him, we're not friends but we were together in medical school). That friend, during the night tried to provoke me. It was a kind of test to check whether I was gay or not. I figured because of a messaged. My "best friend" told me that I would stay with me and that I would have fun. That was odd but I didn't really thought much about it. I felt humiliated. I told him that I was gay and he said he thought so and he insulted me. We fought. In his eyes, a gay can't fight he's supposed to get beated. But I box for ages. Such arrogant was he that he thought that a gay boxer can't box a straight random dude. Anyway I just felt very very bad about this. I didn't deserve that. Nobody does

I think that many guys have an issue with staying hard (which is required for a top but not required for a bottom). And maybe a desire to get dominated?

In my mind, all of us (the gay people) have something in common. We like men (no matter how they look like). Our thoughts and desires (in the sexual part) revolve around taking pleasure from men. But I think that somewhere in the way of achieving the biggest possible pleasure we may get lost and that can be reflected in several posts. Here, it feels that half of the members have fucked with their fathers, uncles and their friends. I'm sure that this something possible, but I can't believe that it is true for that many people. Oh and most people seem to have been fucked by their siblings at a very early age. I can't believe that. I also find stupid some things around the net as in the case of saving cum in the fridge and just giving it to the bottom. All these are stupid for me, no offence meant. I think pleasure comes from simplicity. You find a guy he makes u horny, you make him horny. You don't need more than that to have fun. Even at gangbangs, do people really feel pleasure? Or just unsatisfied and tired? I don't wanna sound too romantic but sex requires chemistry and even love, it's also a mental process. If you're in a rush to just have it and then go to the next, nope u're in the wrong way for me Small bonus: a (translated) part of a greek poem about a lover "your have a taste of storm in your lips"

It does sound like a title for a porn movie but it's not. We had sex (maybe a hook up?). But he's a married guy, I had no reason to believe he's into men so that was a first. Maybe he knew that I was gay because we were chatting once and I told him that someone was hot (or something like that I can't remember). But even though we were good to each other we were never really close. It was quite a surprise that he just started to touch me during a personal training session and we ended up fucking. What is weird is that he did not use a condom. So I thought isn't he worried about him or his wife? Maybe because I'm a doctor he thought oh yeah he "sounds like a safe option". Even worse, me that I'm a doctor shouldn't be caring more about this? I just accepted a raw dick inside me without questions. Like all this education and yet the temptation of raw sex can't stop?

That's a good question. Typically you start with hey I'm also an MD. This is a game changer because your doctor feels even more responsible. It's like "oh my have to get the right diagnosis because not only will a patient will have issues because of me but he'll also start talking about me"..And yeah some can be really annoying but still it depends.

The prostate exam in Greece we call it the finger exam. And many people believe that it's named due to the use of your finger but actually the anal sphincter is also called finger. But actually you need someone with an elarged prostate or bleeding or anything, otherwise there's nothing to feel. Never called back for a follow up? Sounds like a real doctor to me 😛 I'm joking.

That's a good question you're posing. From a doctor's perspective I can tell you that definitely many doctors may feel an attraction towards a patient. However legal, moral and professional reasons don't allow them to do anything inappropriate. For me, it's mostly moral. Like I know that the law prohibits it, but what really stops me is the sense of "this doesn't feel right", which for me is the best. Laws should be the last effort to stop something bad from happening. Education and moral values should be in the front line of accepted behaviour. It also depends on the specialty and the patients. If I was a gynaecologist it would be hard to be hard (no pun intended) since I'm gay. And the medical examination is mostly about stethoscope and things that a GP does. You wouldn't perform an endoscopy. My bf had helped me a lot. I used to listen to his heart, lungs, stomach, check his throat his eyes and ears several times. Without him I would have failed the practical exams. An extra (slightly irrelevant) thought. I believe that a good doctor needs to "love" his patients. By love I mean caring. Caring for not being in pain, caring to restore their health, caring to find a treatment that they can afford. Care for their loved ones (the patient's loved ones).

Maybe I didn't put it well. I meant a role play when someone plays the doctor and someone else the patient. With the difference that the doctor is someone who actually works as a doctor but does that in his apartment with his lover to entertain themselves. So the boyfriend/guy or whoever you may call hiim gets the feeling of an actual examination even if its a roleplay.

I was just curious to ask. Would you be turned on to be examined by a real doctor but in terms of a roleplay? So that you would know that he knows what he does and not some clumsy fake porn doctor. Moreover I find it interesting that it has some power like what some SM people would call a master. But you do as a doctor what he says because you just have to (assuming that he works for your health). Even if it's kinda painful you know it must be done (otherwise the real doctor wouldn't have suggested it). In the end you have to be polite and say thank you to the doctor. So, I was thinking if you take all that and the real doctor and just have a sexual play, like pretending to be patient and doctor.

Let me bother you with some more thoughts 🙂 I've completed my training in the ICU, now i'm somewhere even worse, in the morgue. Which is kinda awful, traumatising, disgusting and most of all.. odd. That would be the most correct word. I feel like it's in another dimension. The same would be true for the ICU, so it's just another world in the most literal and metaphorical sense. My thoughts can't stop knocking on my mind's door. Who would ever ever want to be in this job? That's the first thought of everyone. It's so sad and shocking. I am there for two weeks and I have 3 more. The dead bosy is so creepy, at least to me. I don't want to be anywhere near, i'm kinda obliged though. It's not even close to the bodies we had during anatomy. So many thoughts. Were they in pain? How I should feel when I'm there? Are they really dead? I'm kinda scared of the dead, is it childish? We had a guy who had been murdered but he's face was intact. His eyes were blue and wide open. I was staring at him. I was thinking if he was in pain, if he was sad, if his gf/parents/anyone found him like this. Why should anyone kill that (or any other) guy? My heart ached. I think this job makes you sadder and sadder. But I'm pretty sure there must be an exceptionally good reason that someone studied medicine, surpassed the fear of the dead and chose to work with their bodies. I think that maybe it's because you fulfil your final debt to a person. Reveal the truth. Was he murdered or was it an accident? You must not miss that clue, you must serve justice and ensure the truth reaches the right ears. Don't let him be murdered, don't let someone get away with it. That's some thoughts I'm having. And some final thoughts. I know they don't feel cold, or anything but I somehow need to feel that they feel comfortable. Somehow, even in the slighest move respect must be maintained and granted. You touch his dead body, you have to treat it like it's something of utmost importance. I also feel that they are "annoyed" by being left in the morgue. They need to be buried, to be returned back to the soil where the circle of like will begin a new. Decompose and their elements will be returned to the soil. Washed away by water and reach fish, plants, animals and other people. Am I that weird to think all these?

For me, being a patient is a condition of a person in which he needs help. And having someone dying is a hopeless effort that you as a doctor can't give up on someone. Why can't we let someone die in dignity? Many reasons. The relatives of the patient may wish to support him with all means. The laws of the state/country. The beliefs about god that shape laws and personalities. And what i mean loss of dignity? Lying unresponsive to an ICU bed with a tube on your mouth that goes down your throat or through your throat. Another tube on your peehole and diapers. Your heart stops and you have it rebooted with CPR. That's all sad. But sometimes, you get to get the patient back.

I'm really glad it turned out well. I think we never give up, even when we know it's no use. We have a guy these days that tried to commit suicide for the 4th time in his life. He won't make it (probably). That's sad. That guy was in pain (mentally) something bothered him very deeply and nobody managed to help him. I don't know who could have helped him, but nobody did. He was on antidepressants but I guess it didnt work. And then, there is another guy that had a bike accident. He's in an induced comma, he's not in danger but if we try to wake him up he start to sweat endlessly (brain damage sign). I watch his mother during visits that she touches him and talk to him. You can feel her love. I mean it's obvious that she loves him, but feeling the love is intense. When I draw arterial blood (which is basically the only procedure I do to him as a training doctor) I just feel that one day as I bend his wrist he will grab my hand. But he doesn't. I still haven't figured out the real purpose of a ICU. To extend the dying period of someone with no life expectancy? Or to be there for the very few that will survive? I am thinking of all the euthanasia thing. I would never be comfortable, if medical euthanasia was a thing in my country, to administer such a substance. On the other hand I think that "we torture" dying patients by keeping them alive. Maybe I'll be more happy or thinking less in my next rotation. O

So these days I'm having my rotation at the Intensive Care Unit (ICU). Maybe it's me, but I tend to overthinkg at times. And now, I can't help but thinking the lives of the patients before ending up in ICU. Sometimes I'm happy because I get to see return back to the outside world and sometimes I'm sad because the patient dies. One of the saddest cases was that of a 40 yo woman with an untreatable disease (pulmonary fibrosis). I can stiill recall her unconscious breathing through the tube. Her hair had two colors because she was long unconscious and they were returning to their original color from the root. Maybe it's just me, but just this fact made me very sad. I was telling to myself that this woman was a part of the society, doing what we all do, visiting her hair dresser.. and now she's just dying for several weeks (now she's dead). That made me sad. Sometimes you know, sometimes you don't. They say some doctors have god syndrom. Well I don't feel like a god, mostly I feel like someone who tries to tell the patient's future. Maybe I could discuss this with my friends, but I think here it's easiier, between strangers. Other things that bug me are patients that have a very poor prognosis. I feel unable to help them. We have a patient with multiple metastases. We do what the guidelines state, we do the best we can. He's perfectly okay now, but I know that this will not last for long. He will get worse. And no matter the paliative care we will provide him, he will suffer. And that makes me sad. But there's always the bright side. The patient who returns to his loved ones. And that makes me happy.

So.. I tried fisting a little more. It feels good, it gets quite easily almost until the wrist. My bf told me that the last time he went even deeper, his wholewrist and a little more got inside. Thing is at some point I feel something that hurts and I've bled (a little) twice which got me a little worried about getting injured. But apart from that it was very nice.

It's nice to hear ur thoughts. About fingering, I don't really like it. Although fisting would be nice. About height, I just prefer my lover to be shorter than me. The ideal would be someone with the proportions of Seth Green (or even himself if he would be interested in me <3). I also like people between 30 and 45. I think i've never had sex with smeone younger than that. I'm not much of a twink lover.

I always thought that fingering is necessary, but i really prefer licking/lub and sticking my dick inside. About the way that I fuck, am I supposed to wait his asshole relax or I just fuck him the way I want and he will find it on the way? Is this selfish, stupid, arrogant or maybe kinky? I really like shorter people is this a fetish?

I like that topic. I come from a far more conservative country (Greece) than the US. Maybe I do that too. When I see all that about cumpdumps.. dunno..I don't like it. Not for religious reasons, I'm not religious. I just think that sex is something "precious" and should be treated with more respect than just taking anon dick, poz talk, dick pics etc.