I am a POZ have been since June 1987. Exclusively a topguy. 
  On meds and great numbers, yadda yadda.  I normally only play with other POZ guys.           
  Normally, until 1 month ago when I met a tall dark and handsome submissive guy. I told him way before we met in person of my status, and I told him about PrEP. He told me that he had to check with his Doctor at the V.A. hospital. 
  We set up a playdate, I went to his place, where I fucked him AND did pull out to spew my load on his chocolate brown asscheeks. (2x)  
  Repeated our play session 2 weeks later, and again he told me that he had yet to hear from the Doctor. 
  We have another tentative playtime set up soon. I will not breed him until he is on PrEP for a full month.  
  My fear is that he has not and probably WILL not talk to his Doctor.  What do I do? I have given my word that I will not breed him until he starts PrEP. 
   I fear that if I present an ultimatum, I lose a fuckbuddy, just as my dominant side is beginning to bloom. 
         HELP.