NWUSHorny

I think I'm probably somewhere between 5-10k different guys, but I could be under estimating. I've been fucking since 1989 and getting fucked since 1990, and have been a bathhouse habituate since 2000. There is no way I could get to a very accurate number. When I 1st started going to bathhouses I used to try to keep track of how many unique guys I fucked and got fucked by in a night, not how many were new for that visit, on a typical Friday or Saturday night, my dick would usually be in 30-35 guys (cumming with an average of 5 a night) and would usually get between 5-7 dicks in my ass (but wasn't taking loads). I went to the bathhouse almost every Friday AND Saturday night, as well as a couple more visits during the week, plus I hooked up and fucked guys in the park, restroom, bar or online multiple times a week (I had been doing that long before I started going to bathhouses) the entire 8+ years I lived in Denver. I got a lot less sex after moving to Portland on the weekends, but have traveled extensively for work while living here so still hooked up with a lot of guys during the week unless I was stuck working on projects in the PNW. Living here has also pushed me in to taking multiple sexcactions most years, usually to southern California, where I can easily fuck 150 guys in a weekend and sometimes getting fucked by 20-30. I'm pretty sure I got pozzed over Labor Day weekend in 2017, I had been in LA and Palm Springs hitting a CumUnion Party in both places and had my dick in 150 - 200 guys not caring how many loads were in those holes or how chafed my dick was. I know I didn't take any loads, I'm not even sure I got fucked that weekend. I was diagnosed in March of 2018, and am 99% sure that was when it happened, and have been taking loads ever since, as well as continuing to give loads.

Damn, wish I could go to PS this weekend.

Is it harder to resist cumming/edge while you're balls deep in an ass? No, I edge when I'm balls deep in an ass,mand greatly prefer cumming in an ass to a mouth. Especially in a group, does watching someone else breed make you lose control? It can happen, but generally doesn't. Why would you sometimes say no to bj (for those who enjoy)? For me fucking has been the main event since the 1st time I fucked. Getting my cock sucked or sucking cock is foreplay, I want to either fuck or get fucked and just sucking is a poor substitute. A lot of my aversion to letting guys suck me in a group setting comes from living in a region with an abundance of guys who do not fuck,,or engage in group sex, so if someone is sucking me or I'm sucking them, I'm out of the market for fucking. Two instances happened to me this last weekend at the bathhouse, one guy that I was attracted to wanted me to suck him in his room, and couldn't understand why that doesn't do it for an exhibitionist who loves fucking and group sex. The second instance was I had a guy literally begging me to make a night of him massaging me and cuddling with me. If I had taken them up on their offers I would have missed out on at least some of the roughly 10 guys I fucked (bred 2) and getting fucked and bred by the one guy who fucked me. We're just sitting around, I want to suck, happy to be ignored or not even finish, but he's not interested? If I'm in a city where group sex is common, action attracts more action, so I don't turn down a sucker. That said if I have any choice of whether to cum in a mouth or ass, I'm choosing ass. The same for taking a load, if I'm out looking for a hookup 9 out of 10 times my ass is cleaned out and I want to get fucked and bred. I'm very anally oriented when it comes to sex.

Same here. A lot more the number of women would have to be mid double digits, the number of men is well into 4 digits.

No juicy details? Some guys need to live vicariously through others, or at least need new jack off material.

Nothing better than a fuck with a random stranger to relieve work stress. The potential to have new fuckbud into the same things is an added benefit.

Same here, certainly a lot more than a 1,000 and probably less than 10,000. I've been a busy slut for over 35 years, and will continue to be as long as I can.

Interesting take. Since I've never used or been a wingman, I can only speak to what I've observed, but there are at least a couple of different wingman dynamics that exist. I think you may have a regional bias based on where you live. The one you described is the only one that is common in the PNW. In other parts of North America, you see both the dynamic you described as well as true wingman dynamics, where they do actively assist each other in trying to hookup, sometimes going as far as the wingman pretty much whoring out his partner. I've seen guys attempt it in the PNW, but I've never seen it work here, on the other hand it is highly effective in places like Palm Springs and LA where both of these dynamics coexist.

CumUnion Party at Steam last night, I got there around 7:30 since they are typically mostly over by 10, last night got off to a really slow start, but around 11:30 things started picking up to the point it was as good as it ever gets. Unlike last Saturday there were plenty of bottoms, so I topped at least 10 guys, seeded two of them. Only had one guy fuck me wasn't sure whether or not he came, but woke up to a cum fart this morning so I definitely got bred. Did have one guy, who had never been to Steam before ask me not long before I left if it was always this slow, I hated to break it to him that it was as good as it ever gets at that point in the evening The highlight of the evening was right before I left around 2:30, it had mostly emptied out, and I wanted to get off a 2nd time before calling it a night. I tried to fuck the guy who had complained about how slow it was, but he was as tight as a vice and we couldn't seem to figure out how to make it work. I had stepped over to watch a couple fucking on the bench by the slurp ramp, but they quickly stopped and left, when the twink that had been watching with me grabbed my hard cock bent over the just vacated bench and guided me into his loose cummy hole and started practically raping my dick with it. It didn't take long for me to add my cream to his well used fuck hole.

The Slammer in LA and their newish Club 541 in Palm Springs are pretty much the same, they do have small areas where phones are allowed, but I have witnessed guys getting kicked out for taking their phone beyond those areas. I haven't been to a bathhouse or fuck venue that generally allowed cameras, there have of course long been exceptions for special events where they made sure you knew filming was occuring and you had to sign a release before entering. Unfortunately while Slammer and 541 are great for "balls-out sex from stem to stem," it is pretty much unheard of anywhere within 500 miles of the Canadian border and the Pacific Coast. We do see a lot of fetish gear, and the puppy mask thing seems to be popular with the younger generation, and as such the only guys doing any fucking with masks on.

My main concern when I posted this thread, was that the fuck venues would start allowing phones/cameras and finding footage where I was identifiable on the internet. Luckily so far I haven't seen that happen in the two and a half years since, at least in North America. I find it slightly interesting that you aren't seeing guys in puppy masks in Florida, they are extremely common at the fuck venues in the PNW, and I have seen a few in other parts of the US and Canada as well. While we do see the occasional blindfolded bottom here in the PNW, we unfortunately don't have much acceptance for the whoring out type scenes, so that is somewhat limited.

I'm going to make it happen, but looking at my schedule it will probably be January. Maybe I'll make it my New Years resolution 😁

I think that would be great. I have been to some events in SOCAL where that were playing amateurish OF loops, and can confirm that there was some great fucking at those events, although I didn't really have time to pay much attention to the porn that was playing. I believe Club 541 in Palm Springs, plays OF on some of their monitors, but always find way to many other things to do rather than watch the porn.

Actually I'm making a resolution to cross fucking or getting fucked on video and posting the video off my bucket list in the near future. I do know and have had sex with several guys who make some OF content, and had a casual conversation with one who moved away from Portland a couple of years ago. I had thought I might have an opportunity to do it this weekend in Palm Springs, and started shopping for a suitable ski mask earlier this week. Unfortunately life happened and I didn't get to make the weekend trip I was hoping to take. I am committed to make it happen in the next several months, I would prefer it to be as part of group scene, and will make sure I post a link to it here on BZ.

I would not consider myself to be a liberal, but am happy to see some pull back from MAGA ideas. I hope this was the indicator that the negative consequences for at least some of the MAGA actions are impossible to ignore.

Great questions, I think we should all be trying to learn what gives us pleasure when we fuck! 1. Why do some tops not spank that ass, especially when it's already red? I've never even thought about this, just not my thing. 2. Why do you prefer groups? Is it the depravity of it? I love the intensity and variety. I love to fuck and get fucked at the same time. I love switching holes and dicks, they all feel different and change as action continues. Holes get softer, creamier and looser, cocks may soften a bit, but get warmer and the skin texture changes as the orgy goes on. I love licking the base of a dick and the hole that it is sliding in and out of. I love felching, ATM and fingering cummy holes and using it to lube another ass, frequently my own. I also like using cum out of my hole to lube my dick and the ass I'm about to fuck. I like to fuck and make out with some who is not on my dick or in my hole, preferably while they are fucking someone else. What's not to love? 3. Even after all the cocks I've taken, I still get the gasp you're tight comments. Is that true or bs that tops just say? Even a well used ass can be tight if the bottom tenses up, either intentionally or unintentionally. Just don't clamp down on my dick like a vice, there are experienced bottoms that can actually squeeze down so hard I've been in pain from it. 4. I've asked this before, but what's the impulse to grind an ass deep while cumming when continuing to fuck would feel better? I have no idea why you would keep fucking through the cum. The 2nd time I got fucked he sprayed directly on my prostate causing my 1st hands free cum, which can't happen if you go balls deep and just grind. He was versatile we spent the next several months training each other how to repeat that experience regularly. 5. I've never topped, so I'm wondering why so many like to go balls deep pull out all the way, and repeat? Is it the visual of breaching the hole? The sensation to the dickhead on breaching a hole, even a loose hole is more intense than just fucking in and out of it. Plus I live when tops do it to me. 6. When you've had a bad day, do you take it out on a bottom? Never, giving each other pure pleasure does more to release my own tension than I could possibly get from a grudge fuck. That said I do like to fuck hard once the bottom is relaxed and into it, just like I like to be fucked hard when I'm fully opened up 7. Rank these orgasms: a. cumming while getting fucked (I've had this one), b. cumming after edging (ditto), c. cumming in an ass, d. cumming from bj 1 = C 2 = A I'm pretty indifferent on the other 2

I went to Steam Saturday night, it was a weird night even by local standards, some fucking but almost no bottoms at all. I did fuck and breed a bottom in the tunnel like bench, so you can't even see them, fairly early in the evening, took lot's of dicks and got at least 2 loads. The highlight of the evening was when I was bent over the bench by the slurp ramp and got fucked by a guy with a dick big enough I had to turn around and get it wet twice before he was able to go to town on my hole even though I had been getting fucked by multiple guys. Once I was fully able to take him, he pounded me hard for at least 20 minutes, and was then immediately replaced by another guy with only a slightly smaller dick. I discovered afterward that my hole was absolutely overflowing with cum even though neither one of them let on that they were breeding me. It was getting late, and I was hard so I made several rounds looking for a bottom, but I did get fucked and loaded in the sling by one of my regular tops who had been fucking me off and on all evening. I did several more circuits, but still didn't find a hole being offered so I jacked off and went home.

I must be simple, the only item on the list that I have an interest in using is the sling/swing, and since I greatly prefer using them in large group orgies I don't personally own one. My sex toys are my dick, ass and mouth, which I use regularly. I do regularly fuck and get fucked in slings, but it takes some of the pleasure out of it if my hookup insists on doing it behind a closed door at a fuck club.

That's a problem, there are way too many guys who aren't even willing to try it.

I'd love to fuck Will Smith's ass while Jaden Smith fucks mine.

This comment came up on a thread I posted trying to get a listing of bars with active backrooms: I'm assuming he is questioning whether it is a good idea to post such information online about spots that have activity that may be illegal, and tip off law enforcement in the process. This may very well become a larger issue as we slide towards authoritarianism, under an authoritarian who draws significant support from theocrats that have made homosexuality a target. I understand the reluctance, I've used online resources as way to find hookup spots, both legal and illicit since the late 1980's before the www existed there was Gopher BBS, which was harder to search, but that didn't stop me as a teenager, I successfully found the active hookup spots around campus using it, and while I saw a prototype of what was to become the World Wide Web my senior year, it did not actually become a reality until after I graduated. Starting in the mid 1990's we had a proliferation of websites that acted as clearinghouses for such information. The main ones that I knew of were cruisingforsex now defunct, with squirt, sniffies and gaycities are currently sort of fulfilling the role, but not as their main purpose. There are also numerous forums and boards on other sites like this one that you can sift through to try to glean that information. For me personally, I was reluctant to post that information for many years, but in the last 15 or 20 years have contributed what I thought would be useful to other users. I make an effort to provide info on this site, when I know about the area or an event. What are your thoughts? Are we making a huge mistake posting the information online, especially with emerging political situation here in the US?

If I was the guy topping. I'd be reaching back to help guide your dick into my hole.