NYBBGUY58

21 hours ago, Treehugger said:

Have you guys ever heard of the 'Gay Bomb'? I was listening to one of my favorite podcasts (The Weirdest Thing I Learned This Week) and they talked about it. 
     Apparently it was the military's idea to create a gay bomb as a non-lethal weapon of war. It was to be half aphrodisiac half homo creator to turn the opposing military gay and horny. I think they may have got the idea from "A Confederacy of Dunces". Its the funniest part of the book.
     Anyway I guess the straights think an army of homosexuals would be too busy fucking and sucking cock to get around to any actual killing. Pretty sure that's not how it works but then I have never been in an army of queers.
     The thought did give me an instant boner. Just imagine being in the midst of war, you and your buddies doing your best to stay alive and a bomb goes off nearby. But its not made of shrapnel and gun powder. Nope, it smells like poppers, industrial disinfectant, and aftershave with a hint of sweaty pits, i.e. a bathhouse. Suddenly your bunk mate Doug is looking at you like he could eat you alive. Neither of you have had sex in months. Cue shitty porn music.
     You look across the barracks and there is already a three-way. Sarge is cornholing two privates. Fucking begins en masse because of course we fags have absolutely no control when it comes to our dicks even if war is raging all around us. 
     Huge eye roll. C'mon people (by people I mean straight government and military think tanks) you can do better. While I love the idea of a gay bomb, by all means turn the whole world gay, this idea will not win you a war.
     The military says the idea was never seriously considered but then why was 7.5 million requested to fund research?

I guess they never heard of the Sacred Band of Thebes, which was said to be composed of male couples. The Spartan military (one of the most feared armies in ancient Greece) was also said to have been strengthened by same-sex bonds between its male soldiers. So who knows, if it had actually worked it might have backfired spectacularly. 😉

Dear all,

I stupidly deleted the Word file with my latest updates. Sigh. Nope, not in any backup that I can find easily. Damn. Well, at least I have versions of all the chapters here.

On 9/14/2022 at 9:47 AM, BadBob said:

So, I need an honest answer! I really want to get my right nipple pierced. However,  at 61 years old, am I too old and will it look stupid. 

I don't think so! If you want a piercing get it done, and if anyone says something stupid tell them to MYOB and/or to fuck off.

On 9/6/2022 at 5:21 PM, viking8x6 said:

It's not you. That's not the only moment when he's busy checking something in the mirror (or monitor feed). It looks disengaged because it is disengaged. Dude's a professional and should know better. Of course, I'm old (and possibly grumpy) too.

Fellow traveler! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Okay, here comes (no pun intended) the grouchy observation: it was all hot, except the moment where he's flexing and looking at himself in the mirror. It looks disengaged to me and I hate disengaged tops fucking me. I once nearly fell asleep under a rim chair during a 3-way because the two guys (who, to be fair, did breed me) were so into each other that I was relegated to being the fluffer for their scene. This was allegedly a birthday celebration for me, and I was the one who did not get kissed.

So yeah, I'm grumpy about these details. I have sympathy for these guys, who film for hours to created the edited product and have to figure out how to keep going, so maybe it's an editing problem. Or maybe I'm just a bitch.

On 11/28/2018 at 8:33 AM, Dirtyfuckboy said:

We all know it's true. As soon as the results are in we all give into that little voice and turn into fucking pigs which is awesome. What's your story?

I assume there are as many reactions to the news of being HIV+ as there are people who've gotten it. For me, sex pig wasn't my experience. Mostly, I was terrified, felt dirty and completely undesirable. The medical condition I had to face was daunting - I needed regular infusions of gamma-globulin (at thousands of dollars a pop) to keep my platelets from dropping so low that I would have spontaneous internal bleeds. In fact having a life-threatening internal bleed was how I found out I was positive. This was also a part of my personal reaction, it felt like being hit over the head. In 1993 when I was diagnosed there was no effective treatment, which likely played into, too.

Now that I have good treatment, have figured out how to maintain that and with the advent of PrEP and PeP, yeah< I've become a cum-crazed slut! Vive le difference!

Read all about it here:

My most potent fantasies are ones where I'm, er, not entirely willing and "compelled" (uh-huh, yeah, right) to follow orders. 😈 I had a horrible crush on an uncle who was movie-star handsome - fantasizing about his deflowering me has been a constant for a long, long time, along with a couple of my male cousins and (perversely enough) the homophobic asshole shrink they sent me to as a kid. I was an obviously latent homo, the sessions clearly didn't "fix" me, not that I believe I ever needed that kind of "fixing." I feel like I'm SO predictable...but one thing I've learned is that not all fantasies make great realities. In life what that means is I'm not really a passive, sub, "no, don't, stop!" bottom. I guess I qualify as a "power" bottom, whatever that's supposed to be. I love men, I enjoy sex, enjoy being dominated but I want to engage. Go figure...

On 8/20/2022 at 2:08 PM, akula said:

To be able to cure disease or any body malformation and to also cause the same in those deserving, i.e. republican politicians and CEO's of health insurance companies.

I like the way you think!

I'd like the power of invisibility. I've always wanted that one!

There is nothing better than people enjoying one other's bodies, giving freely of sensuality and friendship and everything that, er, uh, "comes" with it...

On 8/18/2022 at 9:16 AM, Bottom Jim said:

As a bottom I do have favorite positions

1. on my stomach ass in the air allows top to go in balls deep

2 Doggie style

3. spooning with top 

4. on back legs in the air 

any comments or your favorite 

Pretty much whatever the top wants, but I guess each has their own appeal:

1. On my stomach makes me feel dominated!

2. Doggie style lets me reach back and play with the top's balls and t'aint; depending on size and my state of limberness, his ass crack...😍

3. Missionary (a.k.a., "on back legs in the air") allows me to reach the balls, the t'aint and the ass crack. Drove one guy crazy while he fucked me (saying he had girlfriends that were pretty and he liked fucking them, but that none of them knew to touch his ass like I did...🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵)

On 5/22/2014 at 11:18 AM, Usedbottom said:

Middle aged, professional male. The guy next door type that everybody likes. Very conservative looking. Live in a smaller town. All my friends and family are straight, conservative types.

However I at a young age was attracted to cock, but hid my attraction for many years and didn't suck my first cock till age of 26. From there I couldn't get enough but it was always oral.

I then met a guy who wanted to fuck me. I was so tight he had a hard time getting in and he started to lose his hard on,he got pissed at the situation and said screw it and slipped the condom off and pushed his raw cock into me, pounded me silly and shot his load inside me. From then on I was hooked. I wanted more and more cum inside my hole.

I'm constantly worrying about catching something, ( I'm not a chaser). I try to go back to safe sex with condoms but it never sticks, I want raw cock. Why am I addicted to bareback sex? I take a break for awhile relieved my std test all come back neg and vow to not fuck raw again. That last about 2 weeks and when I fall off the wagon I fall hard, this last time I quit and came back I took 5 cocks and loads in one day and that still wasn't enough. Is this like a drug addiction? Do u need a 12 step program or what?

I think it's a very personal decision on every level. I would agree with others who say get on PreP, even if you have to go to the nearest large city to get a prescription and then have it delivered via mail order. Still, that doesn't prevent any of the other common STDs.

Ironically during my youth (from the time I took my first cock until pre 1984-ish for me) I didn't "play safe," it wasn't even a THING, and I never got an STD. In the past few years as a 60-something year old I've had gonorrhea 3 or 4 times. It always feels so embarrassing, but I'm willing to pay that price.

I really don't think there's anything wrong with your enjoying BB sex, I would just urge you to find a way to protect yourself that doesn't involve condoms.

Okay, here to chime in with the bottom's viewpoint, I have come to love my lube injector. Yes that's a thing! I'm tight, and it just makes the experience much more pleasurable for all concerned. And then if you add a couple of loads...💦💦💦...I'm overflowing.

Not precisely, but an undercover transit cop in the NY subway caught me taking pictures and filming his undercover cop partner's ass. He was NOT amused, and seemed to want to arrest me. I wouldn't have been in "real" trouble since I was in a public space - a subway platform is the DEFINITION of public - and I didn't include the guy's face, so there wasn't any explicit harm to the subject of my photos. The cop accused me of "following women up the stairs" (🤣) to which I replied "Nope. Just men." He looked revolted by that admission. I was on my way to work, so it was going to be a hassle and I was, honestly, terrified that he'd make my life hell just because he felt like being mean. So I confessed to "having a kink" and promised to never, ever do it again. Yeah...right. He didn't believe me, though I abstained for a few months. My honest opinion is that the guy was being a homophobic asshole. No one was injured, there was no way to identify whose ass it was and there were no charges that would have stuck.  But it would have been embarrassing. See image:

I'm fine with whatever the top likes. If it turns him on to say "I'm going to fuck that hot pussy," fine. I have a fuck buddy who gets incredibly excited with impregnation fantasies, so when I said to him "I want a little boy just like you," he shot up inside of me. He can get into the whole ass is a pussy thing. Others prefer hot hole or hot ass, or I'm going to breed your butt. It's all good...

Many things: eons of footage with the top thrusting away while grunting inarticulately; camera angles that make for a good shot but really aren't all that sexy; cumshots unduly delayed; external cumshots where the top doesn't even put his dick back in to fuck in some of the load; but above all, whiny bottoms (yes, I'm pretty exclusively a bottom) who incessantly moan "Oh yeah, baby, give it to me, uh-huh..." ad nauseum, mostly because the tops are disengaged, not interacting and can only perform with the aid of Trimix. True connection in porn is so rare...

3 hours ago, Fillitup57 said:

who doesn't /

 

I've been with guys who don't, or at least it tends to make them lose their erection.  I love both rimming and being rimmed, though love rimming just a little bit more - having a top man order me to eat his ass drives me NUTS! In a good way, of course.

20 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

Actually, the odds, as you describe them, might be elevated in your case, at least for the combo.

Not sure whether this is your first Herpes infection, or an outbreak of an existing, ongoing infection, but even if the latter, that can dampen your immune system (because it's fighting the herpes outbreak either way). That can leave you susceptible to other infections, like strep, which you might otherwise be able to fend off.

Or, even if you're on meds and undetectable, your system is still constantly dealing with HIV; and the meds themselves are quite possibly, albeit slowly, taking a toll on other bodily processes. That, too, can lower your overall defenses just enough that in combination with the herpes infection or outbreak, you were vulnerable to the strep as well.

I have had herpes before - usually right on the tailbone, though. And every test reveals it's the "oral" strain, for whatever that's worth. Actually, the physician's assistant at my colo-rectal surgeon posited that it went the other way around, I got the strep (throat, too) and that created the conditions for herpes. No real way to know, though. I've had a combination before, but that was MRSA and herpes many years ago.

What I meant by "what are the odds" was on how closely it mimicked Monkeypox right at the moment where there's an ongoing spate of cases. (Is it an epidemic yet?) The physician's assistant wasn't 100% sure, but we were going with the assumption that it was likely. However, after contacting the guys who I'd had sex with none of them had any problems at all. It was certainly puzzling - an "immaculate infection?"

On 7/15/2022 at 2:16 PM, viking8x6 said:

It's a relatively minor issue now. But exponential growth is never something to fuck around with. So to speak.

I ended up not having it, but even my ersatz case (a combination of herpes and strep - what are the odds?) it was miserably uncomfortable.

On 5/11/2015 at 2:40 PM, Sharp-edge said:

I am a vers-top guy who likes to btm some times. I was wondering if a total and true bottom was horny and would like to masturbate which is the best way for him? jerk off or ride a dildo? He should use his dick to take pleasure or have it only to pee? what do you say?

There are as many answers as there are guys who take dick up the butt! I say to each their own - whatever works. In my case, I've had treatment for prostate cancer which has rendered me impotent and cumming sometimes takes a while. Plus the older I get, the harder it is to cum after being fucked, forget while being fucked. In my more verse days, some guys wanted to cum with my dick still in them, others not at all - at least not as far as I was privy to.

I actually was fucked many years ago by the late, great Jon Vincent and have taken Tommy Deluca's huge dick, as well as Kevin Slater's. 

But to the present: I'd love to fuck Valentin Amour, Topher Drew and Drew Park among others. I'd love to be fucked by Austin Wolf, Nick Capra, Esteban (even though he'd split me into little pieces), Chase Coxxx, Elio Knight and Seth Knight. I'm sure there are others I'm forgetting...😘

13 hours ago, NYBBGUY58 said:

It's extreemely likely that I have Monkeypox - I'm waiting for definitive test results.  It isn't life-threatening as far as I know, but it is MISERABLE, at least in my case. So while I understand that there are those who feel in the wake of COVID that this "no biggie," (and/or that COVID is "no biggie") it's not something I would want anyone to have to experience.  If you can get a vaccine, I strongly suggest you do.

Take care, y'all!

False alarm...herpes + strep. Sigh...I got results in two days, though, so that's not bad.

It's extreemely likely that I have Monkeypox - I'm waiting for definitive test results.  It isn't life-threatening as far as I know, but it is MISERABLE, at least in my case. So while I understand that there are those who feel in the wake of COVID that this "no biggie," (and/or that COVID is "no biggie") it's not something I would want anyone to have to experience.  If you can get a vaccine, I strongly suggest you do.

Take care, y'all!

I don't know if I've commented on this before, my answer is yes. I don't really do anonymous sex, and if there's any chance that sex is in the offing I always disclose that I'm positive undetectable right away. That way if it's a deal breaker as little time is wasted as possible, and fewer feelings are bruised.

On 6/2/2020 at 4:41 PM, evilqueerpig said:

I'm likely opening a can of worms and provoking the MAGA crowd, but I need to post this.  In the wake of George Floyd being lynched by knee, I can no longer remain silent.  We in the QUEER community need to support our black brothers and not just with words.  Those of you who can, participate in peaceful protests, making your presence known by wearing pride attire or carrying signs reading "Queer lives 4 Black lives"  Let's never forget what "Stonewall" started for us.  Stand up, speak out, take a knee.

Agreed!

On 2/28/2022 at 1:13 AM, rock-cock-jock said:

Are you still attracted to the same type of guy or has your type changed? If not a particular physical feature, is there anything else that you tend to go for? Has your minimum threshold for agreeing to fuck a guy changed? What do you think is the main force behind your current standards?

Due to aging and other physical issues, I'm pretty much limited to bottoming. Within that, my tastes are pretty broad, but I realized there's one thing that's incredibly sexy: show up when we've planned a date and I'VE SPENT AN EFFING 45 MINUTES PREPPING! Getting stood up is a real turn-off.

Oh, how things change once you're over 50.