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I go to get manscaped, but instead of wax they use a mix of water, lemon and sugar - it's called sugaring, in fact. It's easier on the skin than wax is.
It makes staying clean easier and also cuts down on irritation since the hairs unavoidably get pushed inside along with the dick.
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Believe it or not, years ago in the pre-prep period I would occasionally top and ran into 2 situations:
1. A guy whose ass was UNBELIEVABLY tight worked the condom off of me (on purpose as far as I know) and when I'd cum said casually "Oh, the bag fell off." Uh-huh. I felt pretty stupid that I didn't notice when the condom came off, but it felt so fucking good both ways! He hadn't asked about HIV status so I didn't choose to enlighten him.
2. Another time I responded to an ad on a phone bulletin board ( early 90s, pre-internet, pre-PreP and prior to my being diagnosed HIV+ by several years) saying something like "I'm throwing a party in my ass and you're invited." I called him, arranged a time and went over. He'd left the door open, was lying on a sofa bed with his head propped up by pillows and had his eyes shut. I think he kept them closed most (if not all) of the time which made me think he wanted to be blindfolded but was a combination of too embarrassed and uncomfortable to do that. We did a little foreplay after he asked me if I wanted him to "start sucking" - he taught me a great way to lick a guy's balls using his lips, felt awesome. When it was time to do the deed, he asked if I wanted lube. I said yes, and he handed me one of the lube/condom packets from GMHC. I lubed up and went in bare, he didn't ask and I shot a load in his ass. I still fantasize about it sometimes, that was an incredible orgasm.
Both of these situations were ethically cloudy; I probably should have behaved better. All this to say, in the heat of the moment you may be able to convince a safe sex top to bareback, but I would agree with @BootmanLA - there are plenty of guys who love to bareback, find one of them and go for it!
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On 1/26/2022 at 2:28 AM, Philip said:
Just curious about our community here. What key words do you usually search up for when you are watching gay porn (on GayTube, Google, PornHub, Xnxx, etc.)?
Mine has been, “bareback gay porn,” “gay glory hole,” “gay public toilet,” “gay cheating,” “gay muscles.”
I ask some of my gay friends and most of them are embarrass to tell me lol. I guess it reveals a lot about their personality, preferences, and type.
Mine are: sniff, smell, manscent, facesitting, face sitting, gay facesitting, faceseat, forced ass sniff...yep, definitely a theme here.
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On 3/11/2012 at 5:04 AM, Fickloch said:
Moderator's Note: This is one of a trio of posts the others being...
If you haven't voted/commented on those threads, please do.
When you first got converted, bow was your fuck flu? Was it nasty and did it turn you on knowing that you nuts were filling up with toxic man-juice?
I wasn't tested until 1993, and it came back positive. Honestly, I don't remember a specific illness prior to that. But in the late 80s there was a period where I would get what felt like an awful flu every summer. It was miserable, I felt like I had a bad case of norovirus (aka stomach flu), fever, chills, sweats. In 1988 I started getting skin rashes, which one doctor maintained MUST have been when I sero-converted (she was pushing for me to start cramming anti-virals down my throat before they'd come up with a reasonable approach; I refused because I'm a stubborn SOB). I also remember a really bad flu in the early 80s, again more like stomach flu. But there's no way to know for sure.
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2 hours ago, ellentonboy said:
I have had four colorectal procedures since March of 20202. I had a fissure that would not heal, and they did two botox treatments so that I wasn't screaming every time I went to the bathroom. I changed doctors and since that time, she found what she called a "pre-cancerous" lesion that she removed. At this point, I only have to see her every six months, and possibly be hospitalized again in a year so she can take "another look" to see how I am doing. I was told the chances of these HPV lesions becoming cancerous are about 5 to 10 percent, and I only had the one
Here's my question? Has this had an adverse effect on your sex life. I have been having anal sex a long time and it wasn't until I had to take hydrocodone for a foot surgery, became constipated and ended up causing a fissure while just simply going to the bathroom. I got a lot of grief from friends saying it was from taking too many big dicks, or being DP'd (which was not the case) or that my ass was simply worn out from all the action. I was really frank with my doctor and told her that the anal sex, at least I felt, had little to do with the fissure, and was most likely from all the pain medication. She said it looking, the area seemed fine, except where the tear was. She said the majority of her patients, gay and straight, have these issues because of pain meds, not anal sex.
Has this slowed you down, are you still able to enjoy yourself? I don't go back for about five more months, I believe my last procedure was in early February.
So, are you able to do the things you used to do, and enjoy yourself. I am almost afraid of attempting to "climb a mountain" that is too high, if you know what I mean. I am really glad I saw your post. Anything you can offer as far as information is concerned, post surgery, is greatly appreciated.
PS: for constipation, I use Miralax. If you're ever on medication that could cause that problem, check with your doctor about Miralax. It's tasteless and gentle, but you have to allow time (a day or two) for it to work. My gastroenterologist had me take it every day at one point, I don't think it will interfere with any other meds but be sure to consult your doctor before taking it.
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2 hours ago, ellentonboy said:
I have had four colorectal procedures since March of 20202. I had a fissure that would not heal, and they did two botox treatments so that I wasn't screaming every time I went to the bathroom. I changed doctors and since that time, she found what she called a "pre-cancerous" lesion that she removed. At this point, I only have to see her every six months, and possibly be hospitalized again in a year so she can take "another look" to see how I am doing. I was told the chances of these HPV lesions becoming cancerous are about 5 to 10 percent, and I only had the one
Here's my question? Has this had an adverse effect on your sex life. I have been having anal sex a long time and it wasn't until I had to take hydrocodone for a foot surgery, became constipated and ended up causing a fissure while just simply going to the bathroom. I got a lot of grief from friends saying it was from taking too many big dicks, or being DP'd (which was not the case) or that my ass was simply worn out from all the action. I was really frank with my doctor and told her that the anal sex, at least I felt, had little to do with the fissure, and was most likely from all the pain medication. She said it looking, the area seemed fine, except where the tear was. She said the majority of her patients, gay and straight, have these issues because of pain meds, not anal sex.
Has this slowed you down, are you still able to enjoy yourself? I don't go back for about five more months, I believe my last procedure was in early February.
So, are you able to do the things you used to do, and enjoy yourself. I am almost afraid of attempting to "climb a mountain" that is too high, if you know what I mean. I am really glad I saw your post. Anything you can offer as far as information is concerned, post surgery, is greatly appreciated.
Wow, you've gone through a lot! I've had problems with post op MRSA infections, but aside from that and waiting to heal I haven't been prevented from having anal sex. In my case HPV was complicated by having HIV: my immune system wasn't strong enough to prevent infection. When I switched HIV doctors, he changed up my meds so my health improved overall, and I've had many fewer problems. To my knowledge, none of the guys who have fucked me have experienced any issues. I agree it sounds like the pain meds were what really messed you up, but more importantly that's what your doctor said.
Hope this helps! HPV is really more or less ubiquitous from what I've heard. Everyone has them, the issue is that some strains can advance to cancer. So just keep up with regular check ups, allow yourself time to heal after any procedures and you should be fine.
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HPV infection is extremely common. I've been getting treated for years but a colorectal surgeon. They take frequent biopsies and remove anything that looks remotely problematic.
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On 4/10/2022 at 9:16 AM, onlyraw said:
Yes - this is the answer that would win if Jeopardy had a cum slut edition
They could, er, open up an entirely new market if they did a cum slut edition...
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2 hours ago, BergenGuy said:
Sometimes I wonder if putting inconsistent stats in a profile is a catfisher's method of screening out savvy people?
Oh, no. Did I really miss that? OOPS, not commenting on something I said. Sigh. Tired after a long day at work...
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On 4/4/2022 at 11:32 AM, Toyrsrgr8 said:
The following is from a guy in my area. We have exchanged a few emails, but haven't been able to connect. This is probably a lot of men's fantasy but could you really go through with it? This description is how it really should be to have the full experience. I have met with a lot of guys who call themselves a dominant Top but usually were a whole lot less. The current Sir I play with on occasions I met about 10 years ago. He had me scared to death from the time I walked through his door and when I left I swore I would never meet with him again. It didn't take long for me to want to feel his dominance again.
All though I've never been fully fucked bareback and been bred (I have had a cock in my ass for a few strokes without a condom) it is something that I want to experience with the right person.
Could this be the experience I'm willing to try?
..........................so here is the profile listing ..............................
IF YOU CAN'T FUCKING READ DO NOT CONTACT ME.
IF YOU HAVEN'T READ MY PROFILE THRU TO THE END, GUESS WHAT
DO NOT FUCKING CONTACT ME.
ME: 65 y/o, Bi, W/M, Total Dominant Top, 5'10", 185#, 6"Cut, Bld, Gray, Blu, Safe, Sane, DDF, experienced in BDSM, CBT and lite bondage. I love to fuck. (BAREBACK)
For me it's all about the fucking. (BAREBACK) Everything else leads to and is to enhance the fucking.(BAREBACK) Role play, public play, spanking, whipping, bondage, CBT, it all will lead to fucking.(BAREBACK) I like long play sessions. Not opposed to repeat performances, or regular meets, or multiple partners, i.e. threesomes +.
Safe words? That’s nothing I use. Slaves are slaves and as soon as a slave would be allowed to use a safe word it would mean that he would have absolute control over the situation. But a slave should be totally dependent on the master that he serves. Otherwise it wouldn’t be real slavery but just an ordinary fuck session with some S&M included. And for me that’s a big difference.
And how would it work if I want to push the limits of a slave and the slave would be in control? Very simple answer. It wouldn’t work at all if the slave had the possibility to end that training with just using a safe word.
And for all these reasons I don’t use safe words.
After some preliminary foreplay, I like to finish by putting my sub on all fours on the floor usually in front of a mirror. I like to fuck (BAREBACK) at least 20 minutes before cumming the first time, not including foreplay.
I then squat and enter him. This allows for complete control and access to all of him, his head, hair, throat, back and cheeks as well the ability to reach around. Most importantly, I can cum deep inside him, allowing him to feel my cock throb as I pump my alpha seed in his gut. Then pull out and allow him to lick me clean.
Then we may socialize a little, have a drink. I will start to touch and feel him again and indicate he should do the same along with sucking my cock. When I'm good and hard again, I like to put him on all fours in a chair or on a couch and fuck for about an hour before I cum.(BAREBACK)
It's possible that you could reach me at hot mail if you use wolfboro.
If you don't know how to fuck, prep, and are not at least 35 years of age do attempt to board this ride.
Otherwise if you insist on CONDOMS, DO NOT CONTACT ME.
If you have NO pictures posted, DO NOT CONTACT ME.
If you have NO ASS pictures posted, DO NOT CONTACT ME.
If you are over SIX feet tall, DO NOT CONTACT ME.The no safe word is concerning; I guess I get the height thing, he's looking for someone shorter that he can dominate. But this ad drips bad attitude. I like being dominated, but not by someone who gets off on being unkind. The best encounters are always to some degree mutual, in my opinion.
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Usually end up in doggy or flat on my stomach. I've read that doggy is actually easiest on the back, a consideration at age 63. It also lets me reach back and stroke the top's balls and possibly reach his ass. I do kind of like missionary, but not many tops are all that into it. The real answer is, which position does the top want to give it to me, since the overriding kink is pleasing whoever is fucking me!
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1 hour ago, chargedodger said:
There have been tissue samples from the early 1950's that tested positive for hiv.If this virus has been in animals for centuries then why did it explode into human population in the 1980's?Given that humans have been dressing game and exposed to blood during this process for thousands of years this hypothesis doesn't hold up.There must have been some sort of mass exposure event,like contaminated vaccine or something to explain the more recent infection timeline.Polio vaccine development and trials by Belgian scientists in the Congo?And if that were true would we ever find out?(monkey tissue was used as a growth media for the polio virus)
It's all plausible, I agree, but as you point out there's no way to know if it's true. There are convincing arguments for spontaneous mutations - HIV is nothing if not extremely mutable - that also raise the question was it designed to be so. I more incline towards that whatever happened it was exacerbated by the lack of coordination between nations, general incompetence and extreme shortsightedness. Like any other environmental mess, I think that all we can do is cope with what's here and move forward as best we can. I concede that at 63 I'm a little jaded about these things. If I'm lucky I have another 17 years left to live which changes one's priorities.
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12 hours ago, BareLover666 said:
Okay, who has actually tasted monkey-meat and how do you cook it? 🤔
It's more a thing in parts of the world (South American and Africa) where there are populations of monkeys - bushmeat, they call it. It's an available and important source of protein. Not sure how it works as a vector to spread an illness like HIV, unless it was along the lines of someone cuts themselves and the handles the meat, enabling the virus to infect them.
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12 hours ago, BareLover666 said:
Sounds a lot like HIV-denialism.
Glad you're sticking to the meds tho, despite your questions.I should have been more clear - it was more an example of the range of things I have heard. When people are afraid, all kinds of things are said and believed in an attempt to control things. I stick to this works, good, I don't really know how my computer works either, but I use it!
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15 hours ago, viking8x6 said:
Good to know! I should've checked before I "spoke"...
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2 hours ago, BootmanLA said:
What do I think? I think this is bullshit.
Most people's immune systems, once they're pozzed, are able to fight back the virus for quite some time. After an initial surge not long after conversion (because the body hasn't learned to fight HIV yet), the immune system is able to kill off most of the virus in your system, except in certain deep pockets that your immune system can't reach. While all your supplements may boost that slightly, they're not a permanent answer as you will undoubtedly find out someday.
What you'll also find out is that because your immune system will have taken such a beating trying to control the virus on its own, it's tapped out - your CD4 level will plummet once your HIV becomes uncontrolled, and even if you go on ART at that point, your immune system may not come close to recovering. In other words, while ART may, at that point, keep HIV from replicating in your system, it may prove impossible for your CD4 level to return to where it is today. And that means even while your HIV itself is under control, you're susceptible to many other kinds of infection that your now-collapsed immune system could have fought off.
Your experience, in other words, is not due to the supplements and is not unique or remarkable. It's just at a stage of infection where your body is still capable of fighting back. That's not going to last.
I will add that yes: drugs and smoking will undoubtedly hasten that collapse, so you're wise to avoid those. But even that isn't going to save you in the long run.
Your reasons for starting treatment soon is spot on, but I'm honestly not sure what is or isn't true about HIV. And I don't care. Let me explain...
I was diagnosed at a early point (1993), and had heard all kinds of wild conjectures: that HIV was purposely unleashed to kill particular populations (except that it can infect anyone), it was a side-effect of a vaccine or other medical treatment, it escaped from a Plumb Island lab, and on and on. Sound familiar? I had friends who became extremely ill in the mid-to late 80s and early 90s and they tried all kinds of things, including drinking their own urine, bitter melon enemas, large doses of vitamins, etc.
Once diagnosed I opted to do some Chinese herbal medications as symptom control, along with acupuncture. My spleen had to be removed because it was eating my platelets, and I had several life-threatening bleeds. But I didn't seriously try alternative treatments until I had a terrible reaction to the D-drugs (as they were called) Videx and Zerit, coupled with hydroxyurea and who remembers what else. I ended up with peripheral neuropathy (still bothers me a little) and pancreatitis, dropped a ton of weight and had to discontinue treatment for months (all because my doctor wouldn't listen to me, but oh, well). At that point I tried things like glucosamine, chondrotin, chlorophyll and creatine all of which did one of two things: nothing (best case scenario), screwed my digestion thereby making me sicker. Finally my doctor put me on the newest medications (at that point Crixivan was fresh out of the lab) and that's when I began to improve, though I had to recover from the alternative treatments, too. My t-cells sank to below 200, placing me officially in the category of full-blown AIDS in spite of a lack of any major opportunistic infections.
At this point, my t-cells have rebounded to low normal (in the 500s) and I was able to weather break-through COVID this past November (vaccinated+booster). So who knows what works? Who knows what "really" causes all this? I've heard it argued that the criteria for establishing a virus were totally violated - no one has "seen" an HIV virus. At this point, I don't care. Medical science has come up with medications that work, keep me and others alive and can prevent transmission. I'm fine with that and with a purely, crudely pragmatic satisfaction with things as they are.
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Last weekend I got 6 loads from 3 friends with benefits, appropriately diverse - 1 Nordic/North European; 1 Latin/Mediterranean/1 Asian. Wish I could have managed at least one from an African American, but I'm 63 and can only take so much...
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Working on the next chapter...sorry I'm SO slow...
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On 2/2/2022 at 11:55 PM, fskn said:
Information is starting to trickle in about Apretude (cabotegravir), the 2-month PrEP injection recently approved in the US. A practical "getting started" brochure for providers is out but I don't think there's an open link yet. You can read information for patients in text form, here:
The bad:
• Must be given by a medical professional
• Only supplied by a small number of specialty pharmacies
• Insurer, medical provider, specialty pharmacy, and patient assistance program (if required) need to coordinate
• Resistance to the whole drug class (integrase inhibitors) is possible if you do get HIV; HIV testing before every injection matters, as does starting a different form of PrEP if you stop injections
The good:
• In two large studies, people receiving cabotegravir injections were significantly less likely to get HIV than people receiving Truvada pills; for both, adherence matters
• Patient assistance will be available to people with private (not Medicaid, Medicare, VA, TriCare) insurance; up to $7,850/year;
[think before following links] [think before following links] https://apretudecopayprogram.com/
• 7-day window for injections
• California is already warning insurers that they cannot avoid covering this drug or impose barriers; guidance for Department of Insurance-regulated plans (Department of Managed Health Care to follow suit) with useful background about illegal practices like pre-authorization:
It may be a little while yet before Apretude is available, but if you are interested in injectable PrEP, this may be a good time to start talking with your medical professional.
Please share news and experiences in this thread.
This is great news! Thanks for posting it. Too late for me, obviously, but I'm so glad that PreP options continue to expand.
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I can only speak for myself: it wasn't exciting in the least. Of course, I was diagnosed early on before there was any effective treatment, so it was very anxiety producing to say the least. Having HIV changed my life in all sorts of ways that I couldn't have known about prior to experiencing it., both for the better and the worse. Sorry if my answer is disappointing...
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On 2/2/2014 at 4:50 PM, rawTOP said:
Question for those of you who are poz and on meds… How often are you not undetectable? Are poz guys on meds usually undetectable (or close to it)?
I've been thinking about how HIV status will be handled on BBBH.com and I'm thinking I won't offer "undetectable" as an option. Instead, like here, I'll just have "on meds" available. If people want to say more about status they can do it in the text of their profile.
But going a step further I'm going to simplify the search options and let guys search by risk level, not by particular HIV statuses. I'm thinking "low risk" would be the neg guys on PrEP plus the poz guys on meds. But if poz guys on meds often aren't undetectable, then being on meds may not make you low risk.
So talk to me about viral loads while on meds. Are you undetectable (or close to it) most of the time while on meds?
I have been mostly undetectable or very low viral load for about 5 or 6 years since I switched doctors. One guy who I topped bare was a nurse, and his benchmark was anything below 1000(?). I had been consistently lower than that for years on the prior medication regimen, but with the current set of meds, I don't think my viral load has gone higher than 40, perhaps 60. For reference, less than 20 is when you're now considered "officially" undetectable.
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On 10/9/2010 at 10:12 AM, Dex said:
I am a bottom and I love being fucked bare and feeling the Top shoot inside me. I feel when the top shoots in me he has really enjoyed my ass. Even though I prefer bb and having cum inside I am not a bug chaser and want to become poz.
That more than fine, there should be room for everyone here. It's your body and your choice and if anyone pressures you or belittles you about your choice, they're way out of line and can go fuck themselves.
If I'd had the option, I would have used PReP to avoid becoming positive. I'm older - 63 - and my first physician's opinion was I likely caught HIV before anyone even knew it existed. I've been able to make a good life, and have had a lot of support and met wonderful people along the way. And having HIV certainly created some limitations as to what I could do with my life.
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1 hour ago, backdoorjimmy said:
Any size is fine with me as long as it’s attached to a man. I love sucking Dick so there’s no rule about size.
Amen!
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I don't really focus on size...any will do. In my case sucking (along with rimming) is foreplay prior to getting fucked. I have the strongest gag reflex on either side of the Mississippi, and as long as there's enough dick to reach from him to me, it's all good!
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Do you shave your hole?
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Hat's off to you! I just have them sugar my back and around the anus as well as the "t'aint", wax the ears my nose tip, and the rest of my body hair trimmed and/or shaped. My skin is so effing sensitive I could never go totally hairless. Sigh...