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Anyone Else with a Suit and Tie Fetish?
NYBBGUY58 replied to Heir2012's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I love men in dress pants, especially when they're form fitting and show of the ass well. Gray dress pants especially do it for me: -
what or who makes you start having raw bb sex?
NYBBGUY58 replied to Barehorny's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I should clarify that my then-doctor's point was that a vaccine was necessary. That has proved to be elusive, but PreP and better medications have been effective. I agree that bare sex just feels better, even for me as mostly bottom. The thrill of taking the load is unmatched - for reasons. 😁 -
what or who makes you start having raw bb sex?
NYBBGUY58 replied to Barehorny's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Since I'm older (67), I started with bareback sex as the norm. For a long time, I was largely compliant with condom-only, though there were those impulsive moments. As one of my first infectious disease specialists commented, it is unrealistic to expect 100% compliance with condom usage given the strength of the sex drive. It was in the 2010s that a guy I hooked up with (having disclosed my HIV undetectable status) asked as he was about to enter me if I "wanted the load." My response was "This is an option?" If he was okay with it, I felt it would be fine. Shortly thereafter, PeP and PreP became "a thing," and I haven't looked back though I always disclose right up front if there's any question of sexual contact. I had some unpleasant experiences even when only the safest of safe sex was on the menu. So for better or for worse, I filter prospects with an outright announcement of my HIV status. If someone doesn't want to be with me at all given that, then I'd rather know ASAP. Right now I have a few reliable FWBs (met online) who are fine with the whole thing. Occasionally, I'll try someone "new," but it rarely works out well. -
I'm 67, have been sexually active since the age of 16, so I have a great deal of, uh, experience we can call it. I've met and had sex with different kinds of men over the years. I've primarily bottomed, but have also been somewhat versatile at times. Right now, I'm pretty much confined to bottoming due to treatment for prostate cancer that rendered me impotent (though not without arousal and orgasm). My experience has been that I enjoy the variety. One of my favorite FWBs (friend with benefits) is strictly a top, another is versatile. Both of them are happy to fuck me into oblivion after I worship their dicks, balls and asses (sometimes in tandem in a threesome) so for me, versatility isn't an issue either way. I will share that some of the total tops aren't as considerate in their approach, and I'm not interested in pain though I love being dominated. As to whether you're an outlier, I don't think so. There are as many variations on sexual tastes as there are people, and I support everyone pursuing what is enjoyable so long as all are consenting adults. AND....if you're ever in New York and want to try a hookup, let me know! 😁
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I'm sorry to be woefully ignorant...what is a spun bottom? 🫣
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
NYBBGUY58 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Got another two loads from my fave FWB (friend with benefits) yesterday at my place in my bed after lots of body, dick and ass worship. He's such a fucking STUD!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🥵 -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
NYBBGUY58 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I've probably answered this before similarly: at home in NYC, in my own bed two guys took turns breeding me, then did DP so I got four loads. Before that there was play with the rim chair...I love to rim my tops before they fuck me - it gets them all riled up so they explode inside me. 🥵 -
What's the one kink or fetish you can't live without during sex?
NYBBGUY58 replied to jd13's topic in General Discussion
Rimming! I'm a bottom who LOVES to rim the top before he breeds me. I can "live" without it, but it's frustrating. Tops who don't like being rimmed don't become regular fuck buddies with me. -
I agree - anal in my case. I have an epic gag reflex!
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10 inches, dick similar to Champ Robinson the porn star...🥵 Honestly, sometimes I prefer a more "ergonomic" dick. As long as it's long enough to deliver the load I'm happy!
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Aw, phooey. Sigh...😁
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It is a swamp full of hustlers, true. But a lot of content! As @ellentonboy says, beware of messages from those who are "close" by...or aren't and just sell constant sob stories.
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Yes, it is an oxymoronic expression "consensual non-consensual," meaning an agreed-upon "rape" scene (abbreviation CNC). I've played that a scene with a few guys, it can be hot. It can also fall flat.
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My main criteria is can the dick reach far enough inside to deliver the load...it can? GREAT! Your place or mine? 😏
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No, so-called "CNC" (consensual non-consensual) is a thing. If it works for you, then I say go for it!
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The closest I've gotten is to have two guys take turns topping me...one watches while the other nuts inside me, then fucks the load in deeper. Then we take a breather followed by a repeat. I've been at sex parties (not often, not really my thing), one where I helped a top finish off by licking his left nipple...
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Bareback: Fetish or sexual practice?
NYBBGUY58 replied to favorite's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
Oy. This is where I get on my soapbox. Apologies. I have an issue with the entire concept of labeling something a fetish or a kink, since to me that implies there's a non-fetishistic/non-kinked (aka straight?) way of having sex and feeling desire that is the standard. This bugs me deeply. For some people anything outside of procreative sex is already beyond the pale, and I hate to confirm that view. In my opinion we're already weighed down with the baggage of being sexual outsiders without coming up with additional categories. If it pleases you to regard it as a fetish, fine. I love worshiping the men I have sex with (sniffing, kissing and licking dick, balls, ass, body, everything!), which I suppose could be considered a kink/fetish. At the same time, it's what I enjoy greatly and resent having it labelled as "weird." I've been with men who aren't into it so I adjust as needed. Yet, I try to find guys whose desires are complementary. It makes everything more fun! Stepping off soapbox now. Thank you for your attention. 😏 -
Yeah. I couldn't find the one that drove me mad. It was a portion of Planting Seed from TIM; he just kept on whining, honestly. As a bottom, I could sympathize if I thought about it. He'd been gang banged by many guys and after a while it's hard to keep taking it. I so far have been able to get five loads from two guys with sizeable, but not massive, dicks. Much more beyond that I'd be shouting "WILLYA HURRY IT UP?!? There are nerve endings there."
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@Justaholeff You only think I'm joking: [think before following links] https://classics.treasureislandmedia.com/scenes/riding-billy-wild-scene-01
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Agreed. There was a porn star for TIM, Billy Wild, who moaned non-stop. All I could think was, "Could somebody PLEASE stuff a dick in his mouth? Or else gag him!" Of course he still could have moaned inarticulately, but even that would have been better than the unending "Oh, yeah, oh, baby, oh, fuck me, oh...." 🙄
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Touching myself? Age 6/7 when I discovered dry orgasms (with the help of a cousin who was a year older than I). I always felt that I was different; this was the 60s in the Midwest, so not really hospitable for a gay kid. I knew I preferred boys, and first heard of Christine Jorgensen (the trans pioneer) when I was 11-ish and thought I'd probably have to go to Denmark for the surgery. I had no framework for being gay at the time, though I was regularly called "fairy," "fem," and "faggot" - the three Fs. I first applied the term "gay" to myself at age 14, while at Disney World (of all places) with my parents, no less. We were getting a sailing lesson (don't ask) on one of the lakes (possibly an artificial lake) and I found myself looking at the instructor, a hunky, dark-haired man. I wondered if he were thinking about me...and it all came together. I was seriously upset for a while, my parents didn't know what to do with me. I accepted it gradually, though that was just my first baby steps towards living as an "out" gay man.
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I'm fine with smooth, hairy, shaved, clipped, plucked, waxed, sugared, whatever. Yes, I'm a complete slut! I'm light hairy myself, get sugared once every 4-6 weeks: back, shoulders, 'tain't and crack; the rest is clipped to be manageable.
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At least one each, though ideally it'd be a tag-team taking turns, so by the time 5 had unloaded 1 would be ready for a second round, etc. until all balls are totally drained. The likelihood is that I'd be doing well to get through one load from each of the five. 🙃 -
There's a feeling of deep satisfaction I get from worshiping a top guy, making him feel good and getting the load. I love the pulsing in my butt and his heartbeat.
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I know a man who said they regularly topped Austin Wolf, and didn't realize that this muscle guy he was fucking was "the" Austin Wolf was until later.
