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if you wish your bf would watch you take it from other guys, try this: tel him you have a fantasy to watch him fuck another bottom. Take a video if he's ok with it so you can get right up in there and see all the action while recording it. Then after that's all done with, ask him if he wants to watch you get fucked. chances are he will excitedly say yes. Reverse psychology?

I like it to start "normal" so I can get everything relaxed and opened up a bit, then rough all the way.

education and medication are and will be the only solution until an actual "cure" is manufactured in my opinion. Someone who knows the risks and consequences of what they are doing (ie having bb sex, getting tested regularly, taking prep, etc) will likely lead a much healthier life than someone who has unprotected sex and ignores the risks. The "educated" risk taker will find out he is poz shortly after it happens nad can start taking medication to (hopefully) avoid a lot of the dangerous / worst symptoms while the ignorant / uneducated risk taker won't discover their status until they get sick.

It's not so much that I'm trying to achieve professional porn quality footage (or even close to it) as much as i just dont want any of the shots to be unusable. It's so irritating when I make a video and a really hot angle / shot is ruined by having too many shadows, too much stuttering or something like that (which can happen so easily with a phone as the camera lol). I actually saw you post in another thread linking your videos followed by lotso f people applauding them so I'll admit..I recently watched quite a few of them haha I;ve been debating Sony or Canon (I use a canon digital camera / photo equipment when I shoot professional photography for my design work so I'm already somewhat biased haha). I just odn;t know as much about camcroders as I do point-shoot cameras so picking a brad / model is proving to be difficult. And I agree with you that the most important part of any amateur video is the story / mood, I just get super anal (pun intended) about stuff like lighting and quality since I studied / work in the design world haha. Basically I'm trying to find a good enough device that it can alleviate some of the details that I would normally worry about / feel the need to fiddle with such as shadows, stuttering, glare, etc (which can detract from the mood / naturalness of the scene).

No i hadn't seen or heard about the new final cut pro..sad to hear it's not being recieved well cause the current version I have makes imovie look like kidpix. Thanks for the advice on the camera specs, I'm thinking an SD will prob be my best bet too. now i just need to figure out what brand / model to get that is compatible with a mac that has decent resolution, image stabilization or w/e it's called, figure out a lighting situation, and then I won't be stuck with crappy iphone footage! haha. If only I'd been interested in filming this stuff when I was still in college..i could "rent" up to $20,000 worth of studio equipment for free! haha now thatd be some good quality fuckflicks

fantasy would be getting passed around by guys my boyfriend finds while he joins in the fun. Would be hot to beat my record of loads taken in one night (13) with the final one being the bf as he fucks the other loads out of me. slightly less crazy fantasy: this super hot guy at the cannabis club I go to (woohoo california haha) is always flirting with me when he rings me up at the counter, would be hot to get tag teamed by him and the bf. in regards to the side-debate going on, I think people who actively and / or frequently engage in bb sex who expect / demand their partners to be DDF are naive more than anything - nothing wrong with a neg person wanting to stay that way but if they dont know and fully accept the consequences / risks of what they're doing then they're in for a rude awakening. That said, from the looks of it, I don't think xx808 intended to offend anyone (probably wasnt aware that people found it offensive) :/

ya, I actually know a fair amount about light sources, editing (as planning on using final cut, as I can't stand imovie) and so on because I majored in graphic design which resulted in me taking a ton of photography classes and so on. I should probably clarify that when I said I would like it to have a light on the camera, that's mostly because I don't want to have to constantly be thinking about the light sources, whether I need to have reflectors and soft boxes etc set up, you know, I'd rather be thinking about getting fucked while I'm getting fucked hahaha. So basically I've been trying to figure out what the best camera will be that can do enough on its own that if I'm in a setting where things are dark or backlit or casting strong shadows or something the footage isnt completely ruined. And of course I'm trying to find all of this for under 200$...maybe I'm being unrealistic haha.

Hey guys, I have dabbled in making videos with the boyfriend before using our phones but the quality and lighting is mediocre at best and have been planning on getting a small (and fairly cheap) device to record videos with. There are SO many models (and so many brands) that I'm just at a complete loss as to which one to go with. It'd be great if anyone with some experience filming homemade vids could give some recommendations on models and tips etc. Here are my specifications so far: - I use a Mac (OS 10.6 and 10.8) so it must be compatible with one or both of those. - I'm hoping to spend less than $200 - I'd like it to have a light on it so I don't always have to set up lighting / lose footage due to certain positions casting shadows etc. - I'm thinking itd be easiest if it were digital, recording onto an SD card so that I could just xfer the vids via firewire or usb or card reader to my computer? Any suggestions? Would love to hear from some people who have filmed their own videos and are happy with their device

both great ideas, thanks for the feedback. I ended up coming up with an idea that we liked enough to go with: peter pan and his shadow. The plan is for me to be peter pan (green slip on shoes, green tights, an xl t-shirt cinched at the waist with a belt that ill be cutting up to be shredded / really not cover much of anything, a little hat, and a sword) and my boyfriend will be the shadow (all black, with some leather, buckles, studs, and other S&M-ish type stuff worked into it). I think itll be a good combo of clever and sexy after im done shredding my outfit to only cover the basic areas necessary to go outside without becoming a sex offendor LOL.

Hey guys, I've been trying to think of a clever / not-tacky couples costume for me and my boyfriend to wear on halloween and would love to hear any ideas you might have. Ideally the costume would have a dominant role and a submissive role, be sexy but not completely pornographic (cant be naked if we want to go to a party or something haha), and of course easily worn during sex . So far I've thought of / been contemplating: pitcher and catcher (the bf has a sports / lockerroom fetish hah), cop and prisoner, and the cannibal guy (forget his name) + channing tatum as his bitch from the movie This is The End (here's a screenshot: from the movie). So far I'm not super enthusiastic about any of my ideas haha and I'm having a lapse of creativity! Anyone have any ideas / suggestions?

As someone else touched upon, as a kid / teen I (and I think most people, at least in my generation) was basically taught that Having sex without a condom meant you could / probably would get HIV. I'm not sure whether from sex ed or the media or what other influences it was, but until I made an effort later on to educate myself (around age 19/20) I thought that having HIV meant you were sick and would be sick until you die from aids. It wasn't until later that I realized that people with HIV can be perfectly healthy so to speak, and lead normal healthy lives (by taking medication and care of your body and such). I never sought out loads or wanted to before I first tried barebacking because I didn't understand that "desire." I had always had sex with condoms and even when a guy came "inside," it was all wrapped up and such. The first time I barebacked the feeling of the guy coming inside me was so incredible that I pretty much lost any desire to be strict with condoms. II don't think you can try to get younger guys to seek out loads because they won't understand why bareback bottoms have that urge to take loads until they get their first load themselves. Basically in my opinion you'll have more success if you encourage young men to try barebacking and then the cum-lust will usually happen naturally. How do you encourage young men to take off the condom? By educating them (as many threads on this site do/have) that being HIV positive does not mean you will be sick for the rest of your life. In order to start barebacking, young men have to overcome the strong fear of the virus that has been imprinted in them, and for me that happened by reading / hearing other people talk about being positive and living a healthy life. Not sure if this helps with your mobile marketing strategy but I think the way in which you communicate your message will make a big difference (educating so they understand that trying bareback sex is ok > the more "explicit" messages that now turn us on such as taking loads, being a cumdump, and so on.

chrome can download any streaming video pretty easily. 1) click the button to the right of the URL bar (icon has 3 horizontal bars for me, I think in other versions its a wrench icon) 2) tools --> developer tools 3) this should open a bar of info at the bottom of the window. Now reload the page and play the video (or at least let it load) 4) In the developer tools bar on the bottom, go to the network tab and sort by size. After the video has fully loaded, you should see it listed as the largest file. Right click the file/link and open in new tab. 5) in the new tab right click the video and select save as. This works for me for every site I've encountered including youtube and xtube and doesn't require any plugins. There's probably a chrome plugin that makes it much easier but if this way works for you it's pretty straightforward.

This pretty much sums it up. But in my opinion TIMFuck is a lot "dirtier" with more movies being gangbangs, and they often allude to using drugs and pozzing people (they never downright state either for obvious reasons). RFC has beautiful, well endowed models and is very high quality. I love watching RFC vids but usually when i want to cum I'll switch over to a TIM vid - but thats just me haha. Aside from the quality and such, I think a subscription to TIM will get you access to more videos total (I think..don't take my word for it).

I'm naturally very tight so part of my cleaning regimen is after douching I use a 7 (maybe 8? i forget) inch dildo to gently loosen up and then check to make sure everything is clean. during the actual act though the best things you can do are be in a "bottom-friendly" position (I like being on my back or straddling his lap), make a conscious effort to relax all your muscles down there, breathe deep, and if you're into them poppers can help a great deal.

I like getting fucked while wearing a jockstrap. It gives the top something to play with / hold on to, it keeps my junk in one place, it frames my ass, and i just find it hot. I don't mind fucking naked but definitely prefer wearing a jock / or some form of underwear.

in my experience I've tried using water enemas as described in this thread but so far without the success than I want. I've tried doing several "rounds" and so on but so far I have yet to get a result of clear water coming out eventually (at best it was slightly tinted which isn't good enough for me :-\ ). After trying using water I always ended up either using a store bought enema or having to decline the much anticipated sex - because if I'm not confident that my ass is thoroughly clean and is going to stay that way then it's not gonna happen. Currently I use a store bought enema that has a weak laxative in it and then after ive cleared out completely ill use 1-2 water enemas (small amounts) to flush it and check that the water is coming out clear. This works for me every time but it requires me to start "preparing" about 3 hours ahead of time because the enemas with laxatives do cause you to sometimes need to let out a bit more an hour or so later (after this second and much smaller bowel movement is when I flush with water to check that it's clear). the above has always worked for me, leaving my hole squeaky clean, but having to use store bought enemas is not only tedious but unhealthy to do constantly in a short period of time. I would much rather use water to achieve the same results in fewer hours but all I can think of is that I must be doing something wrong haha. has anyone had a similar issue? Or perhaps know what I may be doing "wrong" when trying to use water?

I never really had a preference and I believe I still don't. That said, my boyfriend is half black and he's the best sex I've ever had. But obviously that isn't because he's black, it's cause hes fantastic at fucking me! haha. I do love how black cocks look after coming in an ass / fucking a cummy ass though - the darker skin tone makes all that excess cum glisten

I dont mind the taste of cum but I always rather they cum in my ass, anywhere else would just seem like a waste. That said, there's nothing wrong with not liking the taste og cum and you shouldn't feel like you have to learn how to be able to swallow it.

most guys I've slept with in a night is probably around 6 or 7, but the most loads I've taken in 24 hours was from mostly the same two guys: met up with two guys, took 9 loads from them over a 5 hour session, went home and had someone over for a quick pump and dump, then was invited back to take more loads from the same two guys a few hours later and took 4 more totaling 14 total. I havnt done any large group scenes but I still manage to get my filling haha.

funny story, the first time I bottomed (ever) was with a guy who had a really thick 9 inch dick. At first I was terrified thinking how am I going to fit that in here?! But the top started out really slow and was gentle (he knew it was my first time) and by the end of the night he was pounding away all the way in. The "most" cock I've ever taken is two at once, now that's a whole different proccess / experience haha.

this guy's dick is huge! and he comes a lot, really hot: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=AM6Ot-G764-

I know you are asking tops in this thread but as a bottom I like two tops or one top and a vers-top. I definitely dont want to have to share with another bottom haha when I'm getting fucked I get cock-greedy! While I'm definitely a bottom and wand the majority of the session to be me getting fucked, I'm never opposed to topping one of them at the end or when they need a break to recharge haha.

there will always be size queens out there and more than likely always will be. The best thing you can do is just remember that there are plenty of bottoms (like me) who look for other attributes during sex. I've had sex with guys with huge cocks, average, and small and I can say with certainty that while a big cock is nice to look at, it's not necessarily a deciding factor in how good the sex will be. Some of the best sex I've had has been with guys with 5-6 inch cocks - they were able to reach and stimulate parts of my ass that I didn't even know existed. I'll take a confident guy who knows what he's doing over a big cock any day. Like you said, complaining about it won't really change anything. There will always be size queens, and if you don't match their "criteria" try not to take it personally. If you're confident with what you've got and you use it well I can guarantee you that you won't have any problems getting laid

I'm naturally pretty tight so unless there's a lot of ass play beforehand it usually starts with me really tight. What I love is starting tight and getting loosened up from a rigorous fuck so that by the end of the session my hole is dripping. So in short I like being both: starting tight and ending with my hole thoroughly fucked wide open.

I tend to like to wear jocks that hold everything in place up front (when they get too skimpy the balls / dick can sometimes just come out, which isnt terrible but I prefer for all my "junk" to be contained haha)and with low thin traps in the back. Some jocks I've bought seem to have the strap going across the middle area of the ass, which can get in the way when someone's working on tearing up your ass haha. I've got a lot of different styles of jocks cause I like to try out different cuts and it often depends on my mood (I have everything from cutout-briefs, to jock-thongs, to mesh pouch jocks and the list goes on haha). Two of my alltime favorites are the first jockstrap made by Nasty Pig: http://store.nastypig.com/index.php?product=5502&color=Black It's cozy up front but still pretty small and contained. The straps are nicely positioned so they sit under your cheecks. Another jock I've grown quite fond of is by Andrew Christian, called a "show-it" jock: http://www.andrewchristianshop.com/Show-It-Brief-Jock-by-PID17690-BLK.aspx?mmcid=17691 Usually I', not one to wear "enhancement" clothing but I actually find the added in pouch in this style of jock to be good for keeping it all in place as well as pushing it out a bit (it's primary purpose haha) so it looks pretty hot too! I agree altho like I said when it gets too skimpy in the front it can become pretty near impossible to keep everything in place which personally I like to try to avoid. I like jocks that have a small pouch which still contains everything well, and then the skimpier the straps in the back the better haha. That's probably why I'm a fan of the "show-it" style jocks where theres a little poucj inside the underwear to put everything in.