bigdick4you
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Looking to whore out 2 talented bottom sluts on sat. Morn/aft. During Folsom. If u r interested in being selected.... Please send me msg on here or on Bbrt.
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Don't know what's so hot about that.... Deliberately infecting someone without the other person wanting or knowing this.... In my opinion: u should be in jail! That's why I pick up most guys from Bbrt.... At least there everyone knows what the deal is.... Although u c guys saying negative only.... Then I think u r really kidding ur self.... Or it's somehow a turn on to be lied to...I always avoid such guys.... No matter how hot they r.... As I think something is seriously not right...
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Till few years back...I liked to fuck smooth asses or shaved only. But the last years I like hairy asses a lot! My last bf had an hairy ass and he knew to put me over the edge pretty quick with his hot hole... Don't like hairy backs though.... That's a major turn off.... Other requisite is that the hole is clean as I love to rim....
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Fisting 2 guys while fucking another
bigdick4you replied to HungLatinDom's topic in General Discussion
Hot pics! Not crazy about fisting myself.... But hot to c.... Most I have done was fuck 2 bottoms while they made out.... Totally hot to c and kind of rare.... And of course sexpartys....where I go from hole to hole.... -
U should leave his sorry ass immediately! U obviously don't feel good with situation and he is obviously a liar.... When there is no trust.... Best is to end it immediately... It won't get better but worse... Open relationships r tricky and set rules need to be made by both partners.... Rules that u r both comfortable with and can obey by...
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Thanks... Will have to c then if its worth going.... Can't be there for Labor Day weekend as I have to work...yes noticed that there r always private party's going on.... They might be fun...
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Have vacation from 10-16sep. And looking to go to PS and stay at gay resort...wouldn't mind staying there with in shape piggy bottom guy with who I can have fun with and share him with other top guys.... What is best resort to stay at for best piggy action? Was thinking of staying at inn dulge...
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I think they can... I know I can't though...I can fuck with lots of guys but only be in love with that special one.... For me it's like consuming food... I eat .... And then throw package away...I also get tired very easily with Fuckbuddies .... That's why I'm always looking for new fuck meat... As long as u r honest and open about it.... There is nothing wrong with it as long as other person agrees with it too... When I would go out with my bf I wouldn't look to others in sexual way.... My bf would then be with me and I would respect that.... I would even get jealous if I saw him talking to other guys.... Which I realize now was stupid... I also think I reacted that way as he made me feel somewhat insecure which wasn't good...in the beginning we would do group thing and then he didn't want that anymore and the last months when we would have sex, it was like he was in a hurry...that made me feel insecure about myself and our relationship...
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Looking for hot bottom travel companion for my sep.vacation
bigdick4you replied to bigdick4you's topic in General Discussion
No not off all month of sep. officially off 9-15 sep. but can extend it a bit as I work for airline...was thinking of going to stay like gay resort somewhere .... -
Not sure where I want to go yet.... But looking for hot in shape bottom guy to share vacation with.... We would split costs.... And I would whore u out.... Looking for uncomplicated drama free guy.... So let me know if u r interested....
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U can meet men anywhere.... I have had several BFs through Bbrt...it's not something I was looking for either....it just happens.... I think it's perfectly ok to have open relationship an that u both r a slut....as long as there r good ground rules and u respect each other and r true to each other ...for me what works is that I feel safe and secure with other person... Me and my bf can fuck with others... But there needs to be this sense of security that u r both committed to each other and that others r plain and simple just fuck meat to use when needed... It might sound cold... But for me that's best way....I also like to play together with my bf and others....and when it's all done go home together and sleep in each others arms....I'm a pig... But I also have a very sensitive romantic guy....finding the right guy and the right balance.... That is what is tricky...
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Best gay resorts in Fort Lauderdale
bigdick4you replied to bigdick4you's topic in Miami / Ft. Lauderdale / South Florida
Stayed at windamar resort last march and they held cumunion as well...to be honest found the place a bit rundown and my room smelled of disinfectant ...it's very easy to receive visitors...which was good as people staying at resort were kind of out of shape...cumunion party was ok... But I have been to lots of better sexpartys to be honest.... Slammers is great.... Very sleazy and lots of action. -
I have waited 20+ years as my viral load and cd4 were fine. It was only when I went under 350cd4 that my doctor recommended taking them. I would personally avoid going on meds till absolutely necessary.
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How have you changed sexually in the last year?
bigdick4you replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Have noticed that I went from being a somewhat dominant top to a more submissive top with only my bf.... With hook ups I'm still dominant and cold.... Have tried ws and must say that I enjoyed being pissed on.... This happened after us having a fight.... He just took me into the shower and started peeing on me....must say that I loved it! We had sex afterwards.... And after he came, I put his cum in my hole...made me feel really slutty I must say....now he wants to top me....and I'm totally open to it....I started out as a bottom.... But for about 15 years have been 99,9% a top. -
I understand all that and it's a non issue that not meeting ur parents really.... Don't want to pressure into doing anything u don't want.... I'm sure we would grow in it together...I also like the fact that u give the space to express myself sexually with others .... Otherwise it would never work.... I realize that I have been less than perfect regarding other issues known to us....all I can say is that I respect and love u very much bad want this to work.... U have to believe me when I say I would never hurt u in any way.... Please give me one last chance.... Lets go together to Orlando and then u can always decide if u want to move in with me to Berlin...
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I think u make a lot of sense in what u say... It's nice to get advice from like minded people... In the end we all make mistakes one way or another and everything has a learning curve...
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U know I always cared about ur father and still do... Would have loved to have met him and reassure him that I would take care of u.... I'm still totally committed to u and us! Don't let a stupid remark stand in our way... U know the real me.... I'm dedicated and totally committed to u.... I love u for gods sake!
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Sometimes things r not black an white.... I care very much for this man and feel responsible for him...I admit that sometimes we may have come across immature but in the end it's for us to decide if we stay together or not.... U can have ur opinion but please respect that I'm totally committed to this man and we were finally on right track... Till I messed it up with stupid remark and my arrogance.... Just hope he will find it in his heart to forgive me for saying something stupid that I absolutely did not mean....
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First of all I think u should invest in a brain ASAP...I get numbers from dudes too.... Or did u miss where I mentioned that I fucked with someone and didn't mention it till few days later? It's not a popularity contest about who gets most numbers....we r both attractive guys but that's not the point ....not saying that I'm great catch either.... Not very proud how I behave and react sometimes either.... Sorry for not having perfect behaviour skills...but u sure do sound perfect....lol
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I think he feels disappointed in me everytime I'm not completely honest... It's pure stupidity really as I know that it won't matter.... I think it's more shame from my part... The fear would be maybe that he thinks less of me... I'm very much in love with him.... But feel that things should improve...
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In all fairness.... I think I was being ridiculous the other night as I was drunk and that can make me somewhat aggressive.... I could also tell he was not interested in the guy as he was not his type.... The thing is that he will talk to anyone.... Ugly or good looking.... Which is good thing in my book...I think problem lies a bit deeper... The connection is a bit gone.... Don't know if it's due to long distance or what....sometimes he can also bit offensive towards me.... Maybe u r right.... And I'm not ready to be in relationship.... But I know I like sharing my life with someone I care for and waking up together and having fun with that person.... In the beginning we had that.... I want that back...
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Yes.... It is same guy....we probably should not be together for obvious reasons.... But what if it's due to the long distance? I think I might have over dramatised things the other day as he was being social.... Something that sometimes I'm not when we go out together.... Think that it has a lot to do with how he makes me feel.... In the beginning.... He was this really sweet guy.... I find he has changed somewhat.... I always Try to c the good in people I care for...can understand that he has trouble with me not being honest straight away...he also has problems when I go on hook up sites and I don't mention anything.... But I just think is that really necessary? It went from having fun together and with others with him lecturing me that I have too much sex and spend too much time on hook up sites and me always initiating sex...
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The truth of the matter is that I care for him a lot.... But he doesn't make me happy...sex is not spontaneous .... I have to ask for it a lot....whenever I ask him if he is still attracted to me .... He says yes.... My FB's r totally different.... They r always ready for sex but I would like to have that with my bf.... It kind of makes me insecure...not sure what to do...
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Been in long distance open relationship for almost year now....the thing is that I don't always tell my bf the truth straight away.... Although there is no apparent reason not to do it....like other day he was away for couple of hrs and I asked him if it was ok for me to hook with someone via gay hook up site.... He told me he didn't mind....I hooked up with someone and when he asked me I I had.... I told him no for no apparent reason.... Few days later I came clean... He was upset and told me that was why he didn't trust me as it had happened before...truth of the matter is that I always come clean few days later or when he asks me about it...I find it strange that I can't be open about it straight away..... What do u guys think?
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U make a lot of sense in what u say...alcohol triggers something that I'm not particularly proud of.... Normally also not really jealous type...when I'm with someone that I feel comfortable with...the truth of the matter is that lately is that the sex hasn't been so great.... I have the feeling that I need to ask for it and it has lost it's spontaneity...another matter is that I have certain issues with being open... Although I don't really lie ....I hide certain things....like the other day that he was away for few hours and I was alone at hotel.... I asked him if he would mind if I would hook up with someone via gay hookup site... He told me he didn't.... So I had guy over.... When he asked me if I had hooked up with someone.... I told him no....don't ask me why as I sure didn't need to lie about it...few days later I came clean.... This upset him and he keeps saying he can't really trust me as this hasn't been first time...