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  1. That's easier said than done....that's something we can't control....I'm very giving and pretty easy going...but somehow there is always something....maybe I should go more with the flow....
  2. Of course u can't get all ur sexual needs met by just one person.... That's why most people fuck around...I can fuck around and only be in love with my bf. for me the other guys r just holes to fuck.... I know it sounds horrible.... But that's just the way I am. I talked a lot with my bf about setting up rules....but he wouldn't be very set on rules which made me even more insecure...
  3. That's easier said than done....most guys won't put up being in LTR if u fuck around...I think u need to have incredible trust in the other...I don't have trouble with my bf fucking others.... But I would have trouble with him engaging with one of his FB in going out and having a social agenda besides the sex.... Don't get me wrong....it's great having casual sex.... But when u go home to empty house and wake up alone in bed it hits u....I also get tired pretty quickly with my FB if I don't develop feelings early on....it's complicated.... But I know it's possible...
  4. After being a pig for last couple of years since break up of my LTR and after few intense short relationships, it's time for me to reflect if fucking around is the path I want to follow...after break up from my LTR, I thought I just wanted to have casual sex.... No more strings attached....after about a year, I started to miss being in a relationship....having a bf.... Basically doing stuff bf do....going out,having fun and making plans together...I have a lot of acquaintances and few good friends to who I can open up to. My last relationship was very intense.... Although it lasted only a year and it was mostly long distance(I live in Europe and he lives in US) there was like an unusual bond between us. Till this day I still care a lot for him.... We just don't seem to be able to make it work...I thought my ideal relationship , would be an open one...and although I find it hot to c my bf being used by other top.... There is still a certain jealousy from my part. Maybe because I feel kind of insecure about the whole thing. As I work for airline, I'm able to travel quite easily all over the world...which is great. I can also live in other parts of the world.... Which makes it difficult to figure out, where it is I want to live....at the moment living in Berlin. Great city to have casual sex.... Not so great to find that special one probably.... I also work a lot....so don't spend much time here to meet new people. Last few years, all of my bf have been Americans..... Really like them and identify myself with them and the country...over Xmas I was working .... And saw several colleagues travel with their bf and spouses.... I felt like.... I so want that! But I probably can't have it both.... A LTR and being a pig.
  5. I def. like all kinds of holes.... Puffy and none puffy....don't like rosebuds.... As I'm not into fisting.... Have done it on very rare occasions.... But not my thing! One def must is that a hole is clean! Some holes rub my dick the right way and others don't....like it when a hole feel nice and slick...tight but not to tight...
  6. Seems like lately on hook up sites I can't find any hook ups who don't party.... I'm very anti drugs myself....I only use poppers for sex. I used not to mind if guys would use drugs during sex.... But lately it's a downright turnoff...can't stand the dumb tweaker talk and the moving all over the place and the stops to take more drugs....people smell badly as well and sweat a lot! The whole think is disgusting! On many occasions I had to kick tweakers out of my hotel room...what do u guys think.... Where does this trend cum from?
  7. The sooner u have it checked out the better! Would go to std clinic if possible.... I get routinely checked every 3-6months.... U should do same.
  8. Hey guys.... Will be attending MAL and staying at host hotel 17-20jan. Looking to share with in shape fun guys....bottom or top. I'm strictly top though.... But enjoy breeding bottom sluts with other top guys. If interested, contact me on here or Bbrt....I have same profile name on there. Only expect absolutely NO drugs. Can't stand tweakers and their friends in any shape or form. My only addiction is sex....urs should be the same.
  9. Yeah.... There is always hole to be seeded somewhere....I find it kind of strange and funny when I hear tourists cum here over and over again....have spoken to a few and they love it! I'm attending MAL in January in DC ....although it's good fun and sleazy as well.... The guys r not as good looking or sleazy....
  10. Been living in Berlin since May now.... After slow start and sharing an apartment with some small ugly troll for 2 months.... I got my own place right in city center not far from gay bars. This troll tried to seduce me from day 1...after he realized he wouldn't get anywhere, he asked me to leave the apartment and gave me one month to look for other place. At first I panicked as I was relatively new in Berlin. But in the end it all worked out. Although I have my own place, I have never invited anyone over to spend the night or have sex in my bed.... I guess I'm kind of strange .... Unless I'm kind of interested in more than sex... U will only be a hole to fuck for me.... I know it doesn't sound very nice.... But that's just the way I am! Any way in Berlin u don't really need to take anyone home to fuck.... Most of bars have dark rooms and almost every night there is some sexparty going on. My favourite is laboratory... Some people come every month to attend one of their party's.... The men r downright good looking and well built...it's very sleazy.... They have lots of corners with slings, fuck benches and beds...a lot of bottoms r just there to take dick... It's very hot when I see few holes up in the air next to each other , ready to be fucked!i have fucked lot of quality ass this way...it's also hot when other tops encourage u and tag team a bottom with u... Sometimes I make out with other tops as well...so for time being.... Well enjoying Berlin!
  11. It's the same during MAL and IML.... It's so called "safe sex" but everyone is fucking bareback! The word hypocrites cums to mind...
  12. As a European living in Europe but working for American company, having American friends and travellling to US a lot it's funny and sad to c how many taboos there r....specially what sex is concerned....in Europe nobody gives a rats ass what u do...I for one am very open about my barebacking practice and the fact I'm a man slut...I don't agree with everything.... But find it should be live and let live...
  13. Have finally decided to attend.... Staying at host hotel. Hoping to breed few good holes!
  14. Yeah I agree.... A lot has to do with the bottom.... I have fucked a lot of ass.... But some guys holes just don't feel good and can not make me cum.... While there r others that I have to slow down or otherwise I will cum to quick! Other day I had little sexparty at my hotel...we were 3 tops including me and there were supposed to be 2 bottoms... Obe bottom arrived like hour late after all 3 tops had unloaded in that one bottom. As the other bottom showed up the tops were leaving... I thought.... Shit! I just blew my load and am here with 2 bottoms....the 2 bottom sluts started making out....something that always drives me crazy in a good way....lol. I managed to get hard again and fuck and unload in bottom nr. 2. He left shortly after....bottom nr. 1 was so good that he managed to squeeze 2 more loads out of me! So 4 loads in about 3 hrs! After that I had to get ready and work back to London!was death tired.... But truly satisfied!
  15. Same here.... Luv fucking a cum filled hole! It's super hot to feel other guys cum on my dick!
  16. Trust me u don't have to stand in line half an hour before they open.... But my advise is to arrive 30 min. After their official opening time..it's a tops and bottoms paradise.... Best action is indeed in the darkroom with the big fuck bed....tops will go from hole to hole....
  17. I really hope so as I obviously luv him very much.... Loved him as a bf and luv him as a friend... He has said some pretty hurtful things about me on here.... Like I was only interested in pozzing him and then move on as I would have lost interest....that just shows me he never knew who I really was at all...put his name on my bank account.... So he would access to my account when I was away on trips and needed money.... Didn't trust me on this one either.... No it was done in Germany and I was tricking him into something...i felt hurt....all I wanted was to provide for him and take care of him.... I was no angel either... I was jealous and wanted him for myself.... A mistake I will never make.... But enough of this.... A Beer and maybe dinner in Berlin sounds great!
  18. I think needless drama is never good....I'm sure my ex cares for me like I care for him.... But we drive each other nuts! And fights an jealousy can be healthy but in moderation....and it's also important how u end a fight.... Do u do character killing or do u somehow show some respect to that person even when u r angry? Don't like people who r vicious and say hurtful things.... The trick is to respect each others wishes and let the other person be free and develop himself.... Otherwise they will resent u for it...have learned that and will not try to smother them with jealousy...won't let anyone disrespect me either...
  19. I luv a good piece of ass!
  20. I think u make a lot of sense.... I know right guy is out there.... And u r right.... I should give guys a chance....in the end it's all about connection and feeling good next to someone instead of insecure for whatever reason...think it's important that u know how to bring the best in each other instead of the worst... Think I will try to go for the stable and emotionally grounded ones...
  21. First of all, I think this post is a lot older than 2 weeks and I posted it after we had broken up.... Don't know why my ex goes off on me as it is about my feelings and me trying to find that perfect match.... I didn't say anything negative about him.... It's about my feelings.... So why try to make me look bad!? I'm no angel.... Never said I was.... I do have feelings for u and would like us to be at least friends....
  22. Actually make lots of sacrifices when I'm with someone....put them mostly first then...want to be with guy who is easy going and drama free.... Someone I can trust completely...can't stand game players or liars.... My last relationship went wrong as I had feeling he felt superior to me and that made me feel insecure...some things he said.... It just didn't feel right....in the end he broke up with me...also found out that although I'm a top.... I have a submissive side too.... Which was hot. We r still good friends and both have feelings for each other.... But know that we r very different to be in relationship together. I do still love him and will always be there for him.
  23. I'm a top who enjoys sex very much....have a special weakness for slutty bottoms. Love to organize sexpartys for 1 or 2 bottoms where I have other top guys use them...don't have a lot of regulars FBs as I get bored very easily...normally will use a bottom once and if he is particularly good.... Will use him other times. Have also a very romantic side to me.... When I connect with a guy, I'm all over that guy and love to do the normal bf stuff...like holding hands and going out for dinner and stuff.... Have noticed that last couple of years I have been in and out of short relationships... Sometimes I break up with them and other times they break up with me...due to my work(I work for an airline) it's easy to travel the globe and meet new guys....some of my friends who r in relationships.... Say that I should give sex a rest and concentrate on normal dating and getting to know someone...ideally I would be in open relationship with someone who is as piggy as me, but who also has his romantic side.... Normally it's always the same: guys who I'm interested in, r not interested in me beyond the sex thing.... And vice versa....
  24. To be honest.... Don't care if bottom comes or not....only if I'm kind of in love I care about him cuming too...like bottoms with small dicks too or bottoms who don't get hard.... Less of a distraction there...
  25. I luv rimming a clean ass before I fuck it...don't like guys touching my ass or rimming it though...
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