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As far as I know he is not having sex outside...but who knows? I don't mind if he is or not as we have open relationship. If he is I would like to know about it.he always turns the table around so I am the one feeling like the pervert...I'm pushing him to have sex...I'm older than him and I make the most money. He has experienced with hard drugs and been a slut but he regrets it afterwards. He hardly ever drinks. He looks miserable most of the time and I feel guilty because I think it's because of me. His dad passed away and his mother is although loving a bit manipulating. I went to c a psycho analyst as he pushed for it. According to him I had a sexual addiction. The analyst found this not be true...he said I just had an healthy sexual appetite and told me that my husband was the problem.

I have talked to him quite a few times about . I always get like excuses....I'm too tired,I have too much going on right now,u r too pushy, u don't bottom, I have plumbing problems.... accept the fact that he is not as attracted with me after 5 years but to cut out sex completely doesn't seem normal to me. And even if that's the case why doesn't he let me share him with other tops?

No he is not having an affair...we have open relationship since the beginning. In fact I used to share with other tops but he always had like remorse afterwards. It's weird.

I definitely think it's something in his head...he told me once that it's normal to be more attracted to people u just meet. I get that....for me it's the same but no sex at all? I start to think it's cruelty and disrespectful from his part. I broke up with my last real relationship because I lost total interest in sex with him but I still had sex with him like twice a month...

Im quite verbal when having sex and will fuck u in several positions. I would settle for once a month to be honest! My husband has one of best holes I' have ever fucked! I have to stop several times during a session so I don't come too quick...I don't have that with many guys...we r in open relationship so it's not like I want him to be exclusively mine sexually. In fact I loved when I was able to share him with other tops like I do with some of my other FBs.

It has been over a year now that my now husband haven't had any form of sex. We got married like 7 months ago and not even on our wedding night! Quite frankly I'm ashamed of talking to my friends about it so I vent on this website.i travel a lot for work and have enough fuck buddys to know that there is nothing wrong in my department. I just want to be able to have sex with my husband! He says im pushy about it,then it's that he is tired and has lots on his mind. Anyways there is always a reason not to do it! Sometimes I start massaging him to get things going as he enjoys being touched, but as soon as I touch his ass it's like u just want sex! I have also tried having him take the initiative but to no avail. We do plenty of little trips together where the atmosphere is certainly there but there is always a reason not to do it.i have also taken therapy about it and lately I have been smoking and drinking more than usual an I know that this situation has a lot to do with it. I met him over 5 years ago and he was an active bottom then which was great. We had lots of sex together and I got to whore him out together which I like. He has told me that he wanted to explore his top side but I think he uses that as an excuse as he is basically all bottom and I'm a top. I just don't know how long I can take. Lately he has been saying I'm moody and I know that not getting any has a lot to do with it. I love him but I really don't know if I can cope with it much longer...

Was there sat and sun on work trip and had great fun! There were lots of willing holes wanting to be filled and had a blast! The choice was overwhelming so had to choose who to fuck and breed! Can't wait till MAL in DC!

It's great when there is a connection.before I met my now husband 5 years ago I did at times fall for a sex partner. In fact I have had brief romances with several of my hookups.in fact impetus my husband on bbrt. We have an open relationship and it works out pretty well. I travel a lot for work and hook up with guys when I feel the need too. I prefer the short pump & dumps though. This way I feel less guilty. And I don't hook up with guys that live in our city to avoid certain situations when my husband is with me. It's great to have lots of sex with total strangers, but it's also great to share time and experiences with that special one....im sure that one of these days u will find someone that u can share ur life with. In the meantime have fun!

Maybe u sound too desperate....there is nothing more unattractive than desperate bottoms or tops.just move on to next one...I have had guys who seem very interested and then they stop responding...it's annoying but there r always guys out there who will come through...specially in the big city's. I also have my standards as a top. Sometimes I look at someone's pic and I know it's not going to work. Not that I'm seeking perfection but there needs to be some kind of sparkle when I c someone's pics.

I have been to several when I lived in Berlin as a top. They actually have also party's in Amsterdam,Cologne, Hamburg ,Leipzig ,Mannheim and of course Berlin. The first one I went to was Mannheim. It's a great decadent experience! To c all those holes lined up ready to take cock. The atmosphere is great...there is always a bar where u can relax between breeding and compare and discuss the sluts with other top fuckers. In Berlin and Hamburg there r lots of red mares. Most bottoms r in great shape specially the one in Berlin...there is a lot of great ass to fuck! I normally unload 3 to 4 times...I would recommend the experience to everyone...As a top it's great as there is a lot of ass to fuck. If u go as a mare u def need to be submissive as u need to take a lot of cock no questions asked . Here is lots of competition as there is like I said a lot of quality bottoms.

U should check out the party tonight fickstutenmarkt...good place to get loaded up!

It angers me because I'm not asking for the moon imo. I find it kind of disrespectful. Doubt that someone else would tolerate this shit. I can imagine that if I wanted extreme sex it would be a problem like piss,scat,extreme bondage...and ultimately I'm angry with myself for putting up with it and at times feeling guilty when I hook up with other guys. I already don't hook up in the city where I live out of respect for him.

It kind of makes me doubt everything. Sometimes I feel angry about it and other times just sad. There have been times in the past that he has played with others while I was away and that it involved drugs. He over indulged then and was pretty fucked up afterwards. I think that has something to do with it. I have been seeing a therapist myself and he said that he is a dick basically. In the past he has refused to suck my dick for whatever reason while I know while he was with others he would do it. I'm uncut and I know he prefers cut. Two years back on my birthday he came with me on my work trip and we had great time. We explored the city a bit and we had great dinner at some beautiful restaurant where he organized like a birthday cake...so he is attentful like that ...later that evening he just jerked me off as it was my birthday. He comes up with so many excuses that I don't know anymore and I just gave up...in the past I was too pushi...now it's that he has psychological issues and physical issues going on. The truth is I never expected to find myself in this type of situation...

Met my husband almost 5 years ago and our sexual relationship was more then satisfying...but for almost 2 years now he shows no interest in being intimate with me. According to him he has lots on his mind and he has some psychological issues...due to my job I travel a lot for work...I meet other guys on hook up sites. I'm total top and very into masculine slutty bottom guys. So I'm not lacking sex...I just don't have it with my own husband which is frustrating! He has called me pushy in the past, so I stopped asking for sex with as result it's basically non existing. We do love each other very much. We do what normal couples do, hold hands and cuddle but sex is non existent. Sometimes I think it's not the end of the world as I am having sex outside our relationship...by the way he knows all about it as we have always had open relationship. But somehow I would like to have sex with my own guy.i feel like there is a void there. I love him and respect him and don't want to break up but sometimes it's very frustrating...what do u guys think?

think this posting is fake...dont think that any old fart is that stupid

the problem was that he could be the way he wanted to be with others but not with me. it frustated me and made me feel insecure. i have been and still am in therapy because of this. Anyway he broke up with me a few days ago as i got very drunk in a bar and made a scene. not proud of it but it was due to long time bottled frustation. i feel sad but at same time liberated that its over. For time being just looking to have uncomplicated fun... thats what a lot of cumdumps say. they dont understand it either. i guess he does want it by other tops....just not by me. probably because we had relationship. anyway its over and time to move on!

Have been in a relationship with my BF for over 4 years now and it hasn't been an easy road...Thought the distance was one of our main issues so decided to take the plunge and move from Europe to US. One of our main issues has always been in the br. We met through a hook up site and I organized gangbang for him but somehow we connected...I consider myself to have an healthy sexual appetite and he goes through kind of phases....I travel a lot for work and have sexual encounters with other guys that I enjoy. The problem is that I can't be my sexual self with my BF. Ideally I would like to whore him out to other guys or introduce other guys into our sexlife....but he always seems to be apprehensive of it. We have had sex with others together and separately obviously but it's always like pulling teeth...he needs to be in the mood for it. The only way he can be a whore is when he smokes meth. Last year he went on a sex binge for couple of days when I was away for work. I felt kind of betrayed by it....First of all I don't like him doing drugs but secondly I would like him to do stuff like that with me. After that he was almost like one year sexually inactive as he was so shocked by the drug scene. We almost didn't have any sex... I couldn't come near his hole...I found it offensive but put up with it. Last week I came home from work and he told me he had met someone the day before and had smoked meth. I told him that I would leave him if things wouldn't change. I wanted to be able to have a sexlife with my BF as well and not just with others. He agreed and I finally got to fuck him after almost one year. The next day he was back to his old ways...not wanting to have sex and saying that I concentrated our relationship too much on sex. I went through his chats on hook up websites and read some of the msg he had with guys...it was like a total different person...he wanted to be a cumdump for these guys. Basically he is with others what I want him to be with me! It frustrates me and makes me grumpy and moody. I'm now with him on short vacation break in California and I was hoping to hook up with some guys....ideally have my BF join or at least let me have some fun with others if he is not up for it. But he won't have any of it...not only doesn't he want to join....but he also doesn't let me hook up with others! He tells me I concentrate too much on sex and that I'm moody...I told him I had normal sexual appetite and that I could hook up with others and still have time to do stuff together. I know that as soon as I get back to work he will go on hook up sites to find guys...I find this relationship dysfunctional and frustrating. I luv him very much but I can't continue like this....something will have to change! Any ideas how I can handle this situation?

Don't know about the market in Amsterdam but have been to several in Berlin,Mannheim and was last in Hamburg. There is lots of barebacking and really hot crowd. Blew my load 3x! I always have great time....

Don't know what to tell u as I use them all the time when I'm traveling and it works pretty well. Specially in big city's in US, Canada and UK. Maybe u come across as too desperate? Maybe it's ur pics or maybe it's ur messages.... Of course there r people who flake but there is still plenty of action...For me it's quite the opposite...I have too much to choose from. Also have plenty of regulars that hit me up. Anyway.... Analyses ur moves and u will figure it out why it's going so wrong for u. Good luck buddy! Don't know what to tell u as I use them all the time when I'm traveling and it works pretty well. Specially in big city's in US, Canada and UK. Maybe u come across as too desperate? Maybe it's ur pics or maybe it's ur messages.... Of course there r people who flake but there is still plenty of action...For me it's quite the opposite...I have too much to choose from. Also have plenty of regulars that hit me up. Anyway.... Analyses ur moves and u will figure it out why it's going so wrong for u. Good luck buddy!

Most of the time it's pure misery guys who party...normally I just send them away. For a top it's totally stupid to party as they can't get it up! Most bottoms r just annoying when they party...except for few exceptions....like the hot ski instructor I met few years back. I tag teamed him with top buddy of mine and he was hot as hell! And recently met 2 guys who where BFs and they both wanted to bottom for me. They told me they had smoked a bit and I was bit apprehensive about having them over....but boy oh boy am I glad I did! First of all they were both smoking hot and the sex was amazing! I fucked them both side by side and it felt amazing to have control over 2 bottom sluts. Defenitely not last time I will ever breed them! But yes in general tweakers r lousy fucks.

Hi I'm looking to share room with hot bottom or fellow top during Folsom. Hoping to find someone that already has a room in Soma. I would pay half of the room obviously. Serious reactions only!

PS is defenitely great place for hook ups...I had great time there with my bf few years back. And what I found remarkable is that there r lots of tops...so my bf was kept busy.... I didn't mind as I enjoy tag teaming him with other tops! FLL was not bad either...just stayed at gay resort in Maui with my bf...but here it was more about being friendly and bit pretentious.... Not as good for sex.

Was not bashing u.... But was expressing my opinion like u have done in THE past.i have lived in Amsterdam and as a foreigner they always let me know how happy I must have been to live in the Netherlands. I always told them that I was from a great country.... The U.S.! Don't understand why I should have been so happy living there. Burocracy is horrible and customer service non existent! Followed by shitty weather almost all year round, dying gay scene and the bars full of pretentious feminine little queens I knew it was time to go....

I ignore tops who hit me up wanting to get fucked...I ignore them because I know they don't get fucked that much and can't give me the pleasure a total bottom can.

Will have to say Tiger Milner as I think we have same attitude towards life and same personality.. Except that he is a bottom and I'm a top. I also had same reaction when I saw this thread...too high school....some other guys on here seem to be nice and genuine and others r bit of assholes...NLbear is bit too opiniated which is a common thing for dutch people...they always know best...very annoying. Lived few years in Amsterdam and was very happy when I left...