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You are right and that is a good tip. Thanks!!

I actually haven't thought about him trying to extort for $$$. That makes sense. You are right about not trusting people and certainly very strict with your Grindr usage. It definitely limits the pool. It did when I had never sent my face pics. The age limit is a good approach. Those with ill intent could still claim to be 21 but in fact under age. The age verification thing had me off my guard and thought that I could not possibly talk to any minor. You are right though that would not keep me out of legal trouble. That is what I am worried about if in fact he is a minor and lied about his age to sign up. 30 and older seems to be safer. It would be too much of an age gap to fake. I am glad to hear and thanks for sharing your friend's story. I didn't respond to his string of harrasing messages and even wasn't sure what to respond. I was in shock and only knew to take screenshots before reporting him to Grindr and block him. Thank you for these posts. They certainly made me feel better. I feel sad than angry that I and many others have to deal with this kind of craps.

Good suggestion and I have learned my lesson. Thanks. That is what I am going to do from now on. Before Grindr introduced albums, I had never sent my face pics. With "Albums," one could not screenshot photos. However, that doesn't really prevent those who want to take photos of the albums using other means. I did report him to Grindr before blocking. His profile clearly stated 19 and I had a screenshot. If he was indeed 15, he should not have signed up for Grindr.

I usually bottom but when it comes to topping, I prefer younger guys. I am very careful and discreet when meeting guys online but what had happened really hit my nerves. A few days ago, a 19 yo guy hit me up on Grinder and sent me pictures of his face and shirtless upper body. He asked for my face pics so I unlocked my album with face pics. Then, he sent me his nude pics and I returned mine as well. The exchange went typical with "into" and "where to meet." He said he was a bottom and liked to be submissive. He asked if I was into role play and I replied "not really." He asked if I was married with kids. I replied "yes" and he said that was very hot. We both could travel and agreed to meet for carplay. I asked if he knew a safe spot for carplay. He said he did and would be free in a few hours. I was not going to waste my time and told him to hit me up when he was free and ready to meet. He continued to messege me. He first told me to pick him up and I said no. Then, he said he could come pick me up which I declined. He told me that he was a virgin and asked if that turned me on. I replied yes. He asked me why and my answer was maybe a tighter ass. Then he tried to call me via the app. I didn't answer and told him that I don't do calls. He then sent a voice message saying how tight his hole was and tops could not get their cocks in. He asked if my kids knew that I was having sex with guys. I told him that I would not get into personal details. This is when he started sending me a string of offensive and harassing messages. He first asked how my kids would feel that I am fucking boys not much older than him. Then, he claimed he was 15 and I had nudes from a minor on my phone. He called me disgusting and said that he had saved my face and cock pics. He asked what my kids would do if I gets arrested for being a pedophile and if I had sex my children too....etc. What will I do if my wife finds out? At this point, it was too much to bear. I reported and blocked him. Should I be concerned? This whole thing really made me feel uneasy. As much as I like hooking up, there is no way that I would break the laws to do anything with minors. Thanks for reading.

Saw my neighbor getting sucked off today with a few guys watching. It was so hot. Now I know when he usually ventures out for hot mouths and asses. I am simply too scared to do anything with him unless he makes a move when we run into each other. I really doubt that he would.

Interesting thread. Although I still have years before retiring, I know I want to move and retire somewhere else. I think of where often and this thread has good information. The more places I visit and think about, the more I want to retire abroad. How should one factor in the healthcare cost/insurance to move abroad?

Nothing has happened since my neighbor bred me as I had not run into him at ABS. Today I saw him getting sucked off in an open theater surrounded by 5 guys at an ABS. He clearly is not the shy one. He didn't see me but I am sure he would spot my car when he was leaving. I did spot his car before entering so I knew he was inside.

I agree that the question is pointless and the answer is meaning less. But I get asked often. I am actually more comfortable with guys who say they are on Prep or UD. Yes, everyone just says yes. Why would anyone say no anyway. Even with my Prep and test every 3 months, I can't be 100% sure that I am clean. The best I know is that I have no symptoms.

I have a small cock and I used to be a strict top. My bottoms (mostly fuck buddies back then) had never complained about my size. Now I mostly bottom and agree that it is all about how the top uses his cock. I have taken various sizes and best sex I have certainly are not determined by the size although I do remember the big ones. Size does limit the positions. As a smaller endowed top, I love to fuck in a doggie style.

I got asked often why I do BB only. My answer is usually that I don't like condoms and I like the feeling of raw cocks. My answer doesn't seem to satisfy but I don't really care because I know what I like for sex. I take Prep and get tested regularly to protect myself and others. The question that follows is usually "are you clean?" even though my hookup profiles clearly states my status. What really bothers is the ones who get paranoid after raw sex and want me to reassure them that they won't catch something. 🙄 So how do you answer when someone asks you - Why BB and are you clean?

I don't settle for condoms and have turned down many tops who want to wrap. When I was in a darkroom at a sauna on NYD, I simply moved away from the cock with condoms. Partly, it was psychological but the main reason is that the condoms make my hole hurt and feel very uncomfortable. And the smell of latex... Yuck.

22 anal when a buddy got really drunk and bred me. Before that, I was a strict top.

I have visited a sauna a few times in the past week. I found that the area where I could easily get loads was gloryholes. Although I got pounded by the most number of guys in the darkroom, there were not too many loads. Sling was the worst actually. Maybe a blindfold would help. Usually I don't wait in a room with my ass up. It depends on where the room is located.

Sorry to hear about your bad experience. I also don't like that happening to me when guys don't play what has been discussed. Other than using condoms, I had guys wanting me to fuck them or play with their asses when I clearly stated to only bottom and on top of that, their asses were not even clean. Recently, one guy even tried to use a lube bottle as a dildo when I told him that I had no toys and don't like them in my hole. I told him to leave after that. 🤨

I went to a sauna on the new year day and it was packed. The darkroom with a big table had a lot of actions and was steaming hot. I lost counts how many time I got fucked. There were at least 3 other bottoms whose asses were up. I never had experiences in a group with other bottoms but I actually got so turned on by other bottoms taking loads. In between me getting fucked, I would play with other bottoms lending my support for them to get loads. In the end, I think I got fucked by more than 20 guys but only 5 loads. I guess that is usually what a sauna is about. Most guys want to play with multiple guys so getting loads could be difficult. Not bad to start a new year.

I am the same way. I can even feel the difference between a bare cock and one with the rubber. Yesterday at a sauna, one hung guy wanted to fuck with condom, I simply refused and walked away. So many cocks out there so I won't settle for that. In my experience, guys who want to fuck with condoms seldom fuck me bare at my request.

I went to Man for Man and tried to get some quick loads. Unfortunately, there was only one guy and myself. I left after 15 minutes because I didn't have much time. Although a little small, the cinema area has a nice set up. It could be a fun place if there are more people. Just like all ABS, it could be a hit or miss. I may stop by again if I am in the area again and have no much free time. Thinking of going to F56 on new year day and see what it is all about.

I am currently visiting Vienna. On my first day of arrival, I headed to a sauna to relax after my red-eye flight. I hooked up with two guys who took turn to fuck and suck me in the gloryhole booth. One guy gave a hot and nice facial. After that, the other guy and I moved to a cabin where I had one of the most passionate sex at a sauna. It was great chemistry. We kissed, sucked and fucked in every possible position until he shot a hot load in me and stayed in me until I jo. He licked my cum and then kissed me. Usually I am for quick pump and dump and just want to get bred so it is rare to have sex with a stranger that feels like making love. I am still reliving the memories. At the end of my visit to the sauna, I took 4 loads.

Yes. I had that too. I am very sensitive to smell and got turned off easily because of the smell in the surrounding.

That is what I do. Some tops are really persistent and want to fuck me with condoms after saying no It is a total mood killer at ABS.

I don't either. Depending on the cocks, I may continue to suck the tops off but usually I get turned off when the tops want to fuck with condoms. Never thought of that. How often do the tops bring you the loaded condoms?

Since crusing in public or ABS stores usually doesn't involve discussion of "into," I would run into situations when tops want to fuck with condoms. As soon as I see or hear them grabbing condoms, I just tell them and sex usually just stops. Occasionally, tops would proceed to bareback if they were really horny. Some would ask me if I was "clean" (really hate the word) after they had bred me. I remember one even wanted to me swear on my grandma's grave that I was clean!! Some would call me crazy or give me lectures. I usually just brush it off because I get tested regularly and am on prep. The tops that I don't like are those who prefer condoms and want me to give them ones. I had tops telling me to buy condoms at ABS!! No. If you want to use condoms, bring your own and buy them. So my questions - do you ask for bareback before having sex in public or at ABS? Any tips on how I can avoid these unpleasant situation? Thank you for sharing and happy holidays.

Thanks for sharing. It is amazing that you could remember all the details after so many cocks and assed. Too hot.

Danke. F56 is definitely on my list. I won't be able to go due to the opening hours. I love the saunas in Vienna and have been to Kaiserbründl and Römersauna. Always had good time. Haha.. Thanks for the tip about Rathauspark. Outdoor fun is hot.

Great. Thanks so much. Always happy to support the local economy. Which one is the best if any? The photos from Man for Man website look fun.