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I don't get it. Do I need to commit to spending a night at the bathhouse every week, taking loads and giving loads to strangers until I become a pozzed-up whore with a sex addiction? Will that get me any closer to a fulfilling sex life? Or will I come away disappointed and find nothing has changed?
Can I do something that's a LITTLE LESS desperate? I don't want to be THAT level of needy.
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I think I understand what you're saying. I know I can't replace my late husband in that way. Maybe it's more about filling a need - I certainly missed out on wild adventures in my youth, and have really low numbers for sex partners. Maybe it IS about quantity, because quality is harder to come by. But I also think it means passing up other possibilities, and finding love again may not be an option anymore.
Another observation: many of us find our needs met through the medium I describe, and we seem okay with that. We get pleasure from putting more knotches in our bedposts. And I don't allow myself to experience that and enjoy it. What are my weekends like? I sit and home, and never go anywhere, never meeting anyone, not even trying. That's the part of me I want to change. I just think I'm afraid to take the chance again.
I'm not sure what I'm saying.
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Need to go to a bigger city to be honest seattle sucks and so does tacoma where I live. Seattle is a big town with assholes with attitudes. Go to one of the leather events you'll have WAY more fun and take way way more loads.
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That might be a good idea, Akula. Except I don't know where leather events are around here. Not like I can get away like I used to. I know the big ones - MAL, IML, and so on - but are any of them near me? Not really, no.
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