The options are blank, safe, by agreement, condom, PrEP, PrEP & Condom, TasP. I went for “by agreement”, but this misrepresents me as it suggests accepting safe sex by specific individual agreement, which is not true at all, as I never would. So I think I will go for tge blank option too.
Even when “never” could be selected in the past (which it can no longer be done in the advanced user search function), I kept on getting approached by “always safer sex” people. With this experience behind me, I start my profile information with a clear statement that I only accept sex without a condom and that means anal (i.e. in my transgirl vagina).
This is in line with my “no risk, no fun” attitude, or rather “lot of risk, lot of fun”, as there is practically no risk and fun with just oral sex, or sex without penetration and ejeculation into the hole where infection is quite likely, depending on HIV status.