PG1961Canada

On 12/9/2019 at 1:44 AM, drscorpio said:

PrEP is definitely called for. I wouldn’t be secret about it either. “Because the two of you cannot abide by our rules, I am doing this to protect myself.”

I totally agree with this statement... don't pussyfoot around this... make sure they BOTH know you are doing this for YOUR personal protection... They can say what they want.... I see this as a case of 'actions speak louder than words".

" We discussed that we don't want to take it to the level of anal sex with "outsiders" because of the risks. 

     My husband and my boyfriend say they're monogamous, but I know they aren't. "

There is your answer.

I was in this exact same situation a number of years ago..... right down to having a 'third' that participated with us now and then for fun.  Like you, I also found out that every time I was travelling on business there were many, many situations with bareback sex and one day - my partner was diagnosed with HIV.  I tested fine.  So, that definitely put a bit of a monkey wrench into the relationship.

As stated by many others - get yourself on PrEP right away.

Your partner (and your boyfriend) are making decisions about YOUR health and lying to you..... you have to decide how much truth/lies you will accept.  But you should NOT accept that they are making health decisions that will affect you for the rest of your life.

Minimize your risk - whether you top or bottom.   You can still get STD's by the way... but PrEP will definitely help lower your risk of contracting HIV.

Do it now!!!!  

Good luck dude!

When I bottom, I try and work it into the conversation before hand whether the top likes it tight or loose - cuz' let's face it - everyone has their preferences.

I enjoy gripping a cock if that is what the top likes, but I REALLY enjoy just letting my hole go loose, and listening to the sound of his cock sloshing around in my ass.

I have one buddy who has my call him anytime I have a loaded ass... if he is free, he is over to my place right away to fuck his load into me and churn up the first load.  Then the fucker drops to his knees and eats both loads out.....

I tend to agree with most above that there is a distinct difference between an ejaculation orgasm from one's penis vs. an anal orgasm. 

@KptNLine - what a great description!!!

I have a regular FB that loves anal play.  He has managed to bring me to an 'anal orgasm' using his cock (about 7" thick and uncut) OR his fingers!  \

When using his fingers, he works 3 or 4 fingers in and even up into my second hole (a little).  There have been multiple playdates where he has manipulated me to a point where my legs start to shake, my hole starts to contract and he says he can actually feel my hole 'juice up' and I feel something similar to an ejaculation - but from the inside radiating outwards.  To me - that is an anal orgasm!!!!  And man-oh-man... it feels good!!! 

My three cents!

10 hours ago, PG1961Canada said:

I've participated in a PrEP clinic for a number years now.  Clinic is every 3 months. 

Started out with Truvada (TDF), then switched to the 'generic'.  No real issues.

Last appointment, my Doctor suggested that I switch over to Descovy (TAF), as it is now approved in Canada.  

He said he isn't concerned a lot about my kidney 'numbers'... I am fine.  But he said he feels with my age + years on PrEp ... the toxicity of the Descovy is gentler on kidneys and also gentler on bone density effects.

Of course - everyone reacts differently to any kind of meds... we're all different after all.  But, I am a little curious though.......

Anyone else do the switch? Notice any difference? New or different side effects?  See any changes in your Creatinine or eGFR measurement results?

Cheers guys.

 

I should mention... after my current prescription runs out... Doc said he thinks it's a good move for my age and length of time on Truvada ... and I agree it is a good move.  It is great to see progress continue to be made.  I already talked to my insurance and they will cover it the same.   So to me - this is a win-win.  I'm enjoying the answers I am seeing so far.  Thanks guys.

I've participated in a PrEP clinic for a number years now.  Clinic is every 3 months. 

Started out with Truvada (TDF), then switched to the 'generic'.  No real issues.

Last appointment, my Doctor suggested that I switch over to Descovy (TAF), as it is now approved in Canada.  

He said he isn't concerned a lot about my kidney 'numbers'... I am fine.  But he said he feels with my age + years on PrEp ... the toxicity of the Descovy is gentler on kidneys and also gentler on bone density effects.

Of course - everyone reacts differently to any kind of meds... we're all different after all.  But, I am a little curious though.......

Anyone else do the switch? Notice any difference? New or different side effects?  See any changes in your Creatinine or eGFR measurement results?

Cheers guys.

When I entertain a new guy...... I don't bother leaving a condom out.

If they want to use one - they will ask.  At which time I typically say - I prefer to not use them.  Are you OK with that?

50/50 chance.  Buddy says no - he gets a blow job and bye bye.  Buddy says nothing (typical)..... we fuck raw.

Keeps it simple.  You know what you want... raw.  You don't necessarily know what he wants until ... it is time.

It works for me.  Almost 100% opt for raw.

In the first part of a fantastic afternoon, I had just received two loads from a hung uncut regular FB.  He had eaten a lot of our combined juices from my ass and given me a good rimming.  I was now home and my hole was itchy for more.... so ... I hopped online.  I wanted another load.

I cruised a few rooms and was in Niagara Falls room when another semi-regular FB pinged me and said HI...!  Dwayne was a character.  Funny as fuck and hung and loved to fuck ass.  Great combo.

He said he was going to be heading home in about 3 minutes and would be passing past my exit.  Did I wanna get naked??  Once again - timing can be good or bad.  Today was a good day!

Dwayne is a very fit handsome, black poz daddy. He has a monster thick 11" cut cock.  This cock has it's own address it is so big.

He is naturally smooth, and shaves his pubes and balls, which makes his cock look even bigger.   And this guy knows how to use that big tool.  He has amazing hip action and is in no rush.  He likes to take his time and fuck.  The sessions are typically a couple of hours and lots of cum.

Due to our schedules, I hadn't seen him in a couple of months and was looking forward to a romp.

He really likes porn with Daddy types sucking and fucking one another.  He particularly loves black guys fucking white guys.... he says it reminds him of us... two daddy's workin' one another over.  But he always gets to top! And he laughs.

I found a good movie, got the lube and poppers out and threw a blanket on the bed upstairs.  I had left the door open and I heard him come in.  I yelled for him to come upstairs and share a smoke with me.  He came in, gave me a quick kiss and stripped and said..... "Suck my cock baby..... I've been thinking about your lips for the last 15 minutes.  You give the best head".

I adore this guy's dick.  He is a hot fucker, so it makes it even better.  And he and I click when naked.

I pushed him back onto the pillows and crawled between his legs.  I grasped his balls with my right hand and hefted the almost hard monster dick with my left hand.  Then I leaned forward as he held out a popper bottle for me.  I took a couple of hits and he pulled the bottle to his nose and looked me right in the eye and winked and took a couple of hits.  His eyes never left mine as he put the bottle beside us and settled back with his hands behind his head.

I leaned forward and smelled his musk.  This man smelled awesome.  I leaned forward and started to lick from the base of his cock upwards.  I looked up and he was looking down at me with a smile on his face and he nodded.  I looked him in the eye as I licked my way right to the top of his dick.  He flexed that massive head a few times to make some pre cum ooze from the slit.  He raised his eyebrow and winked.

I leaned forward and licked the pre cum from his cock very slow.  He started to hiss a little and raise his hips.  I pulled back off of him to tease him and pulled his balls down with my right hand.  That got his attention!!  And he smiled.  He understood.  I was in control of the blow job.  Enjoy it.

I sucked and licked that beast.  I suckled the head with JUST enough pressure to make his hips jolt from the pleasure and pain.  He loves it when I get half the cock in my mouth and I stop and then gently squeeze around a little with my teeth.  It drives him crazy.  He says I am the only one that he lets do that.... because I know how to use my teeth in sensitive/tease mode.  Grin.

We share hits of poppers as I continue to work his thick cock down my throat.  We both know I will be licking his balls soon, with that entire piece of beautiful meat down my throat.

And soon enough... that is exactly what happened.  I had his entire cock down my throat.  I squeezed the length of it with my throat muscles and teased his nerves with some 'humming'.  And of course, I had my tongue out and licking his shaved smooth balls.  His balls were always tight to his cock base.  They weren't huge and I could always put both in my mouth at the same time and it drove Dwayne nuts.  

I was looking at him the whole, slow entire time.  It was very hot to watch his facial expressions as I did things with my mouth, lips, teeth and throat.  But suddenly, his eyes flashed.  I swear they went a little red. LOL.

He pushed me off his cock and lifted me at the same time.  I was surprised at how fast he moved, and I was suddenly on my hands and knees and he was pushing my shoulders down.  Again today.  Second time. I'm lovin' it!!

I feel his flat tongue licking around my hole.

"Hmm. Somebody has just recently been fucked.  Your hole is still gaping you pig.  Hot!! How many loads have you got there?"

Dwayne was practically 'humming' as well.  He started sucking at my tender ass lips.  I knew I would be feeling that big 11" sliding into me soon and as gently as Dwayne is with that big dick - it is still a challenge that I enjoy... and... feel.

He dove in.  He licked and sucked and fingered my hole.

"Two.  I have two loads there from the same guy."  But I was sure that he and I had eaten at least half the loads and I'm betting a whole bunch leaked into my jeans (Part 1).

"It tastes fucking awesome dude.  I cannot believe my luck.  We can use cum for lube".

He made sure he ate my hole and opened it and fingered it and soon enough, I felt that plum head snug against my hole.

Dwayne has the hips of a stripper.  He just starts a slow swivel and some gently pushing and thrusting at the same time.  He starts dirty talking whatever is going on with the porn we have playing.

"Oh ya baby... look how that bottom's hole is stretched around dude's fat cock.  Look how his lips stretch as buddy pulls that big dick out to the edge.  Oh ya baby... that's what your asshole is gonna look like in a few minutes... and a groan". 

Then some more swivel and pushing. I looked at him over my shoulder and took a few big hits and closed the lid.  He took it from me and looked at me and smiled and winked and took a couple of hits.  Then he just braced himself on his knees while I slowly pushed my hole ONTO his cock.  I pushed back on that fucking warm fat tool and could feel the head opening me up.  He didn't move.  He was talking at me..... "Ya baby. Slide down on Dwayne's dick... take that hard cock into your tight ass.  Oh fuck, I can feel the cum from earlier.  It is hot and wet.  Your hole is so juicy.  Ya.. I'm gonna load you up with my babies dude.  I am so fuckin' enjoying sliding into this juicy fucked hole."

I was so turned on and very shortly that fat plum head was trying to open door number 2 and get up into my guts.  We both know I can take it.  He says I am his fave fuck because I can take his whole cock.  The shape fits my throat and ass perfectly.  He was happy and I was happy.  I did a couple more hits. it wasn't long before I was pushed back against Dwayne's smooth pubic bone.  That whole 11" was up inside me.  

We paused.

He had some song going through his head... a great groove.  Those hips rotated.  He pulled and pushed and took his time.  I rolled my shoulder forward and got ready for a nice slow fuck.  And we  rode it out for a while.  Watching the porn.  Enjoying the fucking.  Taking our time and enjoying the fuck.

"I think it's time I loaded you up with my hot load dude.  Whattaya think? Ready to get loaded?"

Here's the thing.  I mentioned Dwayne's balls were nice and compact and up close to that 11" cock.. but the guy blew buckets of cum.  It was amazing how much cum this guy produced. 

His rhythm didn't change at all, but I felt it.  Slow at first.  Warmth.  Then damp juicy hot fucking warmth and I knew he was loading me up with his hot load of puppies.

He reached around and stroked my rock hard dick and leaned onto my back. I squeezed his cock hard with my entire set of ass muscles and he just let out a drawn out groan. 

I figured he was going to pull me off and that was it but he just kept pumping my ass nice and slow.

"Dude.  I've been travelling all week and haven't had time to do anything.  I am as horny as fuck.  I need to give you a second load.  It won't take long. LOL".

And he kept pumping away and humming his tune and talking dirty and he dumped a second load into me in less than a minute.  

That is when he rolled back onto his back, and pulled me back onto his chest while impaling me on the monster dick that was still dripping cum everywhere.

"Just give me a second dude... I'm not finished" he gasped. 

Then he pulled that big cork out of my hole and literally dove down towards me ass as he rolled one leg over the other.  My hole was totally exposed to him and I felt him gently slide his tongue into my huge wrecked gaping asshole.

I pushed his two loads of cum from my ass slowly.  I could hear little wet slurping noises and feel Dwayne's long tongue probing my guts.  He had shot the first load deep.  The second load closer to the edge.  So he had a steady stream of cum descending from my dripping ass.  He also used his fingers to probe and pull out globs of cum.  He shared some with me on his fingers and I realized I could taste the difference in Bob's cum and Dwayne's cum.  Hmm... both excellent of course.

He really wanted to stay and dump a third load but he had company coming for dinner and he had been on the road all week and needed to get his ass in gear.

We've made plans to get together before Christmas.   I wonder if I can pull this tag team at different hours off again????? 

Bitch of a day at work in the home office.  I needed to have some stuff done by an end of day deadline and I was HAF.  I focused on getting things done so I could try and get laid.  I wasn't sure if I was in a top or bottom mood.... just that I need to get naked with someone today.  That was my incentive.

I finished up my work early and decided to do a good cleaning, just in case I found a horny top.   Then I popped online to see if anyone was around.  

There wasn't a lot of Grindr or Scruff profiles nearby.  I logged on BBRT and then I logged onto Squirt and starting checking out local action. 

A FB and fellow ass play fan pinged me within a minute.  He said he hadn't seen me in a while and had a big load to dump.... He was just getting ready to log off and toss off because there weren't many guys around in late afternoon..  Was I interested?? 

I told him not to waste that load in his hand.... LOL   Where would we play? Mine or his?  We agreed I would head over to his place... he had some new ass play videos he wanted me to watch.

 Talk about perfect timing!  

I was all cleaned out and ready to roll.  I was at his place about 15 minutes later and walked in.  He yelled down from the shower that he would be down in a minute.  So I stripped in the living room and turned on his 70" TV (we have been FB's for a few years now... I'm not that bold).

He had left himself connected to a drive and I just hit PLAY on the current highlighted video.  I was immediately treated to a 70" display of a stretched hole that had clearly just been fucked and bred.  The ass lips were stretched and the hole was past round... this guy had been pounded in many different directions before he got seeded!!!  A hot latino Papi appeared in the right side of the screen and he leaned in and sucked and licked the dripping cum from the destroyed hole.  FUCK... this was amazing video.  Then the camera panned out a little and the sexy older Papi lifted what looked like about a 10" uncut cock and slapped it on the dilated hole.  He pushed in slowly right up to his balls, pumped back and forth a little, and pulled out his cock.  It was still hard and now covered in cum and ass juices.  I idly touched my cock.  It was already rock hard.  This video was my kinda porn. I really love uncut cock.  And this one was a whopper.

Papi slid his fist from the base to the head, gathering cum  between his thumb and forefinger.  He took the accumulated glob of cum and wiped it across the pulsing hole.  The bottom moaned in the background and Papi dropped to his knees again and started licking his cum from the abused hole.

Bob slipped up behind me, reached around and grasped my cock and whispered into my ear "That is what I am going to do to your hole right now buster.  Get on the couch. Shoulders down and ass up". 

Then he passed me a bottle of poppers.  This usually meant some good ass play coming my way.

He didn't disappoint.  I wasn't bent over 3 seconds before he had his tongue shoved into my hole.

"Did you pre-lube your ass?" he panted and spit on my hole.

"No.  I know you like to use natural juices dude... so it's all yours to work over".

He moaned and pushed his entire face into the spread between my cheeks.  That wasn't enough for him though, and he reached up and spanked both my cheeks 'hard' at the same time.  As I jolted from the surprise slaps, he drove his tongue in even deeper.  Then he started to suck on my hole.  Then tongue in.  Then suck. Repeat.

Bob is Italian and has a very thick 8" uncut cock.  He always has a two day scruffy growth on his face.  Being Italian, it is thick and dark.  He is a handsome fucker and knows how to eat ass. 

I was enjoying the feeling of his two day Italian coarse black hair rubbing on my tender hole.  He used his face and chin to make me squirm.

I took a couple of hits and I felt him gob all over my hole.  He held my left cheek still and I could feel his index finger at the entrance to my hole.

I felt his hand come off my left cheek and then he immediately gave me two hard slaps.  The suddeness jolted me again, and he used that opportunity to slide his finger inside me right to the base with one smooth move.  He slapped again on the right cheek and he probed gently at my prostate.  Stroking it.  Teasing it.  Making me moan into the couch.

I heard another big gob of spit.  And he pushed it inside.  Then leaned forward and ate my hole some more, while he slowly stroked my dripping uncut dick.

He told me to take a couple more hits.  As soon as I put the cap back on, another gob of spit and two fingers eased right in to the base.  He stretched them inside me without moving his hand.  Just separated the fingers inside.  Then he rotated them slowly and licked where his fingers met my hole.  The feeling was fantastic.

He pulled the two fingers out quickly and I could feel a second of cool air, until he forced three fingers in at once.  

Another hit, then four fingers.  He was pushing them in and twisting them around and opening me up roughly.  I could feel him shift positions behind me and the four fingers continued to open me up wider.  Then he pulled out and I waited to see what he would do.

I felt the first hard slap of his cockhead hit my exposed hole.  He slapped it right in the middle of my wet hole about six times in a row.  Hard hits were followed my slower, slightly penetrating hits.  He would push JUST the head of his cock into my gape to make me feel it start to open for his big thick cock.  Then he would pull out and slap it with the head again.  Over and over he did this.  I was losing my mind and snarled "Push that fucking cock in there and stop teasing me you cunt".

He was waiting for that and just rammed all 8 inches of thick uncut dick into me at once.

I felt a million volts of electricity hit me and the rush of pain and pure lust fought for control.  Lust won.  I pushed back hard onto his cock.

"Now fuck it dude.  I came here for a load.  Fuck a load into me".

And he did indeed fuck me.... Hard. Slow. Shallow. Deep.  More pullout and slaps on the hole.  Cock back inside.  Pull out and replaced with those four fingers.  Gawd.. he was all over the place.

He started to pick up speed and I could feel him flexing his cock as he pushed harder and harder into my guts.  At this point, he was well into my second hole and he was looking for that last quarter inch of dick up there so he knew he was as far up as possible.

Bob is a big pre cummer and he didn't disappoint.  His breathing started to go funny and I could feel his pre-cum pulsing in my hole.  

"I can feel your pre-cum you hot bastard" I said over my shoulder.  "Now load me up with the real thing".

That was what he wanted.  He wanted me to tell him I could feel his pre-cum.  It really turned him on and he started really pounding me.

I held onto the edge of the couch and pushed back on him every time he pumped forward.  About six or seven thrusts later, he froze and grunted and I could feel him pulsing.  The hot cum pumping into my guts.  He pulled back a couple of inches and rammed his cock back up into my guts and was still shooting.

He fell forward onto my back and thrust his hips back and forth slowly, making sure he was churning his load inside.

We were both covered in sweat and laughed a little about how fucking fun that romp on the couch ended up for us.

He eased his cock out slowly.  Still teasing me. Pulling his cock head right to the edge of my hole and then easing it out.

I could feel the cum oozing out of me when he extracted his cock.  It had just started to roll down my taint from my hole towards my balls, when I felt Bob's tongue swiping from the balls upward.

Oh fuck.  His tongue was amazing.  That beard scratched my sensitive hole as he started to lap away at the cum around my pucker.

"Push".  One word.

I started pushing my cum from my guts and I could hear Bob slurping and moaning as he licked the cum globs from my hole.  This went on for a few minutes and my head was spinning from the feelings.

Suddenly, he stood back up and placed his cock against my hole again.   He slapped a couple of times and I could tell he was hard again!!!

He just leaned forward onto my back again and kept sliding his cock deeper into my ravaged hole.  He pushed into me in one smooth movement.  When he was balls deep, he leaned on my back and started to pump his cock in and out while he licked and chewed my ear.

"I enjoy your hole so much.  It is always fun with you dude.  I'm gonna seed you again".

And he just started pounding my ass.  Violently taking me.  It was all about him.

He pulled back and started deep dicking me from the edge of my gape right up into my second hole.  I opened my hole up wide for him to thrust in, then I squeezed his cock on the way out.  Over and over.  I could feel his balls slapping on my ass as he pounded me.

He lasted about two minutes and said "Here comes number two you hot fuck" and once again, I could feel the warmth spreading around inside my guts.  Holy shit!

He pulled his cock out and walked around front of me.  I was dazed but opened my mouth for him to slide his cum covered cock onto my tongue.  I moaned and started to lick him clean.  He pumped his cock into my mouth and reached around to put 4 fingers back into my hole.

"Push" was all he said.

I felt Rob's hand reach around and grasp my rock hard cock.  He coated it with his cum and started to stroke me.  He reached into my hole with his other hand and scooped up more of our joint juices and he pulled his cock out of my mouth and replaced it with his cum covered fingers.

That did it for me and as I licked our juices from his fingers, my cock exploded in Bob's hand.

He stroked me off and pulled his hand out.

He looked me right in the eye and put his hand up to his mouth.  He made sure I could see him lick half the load from his hand, then he presented his hand to me to finish the cleaning.

We fell back on the couch, side by side to watch a couple of Daddy's on the big screen swapping cum back and forth in a kiss.

I leaked cum from my ass all the way home.  I could smell it when I got out of the truck.  It was awesome.

I went inside and stripped and was going to shower, but I thought... I am still horny.  I wonder if anyone else is online.........?

This happened to my partner and I. 

I agree with @drscorpio.... if you have the means... get some counselling....  

We were fortunate that the SIS clinic where he started treatment offered counselling to each of us separately - and couples counselling.   

It helped.  Just a thought!!  Good luck

I have a semi-regular FWB who is totally into ass play.  He loves to get it and he definitely loves to give it.  And by give it, I mean... he takes his time and opens me up with his tongue and fingers and really works his hand in nice and slow.  He tells me he does this because he loves feeling my ass cum and self lubricate around his hand.... and then his cock.  

It likely helps me generate juices the entire time because he is giving me a play-by-play of what he is doing and how it 'looks' from his perspective.  It really turns my crank, because he knows what he is doing and isn't in a rush.  And he is clear that he loves eating and fingering and fucking my hole in a no-rush playtime.  But he always tells me he hasn't had to use lube... just his spit and my dripping hole.  He knows the magic spots to rub to keep it all flowing too.

I have left his place with a massive load of cum deep inside my second hole... and then got home and sneezed... and blown the whole load all over my floor.  It takes a couple of hours for me to close back up.  

He says the gape turns him on.  I know it 'feels awesome'. 

Blowing the entire load out of my ass surprised me tho.  I've chalked it up to 'short term'.  (then I put the cum all over a big dildo and ride it and stroke off - grin).

I also enjoy slowly opening his hole up and really getting a good gape happening before fucking him with fingers, tongues, toys and my cock.  He is like one of the guys above and just wears his underwear home dripping with my cum.

Personally - I love giving or getting this treatment.  The gaping dripping ass is kind of a turn on for me.

Got a text tonight from a FB.  He and his partner were horny AF and wanted to play and hot tub... was I interested?

Hell ya!

R is uncut.  P is cut.  They both love to eat my hole and suck my dick.  It's a great mix.

P got comfy on the massage table, legs spread, balls hanging.  I laid across the corner of the table and took the hint.  I grasped his rock hard cock and started to slow throat it, deeper and deeper.  He was moaning like crazy and I could feel the head of his cock swell in my mouth.

R slapped some lube on his uncut dick and just slid into my hole, right up to his balls.  One slow, constant push.  He re-adjusted his stance and started pounding into my hole.  He leaned across my back to suck his partner's cock  while pistoning his dick into my guts.  He reached under me and stroked my uncut cock.  I was hard as fuck and my cock ring had my cock and balls swinging back and forth while being pounded by R.

He lasted about 5 minutes and announced to the neighborhood ..... he was seeding my hole and stroked the first shot of cum directly onto my hole and slammed his cock inside while finishing shooting.  I could feel the slickness of his cock plowing into my creamy asshole as he told his partner that it was his turn.  I was loosened and slicked up for P's even bigger cock.

P got off the table and walked around behind me.  I felt his thumb penetrate my hole and he groaned.

"Oh fuck - that hole is wet R.. you totally loaded him up".

With that, he slapped his cockhead a few times on the cummy outside of my stretched hole and he jabbed his cock in... right up to his balls.. in one abrupt slam.

It knocked the breath out of me a little and he held a bottle under my nose.

Soon, I was enjoying the good solid pounding P was providing to my hole, while I licked R's snotty cock clean of his cum and my ass juices.

P kept a running storyline out loud about how wet and warm and sloppy my hole felt around his cock as he continued to pound me.

Now he was slapping my ass hard and really giving my hole a good solid fuck and he suddenly lurched and buried himself deep in my ass.

I could feel the head of his cock swelling as he pumped his load of cum into my guts.  His cum is unusually warm.  I have had it in my hole many times before - alone with P or with both P and R.  I know a big load when I get it from P.

He pumped that cum into me as deep as possible.  Swiveled his hips to spread the cum around inside.  He pulled to the edge and slapped my hole - then pushed back in. Repeatedly.

He suddenly  yanked his cock from my ass and I heard him groan at the same time I felt a hot rainshower of cum all over my hole.  The fucker had cum again in less then 3 minutes of grinding.

I cleaned him up and off they went.  We'll do it again in a month or so.

Fucking loaded ass.  I went upstairs and rode a big dildo.  Blew my third load of the night.

Hi guys... I live in Canada where CBD oils etc are legal.

They ARE in fact tested and regulated by % of concentration.  You can purchase in liquid oils, flavoured liquid oils, capsules etc....  

I have arthritis and use them for pain management... and... they help you sleep (without shooting pains in body joints).

I agree with @find91 in that they don't make you feel stoned/stupid... they really relax you (depending on how much you ingest).   I haven't tried a suppository, but I suspect it will be something similar. Relaxing.

Like anything you purchase on-line - be careful to check ingredients and % levels of CBD before ingestion.... but CBD is helpful to reduce stress, anxiety or pain.

My three cents!

For extended play sessions full of rimming, oral, fucking, breeding and felching... I have some regular guys.  We know how deep and piggy we can get and it is always hot.  

But I LOVE anon... it is usually aggressive, hot and hurried somewhere like a hotel room, or back room, or dark room or outside in a park.  Nasty. Perverted and one man sticking his cock into another man... and that gets BOTH of them off.  

Regulars are always hot. Anon is short intense and gone....

I've stayed at Parliament House a couple of times just for that reason... it isn't a 4 star - but it is a gay resort and easier to find guys for hookups.

I guess the fallback position for me would be.... "Hey dude... what are YOU doing on that app???".... people will judge no matter what you do..... so do what makes YOU feel good.  I know in some office situations this can be dicy - but this is blatant harassment.  If enough people have facts of his behavior, he cannot play the victim.... he is a harasser.  Companies don't like having law suit liabilities around... Just my thoughts.  I wish you luck.  This is bullshit behavior on his part.

I decided there were too many, so instead, my favorite 'gangbang' of porno stars would start with me loading up Adam Russo's daddy hole... then having him load mine up.  Once we were both lubed up, we would be side-by-side on the bed getting fucked by Peto Coast, Lito Cruz, CutlerX and Rocco Steele.  2 on 1 for an afternoon.  Fucking HOT!! 

Holy Sunday Funday.  Nothing planned.  Ended up getting a last minute call from a black hung fuck bud.  He was coming through town... did I want to play?

Versatile, hung and handsome and "U=U"..... I was more than happy to entertain.  We have fun when we play.

He showed up... pumped a load down my throat, then said he had a buddy coming from Detroit to Niagara... would I like to meet him? He said he was a nice guy, big cock and loved to fuck white Daddies.  So of course I agreed!

Load 2 came from my buddy, who decided he would like to pump my ass with hot cum before his buddy got at it.  He talked dirty the whole time he was fucking his second load into me in less than half an hour.  He wanted to watch us fuck.

VERY sexy hot black muscular Daddy shows up and he is about 11" long and about 6-7 inches thick.  Holy fuck.  But, we sucked and he worked that massive cock deep into my guts and unloaded a massive load #3 inside.

A couple of hours later, get a ping from a couple local fuck buddies.  They are partners.  They're looking for a 3sum. 

I figured - why not - already got a two loads churning in my ass - why not see what happens.

They come over and want to fuck in the sling.  So Partner 1 (A) and I fuck Partner 2 (B) for a while.  His first time.  He really enjoyed it.

Then I said to A - why don't you show your other half how to properly fuck and seed a hole in the sling?

They BOTH just about lost their minds ... they were very excited.

So... B gets down and eats my ass... and is opening it up for his buddy.  He suddenly looks up at me and says... you've already got a load in there!?? Don't you piggy??"

I admit I have TWO loads in there and he goes to work really opening my hole and eating some of that cum out.  But A isn't having it... he gently pushes B to the side and lines his uncut cock up and slams it into my ass.  Rock hard.  Always rock hard.  And sure enough, a few minutes later, his MASSIVE cum shot.  I can feel it bubbling in my ass as he pushes it in deeper and stabs my hole with his cummy cock. 

He turns to B and says "Clean it".  B drops to his knees and licks his partner A's cock.... cleaning all the cum from the foreskin all the way to his balls.

Then B turns to me and licks all the cum that is oozing from my hole.

I tell him to get ready to dump his first load into a cummy hole in a sling.

He only lasted about 4 minutes.  He said his brain was tilting it was all so hot.

When he blew, he immediately dropped to his knees and sucked all the joint cum from my hole. That was load #4 for the day and I was happy as fuck.

I was lying there feeling the tongue action and could hear the sloshing and slurping.  Partner A engulfed my cock and shoved two fingers into my sopping hole... and I shot off into his mouth.

He looked right at me and spit the cum out onto his cockhead and smeared some of my own cum on the edge of my hole, then he pushed his hard cock into the slushy mess.  This guy can cum 3 or 4 times at a pop.

Since this was his second load, he took his time and really churned things up.  B was on his knees under my ass licking the excess that was dripping and swallowing.

Suddenly A announced he was going to cum and he pulled gently to the edge of my gaping hole and just let the cum shoot all over the edge of his hole so that some would drip right down into B's mouth.   Then he slammed his cock with load #5,  Nice and deep.

B sucked what was left of 5 loads from my hole.... and then pushed A to his knees and told him to lick some of it up.   A had NEVER done this before and I he looked a little surprised, then I saw the resolve fade immediately and he locked onto my gaping and dripping hole and sucked and licked for a few minutes.  Then he stood up and snowballed some of the cum into B's mouth.  

So 5 loads in my cumdump hole and 1 in my mouth.  A good day!

I've had a number of really fun 3sums with couples in the past.  I always ask them if they have an 'arrangement'?  What I find interesting is that the ones who DO have an arrangement or rules or an agreement really seem to be grounded as a couple.  Some say they play together only - and that turns their crank.  Others will go one-on-one with me - because it is their deal and it turns them on ... etc... etc.

Some good advice above ..... come to an agreement.  If you want to have side-fun - make sure you both think that is OK.... or you will end up cheating and that usually ends poorly.  Be honest with one another!

Cheers dudes!

My ex was poz.  We got tested when we got together.  His viral load was high.  His CD4 was low.  He wasn't surprised, but he also wasn't sure what would happen.

His plan covered everything for him.  It was his decision to start the cocktail (back then) or not.

He chose to do it and ..... was sick as fuck.  It was really tough for him.... and secondarily, me.  But, he got through it and so did I.

For years we fucked raw.  His numbers were really in a good place and we understood U=U... we were living proof it was OK to fuck raw with the right numbers.  We also had a lot of 3sums, and I realized that I enjoyed fucking raw - but didn't necessarily know (?) or believe (?) the status of some of the guys we fucked around with together.   I went to Anon Testing clinic that was local every 90 days. 

I had to decide whether to go on PrEP and go out there and fuck raw or take the chance.

I opted to join a local clinic that was studying MM relationships where one partner was poz and the other..... not.

I started the program and .... no regrets.

But - I HAVE definitely been shamed by some real dickheads about being a pussy, and what's the big deal - if you get pozzed, just take drugs..... etc etc.  Not a lot of guys, but I would bet around 10 guys I 'thought' were cool.  This wasn't jokin' around or fun shots.  These were head-on brutal comments.  

I grew up in a small town and was bullied as a kid.  You never forget that.  So when these assholes started giving me grief for MY life decisions - I quickly realized this was just... bullying.  I tossed them to the curb.

I totally understand some guys are chasers and enjoy that lifestyle.  And I cheer them on.

I know some guys have opted to NOT treat and do their thing.  And I cheer them on.

And I remember what my ex partner and I went through for a few months and the effects of his meds on his high cholestrol and other health issues - and I thought - nope.  I totally love fucking and getting fucked raw.  But I refuse to be bullied for my decisions.

I think we need to do better as a community.  Cheer one another on.  Not berate.

Just 'my' view on this one based on my real-life experiences.

Cheers guys

On 7/22/2019 at 6:18 AM, Spunkinmyarse said:

Anyone else feel left out?

This is like being back in gym class at school, and being picked (or in my case, not picked) for the soccer team lol

I'd pick ya @Spunkinmyarse  Great profile pic!

Nothing like an impromptu cumfest to put a spring in your step!!  Great story!

On 2/25/2014 at 5:43 PM, PozGoat said:

Yes, the same as used with Chia pet, well sort of. I wouldn't trust the ones sold with Chia pets to actually use organic chia seeds.

Raw, Organic Chia seeds are one of the healthiest foods that a human can eat. 1 tablespoon contains 150% of vegan-grade plant omega-3, in the form of ALA. Chia seeds are high in fiber, anti-oxidants, b vitamins, potassium, phosporus and other minerals. Chia seeds contain very high quality protein.

Chia seeds are one of the best prostate health foods there is. Same for heart, brain, gland, and digestive health too.

But what is so magical about this food is the mucus/muculoid that the seed emits when it gets wet. In fact, the Chia pet concept only works because of this mucus, which the wet seeds get smeared over the terra cotta pet.

Anyway, this mucus, inside our digestive tract becomes an extremely slippery substance, sort of like a grease coating. I eat at least 4 tablespoons of chia seeds a day. They can be ground into smoothies, sprinkled over salad, encapsulated in blank capsules, so they are easy to take.

The mucus makes for the cleanest ass imaginable. When I take a dump, it feels like someone greased my hole first.

Enema's are a breeze now. These seeds definitely help keep the colon clean.

I try to eat chia seeds daily. It keeps a steady supply of 'grease' going thru me. Chia seeds also clean out compacted shit and can reverse many of the root causes of digestive and colon disorders. Simply by cleaning out the 30 feet of hose that is our digestive tract. Easy way to improve your health, fellow gay men.

And perhaps, the best single food for bottoming!

Enjoy your newfound greasy, clean holes. I wish I could plow every one of them!

While this is a dated article, it made me stop and think a little... I read some more material as well.  While it isn't the wonder drug of the year, there certainly are a lot of benefits to these chia seeds!!!  Gotta try em'!

I have just started to experiment with fisting and I agree - patience is a good thing - else you completely ruin the experience and won't want to try again.

I had a buddy who had baseball mitts for hands - his 2 fingers to open you hole felt like a massive dildo.  He said he wanted to try and fist my hole... he ate it, poppers, ate it more, more poppers... but his hands were just to large and I didn't care for the experience.

A newer FB commented one night about how much I appeared to like ass play... he was surprised I wasn't into fisting.  I explained my first couple of experiences and he took that as a challenge.

We hung the sling, made some J-Lube up and I got into the sling and had a fresh bottle of poppers with me.

He took an hour... mouth, fingers, toys, fingers, toys, mouth and eventually .... tada.... fist.  "Just" inside and took it easy... I blew my load.  His cock was rock hard, and he gently pulled out his fist, and slide his raw cock right up inside in one push.  He LOVES an open juicy hole.  I swear he pumped his dick about 4 times and blew a massive load in my hole.   

Apparently HE enjoyed taking my fisting cherry a lot!! Grin

Fun-Day-Job = International IT Executive. Great career.  Travel the world.  I see both interesting and .... disturbing things in my travels.  Keeps me humble.  I do my best to help.  And... I am appreciative that I am Canadian (eh!!)... I live a good life.

Fun "but-not-job" - Keyboard Guy (PG1961 = Piano Guy). I've heard ALL the jokes about organs (yes, I am a pipe organist and have had some VERY cool experiences in churches internationally), pianos (again - some VERY cool experiences internationally - Schipol, Rome, Nashville, Toronto, Washington etc... very cool) harmonica and sax.  Play in a band that covers everything .. classic rock (think Radar Love, Supertramp, Led Z., Deep Purple) country (Lady Antebellum, Johnny Cash), Canadiana (Blue Rodeo, The Hip, Gordon Lightfoot, Ian Thomas, 54-40), Steely Dan, Blue Oyster Cult.. OMG we have fun!!!

What a great question!