russdog502

Usually I expect people to take responsibility for themselves. Unless you're raped, it's difficult to blame someone else for your own choices as to who and what you allow in your body. However, children are different. We can't hold minors to the same standard. First, there's the law. Second, it's always in the adults control what happens in that encounter (again, not talking about rape or coercive violence). Third, it is a fact that the decision-making areas of the brain aren't fully formed in people until the mid-20s. Teenagers simply are wired to make poor decisions; they aren't mature enough to navigate the complex psycho-sexual minefield of adult sex, disease, protection, personal agency, restraint, and consequences. Forgive me if I'm wrong here, but there was a time when you couldn't even rent a car until you were 25, I don't know if that's still the case. But it's because young people make bad choices simply because they aren't fully cooked. They'll mature in time, but what they don't need is pressure from predators who hate themselves and want to see others destroyed along with them. If you were okay with yourself you wouldn't want to put anyone in harm's way. You'd have respect and consideration for your fellow humans, even if they weren't taking the best care of themselves. You wouldn't take advantage simply because you could. It has to do with character and being a decent person. What do you do when no one's looking?

I used to have an average sized penis, but radiation treatment caused it to shrink to a very small size. I was mostly a bottom anyway, but I did enjoy topping certain types occasionally. Now, I probably can't even fit into a guy's but. I really miss my old dick. I'm primarily oral, so I can still suck, eat cum, and take piss. I don't know what it's like to have always had a small dick, but to have had an average one and then loose inches and girth is difficult to deal with. Maybe there are guys out there who don't care about dick size, but there's such a stereotype about black guys with big dicks, that I often was rejected outright even when I presented my original average cock. I hope there are some guys who like head and don't care so much for dick size. I gave up trying to find a relationship. Guys need a good-sized cock to stay interested and satisfied (in my experience).

Thank you. I'm a bit gun shy. Someone would have to be really patient. I'm usually open to getting to know people.

I haven't met anyone with my particular issue, but I know they must be out there. About 5 years ago I was diagnosed with stage 3 anal cancer. I went through chemo and aggressive radiation which left me very ill for over a year. I'm still not 100%. The radiation destroyed my ass and genital area. It took 4 years for me to have a relatively painless bowel movement without blood. I'm still sensitive "down there", but I can at least touch my asshole without screaming in pain. Unfortunately for me as a gay man (and a black man), the radiation shrank my dick and made me impotent for a year. I can get an erection now and 'cum', but I can't ejaculate or feel an orgasm. The tubes and vesicles in my balls and internal sex organs were destroyed by radiation. I lost at least 2" in length and .5" in girth. It's as if I have someone else's (small) penis. I don't recognize it. All this has made it difficult to feel sexy and believe I have something to offer a man. I used to attend sex parties, sex clubs, cruise glory holes, etc..., but I feel like I can't contribute. I still like sucking dick, but guys want to play with all of me sometimes and I'm very self-conscious. I want to try getting fucked again to see if my ass can take it, but it's been 6 years since I've had a cock in my ass. I love raw cock, and have been lucky to stay HIV- so far. I tried to go on PrEP last year, and after my first blood test, they yanked me off of it immediately. Apparently I have damaged kidneys also as a result of radiation and cannot ever take PrEP. Has anyone had any similar experiences with cancer treatment and side-effects? With all the ass-fucking out there someone has to have dealt with anal cancer or know someone who has. How have they resumed their sex lives? Ever hear of a penis shrinking from radiation exposure? I try not to get embarrassed about it and just accept myself as it is now, but my social life in down to nothing. Thanks for listening. I'll still suck your hot cock and eat that load!