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  1. 1 hour ago, phukhole said:

    Who's going?  I wasn't, but then I found out they're doing a Horsemarketsf party on Friday and Saturday. I went to the one in DC right before al this COVID mess. It was one of the best fuck parties I've ever been to! Anon loads are right up my alley! 

    I’d definitely be going if I were anywhere near LA that weekend.  I’m going to the first one I can held near me or that I have the opportunity to travel to.

  2. 21 minutes ago, phukhole said:

    A fuckbuddy is someone I've played with before who knows how to pay without romantic entanglement. There may or may not be an emotional connection (affection, friendship, fondness, love, etc), but there is no expectation of dating or a relationship.  We may play regularly, or it may be seldom, but if he's a repeat (that I know how to contact), he's  a fuckbuddy.

    I agree with your description.

  3. 4 hours ago, bbboffer said:

    none of the above  i perfer the real thing

    I think you may have missed the point.  The idea for this one was which cock size and type would you prefer and do.  Not which mold of a cock on that wall would you use as a dildo.

    At least, that is how I interpreted this posting.

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  4. I am in no way a reluctant bottom.  In fact, it’s what I live for.  Although I do like to top too from time to time.

    I got to thinking on something as I was at Steamworks in Berkeley twice last weekend and had a great time in both instances.  I’m almost always ass up in a room there and I love getting my ass eaten out before getting fucked although it’s not a requirement.

    Each time I get licked and rimmed, I go into ecstasy and I go to a place where I just need to get fucked.  I demand it in fact.  I already started out prepared to get fucked but after a dude eats me out it’s like my need goes up several hundred more notches.

    So I was thinking if that’s what happens to me does it happen to other dudes too.  Specifically, I was wondering about the guys who are reluctant or hesitant bottoms.  When a guy eats out your ass do you go to a place where all your hesitancy goes out the window and you suddenly have that overwhelming need to take a cock deep inside your hole?

    Let me know what your guys thoughts are on this.

  5. 3 hours ago, ErosWired said:

     

    Just glancing at the apps now, I see one going as ‘MethodicMadness’ - he sounds interesting. ‘NeedsBred!’ - not so much. 

    Between your latest comment and the one followed up by hntnhole were taking me to my ultimate point which I did not get to in my earlier post.  Screen names are simply to subjective to satisfy any one common understanding.  You like SN "MethodicMadness" and hntnhole does not.  You each have your reasons but will never come to agreement on what makes a good SN or not.  Kind of no point in judging SNs to that degree.  

  6. I understand your point ErosWired.  A good user name is a way to hook someone or at least make them pause and think who this person is.  It gets the interest level piqued.  It is a marketing strategy.  I never thought of it that way before, but you are on to something there.

    I will say that for me that is not the only thing important here nor the most important thing.  I tend to still click on many user names to see what other info has been provided by their profile such as likes and interests and photos.  Photos are huge of course since we are primarily cued into others visually.  But what ends up making or breaking a hookup is the dialogue you eventually have with someone.  Nothing like a turnoff for me than one word answers to a question or a pause that seems an eternity before a response is given.

    Anyway, I'm interested in hearing from you what you think are examples of good user names or why they are by being specific.  You listed several why you thought they were bad or ineffectual.

  7. If this poll is anywhere near accurate, and I have no reason to doubt it, this makes it very difficult for neg guys to poz convert.  For the chasers out there or the ones who don't care about status, chances are very slim for a poz encounter that will leave a gift behind that will take root.

    Roughly 30% of the guys polled are poz, but about half (15%) of them are not on meds.  That means roughly 1.5 encounters out of 10 will be the one a lot of us neg guys want to have.

    Looks like the task is daunting and a bit of a challenge unless more of you poz studs want to get off meds.  I know our individual health is important to each of us and to ask others to go off meds is bold.  I certainly don't want to offend or ruffle feathers here.  It is just a strong desire by me for this to happen, but of course I could have a different opinion if I were poz now and on meds.

    Sorry if that sounded confusing.  Ultimately, I'm trying to say I wish more poz dudes out there were not on meds to help out us other guys who wish to join the brotherhood.

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  8. 12 hours ago, xxbjn2 said:

    Totally raw holes are for breeding, if a hole is taking a cock raw, it wants that load as deep inside as it'll go.  If a top pulls out to blow, it's such a disappointment and he won't be asked back.

    I totally agree with all of what you said here.  I also agree with BigVers about the money shot and porn studios.

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  9. 3 hours ago, ErosWired said:

    The gold standard, in my view, is shots that capture the cock actually pulsing in the act of delivering the load. Hard to arrange cinematically, no doubt, because the camera has to be at just the right angle, the lighting has to be perfectly set, and the anatomy has ho be at the sweet point where just enough of the right area is visible so that we can see it swell and contract as it pumps fluid. Rare to see, but when it happens, it’s exhilarating, because there’s absolutely no way to fake that. You’re watching a breeding take place.

    Absolutely couldn't agree more!  It's exhilarating and no way can be faked.

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  10. I wanted to throw out a question on a certain tattoo you see on many guys of a bird usually a swallow and usually in pairs as well.  Does anyone know the meaning of this tattoo?

    I thought I once heard that it represented something to do with HIV and POZ status.  Can someone clarify for me and anyone else interested if that tattoo means a guy is poz or does it mean something else entirely?

  11. 17 hours ago, Dant1485 said:

    Now this one was totally hot despite the use of a condom, which I hate, because it was totally believable and totally real.  These dudes were caught.  Totally hot and exciting.  Plus these guys were hot too!

  12. 17 hours ago, Dant1485 said:

    Although the dudes are totally hot in this one, I'm turned off by the condom for one.  Secondarily, I love fantasy as probably do we all, but one of the things about fantasy that makes it so hot is the believability of the situation.  This one is completely unbelievable because no way in hell the dude in bed is not waking up to hear any of that unless he was drugged.

  13. On 8/31/2017 at 10:15 AM, bbicurious said:

     

    On the other hand, the few times I bottomed (different cocks 8+ inches no reason why it shouldn't rock my world), it didn't feel like anything was happening down there. Maybe my ass is just not sensitive but it felt like it was all about his pleasure and I was just the means to his pleasure, which I was OK with but there was no real physical pleasure from the fuck. even though I haven't bottomed raw, I doubt that I would have been able to tell the difference between a raw and condom dick in my ass. So my question is for guys who bottom raw: What do you get from barebacking that you couldn't get from being fucked with a condom? Do you really feel when a dick is raw inside you, is there a difference in how it feels in your ass? Would you be happy barebacking if the guy pulled out before cumming or is the load very important to you? I hope you can explain to me your experiences and feelings and just what's going on in your mind when you're bottoming raw, thanks

    I get the same exact pleasure you describe about the top's seed in me and all that surrounds it but from the reverse perspective.  I love being the receptacle to his seed.  I love taking it and letting it absorb into me.  I never push it out.  I love the feel of his raw cock in me.  And yes!  I can definitely tell the difference between a condom covered cock and one without it.  It is very obvious to me.  Plus there is the pure pleasure of feeling his raw cock pushing at my gut walls and pushing past my sphincter.  It provides so much intense sensation.  I'm surprised you have not experienced that as a bottom.  Sometimes you can even feel the top blowing his seed.  I'll admit that not every time do I feel that, but there have been clearly times where I felt every pulse of his seed blowing in me.  That just made the whole experience that much better.

    I never want the top to pull out either.  Once in, he stays in and gets to use my fertile hole as his seeding ground.

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  14. It's clearly both for me.  First, it feels beyond amazing.  Wearing a condom completely ruins the intimacy and the intensity.  They feel all wrong and once you compare the two experiences you never go back to condoms.  Second, the idea of a condom creating a barrier between you and the man fucking you is repulsive and all wrong.  Intimacy needs to be skin on skin contact where his body is in you and also in direct contact with your body.  The connection then allows for his seed to enter you and for your body to absorb his DNA.  What better connection is there than that?

    A condom prevents all that.  So why use one...EVER?

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  15. 5 hours ago, DannyBoyCMH said:

    I could see that, but I am not thinking about being pregnant "like a woman" really, but more about serving an Alpha Top so well that I bear His offspring for Him.  Still a man, but being pregnant and swelling FOR HIM, so He can procreate.  Give birth, and I am still a man, ready for the next one.

    Interesting take on this.  I see where you are coming from and it is a bit more like how I was fantasizing about it.

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