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  1. 2 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

    Great thread.

    Interesting to learn how universal flakes are. i'm with those who blame aps. And i think it has gotten progressive. i was around when AOL started the online hookup ball rolling. i met a tall, wiry black man who i fell head over heals for: "Kirby." OMG, He was gorgeous, inside and out, i loved everything about Him. 

    i also got a descent amount of actual connection on CL when it was still available, but i also watched it get progressively worse. i think the whole online hookup scene devolved into what it is today, that online, over time, caused a sort of de-evolution of civility and manners. It removes an element of responsibility. People say and do things online that they would never do in real life, and that doesn't just apply to gay hook up. i think that is also starting to bleed over into real life. i'm a critical care nurse, and verbal and physical assault on nurses is on the rise.

    i think a lot of this has been facilitated by the invisible, anonymous online opportunities. It's safer for people to exercise their true colors, and i think emboldens some to bring it into 'real life.'  In a way, i don't think it's particularly new, i think "flakes"  have always been out there, but online has provided them a venue?  

    Prior to the pandemic, i had pretty much given up on Aps for hook ups, i'd go to the local ABS and usually could get fucked 4 or 5 times in short order. i'd rather be with a guy while lying prone and naked on my own bed. But "flakes" are a lot less common at ABS (though some go there too).  SInce the pandemic? Have only been with fuck buddies and more recently i think i may be on the verge of having an actual boyfriend... and i am pretty damned excited about the prospect. He's pretty damned awesome. 

    I agree with your assessment of how the online world has exacerbated and even nurtured the worst behavior in us when it comes to interacting with others. 
     

    Many, if not all, of our social norms of engaging with others has gone out the window.  People can be mean now and get away with it.  Simply block or delete someone and you’re done.  Can’t do that in reality with someone other than to never meet up with them again but online just facilitates a laziness in people to even try to have a normal interaction.

    I only go to places where you know men are committed to meeting and then having sex such as ABS and bathhouses or sex clubs.

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  2. 4 hours ago, Hairypiglet said:

    It sounds like probably cerebral palsy, which means he can improve some mobility with proper physiotherapy. I'm sure he enjoying the attention as many men are not interested in intimacy with a disabled person. I have dated a man with cerebral palsy and a man paralized from the waist down. It was actually very loving and passionate with both of them. Both relationships ended simply due to moving apart and not wanting long distance. I could easily have married either of them. Sex with both was amazing.

    I fully understand what you are feeling. However, I caution you from "romanticizing the other" and developing a "savior complex". This person is perfectly capable of being independent and doesn't actually need you to protect him. Try not to accidentally take away his agency. Figuratively speaking, walk beside him rather than carrying him. If he asks for help provide it. Offer help if you want. Be available to help. Don't always assume he needs it. This will allow him to maintain his dignity and protect you from eventually feeling overwhelmed and resenting him.

    Be mindful of the fact that for him being intimate is probably rare, so he will likely fall in love before you. Therefore you have a bit more responsibility in deciding earlier on if this is something you want.

    There is actually a great autobiographical series on Netflix called "Special" that is written by the star of the show. It's a creative nonfiction series chronicalling his search for love in the gay community. You may want to watch it with him actually. It could be a good conversation piece for both of you.

    Also, ask him about barebacking. My boyfriends never turned it down.

    I agree with all this.  I too had a short term relationship with a hot as fuck man who had cerebral palsy too.  He was gorgeous and had a nice lean body and a perfect 8 inch cock.  He simply had some mobility issues with his right arm and in his legs.  He could walk.

    He was an excellent kisser and top.  He fucked me beautifully and loved breeding me.

    He was very independent and loving.  I think about him still today from time to time.  Sadly, we lost track of each other over the years.

  3. 18 hours ago, hntnhole said:

    Since you asked, of course I will.   There are many wonderful qualities possessed by foreskinless Cocks, denied to uncut Cocks. If it can wait a day or so, the election returns are starting to come in now. 

    And thanks for the kind words.

     

    If I gave the impression that I care about the characteristics you mention, my apologies.  I learned many years ago that Hole is Hole, Cock is Cock, Sperm is Sperm, regardless of any attempts at divisivness.  Chances are really good I've fucked more Hole-of-color* than I have hairs on my head, and I'm hardly balding.  Chances are just as good I've sucked Cocks in all their glorious variety. My only limit is girth:  not too much on a Cock up my gut - and - not so much on an ass that I can't even get my Cock to the Hole. 

    And, thank you for your kind words too !!

    *I'm thinking "rainbow" here ...

    No worries!  I wasn’t making any comment to disparage you.  You were so eloquent about uncut cock, that I didn’t want to leave out all the cut cocks too.

    I agree with your sentiments above.  I have no cock size limits when it comes to my ass at all.  Cocksucking on the other hand poses some challenges for me depending on girth as well.  But I try!  Oh do I try!  😀

  4. Fantastic description of how one can enjoy foreskin and how it can mentally enhance the sexual experience.  

    You gave some good insight here and have helped me think about this more creatively even as I’m uncut myself.

    I’m still an equal opportunity cocksucker no matter the shape, size, color, nor whether the cock comes hooded or not.

  5. My first experiences started when I was 10 progressing to an attempt at anal penetration when I was 12.

    Being inexperienced my neighborhood friend tried to penetrate me.  I knew even then what I was born to do and be.  I wanted it bad and he tried, but I was to tight and we didn’t know about lube and didn’t think about spit.

    I still fondly think back on all the hot fun two boys could have being naked together and feeling each other up.  So much excitement over all that we did.

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  6. This story is just phenomenal!  I agree with what leatherpunk16 said that this needs to be made into a film production.

    I’d love to see it made into a sci-fi miniseries.

    This is a great story that absolutely must continue.  If a movie production cannot be done, perhaps someone with drawing skills can produce a comic book version of this tale.  I’d buy it in a heartbeat.

    PupLucky, please continue this fantastic story for us.  You’ve got us entirely hooked to this just as the Makers seed has entirely hooked those it has infected.

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