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Menbendovr

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  1. 2 hours ago, chi4loads said:

    It's interesting to see some of the comments about what readers want to see happen to Danny, Ben or Stu.  I already know what happens since the whole story was written before I started posting (some chapters are a few years old).  I hope some of you aren't disappointed when the story is fully posted.

    LOL!  I doubt I’ll be disappointed.  These are just thoughts mulling around in my head about what will happen with these characters.  I look forward to the story you will tell concerning what happens to them.

  2. 5 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

    Not to split hairs, but turns out that a "g-spot" is something only women have (technically called the "Grafenberg Spot"). Only men have what has come to be called the "p-spot" (the prostate). i think it's an in your face fact, to those who think it wrong for a man to receive cock, that a man has an erogenous zone that can cause intense pleasure and an orgasm if fucked a particular way. 

    Maybe strangely, my own experience  with my p-spot has given me more understanding of women, and i think it's something that blurs the lines between gender roles. The longer i live, the more inseparable a Mans physical Cock becomes from what i think of as His psychological or inner Cock. To me, the latter is the need, energy, drive behind His physical Cock.

     i've been seeing a Man the last several months who had ED. He believed it was psychological, though it was difficult for Him to unravel. As a total bottom, i confess it was  hard for me to not have the connection of not getting fucked and bred by Him, but i decided up front to hang with Him for awhile, taking Him at face value when He told me His cock still worked physiologically.  He even got Trimex, a very expensive ED med that is injected into the cock with a needle. It never worked when we were together.  i kept it light and encouraging, not wanting to add to His angst. A big part of what kept me going was His inner Cock, it was big and fertile.  

    The last time we were together (i live in OR and He lives in CA), the damn broke for me. It was night 2 of a 4 day visit and i was straddling Him my ass in HIs face. He loves the visual and opening and eating my "pussy."  While that was happening, HIs cock got hard and would have been perfect for fucking, but He just kept eating me out, and it started to go soft after about 5 minutes. But He was getting more turned on by my pussy and started masturbating His cock while eating me out and then came that way. That frustrated the fuck out of me, while He was in a state of bliss. He sensed my frustration and asked, and i let lose and told Him how frustrated i was never having had His cock in me and seeing His seed wasted that way.  He got defensive at first, but we talked it out and it was a good discussion.  i wasn't blaming Him, i was just frustrated by my own need for Cock.  Strangely, the next morning He woke with a hard on, turned me on my side and slid in for the first time. He fucked me all day, on and off, pissing in me twice and coming once. That both turned me on and mellowed me, i got what i needed and He took a sort of possession of me that happens when i receive a Mans whole Cock and pleasure inside of me. 

    my point of sharing that is to attempt to explain the connection of the psychological and physical.

    i was married to a woman for a long time and learned how to give her both clitoral and g-spot orgasms.  She much preferred the g-spot orgasm and would literally grab and shove me inside of her when i was going down on her and she started coming clitorally.  i came to realize she always wanted me inside of her when she came.  Even more, our sex life reached a point where she didn't care as much about her orgasm and it was important for her that i "just take" her. I.e., she needed my drive/energy/need/desire, my inner cock as well as my physical one. That, unfortunately, was not something i could conjure as a gay bottom. i could go through the mechanics of sex and fulfill her physical  need, but not her inner pussy.

     After we divorced and i was exclusively bottom and gay, i started to realize how similar i was sexually to my former wife. That both my physical and psychological sexuality is dependent on a Man (and vice versa i think, i see it as ideally symbiotic). 

    i have experienced p-spot orgasms, and i am surprised with how similar they are to what i have experienced with a woman. There seems to be more of a psychological element (at least for me) with a p-spot orgasm.  i've had guys hit it over and over and come close, but not. Then i have had guys hit it and at the same time He was in my head and fuckig me there as well and i came uncontrollably from it.  i've tried to replicate the experience with dildos, nope. i don't use dildos on myself at all anymore, i'm just too much of a bottom to even be able to fuck myself lol. 

    idk, i don't pretend to have it all figured out, but there is a connection and energy that has accompanied my times of cumming from being fucked, like i have a psychological and physical p-spot. Having experienced it, i don't even wanna cum from having my penis touched, it's a disappointment and feels wrong, like a compromise?  And i have wondered if this is how women feel, when their pleasure is dependent on their partner?  When it happens, and the Top is present both physically and psychologically, whether i cum or not, sex for me is pillow biting good and fulfilling.

    sorry, that was a ramble. 

    Very insightful, and thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings on that matter.  As I read along, I found myself in complete agreement with you, and although I’ve never been with a woman I can intellectually see your point there as well.

    There is no question in my mind that psychologically, sex is even more powerful and important than just the physical aspect to it.

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  3. 39 minutes ago, RawBoTTom4Use said:

    This story, was obviously written by an author with amazing talent! There should be books written by this man on shelves in every store, available everywhere and narrated on Audible. This is award winning level storytelling! I humbly stand, applaud and say "BRAVO!"

    Thank you, @Kenywi for gracing us with your amazing talent & extraordinarily incredible storytelling. Your wordsmithery is unsurpassed! 

    I completely agree with you.

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