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3 hours ago, Willvand said:

I've been chatting with this guy on grindr for awhile now and we really seem to have a connection. Our first meet will be in public at a coffeeshop or something. We are both on prep and aren't that promiscuous. We have both indicated our preference to have condomless sex and breed. We both agreed that we feel comfortable without condoms after it becomes a regular thing and we get to know each other.  If it looks like we are heading towards bareback sex, should we just start with it?

I'd say yes.  I never fuck with condoms including when I first started fucking.  Bareback is the only way.  Sex with condoms just is not the same and some consider it not really being sex at all.

5 minutes ago, DannyBoyCMH said:

I suspect my answer might not be typical.  Very rarely.  Being a sub bottom, I have found that the Alpha Tops I have been with do not want their asses involved in any way.  

Yeah, that is very true.

26 minutes ago, chargedodger said:

Thanks.I am a bit embarressed about how much I like doing this.This young man and I were actually introduced by a mutual friend who is a lesbian.She thought we should meet and worked hard to make it happen for her two best friends.Next time I saw her after the motel encounter she took one look at me and knew she had been successful.She wanted all details and I told her at lunch break.She was SO happy...Made me re-examine my attitudes towards lesbians and now see them as unusually good at matchmaking 4 gay men.Strange but true.I owe her a great deal of thanks.:)

That's fantastic.  It's great to have friends like that.

1 hour ago, chargedodger said:

Not everyone likes this,and I was pretty late to the party in trying it.A young man and I had been flirting for a while and finally wound up at a motel naked buzzed on weed.His cute lil ass winked at me as he was on all fours looking over his shoulder at me....took a good hit of poppers and stuck my tongue against his pucker,then felt it yield then tighten up,then yield again.He had never been rimmed and I had never done this either but it was an intoxicatingly consuming experience.Feeling him openning up,thrusting gently against my face and tongue.My cock hard and dripping throbbing at the prospect of fucking him.He oppened up so my tongue raced into him again and again.Pulled my tongue out and ran it up his spine and kissed his neck as my hard cockhead speared him and sank into his still quiverring hole.Hard fast fuck and cumming deep him still pushing back on me...it was so fucking intense!Don't do it very often but rimming is a fast track to fucking for some.:)

I couldn't agree more with this.

I agree with Cumming4u that it is a bit bizarre that someone would need to have porn on while having sex to enjoy the act of sex.

Porn is awesome, and I’d think that most men would agree with that.  But it’s great as a prelude to having sex.  It’s a great “work me up” method for getting yourself pumped and ready to take cock if one needs extra motivation.

i believe most men are hardwired for sex 24/7 and need very little extra motivation to get hard and serviced.  But again porn helps.

When I’m actually getting fucked, I prefer no porn because I’m all about the moment with the man I’m intimate with.  If it’s on, I won’t object and so far in all my experiences neither myself or my sex partner have ever been more into the porn than each other.  In fact, it was like it was never on in the first place.

I don't think many of us would argue with getting fucked face down on your stomach isn't awesome, but I can't think of a single position for me that isn't fucking awesome.

I'd say my own personal preference is missionary because I love looking into the eyes of the stud, the man who is going to breed my hole and pump his seed into me.  Nothing like seeing his face and eyes as he unloads into you.

On 2/13/2021 at 6:27 AM, Guest 3bb said:

I took part in one of the first PREP trials in the UK back in 2011, it was called PROUD. I had a poz bf at the time and we did a lot of bb, groups, beats and saunas, plus we had just started slamming and I would often share his needles. Being on the trial kept me safe and I didn’t convert, despite my incredibly risky behaviour. I ended up in rehab in 2013, as I let the meth take over and I managed to get five years clean. During this time I had very little sex and didn’t need PREP.

In 2016, I moved to Sydney, Australia and I started to party again in 2018. I started off with MD at a festival which led to me getting horny af and heading to a sauna where I took 10 loads. I freaked out the next day, went to the doctor and got PEP. I tested neg six weeks later and the doctor wrote me a script for PREP.
 

Over the last three years I’ve taken more loads than I can count, including sessions at beats and saunas where I’ve been fucked by 40-50 guys and taken 30 plus loads. Meth has been a companion to this and I’ve blood slammed with detectable guys more than 20 times now. I’ve either been on PREP or taken PEP within 72 hours of sex, if I missed PREP doses during the sessions. As of Jan 2021 I’m still testing Negative for HIV.

The drugs are amazing and they do work if taken as prescribed, but I also have the benefit of an amazing Doctor who speciality is in HIV and sexual health. By being honest with my doctor about my lifestyle he has been able to prescribe the correct PREP or PEP regimens for me and keep me negative. 
 

However, slamming meth makes me want to convert and that’s when I do risky things like blood slamming. In the moment I really want it and even when I’m sober my go to porn is pozzing vids, but I think subconsciously I want to stay neg, so that I can perpetually chase the poz fantasy. I have had HEP C once and syphilis, gono and chalmydia multiple times each, as PREP doesn’t prevent these. I’m aware that my behaviour is risky af and a positive diagnosis could still be just around the corner; I have tested false positive for HIV four times in the last few years. 
 

I’m managing my meth use atm, but I don’t think I’ll ever stop taking raw dick and loads. PREP has kept me safe and I’ve had hundreds of loads in the times I’ve been on it. 

 

 

Wow!  If ever there were a real life case example of just how effective these drugs are, this is the one.  Hard to argue with evidence like this,  Of course, there always is the slight chance of still becoming poz while on PreP.

I've lived out most of my fantasies but not all of them.  I'm still a bit shy about public sex and that is one of my fantasies that is still just a fantasy.

I wish I could be there to participate.  Have fun and document the loads you take.  It'd be great to hear how it went.

On 3/14/2019 at 12:07 AM, DarkroomTaker said:

Been looking around as people visit other countries holidays etc. Got me to wondering if people on here do AirBnB and get fucked or fuck potential tourists who stay with them or arrange group fucks.

Do people ever use AirBnB and get lucky??

 

Huh!  That is an interesting idea.  I never even thought of doing that with AirBnB.  Now you got me thinking...😈

Obviously, I have not been utilizing AirBnB properly. 

2 hours ago, Muscledadbod said:

Sounds so awesome, can you tell us the Cruise line you went on and if there are future cruises?

They were awesome.  I really did have a great time on both cruises.  The first one was a Royal Caribbean cruise and the second was a Celebrity X.  Both were run by or organized by Atlantis Cruises.  You can google them and find their website about the current cruises and some new ones coming in 2022.

I highly recommend you go on one for a good vacation and lots of fun times.

2 hours ago, NLbear said:

I only went once but that was a gay group on a "straight" cruise from Seattle to Alaska. Half of the group were lesbian couples, the other half gay senior citizens couples LOL. There was a "friends of Dorothy" gettogether each day: socializing and drinks in a dedicated room.

Honestly I wouldn't expect a 100% gay men cruise to be a constant public orgy. Remember there's the staff as well which probably isn't gay men only. But behind cabin doors may be a whole different story. These gay cruises tend to sail to the sunnier parts of the globe so plenty of cruising around the pool I guess.

That would be about right NLbear.  During day, lots of hotties showing off in speedos and other form fitting bathing suits around the pools and bars.  At night, however, all things changed on the decks outside especially in the darker corners not well lit.  The two cruises I were on were 99% all gay men.  A few lesbians.  The crews were awesome.  Some were gay and clearly loved all the activity sexual and non sexual.  I heard on both cruises that the crews loved gay cruises because they got tipped better and they were more fun.

The crew never once told any of us to stop what were doing.  In fact, at night they pretty much disappeared as they new what would be going on and didn't want to interfere.

I've been on two of them.  One to the Caribbean and the other in the Mediterranean.  Both were phenomenal experiences.  I loved both trips for a whole host of reasons including the locations and excursions from the ship but the prize is the guys.

Of course, there is no end to the hotties running around everywhere.  Think of a floating bathhouse and you have a gay cruise.  Literally at night the ship turns into a walking sex zone everywhere on all outer decks.  Both cruises kept it clean on the inside in the hallways though sometimes doors were left open or slightly ajar.

Every night there were DJs hosting parties all over the outer decks of the ships.  Drinks abound and roudy behavior abounds too.  I had great experiences and if I were a muscle gym god I would have had more experiences.  But you can pretty much find anything on one of these cruises.  Mind you, both of these were pre-Covid cruises.  Not sure what one would be like now since they are getting started up again.

Once a day easily.  I'll hold that in reserve for when I get together with some stud to fuck me.

I was double fucked once and loved it.  My first time trying it and loved it.  It was intense, but being the bottom that I am I knew I could do it and more importantly wanted to do it.

I met the hot couple at their apartment using Gay.com.  I know I just dated myself.  LOL!  This was back before Grimdr and BBRT and all the other sex apps.  One was a cowboy type and wore the hat appropriately, or should I say it fit him well let me tell you.  Yum!

Anyway, we were having fun with a threeway in bed when one of the couple suggested and asked me if I wanted to get double penetrated.  I said yes without hesitating.  They both fucked me bareback beautifully and I was surprised at myself for taking both the first time so well.  I tell you enthusiasm can take you a very long way.

Just now, Powerasianbtms said:

i like be called menholes not pussy

I agree.  Manhole is preferable.

I love to cum swap and kiss.  Tasting a man's seed is almost as good as taking it up the ass.  That's still where I prefer he put it, but I will gladly take it in the mouth as well.

I love men in uniforms....of any kind.  One of my hottest encounters was back a few years ago now where I drove from Sacramento all the way to Travis Air Force base and and got raw fucked by a captain.  Hot fucker he was too let me tell you.  Fit body and short hair cut.  Damn!  He flew C-141 cargo planes.  We had a great time in his apartment which was off base.  Would have hooked up with him again but the distance thing was a bit much and he wasn't stationed there long.

35 minutes ago, twoguyssssss4fun said:

a lot of people ( str8s included) have a hard time keeping it in the pants.

I was a school teacher, and before or after hours, it was honestly very easy to lock my door,  find an area near the back of the room to suck a cock.

Didn't do it often but managed to do it  five times in my career

1. First one, the custodian was hitting on me, and sucked me off. Did that a few times

2. Brought a young twink friend of mine just to show him my classroom during the summer. Blew him 

3. Teacher at the building - sucked him off and him sucking me off a couple of times

4.  Different custodian  - sucked him off multiple times 

5.  Former student - came back to visit one morning before school started to tell me he was gay and he heard i was..   he sucked me off. i  shot my load so fast , we got together many times after just not at school

6. student teacher - was also gay.   we hooked up near the end of the session. first outside of school, fucked him.  one day, weeks after he had already left my school, he came back to visit and after talking about it, decided i should fuck my first ass at school, so i did him. most quiet fuck i ever did.

 

Wow!  Fantastic sex at work experiences.  Made me jealous!

On 7/15/2014 at 7:56 AM, Bottom Jim said:

This may have been posted before but I was wondering what guys like the best about being a bareback bottom

for me it the sticky feeling I have on my ass after a guy has cum. I rarely feel a guy shooting in me. What I like to do is after he has pulled out feel my ass with my finger. Usually I can feel the sticky cum in my hole.

any other comments?

I definitely agree with that Bottom Jim.  I also just love the feel of a raw cock sliding in and out of my hole.  Nothing like that connection through skin on skin contact.  I then love squeezing down on his cock with my ass and taking his seed.  Phenomenal!

I definitely love rimming a guy's manhole because it feels good and tastes good and it gives him pleasure.  Plus I'm usually bottom so this is something I can do to please those tops who like their ass being played with too without anal penetration.

I personally love hairy asses, so I keep mine hairy too.  But when I encounter a smooth hole, I dive right in with my face and tongue regardless because I just can't help myself.  😈

I agree!  I love, love, LOVE dirty talk or just plain old being verbal while having sex.  It intensifies the sex so much more because it creates another level of connection to the stud fucking you.  It let's him know what you want and him telling you what he wants.  It drives up the excitement notches above what it otherwise would have been.

I recall one distinct time where I clearly felt the dude pulse each time he shot a rope of cum in my hole.  It was amazing!  His hole cock just pulsed and moved each time.  It sent me over the edge feeling it so distinctly.  Most other times, I haven't felt anything but the guy definitely shot his seed because of it falling out later.  I wish it was a sensation you felt every time.

I enjoyed and had some good experiences there pre Covid shut down.  Since it has been back open, I have not visited it yet.