kinkysuBB

Just getting ready to go to Yumbo, probably construction. @kinkysuBB on telegram. I’ve a telegram group going there if anyone wants to join.

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Not into it myself. I do it if the guy really wants it. Lots of bottoms seem to like doing it though.

If someone, gay or straight, is willingly engaging in sex work of whatever kind, then I have no problem with it. I do have a problem with a society that leaves people feeling they have no other option but to engage in sex work. Regarding escorting specifically, I don’t personally pay for sex. Partly because I’ve no way of knowing if the escort has been forced in some way. Also because if I’m having sex with someone, I want them to want me, not my money. Whether that’s in the context of a loving relationship, or because they liked the look of my hole I’m willingly offering up in a dark room: it’s still me they want, not my money. Have I been paid for sex? No, but I’d have less of an issue with that, because I know I’d be doing it willingly and the client would again be choosing me, and whatever the reason is, it’s not my money. Regarding porn, maybe this is moral hypocrisy, but I don’t have an issue with that in any way, at least for gay porn. Maybe it’s the degree of separation, maybe it’s that I perceive gay porn specifically to be less abusive than straight porn (even though I’m into the kinkier side of things, as a sub. I guess if I enjoy this stuff in real life, I can appreciate the sub enjoying doing an “abusive” porn scene. And there is a hell of a lot less sexual violence against gay men in the world than against women. Homophobic violence sure, but to me that’s a slightly different thing). Would I do porn? Yes, and I have, amateur and some low quality “pro” stuff I got paid a pittance for. It was part of me exploring my sexuality and it turned me on. It was awful stuff though, so I won’t be posting links! Are sex workers ambassadors? I guess in a way they are. I got no gay sex education in school. I knew no other gay people when I was growing up. So I learned about gay sex from porn. I don’t think it’s the best way of learning about that, but it helped me. Now there are other types gay ambassadors that are probably more important, and it’s great that we have the balance. I also think young people can be easily influenced by porn, and the sheer amount of it easily accessible these days to very young kids on phones concerns me. But I think that’s an argument for better parenting and schooling and teaching about gay sex and relationships, not an argument for shunning sex workers or government censorship.

Flights booked!

Only once have I been asked “do I know you from porn?” and we decided that it wasn’t actually me. I only did a small bit though years ago.

In my experience gangbangs are incredibly elusive and tend to happen by accident, unfortunately. If you think about it, most of the tops have nothing to do 90% of the time and they get bored. But if you slut around enough, they do happen… 😈

If anyone’s still gonna be hanging around the following weekend, I’ll be coming very late… 😅

And am always open to being whored out if anyone’s in a Dom or voyeuristic mood. Your place or mine. Just tie me to the bed please Sir 😈😈😈

I’ve made a telegram group. Let me know if you want to be added and we can set a few BZ meets up. I’ll be taking loads door unlocked, blindfolded, tied to the bed, in my apartment beside Yumbo at some stage(s) over there anyway 😈

Family no. But I wouldn’t be talking with them about my vanilla marital relations with them either (if I had those!) Friends… depends on the friend.

Two things really jumped out at me the first time I was a proper cumdump (10 loads). 1) The moment I felt the cum starting to overflow out of my hole. 2) The “wow” comments that followed from each top after that, and then each of them sloshing it about with their fingers and dicks, playing with it and loving it. I just smiled so much and told myself “Yeah, you’re a slut!” 🤤

Haha love it. Yeah they really didn’t seem to give a shit about anything when I was there before. I was walking around the halls wearing a chastity cage and nothing else in the dead of night at one stage (make of that what you will) and nobody said a word to me. On a more relevant note to this thread, I’ve remembered a guy rang up to my room from the front desk before. Can’t remember if the staff let him up in the lift then or if I had to come down, but he got in no hassle.

How did you manage the front door, or did you just stick to hotel guests?

Oh really? I haven’t used it myself yet, but I’ve heard good reports from friends. I can also confirm that when I was there you could definitely access other floors using the one keycard. My friend was staying on a different floor to me and we were up and down the whole time, and I hooked up with some guys on a different floor to me, in both our rooms so it wasn’t just my keycard. If they’ve changed that that’s a real pity. There is also a stairs though.

Thanks. I wasn’t sure if they’d confiscate it.

The key word in your topic title is “seems.” There is room. You may have a narrow pelvis, which would require a particular technique, but it doesn’t make it impossible. But it’s much more likely that you have a mental block. Fisting is at least 50% mental. You’re probably at the point where it gets most intense, and your brain is saying “I’m in pain, stop.” And that’s the point where if you push past it, it immediately gets easier again, because suddenly he’s into the rectum and there’s loads of space. It’s every bit as easy, physically, to keep going in from that max intensity point, as it is to pull out again, but you need to convince your brain of that. Think about it for a minute, as regards the bones. Women deliver babies heads through there. Now, a man’s pelvis is a slightly different shape to a woman’s, but fists are also generally smaller than babies’ heads! I tried unsuccessfully to take a fist for two years. At the same time, I was taking dicks most bottoms were nervous of. The difference was in my head. It eventually worked, when I had an experienced teacher guiding me and getting me to relax the fuck. And after that it was easy every time. You can do it!

Inflatables with a solid core. Or anything from Crackstuffers.

A million percent this. And then if you’re a ho like me, you eventually graduate to being the demo bottom 😈 👊🏻

Yep. I’m tight as fuck to start out. And I’ve also taken it elbow deep, and rosebudded (once). It’s about the journey, and that seems to be part of the pleasure for fisting tops. It’s a challenge, and they can and do sit back afterwards and admire their handiwork. It’s not for you and that’s fine. But think about dildos for a minute. Not everyone is into them either, but there’s a huge market for them, and they come in all sizes and more importantly, all shapes. And there are tops who enjoy fucking a bottom with a dildo, or lots of different dildos. The bottom can feel all sorts of different sensations that aren’t possible with a cock, and the top can enjoy doing different things with them, and seeing the bottom’s reaction. Things he just can’t do with his cock. It doesn’t make it any better or worse than a cock necessarily, it’s just different. Fisting (and indeed fist wanking), on a physical level, can be a bit like that, only the top is using his body. And then there’s the psychological overlay to it all. It may not be for you, but surely you can appreciate how some guys might enjoy that?

I think the key is to find one or two regular buddies who are into it, and fist with them, rather than constantly trying to find new guys. Especially as a bottom. A lot of tops are turned on by the idea of fisting but don’t know how to do it, and they can inflict some serious damage if they don’t know what they’re doing. I’ve been on the receiving end of this and it wasn’t pleasant. Thankfully nothing requiring hospital, but the place looked like Jack the Ripper had been in attendance. Obviously we all have to learn, but the way to do that is for someone to teach you. This goes for tops and bottoms. Ideally two people to teach actually, an experienced top or bottom, the newbie top or bottom, and an experienced third person guiding the newbie. Newbies should also read up about fisting. Study the theory. I’m not joking about this. As for bottoms not wanting dick after trying fisting, this seems to hold true for some people, but it’s definitely not true for me. A fist and a dick feel totally different for me, physically and psychologically, and both are amazing. A guy wanking off in my hole is also amazing, and different again.

What’s the story with lube at the fisting nights in Lab? Do you bring your own?

But Breeding Zone bottoms are the best bottoms 😜 Wonder is it worth getting a Telegram group going or something? It’ll inevitably be 90% bottoms of course…

Anyone going?

Yeah I don’t know about actually “open door” but I’ve done “unlocked door.” There’s an element of risk, but isn’t there an element of risk in everything? The main risk is robbery. You can minimise that by having all your stuff locked away in a safe if it’s a hotel room. The number of psychopaths lying in wait on hook up apps to murder blindfolded cumdumps is, I suspect, low, certainly lower than the amount of shit drivers likely to plough into you every time you drive a car. And such a psychopath could just as easily meet you for a regular hookup. I think the best way to mitigate against risk altogether is to have a buddy there with you, unblindfolded, to keep an eye. Even better, he can recruit the tops and work the door, while you focus on getting fucked by whoever he brings along. I’ve found it hard to find tops who want to do this though. Another cumdump bottom is probably an easier option. You could agree to do two nights of it and swap over on night two? If you’re in Berlin, Axel Hotel is a gay hotel that actively encourages this type of thing by proving a “Please disturb” door tag, along with the usual “Please do not disturb” and “Clean the room” ones. You’d be restricted to guests of the hotel, who are pretty much all there for sex in some form or other, because you need a key card for the lift. Still lock up your stuff though! I haven’t actually tried being a cumdump there yet, but I intend to.