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Well said!

I'll admit it didn't have the same writing signature as "we have to talk". I was reading this and your reflections in the Testimonial section. Having the testimonial in mind made sections of the story "pop" (for lack of a better way of describing it, I'm not a writer!). Without the testimonial, it would have been a story I took at face value. Knowing your actual thoughts made the diametrically opposed pieces stand out. Plus, on a purely physical level, riding has been my favorite position as of late, and I also have a risk kink that the thought of riding a poz cock really gets the juices flowing. 😍

That, right there. The position, the action, the emotion... the combination really paints a picture! Loved the story!

Damn, I never thought that would be an issue when it came to bottoms. But then again, I don't really converse with them in regard to having sex. I guess I've been equating all bottoms to myself, thinking we were all ready and willing to fuck at the drop of a hat. Being spontaneous and willing to jump into new situations really makes the sex better.

I had luck with a bar in a nearby small city that is well known for hosting local bands. All sorts of people come for performances. Love of music is a great way to break the ice and get to talking with people. Once you start to make friends and aren't shy about what you are into, you start to build a network of friends introducing you to friends.

Yeah, I'm not in my 20s anymore. I came to this lifestyle later in the game (started in my late 30s). And the small number of local tops on the online sites definitely are looking for the younger guys. I hooked up with some tops early on (going to say by sheer dumb luck and some stars probably aligned just right) but the best results I got was getting out in the world once I got up the nerve. Best thing I ever did. That way the guys get to know you, and not some preconceived notion they have of guys they came up with looking at some online stats.

Not only is my area overflowing with bottoms, most of the "tops" you meet online are flakes that are there for the cyber-thrills then they vanish. I had better luck when I went out in the world to physically meet people, but even then you meet mostly guys that want to bottom for you.

^^^ This ^^^ That's how my ongoing relationship with my favorite fuck-buddy started. It's high praise and sexy as hell for me when someone who didn't know me before we had sex wants to make it recurring.

Ahh, foreplay... Want to really get me running hot and wild, ready and willing to do whatever kinky, nasty thing you have fantasized about? Then make me strip completely nude and keep me that way for a prolonged period. I love being nude, and after years of unintentional conditioning my body automatically reacts to nudity as a sign of upcoming pleasure of some sort. So I'll never be able to go to a nudist colony or nude beach because I get hard immediately after stripping. If we are going to fuck, tell me to take off my clothes as soon as you can. Then tease me by waiting a bit. I was in a relationship where my bf at the time would make me go an entire day nude and knowing that I was going to get fucked or be on my knees sucking whenever the mood hit him. The anticipation was excruciatingly hot...

Raw has always been a goal in any of my longer-term relationships that started with a condom. The feeling or raw is beyond better than taking cock with a condom. I'm guessing some of it is psychological, knowing you have hot raw flesh on flesh, a leaking cock inside you that can explode at any time... yeah, knowing and feeling combine into a hot experience.

For me, swallowing has always been instinctive.

Two has been my max. A guy that I was hooking up with almost a decade ago asked if I was OK with his buddy being there. Of course I said yes. I ended up plating with and being fucked by both, but they didn't want to play at the same time so I didn't get the spit-roast I was hoping for. But it was still pretty hot. I still have that spit-roast on my bucket list!

As of late I am enjoying sitting on and riding my fuck-buddy's cock. Usually it's after a shit day at work and I am in an aggressive mood. When he is watching football I like to get it doggy, and when we are in the bedroom with a lot of time to play I like to get it missionary.

I enjoy giving long blowjobs and don't find them degrading. I was with a guy who enjoyed having his cock sucked while watching football. I'd suck and play during the game, edging him for as long as I could until he finally gave in and would either shoot down my throat or fuck me.

I'm a big fan of spontaneity. If the top wants to play with my cock in the heat of the moment and it turns him on, I won't complain. His excitement translates into a better fuck for me.

Right off the top of my head, an outdoor pool on a gay campground during some holiday weekend where the place is crowded. It combines a number of turn-ons: being nude, water, exhibitionism, breath-control, and the all-important collection of cocks cocks cocks!

I had a slightly diffent experience when it came to masturbating. I started out the same as most guys, years of having sex with women but having that thought in the back of your mind of "what would it be like" keeps bringing you tantalizingly close to sucking that first cock. It was hard to get there, and I realized that if I wanted to suck and the urge was overwhelming, I would masturbate and then the urge was gone. I used that as a method to keep from going the distance. But like a lot of us, after a while masturbating didn't work. I'd still want to impale my mouth on a long fat pole after blowing my load. The thought of having that cock in my ass was overwhelming. That's when I knew I was to the point where I wanted men like I once wanted women. Once upon a time just seeing a hot woman would turn me on, now it was a hot guy. I was blowing my load and rubbing into my hole and fucking myself with a dildo and getting hard again. I knew I needed the real deal. After that I sucked my first cock. That day I had blown my load and still wanted it and couldn't meet up fast enough. Full on sex came not long afterwards. I stopped thinking about it as "gay sex" and now it's just sex. We like to post accounts of our hotter hookups on this site, but truthfully a lot of us are having plenty of more vanilla sex in between postings, most relationships have a normal sexual component no matter the orientation. I have been men-exclusive for years now, both relationships and sex. And the sex is fantastic! Masturbating does still work to shut down urges when I fantasize about something wildly outside my norm, but when I hit the point where I can blow my load and that urge is still there, then it's time to give it a try. Do I recommend that for anyone else? HELL NO! In my case I think I got to where I was always meant to be. For someone who is curious and may never be more than that, masturbating when the urge hits will probably keep you out of trouble (getting caught, catching something) but you will also never get the experience you are fantasizing about.

If you met me on the street, you'd never guess I love to suck cock. It always comes as a shock to guys, so I have to do my best to prove it with much enthusiasm.

As a bottom, I've had all three. I do prefer his precum as lube, and personally I don't care for being stretched open a few fingers at a time, the first thing I want entering me is his cock head with just enough precum as lube to get him started. I want to feel him stretch me open with his cock. I'm big on the sensations, and if he can make me gasp when he rams in, it's going to be a great night.

Workout at home (weights, running, compound exercises, etc.) along with a good diet. I do it for pretty much the same reasons stated before me: to be more desirable to tops, but also because I enjoy working out in the nude.

Thanks for the heads up, @giraffeelephant !

I'm in an area loaded with bottoms and few tops. It's my experience that when a guy says this, he is a bottom that is trying to lure you in. Once you are there, what a coincidence, you are the right guy he'll bottom for. When you decline, he'll compromise by saying we can take turns fucking each other. But you have to fuck him first.

I have a pretty rigid diet from food alleries, stomach issues, and just plain convenience. Oatmeal every morning helps keep me pretty cleaned out and I stay away from greasy foods. Basically bland foods (no seasoning) are my diet. When I travel for work I still eat oatmeal and stick with simple foods when I do eat. If I meet someone, my prep is pretty easy: use the bathroom to clear out whatever may be ready to go, then shower and use a small dildo until it comes out clean. So far it has worked well for me, I can be fucked and then clean his cock with no issues showing up. I have to say the steady diet is a big help for me in regard to prep, but unless you have issues where you have to restrict what you eat, DON'T! Enjoy good tasting food as long as you can!

I wasn't sore the first time. His cock was on the thin side, and I had been fucking myself with average sized dildos for a long time prior to working up my courage for that first real meet. He was enthusiastic, but I didn't hurt after.