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Its not quite the same for me. Barefoot with other clothes on does nothing for me sexually. But being barefoot with no other clothing is a trigger for my slutty side. Thinking about it, socks always are the last thing I strip off. I quite literally feel different between wearing nothing but socks, and wearing nothing. Socks represent the clothing barrier and a freedom barrier in general. Once they are off and I am completely nude, I feel free to indulge all-in in whatever sexual situation I walked into. My regular fuck-buddies know that getting me completely nude means them getting whatever they want.

I have another: politics ranting. Ran into this over the weekend. I try to keep my political views separate from situations where they have no bearing, such as work, normal day-to-day, and sex. I was contacted by a top on an app with a great profile, but his second reply in the conversation went right into his political view with no prompting on my part. And his views were extreme to say the least. Needless to say, we ended up ending the conversation amicably with no physical meeting.

Damn, found out about Paddles during covid and was hoping it would reopen. I loved the pics on their site and wanted to see myself featured some day. Shame to hear that won't happen.

I'm a bottom, and if a potential partner asks to see a pic of my cock the conversation is done. We can still talk about fun topics, but I'm not interested in an encounter with someone who is interested in my cock.

Like others have said: squats, lunges, hip thrusts, etc. As I age, I'm reminded more and more about the need to stay active to stay attractive to tops.

Make mine messy. In my mouth, on my face, get it everywhere. I love the feel of cum on my skin. Adds to the "slutty" factor.

I'm a "bottoming raw and sucking dick" guy. Like soooo many others, which makes those ever elusive tops harder to find. But we persevere, right? Don't get me wrong though, like so many others those are the standard activities that I hope for. If I encounter a truly adventurous top into all sorts of interesting things, oh the fun we can have... 🤤

Agreed. When I am horny I want cock. I have a small list of friends that I like to have sex with, but when they aren't available finding a sexual outlet (or more so finding a guy to plug his outlet into my inlet) can be frustrating to say the least. The closest gay-friendly bar typically has a high ratio of bottoms to tops (isn't that everywhere?) and a hookup isn't assured. Online apps are a one in one hundred shot on a good day. So I appreciate the cocks I do run across. As for the "bored or horny", it can be both. Sex is a great way to fill a few hours/evening/night/weekend when I am bored or horny. I love to be nude and I love to be fucked, so whatever gets me there is a welcome feeling.

Too bad there wasn't an app that could be installed on your phone that you could put your profile in and what you are looking for. Then you can set it to alert you if a compatible guy is within a certain range (they would have theirs turned on a well). You get an alert, check your phone, maybe get a pic if they set one, you could message back and forth to flirt a bit, etc. Gives new meaning to "pairing", lol. But as they say, I imagine "there's an app for that" already.

Great advice @fskn I'm a chronic introvert, shy.. pick one or something like it. It took a bit for me to get used to what little I do understand in terms of signals. One thing I can say is that if you have a best feature that you can exploit (for lack of a better word) and can do so legally, lol, do it! Guys are more bold if you have something they want and will come to you or at least be much more apparent in their interest. I run and lift weights and have an ass that generates interest. I like not having to always guess if a guy is interested, because I'm probably in the top five of worse people to pick up on signals. Good luck, and if you come up with a tip that can help the rest of us out, please post it!

Thanks for finding this story and bringing it back for others to enjoy!

I go through spurts where I'll visit the site several times a day because a topic popped up that interested me, and then there are times I can go several days or longer without visiting. In terms of content I know what I like and what I can constructively (or at least positively) contribute to and typically stick with those. There are things I am not really into, and may give some of those topics a passing read to see what is currently going on but usually I just don't click on them. I think that with age and experience we get fairly decent at separating the fact from fantasy posts. I mainly look at this site as a fun way to discuss experience, learn some new trick or technique, flirt a little with others, and read some stories which may or may not be real but what the hell, a little escape from the day is a good thing. I do see a number of topics that seem like a repost, and usually just ignore them. After all, how any times should I describe the first cock I sucked? That has to be boring as hell to read after a while! I can understand the argument that an impressionable person may take some posts or topics as reflecting the real world and act without considering the consequences. But fantasy is a lot of the world wide Web, if they weren't drawing questionable conclusions from here they can get them from numerous other sites. I have to give kudos to the moderators, they have an overwhelming task of making sure things get steered to the correct location and removing stuff that goes outside the rules. In the end, I think there are a lot of good people on this site that are more than willing to talk with people that have questions and will give them honest answers. There is a lot of fantasy on this site, and I'm going to guess that 99‰ of those fantasy posts stay as fantasy. For me it is a fun escape from the day when I do spend some time reading the stories and imagining myself living the experiences. And I have to say thanks to rawTop for getting this site started, and all the techs and moderators who keep it from going off the rails. And all the great contributors with their topics, comments, pics, and the occasional dirty one-on-one messages!

I had a girlfriend in my younger days who loved to ride my face after I came in her and made me eat my load. I loved the submissiveness of this act, plus it was messy and hot as hell. When I was a teen to early twenties I was flexible enough to suck my own cock (God bless the flexibility gained from running the hurdles in high school track) and loved squirting in my own mouth. Looking back, I'm surprised I didn't start sucking guys then. I wish I had, because I would have discovered the joys of being fucked so much earlier. And now I love to eat my cum that I'll shoot during sex after making a show of smearing it on my lips and licking it off my fingers for the top to see. A kind of messy performance art if you will. Naturally I like the cum from others more, but I am in the sex for the sluttieness of the situation, and the more cum the better.

Absolutely! It comes down to the guy backing it up.

Thanks for getting the escape room idea out there @Cumdumpoakland you have people thinking about some awesome activities. @fskn- great idea about bathouse revitalization, I'd pay to get in there. I'd have to agree that it would need to be private groups any way you did it. There are gay campgrounds, I have to imagine there are gay or gay-friendly farmers that would allow their property to be used for a maze (local laws permitting of course). The bathouse would probably be an easier route.

I had a thought about something like this, but with a corn maze. Have the standard maze, but instead of stations where you punch a ticket to prove you found it, you find beds with bottoms to fuck. Or tops looking to be sucked. Once you finish at a station, they stamp your ass. Once you collect all the stamps you have to find your way out and present your ass to get your prize. Which maybe another load if you are a bottom, maybe you get sucked by another bottom maze-runner. And if you are in the maze and meet a compatible guy along the way, feel free to have some fun! I'd volunteer to be a "station boy". I'd want to be naked in a low stock on a platform high enough for easy access that has me on my knees with my head and hands secure. My ass presented for anyone who finds me to fuck. Or mouth, if two guys find me and want a spit-roast. This combines a bunch of fantasies and fetishes: bondage, public sex, submissive anonymous sex, barebacking, and a whole lot of cum!

I've always been verbal about his cock when getting fucked. It seems to spur him on, which is exactly what I am looking for.

I like sex messy, so running out of me is preferable. But it depends on what the top wants.

I never thought of this as being an issue. But then again, living in a rural makes every gay/bi male of all descriptions a member of a pretty small community, and we sure as hell can't afford to exclude anyone! That's just my thought on the matter, I'm sure there are others around my area that differ in opinion. Right now my primary recurring fuck buddy is black, and while the skin on skin contrast makes me all the hotter for his cum, sex with him is like sex with anyone else. He has a cock, he wants to cum in me, and I am good with that.

I went the other way, and improved my breath-holding time. I know that isn't always an option due to medical reasons, but if you are able I recommend running and a lot of cardio to get the heavy breathing going. It pays off in the bedroom. I'm to the point where I enjoy giving a good throat-job and the feeling of being sub to the man fucking my throat. When I encourage him by gripping his hips and pulling him in as deep as he can go, he can get primal and fuck my throat harder. Given that I have grown to love breath-control, having his cock in my throat for as long as I can get it is a goal during sex. So the exercises to work on breathing and breath-holding pay off.

Ahh, gotcha. Oh well, maybe someday well be able wrack up some more intimate meets where we can post some candids of us enjoying each other's pleasures! Always fun to think about!

I've had luck in Scranton and Williamsport. Also some fun in Mansfield because of the college, there are a small number of gay tops to be found in the area.

I'm fairly smooth to begin with, but I do touch up the intimate areas if need be. I prefer being smooth myself, but I'm good with smooth or hairy tops.

I'm always in the mood for sex, but am not going to cry if I don't get it. Price to pay for living in a rural area. Besides, it make the encounters that do happen all the hotter. The surprise encounters I wasn't expecting are all the more fun.

Not yet, but always up for making new friends. And riding their cock. Too bad there wasn't a thread where people meeting up from BZ could post pictures of their encounters. It would be a fun way to see new people and to see us in our natural raw element.