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Submissives: when did you know?
YourNoLimitsBottom replied to kinkysuBB's topic in General Discussion
It didn't take long after I started having sex with men to fall naturally into the submissive role whenever I was with a more dominant man. I always enjoyed risky sex stories for years, and always imagined myself in the female role. Reading the stories and imagining giving myself to a dominant man for his pleasure has always been a turn-on. I was lucky enough to have a friend that loved to fuck my throat while I was laying on my back on the bed whenever we hooked up and I think one of the key things that would happen is that I would cum during the aggressive face fucking and end up with jizz all over me. This was almost like conditioning. To this day I love messy cummy sex and the more aggressive the better. To this day when confronted with an aggressive guy it is almost like a game of chicken. He pushes a boundary, I respond enthusiastically, he ups his game, I do the same. I haven't found anyone to match the aggressive stories I like, but hey, keep fucking til you do, right? -
Too many flakes for cumdump group
YourNoLimitsBottom replied to bb-btm's topic in General Discussion
Adam4Adam is still around, but the flake ratio is (or "was", at least when I was on it, I eventually said the hell with it) just as high. And the number of bottoms trying to convince you as a fellow bottom to fuck them is also high. -
Why Did You Start Barebacking?
YourNoLimitsBottom replied to west933's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Natural progression of my sex life. I started with condoms like so many of us. As time went by and I experimented more, barebacking became a natural thing when I was exclusive with someone. To this day I haven't thrown out condoms completely. New relationships have a "getting to know you" period, and the time we go from condom to bare can vary between none from the start to months. -
While I enjoy sucking hard cock, getting it there is half the fun. I enjoy sucking a soft cock. I have fantasies of giving the perfect blowjob where his soft cock is lined up perfectly so it grows and slowly expands into my throat. I enjoy breath control, and feeling it growing in my mouth, inexorably pushing into my throat, it's like he is slowly dominating me, daring me to stop his cock expanding inside. His cock is slowly gaining control of my air, and I am letting it happen.
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When I was first starting out I sucked more straight guys than gay. I didn't really have a great network of contacts, didn't know where to go, etc. Most of the straight guys only wanted sucked off. The best sex of my life has occurred ever since I branched out and did my best to connect with gay men. From my experience gay men want to follow through on the suck with a fuck far more than straight, and they are fucking me, and not imagining the woman they couldn't get.
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Agree 100%. When I want to fuck and am using an app, I just need to know when, where, and that they understand I do not top. When I am out in the real world we can talk a bit more if necessary to fuck, or we can get to know each other if we want to take the relationship further than just a one night fuck-fest.
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If I am looking in an app for a fuck, I like profiles that tell me EXACTLY what they are looking for. That way I'm not wasting their time and they aren't wasting mine. I gave up on the one liner "looking for fun" ads a long time ago. Are you looking to top/bottom/switch? Age range? Or are you one of those guys that is only looking for someone's replies to beat off to then disappear? If you REALLY want to get me going, tell me exactly what you want so I know if we are a match, and then hint that you may like more but would rather talk about it in person. Knowing that we are pretty much a sure thing to begin with and that there could be more that awakens my curiosity (and kinky side) will get my reply.
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A sweaty guy isn't a big turn on for me, I'm turned on when we got sweaty together doing something non-sexual. I used to run with a guy that became a fuck-buddy and we would be tearing each other's clothes off at the end of the individual run. I'm guessing it helped build my love for hot messy sex. Haven't ran with anyone into gay sex since, sad to say. I need to join a gym...
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Various vegetables, but my favorite is a cucumber. While sliding a cool peeled wet cucumber inside me is awesome, I have to be careful to hide my hard-on at the store when selecting cucumbers. An unintended side affect, and I'm definitely not proud of that aspect of it.
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I'm always into some pain when it comes to sex, be it from a hard fucking, being choked by hand or by a brutal face fucking... it does add an element of spice to the encounter. But I respect the guy fucking me, maybe he is into it, maybe not. Vanilla sex is still much better than no sex at all. I've had guys that talk about it up front, and that's great, it helps to put his mind to ease if he is feeling hesitant about what he thinks he can and cannot do. But my personal favorite is when during sex he starts to spontaneously act upon his urges and test my boundaries. That's when it gets interesting. We are feeding off each other at that point, driving each other deeper into lust. Not knowing where we will end up is the type of sex I dream about.
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Thanks @onlyraw I may just do that. I won't be living that fantasy anytime soon or ever, so might as well turn it into fiction!
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You are correct. I used that word once in a post and got the same result. I was surprised, as you mentioned it is simply a descriptor. My kinky fantasies... I love sex in water. Showers, pools, lakes... the bigger the better. My fantasy is to have a threesome or moresome where I am sucking cock underwater while being fucked. One man after another gripping my ass or head, holding me under for their pleasure. Letting me up as they please for that gasp of air before taking me down again. The risk of taking too long to get them off, maybe driving someone so crazy with my mouth he won't let me up until I finish him. The vastness of the body of water we are in heightens the feeling of helplessness which feeds my submissive leanings. Thanks to someone for pointing out I may have posted something here I shouldn't!
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Yup, that was my next reaction after getting over the initial paranoia. I just have to be careful thinking it in public because I get hard when _______ (insert anything here, you'll probably be right).
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Back in my straight sex days, I went to a small college party with a female friend. The party was hosted by a gay friend of hers. After it wound down, the host went to bed and only she and I and a gay couple were left hanging out in the living room. One of the guys asked if I wanted a blowjob, and I declined. The two guys ended up having sex on the couch which turned on my female friend and we ended up having sex on the living room floor. To this day I still kick myself in the ass for turning down an opportunity which may have lead to a very hot sexual experience.
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There is nothing better than... the thrill of exploring a new man's body, tasting his cock for the first time, then mounting and riding him while looking him in the eye, waiting for that inevitable and delicious tightening of his body and pulsing of his cock...
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Screen names and how you interpret them
YourNoLimitsBottom replied to tallslenderguy's topic in General Discussion
When I did more dating apps I tried to make sure my screen names conveyed I was a bottom and a general idea of what I was in to. It helped cut down on the initial avalanche of "top or bottom?" questions. I appreciated others' names that helped me to zero in on the profiles of what I was looking for. While names can be ambiguous, I really hate ambiguous accompanying profiles that don't spell out what the person wants. I typically write them off as flakes looking for the thrill of someone talking to them, and nothing beyond that. This site isn't for dating (though connections can be made) and I can say I have seen some screen names that would have put me off as a bottom in the dating app world, but here on this site designed for interaction reading some of their posts have given me more insight into that person and damn I want them to fuck me. Goes to show that the art of conversation isn't dead. -
I take any talk online with a grain of salt. As @Ieatcumholesssaid so well, many are in it for the thrill of the chase. It used to bug me, but it did help me to eventually step out into the real world. Baby steps to start with though. I usually have much better luck meeting naturally in the real world. If they are comfortable with talking to me face-to-face, we have a greater chance of getting cock-to-ass.
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I did when I first started out. Then it dawned on me that I never had thoughts about some guy I just saw having sucked cock, why would they think the same about me? It was just me projecting my own paranoia. Years later I look at my sucking cock as just a part of my normal sex routine, just like everyone else has sex. It never crosses my mind that the nice lady who checks out my groceries probably had a cock in her mouth not long before telling me to have a nice day. Why would anyone bother or care to think the same about me?
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Riding, doggy, missionary are my top three in no particular order. But part of the fun is letting things happen organically, so if I end up bent over the bathroom sink I'm not going to complain.
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I'm a bottom, and would hope that if my sex partner and I had taken the time to discuss and agree to being safe or bare for whatever reason, we both stick to it. I have a somewhat consistent fuck buddy but we are not exclusive. If I ever became poz or suspected I took a poz load, I'd be up front with him before we did anything. So far he has done the same for me. But he does love to get in the poz breeding talk during sex! I couldn't live with myself if I knowingly passed along something to him or anyone that they were not anticipating.
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I leak precum like a faucet, which admittedly can be a problem in a public setting. When I cum after not having cum in a while, it can be a mess. I like it best when I am on my back during sex and can catch it on my stomach, chest and face. That way it can run down and get smeared on my skin as we go at it. I'm in it for the messy sex, lol.
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Bottom here. I've always enjoyed it and the thought of topping has never been appealing. I've never looked at a guy and could imagine myself topping them. Submitting my body to another man just feels right. And during the act, it just feels GOOD! Primal even. The body heat, the sounds of skin smacking skin... damn I love taking cock.
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I had years of porn-viewing under my belt before I sucked my first cock. The first time I had a cock in front of me everything felt so instinctive, it was like I had been sucking for years. Normally I stay away from using my hands. There is something to be said about a long slow suck that only uses mouth, tongue, and throat. The tip of the tongue to stimulate him goes a long way. I only use hands when the mood is more aggressive and he lets me take over. He has shown he likes action, and isn't there for a slow fuck session. When he pauses to let me suck I respond with hands along with mouth because the grip and roughness keep that aggressive feel going. If he is still actively grabbing my head and thrusting, I want him to feel like he is dominating me and I keep my hands off. It's like the old used phrase "read the room". Know the mood of your cock's owner as you go down, then trust your instincts. If he cums and keeps cumming back, you are doing it right.
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I love cleaning a cummy cock after it has unloaded in my ass. It really ups the slutty factor. Only ever done it with a single guy at a time though. A fantasy would be to take them assembly line style: guy one fucks and cums in my ass, makes me suck his cock clean while guy two slides in to add to the cum running out of me, cums and comes around for his cock cleaning while guy three lines up for his turn...
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Does Exercising Make You Need To Get Off?
YourNoLimitsBottom replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
Absolutely! I run and I go through the post-run standard feelings of tired, amped up from the elevated heart rate, and horny as hell. I don't go to the gym but do workout at home, and I love to do it nude. I just love being nude, and the act of moving and exerting myself in the nude makes me horny as hell. I'd jump on any cock available at that point, I may need to get a gym membership with a like-minded guy... I never thought about it before, but @MuscledHorsen nailed it when he said that exercise raises your testosterone levels and everything associated with it.
