As far as I’m concerned as soon as you present yourself (visually or/and verbally) in a
way that you want - then that’s it.
Personally my tastes are to guys who would sit in the general society perceptions as more masculine, however, some of the lads who are FTM are often “more butch” than those who were born with male identities. I’ve never been with a women, but, something really attracts me to a trans guy when they are stereotypical scally/workie looks. This preference applies to all males of all age, it’s the physical visual characteristics I tend to go for, but there has to be a personality too.
Back to the question -hell yes they should be here and feel safe to be here ( except for the sexual predators on the site 🫣)