PozBearWI

Bones me up, and still embarrasses me.

The story ended perfectly.  Look at where all of our imaginations went?  🙂

@BlindRawFucker1 if you didn't intend your comment "Are you two going to fuck with Mickey Mouse?" to be funny, to me it was.  I burst out laughing as my first reaction.  I guess it conjured up a funny visual in my head.  

Fuck that looks delicious!!!

@chunkychains man thank you for putting it here as a finished story.  I absolutely hate those that drag on for months, sometimes years.  

And I love that conversion was a side effect, not so much the point.  

Every load I jack I lick up.  

I think longest for me didn't exceed two hours.  I guess I am easily bored???  LOL

There is another media source I recently tapped into. I try not to follow the chaos each day, much less each hour, and record Rachel Maddow's show each week. A summary helps me as I don't have to engage emotions in things over which I have zero control at the moment. I am content to be aware and not step into the drama. My Previously mentioned 2x weekly podcast takes that information and adds context. I get my weekly local newspaper which takes me maybe 30 minutes to get current. And finally, I record the 30 minute local The Milwaukee Journal station, skip over the drama that doesn't apply to me; catch a decent national weather report and let it all go.

Instead I've happened along a YouTube channel. There are a couple of Yard Cleanup summarized to half an hour or an hour to see chaos become orderly. One in particular, a fellow over in Detroit area, has his own version of that called Midlife Stockman. He recently left corporate life as his YouTube success grew. Easy on the eyes, articulate and pleasurable voice. (he could lower the machine volume by half). But his mission he has adopted is soul healing stuff. None of this has anything to do with the disease we share. But after six month of 47, I just needed relief. But I mention Sean Stockman's channel as he is a lovely blend of altruism, realistic, and gratitude. Maybe a touch too much gratitude, but I really need that right now...

We, us here, most of us around see the benefit in community. And our community isn't just one idea, or one important thing, or one enjoyable attribute. Our lives are a sum of diverse interests, activities, challenges and pleasures. But we are one. We are, as I see it, one human family. We do well when we do well to ourselves AND others. I think us American's aren't in disagreement about what we need. But others are trying to tell us what we need, no matter what we see in front of us ourselves. It sort of feels like we're in the Hunger Games and none of us signed up for that.

41 minutes ago, norefusal said:

, i'm not a size queen per se, ive just never fallen for a small dicked man. 

 

Which, of course, is the definition of a size queen....

One thing that always confuses me are guys who say NO because I am pierced, even though I might not be wearing a PA.  Seems the fact that I did is too scary for them... 

Hard my mate's cock is about half an inch longer.  We're of similar girth; early on we got something which then was called clone-a-willy, did that and enjoyed those for a time.  Both of us are growers.  

9 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

I found the religious and cultural angle interesting, having moved from and still frequently traveled to more religious and culturally conservative areas to Portland which is one of the most politically liberal and least religious cities in the US. Group sex and exhibitionism really aren't a thing in Portland, they won't even watch let alone join in. They readily accept people going out in public dressed in sexual fetish gear that would not fly very many places. Guys will walk other guys through a park wearing a dog mask on a leash through a public park in broad daylight and no one will bat an eye. We also have heavy promotion of hetero normative gay monogamous relationships, but will ignore and slut shame anyone who even dares to admit they are looking to hookup for a casual fuck in a bathhouse or anywhere else gay men typically hookup. Sexual preferences or even an indication that you want to fuck are mostly verboten on the hookup apps. There is more to it than just the cultural and religious aspects. I can easily find willing partners to play when I'm working in predominantly Mormon Utah or in the deeply religious towns in the Midwest (like the area I grew up in), as well as liberal and less religious cities like LA or Palm Springs, that are impossible to find in the PNW or on up into Canada along the Pacific Coast.

I've been trying to understand it for almost 2 decades, and still don't have a clue what makes some regions more sex averse than others.

I think it is adequate to understand that sexual openness isn't common across the globe much less your community.  More than regions being sex averse, many individuals in your same town are.  Social norms around the world have always varied.  Shoot sometimes they vary quite a bit from one town to another.  

@hntnhole indeed and well phrased; an interesting hypothesis.  If anything comes of those studying, I'll be interested to read their data and rationale.  I'm a poll worker and am pretty close to how it all works.  Having had a career in logic; and knowing how many reviews have occurred, including some hand recounts in my state; I am not counting on it being proven true.  So yeah, interesting hypothesis.  A couple of "maybe logically possible" but with no other corroborating data, not counting on it.

I was surprised and disappointed when grandpa Joe said "yes" for a second term.  Was it a pissing match of two old guys (not far off from being peers of mine; we're within four years of each other)?  There's been a bit too much of that; and not the fun way in my generation.  The strongest candidate in any race, is the one who shows themself to be the most capable of drawing together an effective team.  And only a few do well at that.  IMO the sweet spot for presidents would be the 50 to 70 window.  Combined with a demonstrated ability to work through complex facts with trustworthy advisors to make the many difficult decisions that go with any leadership job.  But unlike CEO's presidents also set or reflect the moral compass (historically).  

And maybe that is exactly where we are collectively.  Too much Game of Thrones and Hunger Games worldview that we are all competitors.  

Nice story @chunkychains!!!

2 hours ago, topblkmale said:

 

It's not weird.

Black men walk different.

Black men talk different.

And black men fuck ass different.

 

Having delighted in being fucked by both white and black (and asian, latino, ...) men; if my eyes were closed I would not know.  Ditto language although indeed many black men have a particular way of speaking.  Big dicks vs small?  Of course I can feel that difference although big is not necessarily better and small is not necessarily worse.  

What bothers me is why we continue to pretend one race is better than another.  Or worse than another?  When are we all gonna drop that nonsense?  

With your eyes closed, how do you know the color of the cock?  

Considering the 24 election, our system has determined the election won by Trump.  And at least in the local election (where I am a poll worker); it appears unlikely the Dominion voting machine we use to tally paper ballots was in sync for valid ballots in and counted; I didn't sort them by Donnie, Kamala and other myself.  So I can't attest to the accuracy.  

I'm sure many of us have some awareness of at least exploration by some on whether Elon and  his networks enabled a loophole.  To me that sounds sort of flat earther.  Then too; the actions of ICE and HHS are deeply concerning.  And the disconnect has me at least glad that someone is exploring the "did Elon somehow influence how votes were counted".  

Resistance to Donnie and his cult antics seems to be rising; and so, time will tell right?

To some extent, maybe our challenge is recognizing where the insane genius gets his power?  When I allow it to happen, this whole shit show is exhausting.  I thought the purpose of electing representatives is that they would, actually, represent us.  But they don't.  

Take this big bastardly bill...  Much of this takes effect after the 2026 elections.  So whatever happens in the lives of constituents won't be felt until the current fktards are voted out of office.  And then the public will start to experience the shit show, get pissed off at those then in office and vote them out.  Everything they do in DC should be able to be digested, summarized and recounted by Walter Cronkite.  But now we have a million voices often saying completely different things.  Some fact bases and a lot BS based.  

It feels like we need fact checkers to check the fact checkers to check the "media" and help us slough off the crap to help us focus...

You mean the "conservatives" are pushing us all together?  

50 years of gay porn and I need to pick a favorite?  Sorry, too many great ones.  Some of the amateur ones have had a more authentic energy to them.  But the eye candy in some of the studio ones are a delight as well.  

@Pozguyinchi It's just a matter of proximity sexy man.  I think we'll have our naked time one day....

2 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

This entire discussion seems quaint, based on where I live. I love to do it and have many times when I travel, but frequently get bottoms at bathhouse here that would not even dream of cleaning there own ass juices off of my cock as well as tops that tell me it is disgusting when I ask to clean them after they pull out. I got lucky on my last bathhouse visit, I bred bottoms visiting from FL and Brazil who both sucked me clean afterward, and several tops let me suck them after they had been on the Floridian and my cummy hole. I'm sure we grossed out at least 80% of the locals that noticed.

And perhaps this was inevitable.  It might be a consequence of man on man sex being more accepted.  Or at least we were getting there.  Socially our community seems to be picking up more of the historically straight norms.  And honestly from a health perspective ATM does many times result in GI problems.  But not always.  

8 hours ago, Pozguyinchi said:

I have been bred many times by men with piercings. I like the feeling. As a loose bottom it feels great to have metal sliding inside of me. Unfortunately not many men are getting it done anymore.

I imagine.  Tat's seem to be the thing more than piercings now.  I got my PA in 2008  (TG I took some photos because it is the date stamp that helps me recall).  Various sizes over the years.  The one I most commonly wear is a 6ga that tucks inside my foreskin most of the time.  And after a few days the hole gets irritated.  Writing this though makes me think; maybe I need to change it out once a day???

I find it annoying that Wisconsin patrols parks so well.  Or at least in the cruising areas we used pre Covid.  

7 hours ago, cman54 said:

I think it's awesome that married guys not on prep  still go to Bathhouse's and let guys there fuck them bare despite the risk of it.

Yes, and then I ask myself, "awesome for who?".  I love my mate.  If he wanted to poz I would certainly bring him into the fold (as it were).  But while I am not fretting being poz, some people do and I don't want to be the guy to sneak that into their life.  That said, it's really up to us to care for the body we live in however we see fit.  And I think that suggests the fault is us if we just assume...