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do you like to get dick slapped or to dick slap a guy?
TotalBottom replied to barefootbob's topic in General Discussion
I love being slapped by a dick and a hand, especially when the hand slap comes by surprise. -
Which Do you prefer - Quickies Or Long Sessions?
TotalBottom replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I agree, and sometimes it makes me feel good when the tops come really quickly. -
Drinking lots of water and a high fiber diet might help you tighten up. I'm not sure exercises would help. I've gotten to the point where I'm proud when my hole becomes looser. It can be really hot when guys comment on it, I feel validated that they know my hole is used a lot.
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I love being fucked by a top with an average sized cock, especially after I've just been fucked by really big dick. When I get fucked by someone with an average cock, the sounds of the cock thrusting in and out of my hole are a lot louder and sloppier sounding, which can be very hot, especially if the top is very verbal.
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My hole doesn't become a gaping hole, it becomes a longer slit and gets pinker.
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Bottoms: Do you ever just want to be holes?
TotalBottom replied to Tom's topic in General Discussion
I definitely get into being just a hole. One of my favorite things is getting fucked in a backroom totally bent over, grabbing my ankles. When I'm bent over like that, people literally only see an ass getting used. If I can, I try to stay in that position as long as possible, with guys taking turns, and embrace being just a hole. -
Don't Slam into a guys ass on the first stroke.
TotalBottom replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, I love when guys slam it in too. I'm usually prepared for it though. When I'm getting ready for the night, I'll ram a dildo and thick buttplug up my hole. Part of it though is I also try to signal to tops that they can slam it in. When I'm in a dark room, I'll sometimes stand with my feet bar apart, my back arched and my ass sticking out, I'll even do that for the first fuck of the night. When a top sees how available my ass is, he knows he can slam it in hard. I like the energy when it starts hard and fast, especially when I'm in a group and I'm the first one getting fucked that night. It's such a release for everyone, the top, me and the guys watching, when intense hard fucking happens quickly. -
A good way to break a bottom is to slap his ass really hard over and over in the same spot. I like it when it's gets to the point where I just accept the pain, I have surrendered to the moment and feel completely submitted to the top.
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Yeah, my wristband has a blue stripe and my armband has blue piping, plus I'll wear a blue bandana. I like the knowing looks that I get when I'm in my gear. It's hot when I meet guys and the conversation starts on the topic of fucking.
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I like the way it looks but I especially like signaling that I'm a bottom with my leather gear. I get a rush from guys knowing right away that I'm looking to get fucked.
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getting verbal during a breeding session
TotalBottom replied to yunghungtop's topic in General Discussion
It was at the Hoist in London. I love getting fucked there on a night when it's really crowded. -
Yes! It's very humbling for the bottom and that makes it hot.
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I find that getting fucked standing is the best position for resolving this. I like getting fucked bent over with my feet apart and working the top's cock with the muscles of my hole. However, when my hole becomes really loose and I'm getting fucked by a top whose cock is not as thick as guys who have fucked me earlier, I'll switch to keeping my feet closer together and bending me knees more. I have a fairly deep crack and when my hole is really loose, I'll change from using the muscles of my hole to using the muscles of my asscheeks and flexing them more. I try to determine whether the top wants a loose fuck or a tighter fuck and I adjust myself to accommodate his cock.
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Do you say "thank you" after scoring a load?
TotalBottom replied to cumgeek's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, I usually thank the top but I don't when another top moves in and starts fucking me right away and I haven't even had a chance to stand up straight. It feels a little a funny when a top thanks me. I'm fulfilling an obligation so I don't need to be thanked. -
I shave because I think it makes my dick look even smaller. It's important for me to let tops know there's an inadequacy and for them to see my need for real cock.
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The responses in this thread were great to read. I used to aim to keep my hole tight because I had always thought that's what tops wanted. But I've since gotten into having a loose hole. I like a top's reaction when he fingers my hole and he gives that look that says he knows I've already been fucked. I think it can also be very hot to openly discuss the looseness of a bottom's hole, particularly in a group situation. When everyone knows this information, I feel a mix of embarrassment and pride but also a sense of appreciation that my hole is being both used and talked about.
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Best Place to Travel for Sleazy Raw Sex?
TotalBottom replied to PhoenixGeoff's topic in General Discussion
Berlin and Amsterdam are my picks too. -
As a rule, all of the leather gear that I wear signals that I'm a bottom. I currently do not have a leather harness and I'd like to get one that only a bottom would wear. I'd want one that would be good for a top to hold on to and at the same time, has a look that communicates my need to be dominated. Any suggestions for a harness that looks really bottom-specific? Or do you think it's better for a leather bottom not to wear a harness?
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Mmmm... thank you, younghungtop, that's the perfect way to treat a bottom! Yeah, face slapping is really powerful. I've been fucked standing in sexclubs and have had guys smack me hard across the face while they watch me get fucked. Although the natural instinct would be to put my hands to my face, I've resisted and just continued to take it. The most important thing at that moment is the cock in my ass and I don't want any of my body language to take away from that. It's especially degrading if there are guys laughing at me getting fucked and slapped. When I'm being degraded like that, I just embrace the humility that can come with being a true bottom.
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I have strict rules in my mind of how I need to be as a bottom. Personally, for me, it's important that I stay soft. My dick is small to begin with and I like to reinforce its insignifance by staying soft. I only jerk off later by myself but I don't mind if a top feels it briefly so he can physically feel its irrelevance. When I'm turned on about to be fucked and while I'm being fucked, all of the energy that I feel is in my hole. At that point, my dick essentially doesn't exist and the entire focus is on the top's cock.
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I'm really into leather and love getting fucked in leather bars and at leather parties. I love that leather allows me to signal what I'm into but more importantly, what I am. I have a blue-striped armband and matching wristband/wallet that I wear on my right arm. I also have a tiny black leather g-string that I keep on when I'm getting fucked. I have a couple of leather jockstraps too but I don't wear them anymore because the pouches are too big. As a 6'3" bottom with a small dick, I feel it's important for me to let tops know that I have a small dick so I had the g-string custom made with an extra small pouch. My bush is totally shaved down and the pouch almost looks like I'm wearing an eyepatch. Although it's a much softer look than a jockstrap, guys tell me I look good in it and no one seems to get turned off thinking it's too femmy. I'll wear it in a leather bar with my armband, wristband and a paid of black kneepads. I also have a blue latex hankerchief that I hang over my waistband, on the right. When I'm wearing that, guys see my true nature. The g-string keeps me covered and still shows off my ass. Even though it has an elastic strap that goes between my asscheeks, I feel my hole is just as accessible as it is in a jockstrap. I'll take the strap and move it to the side as a way to offer my hole to a top. It's even better when the top moves it to the side himself, it reinforces my sense of being opened up by him.
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The best sex I ever had took place last October when I spent a weekend in Amsterdam getting fucked at different leather bars. The highlight for me was one point when I was getting fucked standing with a group of about forty guys watching. This one guy with a really thick cock started fucking while holding on to me by pulling my hair. I had to really arch my back to accommodate this and maintain balance. Even though my head was pulled far back, I could still see the crowd's faces and their looks of amazement. When the top let go of my hair, I bent over and started sucking someone while continuing to get pounded from behind. The guy I was sucking then took my head off his cock and pushed it down between his thighs and put me in a headlock. I was getting fucked completely bent over with my head in the headlock. He kept me in the headlock for about 20 minutes as different guys took turns fucking. All I could see was the floor. I remember, though, that I still kept my thoughts and focus on the tops' cocks and aiming to give them pleasure with my hole. It was such a powerful moment and I completely surrendered to it. Later on that night when I took a break, I was chatting with some of the guys who had fucked me and they told me it was the hottest thing they had ever seen and done. They told me I was the ultimate bottom. I thanked them for that and thanked all of them for using my hole.
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The one that sticks out is "You've got a great ass that is meant to be used and be used often." It's also a great compliment when I'm in a sexclub or backroom and a top has finished fucking me and he then starts encouraging other guys to fuck me. Sometimes a top will become really interested in helping to make sure that I get fucked by as many guys as possible. I'm grateful that not only did he choose to fuck me but he is now recommending my hole to other tops! It's an honor for me to hear that I deserve to be used by more and more men.
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Do you wish your dick were longer or thicker?
TotalBottom replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
As a bottom, having a small, thin dick has become an important part of the equation. I wouldn't change it and I like knowing that I was built to be a bottom. I'm glad that the size of my dick makes it clear that I don't fuck, I only get fucked. -
What advice do you have for Tops to be better Tops
TotalBottom replied to yunghungtop's topic in General Discussion
When a top slaps a bottom's ass, he should go all out and smack it as hard as possible. As bottoms, we need to be put in our place so the harded the better. It's also good to slap the bottom right on the hole. I was in a backroom one time being worked over and these guys had me stand and spread my cheeks wide as they kept slapping me right on my hole in front of everyone. I just kept taking it. It was such total domination and I remember a look of awe on the faces of the guys watching.
