going bare?

[baregeil]

hi,

i'm 21 and mostly bottom. for quite some time i'm getting so horny when thinking about getting fucked bare, and getting someone elses cum deep up my ass. it's so hot to see some slutty bottom getting bred, and seeing the cum dripping out in a porn movie. i've had so many fantasies about it. maybe it's time to make them come true. who experienced the same? some help/suggestions for me?

[einathens]

admitting to yourself, and then in a forum like this, that you want it is the first step. actually doing it is the second. don't do it until you're ready and don't let anyone talk you into it if you're not.

[baregeil]

i think that i already came to the point that i admitted to myself that i need to try it. it's stronger than myself.

[Bttm2go]

This whole process is like climbing steps. I was just like you too. First was getting my head in order. Did a lot of reading and discovering sites with information. Then talked to some guys for their opinions. Since I was not very outgoing at the time, to find sex I went to a bathhouse. It was like a school for sex. Took my time and each time I went, I tried something new. At first I was a top. Then I became more bottom. I always played safe. Slowly I got into barebacking. The feel, top or bottom, is so much better. Leaving a load in another guy's hole was hot. Soon I was getting fucked raw and feeling loads of cum leaking out my hole was amazing. Became a total bottom then taking many loads. As time went on I moved to where I am now. I am vers. Like it both ways and with many types of guys. I am very open, but I know what I like and what I won't do. The key, for me at least, is to let you guide you. You will know when to climb the next step. When to rest or maybe take two at once. You may stop and spend time on a landing. The point is to take your time. Listen to your inner voice and follow it. Don't let someone else control you. You climb the stairs as you are comfortable doing so. For me it has been a fun, exciting climb. I have had amazing, fun times. And there are more fun times to come. I am so glad I let myself climb those steps.

Have fun!

[baregeil]

thanks for the message bttm2go! it's very usefull.

i think it is time for my next step. figuring out what the next step would be

[toxiclover]

Awesome. Go for it! I'd try a bathhouse or a bookstore. BB is usually the norm and you can find multiple guys willing to breed and knock your young boy ass up.

[drscorpio]

I have told this story of how I started barebacking before, but it's relevant

I had met a hot, older Hispanic man through a personal ad (I was about 25; he was about 40). In my mind, he was just coming over for a BJ; I was already mostly a bottom, but I always played safe. I knelt between his knees as he sat on my couch and went down on his thick, uncut 8-incher. Eventually he maneuvered us into 69 where he started giving me my first rimjob. The next thing I knew I was on the couch with my legs up,he was on his knees with his tongue way up inside me. Then in one smooth motion, he slipped his bare cock into the hilt. I loved the feeling,but after a minute or two I freaked out. He put on a condom grudgingly and finished. But within two weeks I had called him and taken his bare cock and load.

I have had a few brief flirtations with safer sex since then, but I have been a bareback bottom for most of the last 20 years. Once you actually take cum, it is hard to stop. I think you will love being a barebacker, but make sure you are ready before you go for it.

[cumdesire]

I have told this story of how I started barebacking before, but it's relevant

Once you actually take cum, it is hard to stop. I think you will love being a barebacker, but make sure you are ready before you go for it.

I agree. It's time to consider all things, but on the other hand the temptation is strong and one would like to follow it immediately. Give yourself time and wait for the course of events,imo

[baregeil]

hearing all these stories, i really would like to try it myself

[Neg20yrold]

My first time was raw...rarely get fucked safe. Though I haven't played with many guys that I've been aware of who wasn't clean.

[very evil slut]

It is something you have to decide for yourself.You should think through very carefully,because HIV and other STD's are no fun.I am slut but I don't want to be positive.I have taken loads(90% of the time I can't feel it).I like them in my mouth,as I get more from it.Lately I am going back to condoms(totally the exception here) or it is maybe a phase of some kind.Don't know yet.I am not going to preach,because it is useless.Do what you want,but be ready to accept the consequence and should it go bad for you-it will be mostly your fault,as it is you that have taken this decision.I would go raw first with a fuckbuddy,but there are people who have anon loads fetish-who am I to judge?

[breedme420]

First, I must say welcome to the site! Hope you have fun with it, and learn as much as I have! Second, Ive been barebacking for most of my life, still neg, and never had an std. Granted, that isnt the way it always goes, but like others have said here, its really a matter of taking steps. I started fucking and getting fucked kinda young, and condoms were never really discussed much at all. But for people that always play safe, then decide its time to go bare, ive noticed, does take a while to get to that conclusion. Now that youve decided you want to try it bare, id suggest a fuckbuddy or someone you know well for your first. Who knows, you may not like how bareback feels (although i doubt it). Just take your time, and make sure its what you really want to trey at this point of your life. Best wishes, and let us know what you decide to do!

[gkz68]

I think your post and joining this site is your first real step. Like the others have said - do it at your own pace and be aware of what you are getting into. I made that decision to turn fantasy into reality last year and have no regrets. I just love having raw cock and cum inside my hole. Good luck to you mate.

[pozpowerbtm]

Like the other say, but make sure you know the risks and prepared for them, it only takes that one time to become poz and that isn't as glamorous as some guys in here like to make out.

[baregeil]

i think i really should experience the feeling of having a cock raw up my ass. would it make any sense to ask the top to pull out for cumming the first time?