New BB TOP

[blacknight]

I've been a on and off lurker on this site for months now reading the the threads and jerking off to them. Last week I fucked 2 guys BB so thought it was time I signed up.All my life I've been that guy who always used rubbers but wanted to slide into someone raw.Both guys I met on grindr and both guy said they only played safe but in the middle of it they both guided my raw dick to their hole.No sure if I'm going to keep doing this but it felt great I don't want want to become poz but that shit was hot.What are the odds of me becoming poz from those 2 fucks and from tops how do you keep from cumming so fast.As soon as my raw dick was inside of them it felt so good I couldn't help it.

[drscorpio]

I'm not a top, but I will give you a couple of quick thoughts.

Unless you are fucking a bottom so long and hard that there is bleeding, there is very little risk of HIV transmission to the top.

As you get used to the sensation of raw hole, your ability to hold off cumming should improve.

[Guest Boxir55]

Yeah there is a bit Of a knack in not coming too soon. I sort of slow down the thrusting maybe stay deep I him for a few seconds before startin to fuk him again. That seems to work for me the lOnger I can keep going the better the orgasm if I have the time the second fuk is usually better

[Guest Matias47]

I'm not sure"very little" is the best way to describe the risk to tops. "Less," would be a better word. I do volunteer work with the newly diagnosed and I see a lot of total tops who get infected. Obviously, I am not judging -- I'm poz and I bareback -- I just think everyone should evaluate the actual risk. Tops do get HIV. And,remember, other STDs make transmission MUCH easier, regardless of top or bottom.

[AlwaysOpen]

Hell BlackKninght- sounds like you need a willing trainee to offer up his hole for several days on end, so you can mount and breed it over, and over, and over until you get the art of delaying your cumming down to a science . Ahem, uh, I do have a week off 23 July <veg> And I am a card carrying member of Mans Country <g>

[slowfuck]

Your cumming so fast is, If my experience is anything to go by, down to how excited you were mentally - doing something so "naughty" is going to make you very excited indeed, akin to teens having their first time. Using a condom you don't feel so 'naughty'. Taking a more matter of fact approach instead - forget that you don't have a condom on, it's just fucking as ever - will probably give you lots more control. Just switch on the 'i am so naughty' thoughts when you want to cum. Hopefully that will work for you.

[bobbie]

Of course TOPs can get HIV...that's how we bottoms get bugged up!

[Guest Matias47]

Of course TOPs can get HIV...that's how we bottoms get bugged up!

Yeah, but many people are going to say that's because they were vers tops.

[HardhatBB]

takes practice and patience to fuck without nutting too quick. Depends on the guys ass too, if he milks you or not.

[bbzh]

HIV does not discriminate. There are a lot if tops walking around thinking they are neg. According to my doctor, it is one of the most perpetuated myths out there. There are just two types of barebackers - those who are poz and those who don't know their status. If you've had bb sex since your last neg test, you fall into one of those two categories.

[bbottom26]

im almost always a bottom but from time to time I do enjoy topping and I can relate to the difficulty of coming "too soon." I Think first and for most the more you bareback the more control over your orgasm you'll have - I tend to cum pretty quickly when I top because I rarely do top so when I so it just feels so good that I have trouble controlling myself.

One trick that I've found makes me last longer is if I already came a few hours earlier. If you think you'll be barebacking and are concerned about coming too soon, have a quick wank a few hours before (giving yourself enough time to get horny again) and you will likely find that you last a lot longer the second time around.

[rawbearfun]

I am a multi-cummer - my first load comes fast and furious if I am really in the zone. I usually stay hard - either from natural horniness or from cialis - depending on the mood and keep on going. Cum multiple times which is my way. Most bottoms love getting lubed with sperm and continued to get pummeled.

To last longer from the first cum shot - I usually switch between rimming and fucking - every time I get too fucking turned on and think I am gonna cum, my cock slides out and my tongue slides back into that hot hole - it keeps the bottom moaning and I get to pace myself well.

About Poz & Tops ... Yeah I am a total top and I got pozzed - so it does happen to total tops. Uncut cocks have a higher risk especially when it comes to rough fuck fests.

[rawTOP]

What are the odds of me becoming poz from those 2 fucks and from tops how do you keep from cumming so fast.As soon as my raw dick was inside of them it felt so good I couldn't help it.

I've probably fucked hundreds of holes bareback, and I still test neg. It's not as safe as "safe sex" - but there's a risk of becoming poz even if you rubber up. You just have to figure out how much risk makes sense for you.

Just give in and cum when your dick wants to cum. Then keep going - the 2nd load will take more time.

[HungLatinDom]

It's funny that I work with rawTOP, and I am also a top, but I do have the opposite experience: I became poz while topping only and having mostly safer sex.

Mostly means: Occasional broken condoms, sometimes with a bleeding/pink hole and unprotected fisting.

My experience has led me to believe that the factors involved in topping are important for transmission: Your technique, frequency of raw fucking, average time until your orgasm and how raw your dick is from previous fucks, plus the presence of lacerations or small openings in your dick/hands (I often clip my nails right before fisting) will make a gigantic difference. I am also partially black, so I might have the genetic predisposition to be more easily infected with HIV.

From what I have read, my case is not common, but it is neither rare. Most tops are doing well and don't become poz, but, be aware that it might get you soon. Getting HIV from topping is not a myth.

[rawTOP]

I'm not sure"very little" is the best way to describe the risk to tops. "Less," would be a better word.

The studies say the risk for tops is about 7 times less than for bottoms. The PDF of the study is here on the site.