Have you been caught, or almost caught by police at cruising sites?

[Snarkybitch]

The last time I ever did anything in public, I got detained. In a park in DC I was on my knees sucking a guy off when a cop found us. He handcuffed us while he ran our IDs. I lied and told him I'd never done anything like this before. Since my record was clean, and I was fully clothed, he let me off with a warning, but told me that if I ever got caught again I would be arrested. The guy I was sucking got arrested, I have no idea what happened to him after that.

[whiteslutbttm]

I got caught playing in the back of a car at around 2am one night. Cops ran our IDs, gave us a warning, told us to go home. I don't play in cars or open areas anymore, though I have sucked cock in public bathrooms since then, but am always careful about it (some bathrooms are set up better for it, more private, stalls with walls down to the floor, etc).

[BiAggieGuy]

Where I live there aren't that many places to cruise, but those that exist are either pretty safe or nothing but a jail cell waiting to happen. You just have to know which.

In college I cruised the various glory holes on campus everyday between classes (and sometimes instead of class). Can't even count how many cocks I sucked and how often I got blown. Even fucked through the GHs a few times, both as a top and bottom, but that was fairly rare. Avoided the main park that was known for cruising as the cops patrolled it every day and night. Today, with all of the remodeling that has been done on the university campus, most good places are now gone.

[Jimmy1212]

Posted this in another thread last year, but it fits the bill here too:

Almost all the sex I have with dudes is in some kind of public place. After a while I had to admit to myself that having a potential audience and or the risk of getting caught was a major turn on. I got started with this shit really young too. In fact the one time I got caught was when I was just a young teenager. It was the middle of the night and I was getting sucked off by this 40-something dude in a downtown alleyway when I felt a firm hand on my shoulder. I slipped my cock back into my jeans and zipped up as I turned around and came face to face with a uniformed cop. He never actually saw my dick in the other guys mouth ... and the cocksucker gave some feeble excuse about looking for something that he'd dropped on the ground ... but there was no way the beat cop didn't know what was going on. That was confirmed when he made me assume the position up against the brick wall and gave my still hard dick a little squeeze while he frisked me. Fortunately for me (and especially for the cocksucker since I was underage) he let us go with a stern warning to stay out of alleyways. Of course being young, dumb and way too full of cum, me and the other guy walked down a couple blocks and finished the job in the next available alley. Ahh youth ... stupid, horny youth!

[Pig Bottom]

I was stupid when I was younger.

I used to have sex at the nude beach in Sandy Hook NJ. On occasion I would see guys getting arrested on the dunes, but I was lucky.

One time I was in a cruising area of the NJ Parkway, it was a rest stop but only with parking, no bathrooms or anything else and has since closed down many year ago.

One night I went and on occasion the cops would show up and chase people away. I didn't know that the smart thing to do when the cops showed up was to leave, I thought that would be suspicious but they just want you to leave. Anyway one time a cop came to my parked car, I had been drinking, but I was not even buzzed. He made me get out and shined the flashlight in my eyes and made me follow it and I passed and I was allowed to leave.

I also used to cruise the parking lot of McDonald's on the Parkway. Then I got into cruising inside the bathroom stalls. I got really lucky because there were times where state troopers used to come in a patrol the bathroom, I was just lucky to not get caught with anyone.

I was really very lucky to have never been caught.

I'm done with cruising in public. One day at night I hope to fuck on a secluded beach but I will be wrapped up in a sheet. I would also like to fuck in the secluded woods (but take a fuck buddy and not with strangers), but there is none that I know of in south Florida. Even in NJ where it is densely populated I know of a few secluded hiking trails about 20 miles from Manhattan.

Edited September 9, 2012 by Pig Bottom

[babyeddie71]

I have come close many times but I havent been busted yet. but it will soon happen as I like to hand cuff my self in the woods and chain my ankles to two trees so I am spread eagle, that way guys can walk up and fuck me and use me as a cum dump.

[Pig Bottom]

I have come close many times but I havent been busted yet. but it will soon happen as I like to hand cuff my self in the woods and chain my ankles to two trees so I am spread eagle, that way guys can walk up and fuck me and use me as a cum dump.

You can always claim that someone did this to you. Just think up a good story beforehand that the cop will believe. Obviously you chain yourself so you can get out of it when you are done, so tell the cop the guy who did this to you said that he would kill you if you left before a few hours.

If I were you I would be more worried about getting stabbed in the heart by a crazy person.

[AlwaysOpen]

Hey Kodiak-- bookstores are no promise of safety. I was in New Orleans in early 1984- early in the Mardi Gras parade week, and in for a business meeting. Hit Bourbon St, had a few cocktails, walked over to a gay bar on Decatur St, had another drink, and was headed back when I went into a bookstore.Every booth had the latches broken, but the guy in the tight grey leather pants was in the booth with the gloryhole, so I hit the one next to it and held the door closed from the bottom of the door as I sucked his cock. As I was busy doing him, some guy jerked the door open, I reclosed it. 15 minutes later when I walked out, 3 guys stopped me, flashed their badges, and I was hauled off- along with grey pants and a guy from S America they had caught in there too- all packed into the back of their cop car. I ended up getting bailed by my boss- a short, ex marine- who got me out about 16 hours later and after disrupting the regional meeting he was holding. FOR ANY MEN GOING TO NEW ORLEANS--- you are guilty until proven innocent ( they follow Napoleonic law in NO) If your cock is in another mans mouth, it is a crime against nature ( a felony) And if you are NOT from New Orleans, you have to A) hire a bail bondsman hire a lawyer-generally a judge who is in on the loop of money and C) pay out the ass. It cost me $1400 in 1984 to go to diversion and get the charges expunged. The bail company made money, and part went to the New Orleans police as repayment from them. The judge/lawyer made his profit, and paid a part back to the NO police department in "fees". I wish I could say I felt sorry when Katrina wiped out New Orleans- and for the residents I guess I did- but for the city-- it was a cesspool and needed to be totally wiped off the map ! Why the gay men still insist on doing N O for Southern Decadence is beyond me. Other than the corruption that runs N O, the damn city is almost ALWAYS in the line of a hurricane the weekend of Labor Day.

And for Mardi Gras- the local guys i spoke with while awaiting bailing out told me the cops make it a point to arrest out of town men who have their cocks out on Bourbon St during the week- tits get a smile or a warning , but the men get busted-- and since they are out of towners-- guess what they have to do to get free- the whole bail/judge-lawyer money train. I say gay men should boycott the Big Easy and find a friendly, open city that at least treats folk evenly, and as the aftermath of the hurricane proved-- isn't overrun with dirty cops and corrupt legal systems

[Pig Bottom]

Cool, thanks for the warning about New Orleans.

[eightndeep]

The last time I ever did anything in public, I got detained. In a park in DC I was on my knees sucking a guy off when a cop found us. He handcuffed us while he ran our IDs. I lied and told him I'd never done anything like this before. Since my record was clean, and I was fully clothed, he let me off with a warning, but told me that if I ever got caught again I would be arrested. The guy I was sucking got arrested, I have no idea what happened to him after that.

What Park? P Street Beach? The Black Forest? And when? It's sort of a public service to share where and when, so others might avoid harassment.

And was it DC's finest? There are so many police forces around here.

[Snarkybitch]

What Park? P Street Beach? The Black Forest? And when? It's sort of a public service to share where and when, so others might avoid harassment.

And was it DC's finest? There are so many police forces around here.

It was P Street Beach, and also over a decade ago.

[NastyRigPig]

Okay I got busted in Volunteer Park in Seattle at 3 AM by a cop, but I got off by getting fucked by him and being hosed down by his piss.

CAVEAT: He was my BF at the time and this was pre-arranged. Still, the guys who witnessed it didn't know.

[kylecigarbear]

Why the gay men still insist on doing N O for Southern Decadence is beyond me.

My guess is that because Southern Decadence attracts so many gay men and women despite the possible issues such as "crimes against nature" ( same thing in Virginia ) they feel its somehow a "safe haven" even if it may not be as in your case and Mardi Gras. Kinda like the many of bear runs out there. Back in 2006 my partner and myself had attended Bear Invasion in Washington DC. At the hotel one afternoon I saw a guy sucking off another bear in the elevator ( both were totally nude ) despite the fact that there were CHILDREN staying at the hotel. I told the two bears this only to get "..well fuck them !! WOOF !!". Similar situation from what I had heard had taken place at Denver's OctoBEARfest some years back. Guys walking around the hotel wearing nothing but jock straps if not nude, playing naked in the hotel pool, sling in one of the rooms with the door open for anyone to see oh not too mention signs hanging up saying such stuff as "..wanna get fucked? ROOM 250 NOW !!...yet the same hotel families with children were staying there too. Nobody got caught as far as I know but still....actually looking back now I am a bit surprised nobody had ever got busted for having sex in the open at any of these bears runs. If somebody had I would imagine it would had made the local news. Today its more/less "play safe" is the rule. This past summer our local Front Range Bears had two "naked" pool parties, in the past anybody could attend however today only those who were "invited" by select members on Facebook can come. The first party my partner was invited but I wasn't. even though I am a member too. At first I was pissed but the way things are now I understand.

[hawwkfan]

Once in a park after dark in a car. The seat was laid back and I was bottom. The guy who I met at an adult bookstore parking lot was top. I had my jeans on with a hole cut for access and he had button fly jeans on and a blanket we covered with .He unbuttoned his fly,climbed on me, covered us and put his cock in me thru my jean hole and fucked me missionary. After a few minutes of pounding, he filled me with cum and laid there. His cock had just popped out of my hole and there was a tap on the window.

He rolls it down and the cop said "gottcha." and laughs. Top rolled off with the blanket and had shoved his limp cock back in his fly. The cop makes us get out and checks our ids. While he is, I have cum running down my thighs inside my jeans. He said park closes at 10pm and we can't stay there. We apologize and the cop said it happens all the time but usually with minors and was really cool about it.

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[TheBreeder]

I had my one run-in with the cops for having sex in a park restroom when I was fifteen, back in the late nineteen-seventies. After I got my pants pulled up, they marched me to a squad car, drove to my parents' house, and handed me over to my dad after telling him what I'd been doing.

You'd think I would've learned, but after a few days of wanking I was back in the parks and restrooms hunting for dick again.

That was my only serious encounter with the law when cruising. I've had a couple of too-close-for-comfort encounters in recent years, though. One was when I was parked on the street on a Sunday morning next to a cruisy trail into the woods, waiting to see if anyone interesting showed up. The cops pulled up beside me, surrounded the car, and found me reading a book, eating a doughnut, and drinking a cup of coffee. After making sure I didn't have a naked guy hidden in the back seat, they gravely informed me that they were keeping an eye on the area because men were doing 'dangerous things' in the woods. I think my reply of "Golly, officer! Like with GUNS?!" might've been over the top, but they left me alone.

I did have a friend in Michigan when I lived there who seemed to get into trouble every time he went out. He went to a new bathhouse the first month it opened and it happened to be on the day it was raided by police. The one time he went cruising at a local rest stop, he got rounded up from out of his car and searched during a big sting operation. And then the only time he visited a cruisy porn theater, the cops raided that and closed it down permanently. He wasn't arrested any of those times—just quizzed, asked for identification, lined up with other guys, and left to squirm for quite a long time. But his luck was so terrible that I utterly refused to let him go cruising with me, ever.