Amateur Porn - Showing Your Face

[rubio2001]

I've made my fair share of homemade porn, but I'm always careful to keep out the head shots because once you share them with your fuck bud you pretty much have given up any control on where that video may end up.

However, I see so many guys who clearly don't get a damn about showing their face in their homemade porn and I always wonder, "Don't these guys worry that these will get out and people they know will see them?" I always wonder what these guys do for a living? Even if you don't have a big corp job and you are working at Mcdonalds, or retail, etc., can't you still get in trouble if someone found the videos and recognized you? I have a buddy who has done some professional porn who did specialty construction work for utilities and he made a lot of money. Somehow someone saw one of his videos (he is a ff bottom) and he was fired, and this was a construction job. Even with the younger guys I wonder if later they really regret putting their videos out there as one day they may get that career job and then they'll always worry about one of their co-workers finding out.

Any of you guys put vids out there on x-tube or other places with head shots and just don't care, or have shared videos that you thought would be private but instead they got posted?

[TigerMilner]

I have done what you are talking about, posting videos that showed my face as well as body. I can't say I have any personal regrets about people seeing the videos because I am not ashamed of them. I am a self employed creative professional and discovery of the videos would not ruin my career. It would take it in an usual direction, granted, but I could make it work. I have learned however to limit full facial exposure simply because I don't want to be recognizable. I show you enough that you get the idea of how I look but I try to shoot an angle or have a man's hands blocking or some type of limitiation. I feel it adds to the anonymity. Anonymous sex scenes is what I shoot so any man in the videos should remain anonymous to the viewer as to the participants. I make these decisions as much on the story telling as on any sort of privacy issues.

Tonight I was at a very "A" list Christmas party with all the areas most wealthy socialites including lots of successful gay men. Some I knew, most I knew who they were but had never actually met in person, and many I never knew. I looked good too in my grey cashmere sweater and black pants. As gay men in a large gathering like tonight's, eyes meet and brief connections are made that simply acknowledge mutual attraction, but never consumate. I wondered when I caught a pair of eyes with mine does that guy jerk off to my videos? Does he follow my blog? Does he recognize me? Then I just fantasize that of course they do, I'm fucking TIger Milner. lol. But i am pretty well known in my profession and I am usually recognized at parties and events for my real name. If that ever happens I will spin it as some "Jeff Koons-ian" pornographic self portraits. I have enough footage to do a documentary film about online hookups and the anonymous sex scene. I will turn getting fucked on the floor of a public restroom into an intellectual event. And then I feel hot and night is a blast. Its all in how you spin things.

I did have a bad experience with a religious zealot who took offense to my making a video with married men. He posted on craigslist in my area warning men about how i was using them and filming them and profiting from it. He even went so far as to post what street I lived on and wha t my name was. Psychos like that scare me and will lead me into a career behind the camera so I can be anonymous and still make hot porn films. That experience made me pull back. Being recognizable could be dangerous. I'm just happy so many guys get off on my stuff. I love making men cum and this takes that to a whole new level. Across this planet, how many men will you make cum tonight? I bet I get 100 loads shot by men watching me get fucked. Maybe way more. But that is such a turn on to me.

[onlyraw]

Rubio2001

I agree with you,.... not only re porn (and I dont have to worry about that as I dont really have a 'porn' build) but even on hookup sites,,, like MH, BBRT or Recon, I dont post face pics in public,,,,, I have them on the site where I can open them, but I dont have them public,,,, partly as in all of the sites I am out about being poz, and that really isnt anyones busness except the guys I hook up with, but also working at a university, and before that in other smaller non profits,,,, I do worry about my career, and I am amazed at the younger guys who are just out there....as much progress as we have made in gay rights,,, I hope it never comes back to bite them later

[AgentColby]

I've made my fair share of homemade porn, but I'm always careful to keep out the head shots because once you share them with your fuck bud you pretty much have given up any control on where that video may end up.

However, I see so many guys who clearly don't get a damn about showing their face in their homemade porn and I always wonder, "Don't these guys worry that these will get out and people they know will see them?" I always wonder what these guys do for a living? Even if you don't have a big corp job and you are working at Mcdonalds, or retail, etc., can't you still get in trouble if someone found the videos and recognized you? I have a buddy who has done some professional porn who did specialty construction work for utilities and he made a lot of money. Somehow someone saw one of his videos (he is a ff bottom) and he was fired, and this was a construction job. Even with the younger guys I wonder if later they really regret putting their videos out there as one day they may get that career job and then they'll always worry about one of their co-workers finding out.

Any of you guys put vids out there on x-tube or other places with head shots and just don't care, or have shared videos that you thought would be private but instead they got posted?

I have had done a few videos at home with a few tops. Up until a year ago I readily shared them with friends and online. I posted them on a few BB sites and xtube. The videos showed my face fully and the pix I posted, were face pix with full body. At the time, I was not concerned about others finding out. I was working for a small organization and not many gay men there. Also, I was living in a metropolitan city but not as large as NYC, where I live now. Fast fwd to a year ago, I took the videos down. I moved back to NYC a year ago and decided to take the videos down because I now work for a major corporation. To top it off, I work in an industry that is mostly bitchy women and gay men. Majority of the men in my field are gay. With that said, someone can and will come across these videos. I do not fear being judged or someone finding out but I fear it will have a detrimental effect on my career.

I plan to leave this job next year to work for a much smaller company so I will most likely put the videos back online and even make new ones.

I do not fear anyone finding out I BB or my videos but I just do not want to deal with any potential negative effect it may have on my career.

An interesting thing has happened. A few months ago, I came across the profile of an executive at my office on a BB site.

[ForcedSub]

I've made a few videos as well where my face is clearly seen and a lot where I am blindfolded or just showing my ass etc. I'm a fisting bttm/verse also. I don't really mind if ppl know who I am, I've done porn professionally in the past so this just adds to my past exploits. I work in a hospital in surgery, but my colleagues and my boss know that I do this and some have even encouraged me to continue. My boss DOES not condone it, just doesn't care that I do it. She tells me all the time, that as long as it doesn't affect my work then everything is cool. But all in all, i do it, because I love to watch myself get fucked, fisted, throat fucked, etc...etc...I do understand how some have reservations however, and I'm never one to judge. Some just have so much more to lose than I do. I'm still single without a family of my own, so I think I could roll with the punches if problems did arise. So I have no problems showing my face.

[thbottom23]

I decided to cut out parts of my video that I posted on raunchyfucker. I was soooooo close to uploading the unedited version on my vid but I may just have to keep that to myself for a while

[Cocksucker]

A number of years ago, when digital cameras became popular, I started letting men take photos and video of me sucking loads from their cocks, drinking their piss, even sucking their asses and taking loads up my ass. At first I was afraid my friends, family and co workers might see, but that fear subsided when I decided that anyone who sees it must be gay, why else would they be looking at gay porn.

Boy was I wrong! I found out the hard way that a LOT of men who are straight or pretend to be straight look at gay porn. Once I was discovered on line by someone who knew me, it spread through my friends and even to my family like wild fire. Within weeks, it seemed everyone who'd ever known me now considered me a nasty, perverted gay porn slut.

Had I not just left my long time career on my own, I'd have surely been fired from this. Now, no one I ever worked with across the country will speak to me; I've lost every "old" friend I ever had, even those from childhood. I often feel like a leper that people are afraid to be hear or even speak to.

I guess part of my problem is that I'm bisexual and kept that secret from everyone, they all thought I was a maucho straight guy who loved pussy. I've been married and divorced with no kids luckily.

I don't know why I still enjoy being seen sucking cocks etc, I guess it's an addiction like anything else. While I'll share with you the link to a private blog I've set up with several hundred photos of me being a slut, most showing my face in clear detail, I still have regrets for doing this, but my desire to be seen by the porn loving community is stronger than my fear of having my life totally ruined I guess.

Today I'm even feeling brave enough to show you another link that shows what I did for a living, my LinkedIn profile page. It was a career that I was really proud of, where I was nationally known and well respected in the field. I'll probably really regret doing this someday, but what the hell, for now I want you all to see who and what I am and I hope some of you will respond with comments about what you think of me after seeing me at both links.

Thanks guys.

My Blog: http://vintageporngay.blogspot.com/

My LinkedIn Profile (my day job): https://www.linkedin.com/profile/view?id=47561700&authType=NAME_SEARCH&authToken=c3aQ&locale=en_US&srchid=475617001407075740422&srchindex=1&srchtotal=15&trk=vsrp_people_res_name&trkInfo=VSRPsearchId%3A475617001407075740422%2CVSRPtargetId%3A47561700%2CVSRPcmpt%3Aprimary

Edited August 3, 2014 by Cocksucker

[seaguy]

I have had done a few videos at home with a few tops. Up until a year ago I readily shared them with friends and online. I posted them on a few BB sites and xtube. The videos showed my face fully and the pix I posted, were face pix with full body. At the time, I was not concerned about others finding out. I was working for a small organization and not many gay men there. Also, I was living in a metropolitan city but not as large as NYC, where I live now. Fast fwd to a year ago, I took the videos down. I moved back to NYC a year ago and decided to take the videos down because I now work for a major corporation. To top it off, I work in an industry that is mostly bitchy women and gay men. Majority of the men in my field are gay. With that said, someone can and will come across these videos. I do not fear being judged or someone finding out but I fear it will have a detrimental effect on my career.

I plan to leave this job next year to work for a much smaller company so I will most likely put the videos back online and even make new ones.

I do not fear anyone finding out I BB or my videos but I just do not want to deal with any potential negative effect it may have on my career.

An interesting thing has happened. A few months ago, I came across the profile of an executive at my office on a BB site.

And sadly we all know how bitchy and gossipy some gay can be so if a co-worker wanted to one up you or something the videos would be something they probably would use.

[Cocksucker]

I'm speaking of pigs like this one at his blog: http://vintageporngay.blogspot.com/

Pigs like this one, who not only allow photos of their faces to be taken, but they love it, especially when covered in cum or piss.

Could you ever have a LTR with a pig like this? Or best to just fuck these guys, take some pix for the internet then leave them alone?