rubio2001
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I like a guy who gets wild with everything, including toys. Love a guy to fuck, use some toys on me, use both at the same time...
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I just like the persona of the top to match their fucking. By that I mean I like it when a guy's personality matches his fucking style. I've had fuck buddies who are funny and it's a blast when we are fucking and it's not all serious and shit. I've had fuck buddies where it's no bs, all serious, just get ready to get fucked. I've had many romantic types who fuck, and like to caress, etc., and it feels great. What doesn't work for me is when someone fucks in a way that clearly is not the 'real' them. The most common example is when someone is trying to be dom or aggressive, but they just don't pull it off. I can't really put my finger on it, but you know as an experienced bottom when someone is 'real' with their aggression and when someone is trying to be rough but it just ain't working. What I find interesting is that their physical appearance usually is no indication of what type of guy they are going to be in bed. I've been rough fucked, nasty, hardcore, and if you were to see the guy on the street you'd think he was a geek, or even fem - but in bed it comes out that he's a mad fucker when his cock goes in that hole. Unfortunately I've had the 'big' or 'leather' type who is calling me a whore, slut, etc., and it just ain't working because it just isn't them and they are trying to overcompensate. Just be real with it.
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advice needed - being shook down by a near-trick
rubio2001 replied to Sn00wb00red's topic in General Discussion
This guy comes over, you discuss wanting to do drugs, he uses your phone to call a drug dealer, you give him money with instructions to go get the drugs and come back. How exactly do you think that conversation is going to go with the cops? Don't do anything. Sounds like he's a flake and most likely he'll go away. -
I have been that guy who has had someone encourage me to open myself and bring them into the fold because they wanted to 'support' me. That's fine, and actually a natural response for most people as they want to be a good friend or loved one. However, there are times when someone wants to be alone that have NOTHING to do with you and they just want to be left to their own thoughts. If someone is going through a crisis and YOU are actually getting upset at that person because they aren't fully bringing you fully into their emotional place, then you are just burdening them even more. I speak from experience. I had a very close friend/lover who saw me go through the lose of someone very close to me and I nicely told him that I just wanted to be left alone with this one issue and all of a sudden he's mad at me because I wouldn't let him 'help me' with my loss. Basically it all became about him at and his needs instead of just recognizing that I just wanted to be left alone for a while. It ended with me telling him just to get the hell out of my life because at a time when I was already suffering I had to deal with him feeling hurt just because I wanted to be left alone. Give your new boyfriend a break and really question why has this became an issue for you to be upset at him, when HE'S the one who is going through loss at the moment.
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Do You Think It's Hot When Total Tops Start Taking Loads?
rubio2001 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
In terms of porn... I think it's hot, but you can only 'surprise' someone a few times before it becomes ordinary. I remember falling absolutely in love with Jeff Palmer years ago in his first films and I may have missed it but I never saw him bottom and in my mind he was the hottest top. Then out of nowhere he became not only a bottom, but a SUPER bottom and the change was so dramatic that it really threw me for a loop, but in a hot sexy way. I loved watching him get fucked even more after mistakenly thinking he was only a top. But again, you can only make someone think WTF once and then the surprise of seeing your favorite top get fucked is over. -
CL works for me most when I'm traveling and I'm stayed up at a hotel. I don't rely on it solely, and also get on bbrt, manhunt, etc., but there are just guys who will hit you up on CL that don't have accounts on the other sites. It's very hit and miss though, and I find that the back and forth is even more so on CL than straight-up gay connection sites. I have also found that occasionally putting an ad on CL where I live will flesh out some guys that you otherwise wouldn't connect with. One of my favorite fuck buds connected with me the first time from CL. Latino guy, sexy, married, but likes to come over and watch porn and fuck. But connections on CL are like 1 out of 25 for me compared to other sites.
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No, and if anything I try to make an effort to make sure there are no surprises, at least on my end. I post pics on sites that I hope will catch someone's attention, but I keep them current and I also have pics, usually locked, that show me in my regular day to day look, including full face pic. I've had guys 'trick' me, and in most cases I go ahead with the fuck, but there have been a few times when I've just had to come clean with a guy and tell him that I'm not into him and he knows why. I wish more guys were comfortable with who they are, no matter what they look like. Looks really don't mean squat to me as long as I like their attitude, or if they are looking to get into the same thing I am. But when they have truly tried to pull off something where they are clearly not who they described themselves to be it disappoints me. Again though... except for a very, very few circumstances I still let them fuck me down.
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ever experience really bad tasting cum?
rubio2001 replied to neg4poztop's topic in General Discussion
One time this guy came in my mouth and I swear I almost threw up... it was so nasty. I've had A LOT of cum in my mouth and down my throat and I know there is a variety, but usually nothing all the bad tasting. But this guy's load was so bad I had to spit it up and go rinse out my mouth and gargle. I could still taste him an hour later. It tasted like detergent, kind of soapy, and chemical-like. I've had loads up my ass too where obviously I couldn't taste it but my body wanted it OUT. Cum usually doesn't have any effect on my ass, but there have been times where within a few minutes after taking the load my guts are sending messages to my brain to get that shit out and I can't get to the bathroom fast though. -
I've never brought a toy to the bathhouse but I have played with a LOT of guys who have, but always in their room. It seems to be more and more common to see guys with their door open and their toys right out in the open. I'm mostly bottom but if a guy wants to have his hole worked over and he's got a bunch of toys to do it with... sign me up. I love it.
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I luckily have been in the position where I have been fucked either by one guy for a LONG, LONG time, or had all day/night fucking with a bunch of guys and I never stopped because of my hole. Even when it is hurting like hell - when a guy is gutting my hole and he just keeps going and going and you are actually looking over at the clock and realizing how long he's been pounding your hole - I just lay there and take it. I've gotten to the point of literally whimpering but I try to keep it to myself as much as possible. However, these are the fucks that I remember... long after. And in terms of a bunch of guys I can go on all day and night and the only thing that has stopped me, and it's usually what has stopped me every time, is that I get hungry. I stop eating when I know I'm going to be taking cock all day and night and it gets to the point where I'm still horned up, but I'm just starving. There have been many trips to the 24-hr hamburger drive-thrus at 4-5 in the morning after going all night. I love being fucked out and left starving. It's the best meal and it almost feels like a reward for giving up your hole for a whole day/night.
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No younger guys for me... period. I've had some good times, and there are always exceptions, but there is a 'drama' edge to most of them that I understand completely (I remember when I was that age), but I just don't want to deal with it now.
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I think monogamy is possible, but rare. I've been in a relationship for about 20 years and my partner is truly old-school, in that I think he could easily stay monogamous. I, however, will never be monogamous. When I was younger I would never have thought that you could combine two people such as us. However, what has made it work is the 99% of the time when neither one of us are having sex. We talk about it though. Our 'tastes' in sex have changed over the years and I have definitely gone the more wild route, but I've kept him in the loop and he's admitted to me that he has a wild side also, but not nearly as extreme as I.
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Which of these kinds of guys have you had sex with?
rubio2001 replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
Had a good fuck buddy who was deaf. Didn't even know it at first because we hit each other up online. He wanted anon, door open, my ass up in air, same ole same ole. He came in and was just a totally hot fuck, and nasty too. He loved to spit on my face which is a huge turn on for me, but for the most part just drilled my hole until he came. Afterwards, during the few minutes he got dressed, I realized he was deaf but it was all cool. We ended up hooking up tons of times after that and just communicated ahead of time what we wanted. He was one of the nastiest, kinkiest fucks that I ever had and he was a hot, cool guy on top of it. Pissing in my hole after cumming, spitting, toys, and even slapping my face while he fucked me. He was prime fuck bud material. Then he moved to DC... -
Yes, it gets boring. Once in a while you will see something that is completely original, but it's rare. I know most gay men do not get into it, but straight porn puts most gay porn to shame. I thought men were supposed to be the real pigs, the real men who could put up with the roughest, nastiest, shit possible, but it's just not the case. The shit some straight porn makers put these women through is so far out there in terms of really rough sex that I never, NEVER, see anything coming even close in gay movies.
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I think the answer lies in millions of years of evolution. I don't think that being gay is just a 'gene' gone wrong, but a very, very complex system that took millions and millions of years to get to where we are now, and as part of human evolution gay men and women have played an important role. We are exactly how evolution intended us to be. Then all of a sudden in these millions and millions of years that got us to this point you suddenly introduce artificial, man-made, barriers between the biological outcome of sex, whether that is male-female or male-male. I just don't think that we can even begin to rationalize or understand why bottoms take loads of cum, and tops give them, when we have been doing this for millions and millions of years. We just can't flip a switch and stop, even when there is a deadly disease that should prompt us to change our behaviors. I don't pretend to understand why but I do believe that somehow the entire evolution of man did benefit by some of us men being born to want to get fucked anally and also take loads, and other men that wanted to give those same loads that otherwise would have impregnated a women. Maybe we are the outcome of a complex population control mechanism.
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It's always been surprising to me that with all of the drugs we can get out there, 'real' poppers - the kind that you could get 20+ years ago - are no where to be found. You can get just ok poppers, or poppers that give you a little something, but I don't think there are any real poppers out there because at least in the US and Canada the main ingredient is illegal, so you'd have to get them illegally. I never knew how good poppers were until that one day back in the late 80s when they made the main 'nitrate' stuff illegal and gone forever were the best poppers that truly blew your mind without all the nasty side effects. In 30 minutes I can find meth, ectasy, coke, etc., but a REAL bottle of poppers... no where.
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Just curious... for those of you who are off meds and with high viral counts, you are clearly still going to the doc to get tested otherwise you wouldn't know your numbers. Why are you even getting tested if you are not going to get treated? What is the point? And how does that conversation go with your doctor? Also, my doc switched to the 'percentage' result this past year also, saying it was become more the standard practice and not just giving the CD4 count.
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I've made my fair share of homemade porn, but I'm always careful to keep out the head shots because once you share them with your fuck bud you pretty much have given up any control on where that video may end up. However, I see so many guys who clearly don't get a damn about showing their face in their homemade porn and I always wonder, "Don't these guys worry that these will get out and people they know will see them?" I always wonder what these guys do for a living? Even if you don't have a big corp job and you are working at Mcdonalds, or retail, etc., can't you still get in trouble if someone found the videos and recognized you? I have a buddy who has done some professional porn who did specialty construction work for utilities and he made a lot of money. Somehow someone saw one of his videos (he is a ff bottom) and he was fired, and this was a construction job. Even with the younger guys I wonder if later they really regret putting their videos out there as one day they may get that career job and then they'll always worry about one of their co-workers finding out. Any of you guys put vids out there on x-tube or other places with head shots and just don't care, or have shared videos that you thought would be private but instead they got posted?
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Take the money. When I first finished college I started my corporate career, worked at a movie theater part-time, and then hosted at a restaurant on weekends - all at the same time. I did all of these because at that age I had the energy and the desire to save, save, save. $50 bucks here and there ads up if you put it away and it's EXTRA money you wouldn't have otherwise. It's just sex. Society, especially here in the US, has way too many hang ups when it comes to sex. We are taught that it's dirty, bad, and if you are gay then you are just fucked up and need to be fixed. Wrong, wrong, wrong. Man or woman - do whatever the heck you want with your own body - it's yours - and if you start to feel guilty it's more likely because in your upbringing you were taught that sex is a bad thing.
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My company is pushing me to move to NYC. The office is in Midtown East, but I could of course live anywhere as long as i can get to and from work each day. I've been to NYC many times on various trips and I have had fun, but hook-ups were actually few compared to many other places I've visited. I think I would enjoy NYC to live regardless, but in my experience and I've chatted with others also, I've just seen and heard that the perception of it being a great place for a cum whore may not exactly be the case. I just would hate to get there and find out that it's harder to hook up than other places I've lived (Twin Cities, Denver, Hartford, San Antonio - not exactly gay meccas but surprisingly some pretty good pig play in all). Just curious if anyone has any opinions who live there or have lived there. Thanks,
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I bought a strap on belt that you can pretty much put any toy into it. I have two buddies, along with myself, where we all discovered the joys of strap ons at about the same time. I'm on the receiving end. Played with toys for years and years, but surprisingly it was only in the last year where I played with a guy who wanted to play with some of my toys as well, then he reached in his bag and brought out this homemade strap on belt he made, and took one of my toys and then fucked the shit out of me with it. It's completely different than a guy just using a toy on you where he's holding the toy in his hands. You really do feel like you are getting fucked by a huge cock (or whatever size dildo you use).
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Back pain. I know it sounds lame, but there have been times when my back just is killing me and fucking just makes it worse. I even kept track of how much my back hurt and after I would get fucked it would get worse. Thankfully found a doc who fixed me up, but if I could go back in time I would NEVER repeat some of the squats, bent over lifts, high-impact aerobics, etc., that I used to put my body through at the gym.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
rubio2001 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
A fuck buddy yesterday. We have played a few times and he's a top. But he's kind of a boring fuck, but he's got a big dick so I go back... -
Oddly just in the past month I've played with 3 guys, the oldest who was 23. One white, one latino, and one asian. All VERY sexy who contacted me on manhunt, a4a, and one on bbrt. I always feel stupid pointing out to them that i'm over 20+ years older than them, and each one said the same thing - they LIKE older guys. These were not the first guys who were a lot younger than me but I do think there are lot of younger guys out there who because of the internet can meet up with older guys much more easily (than say in the old days where you had to hit the leather bars or other places). It's like they are much more comfortable showing their horny side with older guys.
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Best Place to Travel for Sleazy Raw Sex?
rubio2001 replied to PhoenixGeoff's topic in General Discussion
I'm surprised no one has mentioned Toronto. I get up there about once a year to visit relatives and stay at a hotel right in the gay area. Hotel play is great as many guys literally are within walking distance, and then you have the bathhouses also within walking distance. For me every time I go I get in some hotel play to warm up my hole and then head to the baths. Also, very diverse group of guys from around the world. BB... almost always.
