Jump to content

How have you changed sexually in the last year?


rawTOP

How have you changed sexually in the past year?  

204 members have voted

  1. 1. How have you changed sexually in the past year?

    • Went from bottom or vers to mostly top
      10
    • Went from top or vers to mostly bottom
      16
    • Went from mostly top to mostly vers
      7
    • Went from mostly bottom to mostly vers
      7
    • Have gotten more piggy
      70
    • Have gotten more anal
      44
    • Have gotten less anal
      0
    • Have gotten more oral
      13
    • Have gotten more into fetish
      39
    • Have stayed the same
      12


Recommended Posts

@tiger: i think 'icky' tends to refer to the products of bodily functions other than ejeculation.

@fuckboy: in my opinion, you're more in touch with the mental, spiritual, emotional and psychological parts of your sexual identity.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Replies 44
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

@tiger: i think 'icky' tends to refer to the products of bodily functions other than ejeculation.

@fuckboy: in my opinion, you're more in touch with the mental, spiritual, emotional and psychological parts of your sexual identity.

Thanks. That's probably because overall as a person I'm more in touch with my mental, spiritual, emotional, and physical side. But that's what happens sometimes when you don't have much of a life and a bit of a loner. But that being said I'm out of touch in other ways.

Ah about the pig thing. I had someone ask me that once. They said, "Well what's pig play. I tried to explain it to them without grossing them out. I think because I wasn't really explaining it they were confused. Because they said, "Well the sex we had..it was intense wasn't that pig play?

What I wanted to say was, "No my dear, pig play is heaving kissing, can be intense sucking and fucking..but more like a top biting my neck, handling me rough, spitting in my face, fucking my face rough and loving the sounds of me choking or slurping on his cock and encouraging it, rough verbal talk, getting fucked with little to no lube or spit or cum, eating out his ass or him eating out mine, getting fucked raw getting bred, sucking him after he fucked me, him felching my hole and savoring it and us making out with his load that was in my ass now in my mouth. Kneeling down and drinking his piss after he fucked and bred me good and being showered with his piss too. And going back at it, fucking, kissing, sweating, and cum, the smell, the stickiness, and just not giving a fuck and just doing what comes natural to pigs. Fukking beautiful.

That's kinda what I think of pig play. Of course add in a little BDSM and you have pig play+headspace which=fucking win.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

The last year I've become very much more a bottom than before. I know exactly where this happened, in Buenos Aires, getting fucked by a big-dicked 25 y.o. pounding me silly. It was like breaking through the sound barrier. If I was topping 90% of the time before, I am now bottoming 95% of the time. Of course, the guy probably pozzed me too, but that's another story. :)

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Still versatile but when I get on a roll as top I want to fuck more guys, and when the tide turns I want to service as many cocks as I can get. Preferably in the same night. Got some online daddies I report to with my manoeuvres who encourage me to me a slut. Just need to find a UK pimp who'd whore me out or take me to a gangbang for multiple breeding.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Have noticed that I went from being a somewhat dominant top to a more submissive top with only my bf.... With hook ups I'm still dominant and cold.... Have tried ws and must say that I enjoyed being pissed on.... This happened after us having a fight.... He just took me into the shower and started peeing on me....must say that I loved it! We had sex afterwards.... And after he came, I put his cum in my hole...made me feel really slutty I must say....now he wants to top me....and I'm totally open to it....I started out as a bottom.... But for about 15 years have been 99,9% a top.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Went from mainly giving head and fucking as a top to taking loads up my ass and sadly giving less head. I still love topping, but now I love bottoming just slightly more.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 3 weeks later...

I've had about 40-50 guys during my whole life. Since March I've changed completely, and have gotten this addiction for darkrooms. I had more than ten men only on my last vacation. I never used to swallow. That changed dramatically during my vacation. I love swallowing and stand up and whisper in the guys ear, that I swallowed his whole load. I used to be top, but would now definitely try to take loads up my ass. Can't wait for more cum. I have changed completely.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I gave up fooling myself that l was bi-versatile years ago lol. Now the last year, l have found myself having more random sex with total strangers. My only criteria is you have a big dick...yes I'm a sizequeen!!!

I love getting fucked in the ass and I'm getting fucked more than ever...at least three times a week. One guy is a regular... the others are random hookups from Craigslist, a4a etc.

All this constant fucking is making my mancunt more loose , 11" dick used to be a real challenge, l take them with ease. Guess practice does make perrrrrfect!

Love being a man's fuckhole ;)

Edited by kokocreams
Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 weeks later...
Guest MightyMouth

I have been trying to be monogomous but i am finding it difficult. My other isn't sexual and lately all I can think about is submitting to an alpha. My need to serve is getting stronger and stronger.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

The last year is an interesting time scale for me because it is two totally different periods.

The second half of 2012 was the sluttiest period of my life. I spent more time at baths and in darkrooms than ever before and sucked a ton of cock and swallowed lots of cum. I got fucked more than the previous 20 years put together. I didnt take any loads but got barebacked a couple of times for fairly extended periods by guys with huge cocks. I had 3 or 4 instances where I let a guy bareback me and would have taken his load if he wanted, but in each case they knew I was neg and that I did not usually bareback and did not cum in me. did take each of them ass to mouth repeatedly. I had my first broken condom experience and it was while being fucked in public on a fuck bench. I can still remember the gasps of the crowd when he pulled his 8 incher out revealing a shredded remainder of a rubber. I was fucked in a sling for the first time, while four other guys watched and jerked off and fed me their cocks. I got fucked bent over a coffee table table in a room full of men. I sucked off a guy through a glory hole while he got barebacked and then felched the load out of his ass and cleaned the top's cock off with my mouth.

However the first half of 2013 has been among my least active times ever. I have been fucked once, only given about a half dozen blowjobs and fucked women 4 or 5 times.

I have a history of going back and forth with levels of sexual activity. Sometimes it is because of a relationship pulling focus in a more monogamous way, but often times it is less specific. I found this site about 2 years ago when I started hitting baths and darkrooms regularly after about a 5 year absence and I was struck by how much more barebacking was happening openly in those places. I don't know if I am entering another period of relative quiet in my sexual life or if this is just a short term thing.

I was certainly edging close to the precipice. The trajectory I was on was probably only days or weeks away from taking loads. In one 36 hour period in December I willingly took two 10 inchers bareback and played with another massively hung guy who repeatedly broke or removed his condom while fucking me, which I treated with an uncharacteristic level of nonchalance. I was definitely playing a much riskier game than I can accept. But I didn't specifically stop because of that fear, I just have not had the level of intense craving to have my ass and throat filled that I experienced. I went from hitting the baths 2-3 times a week to less than once a month and even when I did visit I was more frequently disappointed. It has been about four months since I had a cock in my ass. Almost two months since I had one in my mouth. I am still horny. I still think and fantasize and jerk off while watching porn, or reading sites like this or just imagining big wet uncut cocks plowing my ass and sliding into my mouth for a cleaning after. Just that whereas 7 or 8 months ago those thoughts would have compelled me to cruise for the real thing, I am seemingly more sated by fantasy and less in need of reality.

So I don't know how much of a trend this is or how long it continues. Experience tells me things will turn again, but when or for how long I don't know. But the last year has certainly not been a straight line from A to B in my sexual practices.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 5 years later...
Guest FinalDL2021

I have become more realistic on what to expect, and what is going to remain in the "Just Fantasy category"  Just moved out to the San Francisco bay area a little over a Month ago, and finding that my expectations are being challenged. I am getting more sex, which is good,  but its not the, Kid-in-the-candy store experience, I thought it would be.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

By using this site, you agree to our Terms of Use, Privacy Policy, and Guidelines. We have placed cookies on your device to help make this website better. You can adjust your cookie settings, otherwise we'll assume you're okay to continue.