Do You Discuss HIV Status Before Barebacking?

[Guest Indynudeguy]

I don't ask.  But on the other hand, when I'm in the public sling at the bathhouse if a poz guy is fucking me I like him to be verbal so others know I'm taking a poz load.

[Pozguyinchi]

It’s rare that it even comes up but if asked I tell. 

[Justaholeff]

I used too...but, now with prep...no..but then it depends on the encounter I'm having

[BlueSaphir]

If it one fling, I won’t tell. Or it usually they don’t bother to ask anyways. If I find someone potential to want to be a relationship with, I will come clean of my status-positive undetectable. 

[VersGuyAnon]

I never ask and I can't remember how long ago it was when I was asked. 

[Atnrave]

I discuss it to be honest. I tell them my status and if the other isn't into it and runs, I assume they'd been a shit fuck...but in a weird way I like being refused sometimes. If the other is neg and into fucking a poz guy like myself, that also turns me on as well. I like hooking up with the risk takers as I was once one myself.

[jagmanaz]

Wore worried about other STI's to be honest

[DenverBtmDude]

Yes, honestly I do discuss it and don't think there's anything wrong with that... Breeding is the only way to be fucked, but you don't have to be pozzed if you perfer not to.... There are men that want to  be pozzed and some don't...I like that BZ supports both ideas!

[BBforever]

The only guys who ask if I have anything are the ones who are cheating or in open relationship.  When hooking up I'm usually straight down to what we met up for, if I like the guy and it turns to a fwb situation then we will discuss status. 

[Guest]

curiously...i find a hot stranger looking to dump his poz load a big turn on and practically beg for it, esp when they know i am poz too. the mindset of never too much poz cum.

[Guest]

11 hours ago, Atnrave said:

I discuss it to be honest. I tell them my status and if the other isn't into it and runs, I assume they'd been a shit fuck...but in a weird way I like being refused sometimes. If the other is neg and into fucking a poz guy like myself, that also turns me on as well. I like hooking up with the risk takers as I was once one myself.

i have found being refused makes me feel dirtier and sluttier...

[Davidc]

Had a weird experience today , fucked 2 bottoms while out cruising no talk of status ( which is normal) , on the way back to the van he asked me if I was neg and on prep.

A little late for that conversation I thought.

[sub4oralcum]

I never ask. If he wants to fuck me and I'm ready for it, he gets to breed me.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

On 3/13/2024 at 1:14 PM, Davidc said:

Had a weird experience today , fucked 2 bottoms while out cruising no talk of status ( which is normal) , on the way back to the van he asked me if I was neg and on prep.

A little late for that conversation I thought.

I’ve had this happen before. I even had a jealous boyfriend contact me on an app and say my hookup was POZ and that I took his load like a whore. I said “your point?”

[lecheroxxl]

I used to ask when I was younger because I wanted to "minimize my risk", and I'd judge how they reacted to the question.

Since I'm on PrEp I stopped asking. But some people might still ask me. 

In some countries is quite common for guys to ask if I was negative after I bred them (i.e., Taiwan, Mexico...).

Edited March 18 by lecheroxxl