Bottoms who don't get hard

[bnabottom]

I think that's hot as hell... LOVE porn (though it's rare lately) where the bottom's dick is just totally ignored. My favorites are the hardcore scenes where the bottom's dick is visibly soft, and just swings and dangles as he's getting pounded. It's almost mesmerizing to see it spin around, flaccid and ignored as he's getting pounded good!!! A close second is jockstrap scenes like you mentioned, where we never even see the sub's dick (though, I must admit, it can be an instant boner-killer when the scene gets JUST to its hottest point, and then the jockstrap gets pulled to the side and the camera starts focusing on that instead of the fuck)

I kinda think it's interesting that this is a 'new' topic. I was going through some classic pre-condom porn a while back, and was surprised to discover that a majority of it is VERY top-centric. The subs are just there to enjoy the top's cock, and the scene fades out before the bottom's dick is ever acknowledged. Makes me wonder what happened during the 80s and the condom revolution that made porn producers start to care SO much about whether the bottom gets hard or gets off...

You're right Deaner---classic porn seems more in tune with this. Way too much versatility in today's porn.

[danieldu33]

Full time bottom. NO more hard one and no more wanking.It4S A real RELIEF.

[Tucsonmale]

Getting fucked as a bottom, I stay soft too, Only when i feel the top exploding and feeling his cock throbbing inside me do I get hard. I get so boned then and usually give up a good cum load.

[barefootbob]

I really could care less. To me the bottom's dick is irrelevant. Hell, I think it would be hot if the bottom were a eunuch. That said, when a bottom gets hard and stays hard without touching himself it is a signal he's enjoying himself and that's always good feedback. So I'd say if you don't get hard be sure your top knows you're enjoying yourself.

That said, my bf is a top and he not only likes the bottom to get hard, he likes it when they have a big dick. So it depends on the top.

I think a lot of bottoms wear jockstraps to hide the fact that they're not hard. It takes their dick out of the equation and makes the top focus on their ass and not notice their dick.

I added a poll to this thread to get feedback from tops...

I wish more tops in my area thought that way. I have a genetic condition which has caused me not to be able to get hard or even fluffed since my late 20's (early 50's now). when I'm texting/chatting I am always up front about about this fact and a vast majority of total tops reply that it is a problem and end the chat. I am a total bottom and never understood why that is, I'm not asking for anything in return for his fucking me, I am giving my hole to them to get off. the ones which don't care are great fucks, so piss on the others.

on a side note: I live in a smallish town (190,000) with a huge university (43,000 STUDents), so there is little problem with the above tops getting tail.

[powerbottom64]

I usually stay soft or semi hard when getting fucked. I agree, the top's pleasure is first and foremost. Some of my tops like to jerk off and cum-but only after they have bred me, others don't let me. They send me on my way and i jack off at home about the whole session-with a nice fat load up my ass of course!

[MAIKOL20]

I am a total submissive bottom now and I love it. I concentrate and just love pleasing my tops, making sure they enjoy me and my boy pussy till they cum strong and feel they are hot tops. I enjoy the feeling of total submission and completely enjoy the feeling of a man using my boy cunt to pleasure himself. I love it when my top likes me to be verbal and I can gush about how good he does me and ask him pointed questions to increase his pleasure, prolong his fuck and get him to the point of seeding me. it fees so good to be bred by a hot hard sweating top and keeping his cum inside afterwards. Love to go to sleep with a loaded pussy, gives me wet dreams!

[btm2bbred]

I'm thinking of his cock, not mine, when he's drilling my ass, so I'm more often than not, soft or semi. A lot has to do with fucking position, too.

The only positions I recall sometimes getting hard are when I'm getting pounded doggy style or on my belly.

When I'm getting fucked, my brain is wired to my hole, not my cock. I'm getting my pleasure from his thrusting and pulling back while I open up or clamp down on his cock.

Most tops don't give a rat's ass about my lack of a hardon. The top is focused on his dick feeling good; he can tell from my groans and moans that I'm getting pleasure.

[rawbudhole]

if a top wants me to get hard he gets the boot out he knows from the get go i am only fuckhole thats why i do not do vers guys

[RawChad]

Amen to all the above. RawTop is right, bottoms wear jockstraps so the focus stays away from our cocks and on the men who are using our fuckholes. I am there for the top to use, and I am satisfied knowing he is getting what he needs, i.e. hole access. This is especially important if I'm getting fucked on my back or in a sling and my cock is right there, I don't want any attention being focused on it. I sort of avoid playing with vers guys for this reason (but of course in a world made up of 93% bottoms, you can't always find a strict top when you need one, ha). My favorite tops don't even notice that I have a cock, or who get off on making fun of me because my dick is limp. I also usually lose my motivation as soon as I cum, and I don't want to interrupt the top's pleasure by having an orgasm. So I either wank before I know I'm going to play, or wait til after the top has filled me up and sent me on my way. That said, a top who is obviously totally ignoring me and just using me as a cumrag gets me so horned that I often just cum without touching myself...and in that case a dude obviously is getting the feedback that he's doing a good job!

[Pig Bottom]

My ass doesn't get hard, but I can clench my butt muscles for some extra tightness.

[masc_and_bttm]

I love reading this post as I am one of those who LOVES staying soft and the most soft the better to me, so I can feel that the top and bottom connexion works as it should. I also have fantasies of making that possible by a surgery and have met one men who did it says he is fine with it.

Who else would not only stay soft but WOULD SERIOUSLY LIKE TO BECOME A SOFT DICK BOTTOM FOREVER AS A STYLE LIFE ???

[submissivefaggot]

I'm interested in the opinions of those tops who find it's a turn off when bottoms can't get erect and why they find it a turn off.

[swappinguy]

When I have a great session with a top I don't get hard and the top fucks me just right that I come while soft from the top pound my hole and prostate

[ruralguy7326]

As a vers guy I prefer guys who are vers as well, or at least a bottom who can get hard. I dig 69 and flip flop fucking so for me an impotent guy is only half the fun.

[Nasty Raw Bottom]

Total bottom here and it can vary as to when/if I get hard or not. I prefer to use my hands for stimulating the top's nips, balls, ass, head, whatever. If the top wants me to cum when he's busting a load inside me, that's fine. Usually blast a load out over my face (if on my back) as well as my chest.

Just wish I could bust a load without touching my cock whenever a top was unloading inside my hole. I think it would be a great turn on for a top knowing he'd truly fucked the cum out of me just as he fucked his cum into me.

Edited February 2, 2011 by Nasty Raw Bottom