New boy seeking help with questions for experienced bottoms

[stk.77]

I have very little knowledge about sex with men because up until recently was 100% straight. I 'm 22 and only have experience with one partner. I was wondering if anyone would be able to help me out, it would be much appreciated.

In a nutshell, my professor seduced me in his office and we've been fucking weekly ever since. He is very hung (close to 8") and forceful... while that has caused me some pain & discomfort, it arouses me that he uses my body for pleasure. We bareback every time. I've learned to appreciate his seed and take it in my ass. I had trouble swallowing his whole load a first, he trained me to by making me orally service him everyday on his lunch break.

I had a few questions about if these things were normal:

(1) He made me eat his anus, and right after he cums he had me suck his cock to clean it (every time). They both grossed me out at first but they've become habit now (I ate his asshole for 30min straight last week b/c the game as on) and he said he is teaching me how to service a man.

(2) He no longer fingers me before sex and it makes initial penetration hurt more. He says even if it's uncomfortable for me, it feels better on his cock because I am tighter so it's important for his pleasure. Plus his size and amount of time he stretches me open (meet weekly and fuck 2-3X/night) for leaves my anus sore for days.

(3) He only sucked my cock the first time we met; now, once I finish cleaning his cock, he tells my to masturbate into a towel and he watches.

[i69nwind]

Sounds perfect to me

[hungry_hole]

I have very little knowledge about sex with men because up until recently was 100% straight. I 'm 22 ...

What do you mean you were straight? Nobody's straight, nobody's gay, nobody's anything in the so-called "sexual orientation". I mean, this is my opinion because the notion of sexual orientation is as nonsense as the notion of a benevolent god.

Here is a quote from Kinsey (the guy from the famous Kinsey scale):

"For nearly a century the term homosexual in

connection with human behavior has been applied

to sexual relationships, either overt or psychic,

between individuals of the same sex... It would

encourage clearer thinking on these matters if

persons were not characterized as heterosexual or

homosexual, but as individuals who have had certain

amounts of heterosexual experience and certain

amounts of homosexual experience. Instead of using

these terms as substantives which stand for persons,

or even as adjectives to describe persons, they may

better be used to describe the nature of overt sexual

relations, or of the stimuli to which an individual

erotically responds."

(Kinsey, et al., 1948, p.656)

_Sexual Behavior in the Human Male_

Clearer thinking....

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

Honey, you only thought you were straight. The professor knew you weren't. My question is, to be "willing" to have a relationship or regular fuck sessions with him, were you ever abused sexually when you were a child? Cause a predatory type usually knows those people too.

all that being said, if you truly wanna be a cum hole bottom, you should get a dildo and buttplug and loosen yourself up before he fucks you.

[drscorpio]

1. Eating ass is normal. Not every top will want it, but lots of them do. Ass to Mouth is completely normal and a service you should be happy to provide.

2. Honestly, this isn't too uncommon. Lube your hole a bit before you go yo see him if it bugs you. As you get more experienced, you will learn how to relax and let a cock inside while still staying tight. Practice makes perfect.

3. Clearly, he gets off on controlling you. You need to be prepared to take care of your own orgasm. Some tops won't even let you cum before they kick you out. Others will insist you cum or even get you off. Just never expect it.

[stk.77]

Thanks for the replies. And yes I misstated: I used to think that I was 100% straight. And no history or sexual abuse; always had girlfriends and have never had any sexual hang-ups.

I'm also curious about how I can improve at orally servicing men while I am home for the summer, and needless to say it'd be nice to find a top to get more experience with. Any advice on going about doing both? I know these questions may sound stupid or mundane, but I have little knowledge and am trying to learn.

[Barebackbottomno]

AN "A" student.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

Thanks for the replies. And yes I misstated: I used to think that I was 100% straight. And no history or sexual abuse; always had girlfriends and have never had any sexual hang-ups.

I'm also curious about how I can improve at orally servicing men while I am home for the summer, and needless to say it'd be nice to find a top to get more experience with. Any advice on going about doing both? I know these questions may sound stupid or mundane, but I have little knowledge and am trying to learn.

Try grindr, a4a, and craigslist in your area. You should have no problem finding tops.

[everopen1]

Maybe you need a tutorial Lol

[bbzh]

I would advise you to buy a clear butt plug, some lube and some poppers. Search this forum for tips on how to clean out properly.

And then over the summer break, find a bottom and do everything to the bottom that the professor has been doing to you.

Even better if the guy is versatile.

[RWHID]

HOLY. FUCK. SHIT. JESUS. CHRIST.

Give me the location of your professor... please??

Sooo lucky!!!

[stk.77]

Thanks all for the replies. I have a new update and question regarding it.

I found a top guy for the summer on Craigslist. We met once and it went well so I'm considering doing it regularly.

My professor and I have been texting since I've been home. He likes the idea of me getting oral practice this summer but told me not to bottom so I'm "nice & tight" for him in the fall. He went so far as to say that he wouldn't be interested in hooking up with me anymore if I came back "after a summer of getting fucked," and that he'd be able to tell by how loose I'll be.

Problem is that the new guy did fuck me twice when we me and will likely expect to if we meet again. The sex was good (not as good as w my prof) and I wouldn't mind making it regular.

If that happens, will my prof actually be able to tell? The guy is not especially hung but bigger than average, he fuked me really aggressively hard and had lots of stamina.

Sorry again if this question seems stupid, I am really lost on this. A yes or no would really help, but insight would be really appreciated. Thanks.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

The prof won't tell unless you've permanently managed to stay open or use a butt plug constantly. You likely will be fine, especially if you don't get fucked for at least a few days b4 going back to,school.

[slowfuck]

Stk.77, how would you feel if your professor didn't want to fuck you any more? Telling you he won't fuck you if you get fucked elsewhere is certainly controlling. Getting fucked roughly with huge cocks will affect your anus in time. Whether it would show over a summer is debatable. You could say you used a big dildo but seems he'd no be keen because he likes you tight. Professor might be able to guess and do you really want to lie to him? Do you really want him telling you how to live your life?

It sounds like you enjoyed the sex with the new guy and want to fuck with him all summer so are not keen on being controlled. There are a world of other tops to try. Controlling, open minded, abusive, affectionate, exciting and boring ones. There's also versatile guys and bottom guys to mix it up a bit. You're young, and can likely have your pick. Maybe try finding a versatile guy to introduce you to topping as well so you understand it from both sides. And maybe find a cute bottom guy or two to practice your top skills with too. Enjoy your summer

[drscorpio]

It's obvious your professor likes dominating and controlling you. It's possible that if you get fucked a lot over the summer that he won't want to continue your arrangement. But you know what? There will be tons of other guys who will love to fuck you on your campus. College is an excellent environment for getting laid. Go on and do what you like this summer. The only power your professor has over you is your willingness to obey him. He's trying to monopolize you; it doesn't sound like the behavior of a good dom to me.