Double Secret Life

[tampafun27]

I was curious how many of us on here life a double secret life? Meaning you are not "out" to boyfriend/girlfriend or your friends about the fact that you are totally into bareback fucking with multiple guys or anon guys, ect.. The point of this is not to get people roused up... but curious as to others that may be like me.

I personally lead a life like that. If you have read any of my post, you will know that i have been fucking guys since i was 16, and now im a totally into hot bareback sex anywhere i can get it. But i also have a girlfriend of 5 years, of which we are engaged, and she has no clue that i lead another life submerged in the the gay sex lifestyle as a bareback cum craving bottom for multiple guys and anon guys anywhere i can get it. I consider myself bi, and i love her and love sex with her, but i cant deny my obsession for a hot bare cock in my ass, and having it loaded with jizz. I wish she was into swinging, cause i would open up with her, and i'd love to see her being used by some hot straight and bi dudes, leaving her pussy dripping with their nut, but i dont see her going that way :-(

So i was curious how many of you have boyfriends that have no clue what your doing on the side? How many with girlfriends/wives? I would do a poll, but i dont we are allow to post polls, at least i cant figure it out..lol

Anyways... just curious.

Edited June 30, 2010 by tampafun27

[rawTOP]

Most of the people I know socially have no clue I'm rawTOP. In fact, most don't even know I make about half my money off porn. I just say I do web and database projects and if they ask questions I tell them about my mainstream clients.

My bf and really close friends know pretty much everything. Then there's a group who know I work on porn, but don't know which sites are mine.

There was a time when I was going around fucking guys bareback and my bf didn't know much of anything. But we worked all that out 5+ years ago. I don't tell him every time I fuck someone, but if he asks, I answer truthfully.

@tampafun - Do you worry about becoming poz and giving it to your girlfriend?

[Grunt]

...... But i also have a girlfriend of 5 years, of which we are engaged, and she has no clue that i lead another life submerged in the the gay sex lifestyle as a bareback cum craving bottom for multiple guys and anon guys anywhere i can get it. I consider myself bi, and i love her and love sex with her, but i cant deny my obsession for a hot bare cock in my ass, and having it loaded with jizz. I wish she was into swinging, cause i would open up with her, and i'd love to see her being used by some hot straight and bi dudes, leaving her pussy dripping with their nut, but i dont see her going that way :-(

So i was curious how many of you have boyfriends that have no clue what your doing on the side? How many with girlfriends/wives? I would do a poll, but i dont we are allow to post polls, at least i cant figure it out..lol

Anyways... just curious.

Look, no preach from me on most anything. And no judgement either. But if you have a significant other man or woman that believes and trusts you with their health and well being in this arena, they are innocent in the scheme of things.

While you, me, others might willing take the risk of getting pozzed and even get turned on by it the other person might not. They are innocent. And if you love and respect them, that should be considered in the big picture when if comes to your actions.

I have a very important person in my life right now that has been sharing my bed with me. He just came over from the straight world after 15 years of being married. He loves sex with me and I love him dearly in ways that go beyond BF. He is scared shitless of STD's and is not "privvy" to how a lot of men out here arent. In his case, he asked me to either be 100% mono with him or use a condom (for now at least). While I don't relish either scenario, for now I love him enough to respect his wishes as long as we are playing. I' aint no saint obviously but it would break my heart if I broke his trust and hurt his health by breaking my promise to him.

Edited June 30, 2010 by Grunt

[PhoenixGeoff]

I've always thought that sex is sex and love is love and it seems to me that Gruntraq has a good handle on the difference.

There's no reason why we can't be massive sex pigs on the one hand and also loving and respectful partners at the same time.

[plowedanplanted]

My husband digs the fact that he reclaims my hole often with his seed. He loves seeing me fucked and taken advantage of.

[buck]

my wife has no idea that I fuck men much less than I don't ever use rubbers

she doesnt even know that I worship the Dark Lord

I love to chant His name when I breed strangers and freak them

[Pig Bottom]

I don't tell my friends that I am a raw bottom slut. My family certainly has no clue either.

[quantegy]

my wife, my friends, and my family are all completely clueless. I love getting fucked by my regular, older buddy -- he's clean, regularly tested, and we maintain an honest and trusting friendship as a result. he will often fuck me in a hotel room after work, and I enjoy spending my evening at home with the wife with his cum sitting in my ass.

you're certainly not alone, man...

[Bronson]

well, there are many of us out there in the same position. my view is that wives, gf and bf are not blind to this side of our lives and she/he will know one day or suspect. Some choose to turn a blind eye to it. some get excited and divorce or leave.

[Pig Bottom]

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I personally lead a life like that. If you have read any of my post, you will know that i have been fucking guys since i was 16, and now im a totally into hot bareback sex anywhere i can get it. But i also have a girlfriend of 5 years, of which we are engaged, and she has no clue that i lead another life submerged in the the gay sex lifestyle as a bareback cum craving bottom for multiple guys and anon guys anywhere i can get it. .

You are putting your girlfriend at risk for herpes, chlamydia, Gonorrhea, syphilis. HIV and other things. If you love her and want to get fucked by guys at least do it with a rubber.

[wammt]

My first wife and I were swingers; did the group scenes, kink and fetishes. quite a few of our friends were also into it. The second one was pretty wild as well, we had an "open marriage". The third one did not get involved, so I did it on my own. Unbeknown to her and all of our friends, I participated in just about anything. Finally I did become a real bottom slut, and was pozzed that way.

[bbjockload]

Major double life here too. Been w/BF since college (so 10+ years) and he has no clue that I take anon raw loads when he is out of town (or I am out of town). He also has no clue that I'm vers, and also am way into spraying my raw load up another dude's fukhole (he thinks I'm total bottom).

[Bear4Breeding]

I have to agree with Grunt on this one. That other person trusts you and respects you. They are putting their well being into your hands. While you may enjoy the things you do on your own you are putting that other persons life and health at risk.

[ruralguy7326]

All preaching aside. Man what is the status of you and your girlfriend poz or neg. If negative you are running a huge risk of HIV and passing it on to her. And if you did apart from hurting her there are huge legal issues. You could be arrested and face serving jail time and losing your family and friends. I love BB and hot sleaze but I also love it worry free with like minded dirty pigs.

[Jamesbgck]

my wife, my friends, and my family are all completely clueless. I love getting fucked by my regular, older buddy -- he's clean, regularly tested, and we maintain an honest and trusting friendship as a result. he will often fuck me in a hotel room after work, and I enjoy spending my evening at home with the wife with his cum sitting in my ass.

you're certainly not alone, man...

Exactly. I'm in a similar situation too. Married, kids, have sex with her and love it. But I also have a secret life with a couple guys in the same situation. We're all versatile and get together when we can -- and it is always bare. I've even had a couple occasions where I've bred a dude and taken a load in my ass in the afternoon and then, that night, I've fucked my wife -- cum still in my ass. She had no idea where that dick had been just a few hours before or that I was leaking another guy's cum out of my ass as we fucked.