Why Does Grindr Suck Here?

[gngbngslut]

I'm American. Just moved to London a month ago and I'm in NW1. Part of the reason I came here is because I'd heard that London was a really slutty town, easy to hookup. There's tons of guys on Grindr but everyone seems to be there just for horny chat! Also, unless you look like a magazine model you get very few messages. It's incredibly frustrating. In LA all i have to do is upload my sexy torso with a slutty headline and my inbox explodes! Am I doing something wrong? Do I need to approach guys on Grindr more directly or more subtly? Am I in the wrong part of town? I just can't waste my day talking to 50 guys just to be lucky to score 1 or 2 and i don't have the time or money to be going to the bar or sauna all the time. Where are the sluts in this town??

[cumBBwhore]

hi

am a total bb cum slut-am French -was also a bit shocked when I first got to London cause am used to do it the French way-more direct way.I tried chatting on grindr the subtle way but was getting nowhere.Got fed up with the HI,how r u? and the looking for?

I now do it my way-direct : hi-bottom slut here-looking to get fucked-can accom (if I can) or can travel. It seems to work for me. A lot of guys quite like the direct approach.Good for both parties really-stops wasting ur time and theirs. But bear in mind that British pple are generally more reserved.They like to follow the rules (see subtle way)

I also go to sauna but it's expensive so cant always go

I also put an ad on craigslist London (men seeking men)-detailing everything I like and do-I get quite a few responses

Hope it helps

[FillMyArse]

NW1 (Camden) probs not gonna get as slutty. You're just outside the Soho bars area. Try there and also Kings Cross, Vauxhall and SE1/SE11 areas.

[Westlondoner]

Yeah Grindr (and London) seems pretty backwards here. Add to the fact the people only want to travel 30 seconds to get to you as well!!

[mastroroyd]

Go to Berlin or Barcelona... they are much more forward. London is a bit conservative and boring.

[bearben79]

Try scruff, growlr, nastykinkpigs mobile website, and bbrt. Was in London a week ago and found a couple with a sling in 20 minutes. Grindr sucks in London, and they UK guys definitely aren't conservative

Edited January 6, 2015 by bearben

[Westlondoner]

Bbrt is awful in London too! Scruff and squirt are alright :-)

[travelingbutthole]

BBRT is busy in London but the men tend to be either drowning in "ask me", very picky or escorts.

 

London feels like an analogue city on this issue so I think the best idea is to go outside and cruise face to face.

[fartlover17]

You're much better off going to sleaze clubs or saunas, guys are flaky on all hook up sites. Recon seems to be about the best. Bbrt is hopeless most of the time. Vault in Euston is bb heaven on naked nights, mon and Thurs eves.

[Bbikercub]

I thought Grindr was shit everywhere. I deleted it.

[sleaze007]

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[Paullad1984]

Funnily enough i find London quite liberated and easy, was in town for 4 days and had a minimum of two fucks a day, all BB, and 2 off Grindr!

[gngbngslut]

Only 2 a day for 4 days??? That's weak. LOL.

[CalebS]

have the same trouble. seems to be a lot of guys into just chatting and getting their rocks off rather than meeting and fucking!

[Ocelot2000]

I live between London and LA. LA is way easier, especially in WeHo. Not sure where you lived in LA but if it was WeHo or Silverlake you could be feeling the difference of how heavily the area you were in was populated as opposed to how spread out gays are in London? Dunno. But yeah, generally I can get laid in LA way easier.