Dealing With An Annoying Bottom

[big3g]

Curious to see what you guys suggest lol 

 

22 yr old bottom I contacted and got some quick public oral from is probably the most annoying bottom this side of the Mississippi lol. Boy has a huge fuckable ass and is extremely fem (this could be the issue). I on the other hand am a strict top...I like to fuck dump and go. No texting like some kind of relationship...I hate the "tell me what your gonna to me" "your gonna love my ass" etc crap because honestly most of these bottoms can't take a real ass pounding without crying or leaving a mess. I've got him coming to me today so he will finally stfu. How should I handle this guy? Thinking of just pounding him good so he is scared to come back lol jk I'm not that mean

[NLbear]

Just fuck him so hard he'll think twice before contacting you again :-)

 

LOL, I would love the hard pounding, but if he is such a fem sissy he may not.

[lungfucker]

Have you told him what you prefer?  Have you explicitly communicated what you expect from him, and what you absolutely don't want?  He's not a mind reader, I assume.  Now, if you HAVE had these conversations with him, and he ignores them, then he deserves whatever you do to him.

[big3g]

Oh yes I have definitely told him up front what I want and what I don't like. I'm pretty upfront and if things start going in a way that I don't like I will put a pause on things quickly. Guess he is getting what he deserves today lol pics to come maybe even a video. 

[Bottomhole]

Read an article the other day saying that those who aren't into fem guys and make it known on their hook-up profiles are "fem shaming". WTF is the world coming too?! Whenever I watch porn I see more and more the kind of bottoms you describe here. Fuck him once and go, if it was a great experience, then think about it, if not. Ignore him

[MackyJay]

As mainly a bottom I can be I think a little annoying.  I like to know ahead of time what the top is into and what he intends to do to me.  Not that I will necessarily turn him down, just like to be prepared.  So far haven't turned down any but who knows?  That being said, since you already told him what you like and he is coming anyway, just do him your way, he was already warned.  If he likes it he will come back and hopefully you will like it too.

[big3g]

lol what a conversation with this one. Gave me this business about having to make a stop before coming. Made the stop then came up with some BS about being scared to get lost coming here. ( I live on a main hwy literally 0 turns before you get in my neighborhood). Shortly after it changes to "I don't want to be to far away from work. I'm on call". Basically I'm cutting this off. He is either lying and putting up a front because he is an inexperienced bottom or he just likes to waste time. 

 

I don't think being fem is an issue but this was borderline the behavior of a young girl getting attached to the guy who took her virginity.

[TigerMilner]

At 22 he may just need to be taught how to behave. It's not instinct for a lot of people. If you feel like putting the time in and think it might be worth it, teach him what is hot and what is not. If you don't feel like putting in the time, you can still teach him by telling him what turned you off. He will learn the hard way. He sounds really immature.

[Kylan]

Another example of men working too hard to have sex with someone they don't actually like.  A lesson we all have to learn when young is that you will meet lots of guys who you find physically attractive but who don't actually have the personality that your cock was imagining when it told you to go get them. This isn't usually a problem for your alley blowjob or bathhouse trick...but anything more than that, anything that involves having to interact with the actual person and not just your cock's inaccurate fantasy, is unlikely to be worth the effort to make it happen. 

The problem is not that he is "fem" or that he seems to be more into some phone fantasy stuff than actually hooking up.  Everyone is entitled to be themselves.  The actual problem is that you are trying to make something happen with a guy who you aren't actually into.  Stop wasting your time and move on.

[chie]

I would love the hard pounding, but if he is such a fem sissy he may not.

I'd be considered a fem sissy and I love nothing more than a hard pounding,

The OP sounds hot btw...that lucky bottom is in for a treat. Hope you fucked him good.

[BBPaulZA]

mmm - so any update on this? did you pound him rough and hard and is he now less annoying?

[constructionguy]

Speaking of annoying: the worst bottoms are those that don't clean out properly.

Had to throw one out last week.

No. no. no

[negparis]

I'm with Kylan on this one. Reading your posts, I wondered why you even bother. 

 

So I suggest you move on. His loss, not yours ;-)

[VersatileBreeder]

Yep, I've dealt with this scenario before. It seems to be the worst in younger guys, like under 25, but I've seen it in all ages of men. It's ridiculous- they talk a big game of how badly they want to get fucked and they want a million text messages outlining exactly what you will do to them and they want a thousand pics.

But when it actually comes time to hook up, something changes... All of a sudden, the timing is no good anymore. Something came up. When I asked a guy for his address once, his response was "dude, my house just exploded... I don't think I'll be able to have anyone over for a while..." Not kidding. I couldn't even dignify that one with a response back.

The truth of the matter with these guys is it seems that they are never serious about hooking up from the start. It's mind boggling to me why if a guy hits me up and he is so horny and so into me, and I am offering my body, my cock, my ass, why are we not meeting? I honestly believe it is that these guys don't have the balls to actually meet someone for sex, but rather they get off by jerking off behind their computer screen, knowing that some guy out there actually does want to fuck their brains out.

Sounds to me like this is what the deal is with your 22 year old over there. He has multiple bad excuses for not being able to meet at the last minute. I would absolutely just cut him off and not speak to him again.

[Ddawg]

While I'm often more overtly attracted to masculine guys, I also find fem guys attractive. Fem to me is softer, gentler, I often associate with introverted personality.

Then there is queeny behavior, which I associate with stereotypical posturing- guys, especially under 25, acting how they think a gay guy should act. Not into this.